Jealously and Anger

To what extent is a scorpian's jealously and anger?

In the case of a husband, wife, lover, etc...cheating on them or the belief that they were cheated on. Is there anger really something like a volcano exploding, something you should watch out for. Or is all this just an overblown characterist of the sign?

My wife luckily never cheated on me but some of me preious girlfriends have and I was like a Nuclear Explosion, not to her but myself, I began to think what the fuck did I do wrong. But I married a loyal person who I had no reason to be jealous of because I knew the love was real with my wife.

A scorpios anger and jealousy is in ones self. As a scorpio, I am naturally a jealous and short tempered person. But once it is said and the anger is out, im done. It doesnt stay for vengence or retaliation over a 24 hour period of time unless you did things like cheat on me or something very extreme. Then that's when the revengeful mind comes into play. Never would I harm someone else, but to know that they will get what comes around, goes around, then I would want them to have what is coming to them. Or I wouldnt speak to them again or would take alot of stuff to fix the situation for me to trust them again.
Sometimes that anger and jealousy is just in my head and has nothing to do with the person who I am jealous about, my mind just thinks that. May have nothing to do with the partner your in a relationship with did anything to make me jealous or not jealous.
But then I am very logical and understanding and if you are accountable for your actions, then I'm very forgiving and can take and deal with alot and wont even say anything.
But I agree with Dancing Bread... "you get it all or not at all". Things that most people would get angry and jealous about, I wouldnt, but those things that most people dont, I explode to the point of an intense amount and seems like an over reacting to others. When in fact it seems all logical in my own head.

I'm usually not short-tempered, and I don't get too jealous these days either, although there have been periods in my life where things were just never enough! Even though I'm not short-tempered though, my anger is incredible. I actually enjoy getting angry, it's like a guilty pleasure of mine, but I don't get angry for bad reason and I do not get angry quickly, however when I finally do get angry, and with good reason to do so, it's like an orgasm for me lol. I'm a different person and I scare people, even my closest friends, which is the down-side of the anger, but the upside is that nothing is left attached to me after that - I empty it all out.

If you want to measure anger by the elements the think of this.

Earth: earthquake/volcano
Air: tornado
Fire: fire/comet or something
Water: typhoon, like in Asia/hurricane

Hahah fair enough, that's decent stuff.

let me tell you i am real brah, if you were trying to say i wasent then i must ask you to reconsider, i know im youg yet but ive been through enough to be real. i can handle things and others in a very real way.

yes, i know just being emotional, im over it disregard what i said that was bad.
its not realy me.

I would have taken a baseball bat to hit gut, then back, and then poison what ever he was drinking the next day...just me.

Yep the temper is a real issue with me..Woah..Many people have been on the receiving end of it..I just see red and need to kill..but its usually over and done with pretty quickly..dragging the body takes the time!..lol

Yeah anger...kept under control most of the time, but erupting like a volcano when least expected by the other person is the biggest problem. But like Elliot said, I do derive immense pleasure from that eruption, especially since the other person would have been calling for it for a long time and would have been really testing my patience.

And jealousy...comes only for the complete possession of my lover.

What is with the whole possession thing?

^^need for power, control issues, insecurity...

I have suffered them all

the love we feel for our lover is so .....to be expressed by mere words. The greater the love the greater the attachment.....the greater the NEED for possessing and being possessed...yes, it works both ways y'know. If am not in love, i would never feel that possessive.

so very true topazwmn. When i am so in love, i become possessive otherwise im so nonchalant and dont have a care in the world. Does this mean that men rule our emotions thus affecting us in worldwind of life? I've notice if im happy in my relationships, im happy in my life. or is it just that things happen in threes? then I'm in a cool breeze, but start something with me and ill become that Tornado and blow thru it like hell and then im call after the storm.

when a Scorpio is being possesive I would suggest the partner letting it happen, we dont mean to do harm to people who are not the enemy, most of them are dead anyway (I would know). The truth about possesion is...not telling...just messin'
I know I do it because I'm safe at the highest point nothing brings me down in power when I rule. All scorps are cool this way.

GeminiLover- I couldnt help but notice your attractiveness.

Easy Scorpius..you hitting on geminilover...smoothly does it...hahaha

This I gotta see. Scorpius is one of US, missy-morals. Haha, let him do his thing.

lol, you guys. im just paying a deserved compliment but I'll be easy I guess 😉. Sheesh, just noticed its almost 5:00 now.

Man, I can't be arsed to work!

How YOU doin Elliott..and no I am not smoothly doing anything..You know I want your ass...

LOL

I'm fine, but if I say too much to you Aprilbaby will get angry with me. (She's the jealous type.)

I don't give too hoots about Aprilbaby..I am in it for myself..

Hahaha neither do I. Actually, does anybody here like Aprilbaby?? (I'm just waiting for her to show up right now lol)

you can have her

I have to come back later, got sleep to catch.

i only sleep one day a week normally

Anger and jealousy.. well I can say I get angry very easily and sometimes when I fight with a person in the end I burst out crying. I don't understand why I cry because most of the times I fight because of the fault of the other person. I even tried to kill myself some years ago when I fought with my entire family and it felt as if everyone were against me. Oh well it's all good now and settled..

my, my there ice princess, I'll relate to you on the family thing, my family never supported me when i went through the hard times, i know how you feel...
*big bear hug* 🙂

Are you two guys? If so, I am a bit worried, pull yourselves together now for crying out loud..be men!..

i dont know, i could tell you it doesnt take much energy to shoot your enemies, trust me. but now a days i just resort to poison so i guess you do get calmer in the later ages.

Lol @ Scorpius..I will only get jealous if I am in a relationship and my partner gives me a reason to be jealous..otherwise I am pretty ok..Anger, thats another issue altogether..don't get me pissed..I am possessive of a loved one..They are all mine..but I don't like to be possessed..

yea i know i hate being possesed, you would hate prison. it sucked, everyones a bitch there.

You went to Prison? blimey...

There goes that illusion of you being a good boy..tut tut..

you didnt read the True Scorpio Story did you? and about prison, "i aint sayin nothin"

No it was too long..couldn't be bothered..lame I know..I have an attention span of a flea at times..

ok i'll sum it up, my friend got shot in the head as i watched him die. my wifes dead and i robbed two stores trying to save him, he needed money. and now i change homes every two weeks so the police and the mafia doesnt find me.

Bloody nora!..your only 19...I was an angel at that age..

yea well, theres those capricorn down sides, was at my first trial when i was 15. My poor mom, dont know why she didnt kill me. heh good thing shes a patient capricorn.

"I was an angel at that age.."

And what are you now, cutie? lol

shes a violent scorpion and proud of it. shes becoming more of my favorite by the minute.

ooopssss.. Am I interrupting something..? I feel that there's something.. You know if someone says "shes becoming more of my favorite by the minute.", that sounds like I have some errands to do.. C yah later, guys, have fun..

*silently moving on..*

dont be silly, shes at work now. talk about what you want, disregard that.

i wish sometimes i wasent so flirty. GRR!

No I really gotta go, or I'll be late from my things.. But your answer to that cancer girl was good. I think that way too..

I mean that he would forgive her..

Now I really gotta run. You want me to take a pic when I run? 😛

well god bless ya then

by the way, must everyone capitolize on my compliments?

lol, i know sounds hard to believe.
...what am i saying, leave her alone. lol, go clean up your coffee ya clown.

LMAO!..WHAT? I WAS!!!!!!! can't believe you guys would think otherwise..hmph!!!