It breaks my heart and kills me eveyday to live without my cancer man!!!

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SEXYSCORP777
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It breaks my heart and kills me eveyday to live without my cancer man who left me 2 months back after a deep love affair because i really gave it off to him after his endless weeks of not being around.I tried everythng i could to get him back but he doesnt care for anything and calls my tears also drama...i know i hv made mistakes but i hv also appologized sincerly...it kills me everyday...😢
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I did say alot of mean and hurtful things to him when i was angry because of his ignorance and disrespect towards me but after that i even made endless efforts for an appology cs i was genuinely very sorry for my behaviour..i dont think so anyone would ever do or make as much efforts i made for him to forgive me..he still didnt ...arent we all humans? who make mistakes and learn ? are cancer mens perfect that they hurt and never forgive people..? or do they say i love to anyone and then never act like they love you..i saw him msgng my own frnds fr a booty call still forgave him endless times and when my turn of forgiveness came he never wanted to gv me one chance also..is my hyperness or clear heart to say anything so bad that it makes me a bad person ? are we scorpios so bad? i dont think so we care too much, love too much and get hurt.
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Posted by SEXYSCORP777
I did say alot of mean and hurtful things to him when i was angry because of his ignorance and disrespect towards me but after that i even made endless efforts for an appology cs i was genuinely very sorry for my behaviour..i dont think so anyone would ever do or make as much efforts i made for him to forgive me..he still didnt ...arent we all humans? who make mistakes and learn ? are cancer mens perfect that they hurt and never forgive people..? or do they say i love to anyone and then never act like they love you..i saw him msgng my own frnds fr a booty call still forgave him endless times and when my turn of forgiveness came he never wanted to gv me one chance also..is my hyperness or clear heart to say anything so bad that it makes me a bad person ? are we scorpios so bad? i dont think so we care too much, love too much and get hurt.
This man messaged your friends for a booty call and you're crying over him? What? Am I drunk, did I seriously just read that?
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yes he did that not once like 3-4 times and when i confronted him,he said he didnt do it,it was his frnds who took his facebook id and password and were talking to my frnds ..he also never showed me his phone cs once i found him chatting unappropriately with some chick...thats why i got angry....and said mean things to him when he used to ignore and hurt me...but i also appologised endlessly ...and cried endlessly...for his forgiveness...
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There are roughly a million men in the world and you crying over 1.




"The population of adult males can be broken down into age ranges. As of 2014, from 15 to 24 years of age, there are 613,806,639 men in the world. From ages 25 to 54, there are 1,478,739,525 men."

That's a whole lot of man to please.

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Look at all those men who can care about you OP!
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Posted by SEXYSCORP777
I did say alot of mean and hurtful things to him when i was angry because of his ignorance and disrespect towards me but after that i even made endless efforts for an appology cs i was genuinely very sorry for my behaviour..i dont think so anyone would ever do or make as much efforts i made for him to forgive me..he still didnt ...arent we all humans? who make mistakes and learn ? are cancer mens perfect that they hurt and never forgive people..? or do they say i love to anyone and then never act like they love you..i saw him msgng my own frnds fr a booty call still forgave him endless times and when my turn of forgiveness came he never wanted to gv me one chance also..is my hyperness or clear heart to say anything so bad that it makes me a bad person ? are we scorpios so bad? i dont think so we care too much, love too much and get hurt.
Gurl bye
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Posted by SEXYSCORP777
yes he did that not once like 3-4 times and when i confronted him,he said he didnt do it,it was his frnds who took his facebook id and password and were talking to my frnds ..he also never showed me his phone cs once i found him chatting unappropriately with some chick...thats why i got angry....and said mean things to him when he used to ignore and hurt me...but i also appologised endlessly ...and cried endlessly...for his forgiveness...
You apologized? No, stop that and move on, as it was pointed out, there are LOTS of men out there. Move on!!
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SexyScorp you sounds very young.

An evolved Scorp don't like drama a lot. They just hit one at a time - break it off even painful and swallow the pain at the same time. Specially when there is cheating game. Yes pain is real..but that is temporary.

Always look the brighter side of life. Work on things that benefit on your own. For your own progress.

Just learn to forgive your mistake - his love was not enough to conquer it. The right person will come

with no pleading, promising made by you just to make them stay.

Wish you all the best ahead. Always take care yourself first before others.

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You did it to yourself move on you drove him out of your life he isn't coming back a Cancer man knows when to run we do put up with a lot before we do decide to run you pushed him over the edge get over yourself.


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Its the way it goes she pushed him away, as I said crab men can take a lot when it gets to a point we run.
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It's easy for anyone to tell you to move on, to stop being so dramatic, to do this, to do that, ect.

None of that is helping her right now. Not yet anyway. She's hurt very much. Hunnie, it's ok to take all the time you need right now to vent and to express your feelings. It's okay to feel exactly the way you do. There's nothing wrong with you and that big heart of yours.
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It's easy for anyone to tell you to move on, to stop being so dramatic, to do this, to do that, ect.

None of that is helping her right now. Not yet anyway. She's hurt very much. Hunnie, it's ok to take all the time you need right now to vent and to express your feelings. It's okay to feel exactly the way you do. There's nothing wrong with you and that big heart of yours.
Except it's been two months and as said on her last thread the guy went so far as to block her number. Her response was to call him purposefully from another phone.

When t gets to the point you're having to act around obstacles like that it's pretty clear where he stands and she should stop holding out hope.

No one said there was anything wrong with her being in love. Low key stalking and total all consuming fixated obsession over someone who clearly doesn't want you is unhealthy though.
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It doesn't matter how many times anyone tells her that. Shes not listening because shes not ready to move on. Some girls take just a lot longer to grieve. Talking about her feelings is what's helping her the most. She might be obsessed right now. But at least she's not addicted to drugs. Thats unhealthy too. Eating candy is unhealthy. Being obese is unhealthy. Everyone is unhealthy one way or another. And it's not until we recognize our own problems and have the desire to make changes in our own lives that we feel motivated to enough to do so.
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I am quite getting it what all of you are trying to say....i tried everythng i could for one appology and tried to make him explain that i am a human being i can make mistakes noone is perfect...i did evrythng i could , things that i guess nobody would ever do fr him and he rly didnt deserve it frm me bcs evrytime i had been angry n upset frm him, he has nvr done anythng apart from a sorry..andi hv alwys accepted it...i remmbr his best frnd betrayed him and his frnd was nvr sorry or appologized fr anything andafter few months he forgave him like nothing ever happened..and me who has done everythng i could fr that one appology he doesnt want to forgive me and is very cold...i will nevr beg him or even call or msg him again...it really hurts to see someone who said they loved u so much to not even listen to me or understand me once when i hv asked for a chance endless times and the more i cried bcs i was sorry he screamed more...i know i made mistakes but we are all human beings and not perfect but the way he has judged me seems he thinks he perfect : cancer man...im trying to get better n move on...pls keep encouraging me and above all im learning to be a better person frm this experience....but il no longer beg him to communicate wd me...

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Time heals hun, go have your nails done, your hair, buy a new outfit, do things you love doing, I hate seeing someone so upset over a person who isn't worth it, so sorry this happened, I can see why you lost your temper with him now, hes not for you, when I'm feeling low sometimes I put music on and sing along as loud as I can to relieve my mood, its fun and takes your mind off things, ye, I'm married to a cancer, the highs and lows never end, think yourself lucky sweetie your free to find your own path and enjoy your life meeting all sorts of new men and women friends, soo much to do, so little time..don't waste it xx