Scorpios and sexual insecurity.

Is it just me? Or do Scorpios (especially women) are always awkward after sex? It's like we have a fear of adandoment or rejection. That's how I am. But I want to know if I'm alone on this or not

I have a mars in scorpio and I feel very sexually confident 😄

Hell yeah my friend acts just like that

I can be quite an insecure person in general but I don't normally feel that at all after sex. I can get clingy like "aww lets hug and have a deeeep talk" lol but usually I just really badly need a smoke.

The only time I've had that fear of abandoment/rejection after sex was when the person was extremely selfish and it was as if I wasn't even there haha.

My mars is in Scorp like sagittarius89 so maybe she's right and that's what it is.

This is why I never want to have sex >>;
Stupid Scorpio inside of me.

acorpios after sex are.....awkward

mars in scorp is very, "i did my thing."

scorp sun ares very....silent....

Hahaha I agree with everything your saying Elle!

We bring em down 😛

Posted by ellessque
scorp...no, they get attitude like arrogant attitude (i know i do)....don't know much about the others.

I could break up marriages.

Who said that? 😛

Posted by exoskeleton
i'm not sure if the right term for this is "sexual insecurity". that would suggest we doubt our sexy skills and that's certainly not the case. 😛

though i understand the fear of abandonment/rejection. when i have sex with someone i'm falling in love with that vulnerability and intimacy chokes me up, to the point where i've even cried after sex. it's like in those moments i know i'm already tangled up and binded to them and i couldn't turn back if i wanted to.

i don't think it's necessarily awkwardness. sex changes things.

Exo quit taking my words out of my brain before I can write them down 😛

We fall too easily, and we fall too hard. Sex really makes that accelerate, as if it wasn't fast enough already. Though I've never cried after sex. I do get really insecure and either get really distant or clingy (which usually backfires on me and THEN I get distant).

I've been pondering this falling too easily and quickly thing lately. I sometimes wonder if its because I don't know the guy that well yet, and maybe I'm only seeing the good things. But I realize that usually isn't true. I just *SEE* people. Like nobody can. I can see through the shields, to the heart. Its easy to make a decision about someone when you can do this. "Nope, not worth my time" or "Sure I'll keep this one in friend zone" or "OMG I may have found the one". Its like I have xray vision.

How many years did it take you to get to the point where you could actually DO that- not just talk about it, Elle?

Posted by ellessque
omg you guys...you have to OWN that shit.

sex is sex, a place to leave all inhibitions at the door and to replay in your mind later when you are bored 😛

Aha!

at band camp?

Posted by ellessque
oh yes, I'm very "I did my thing" but in a very silent way. If you know me, you know the look in my eye. If you don't, let's hope we don't have a business meeting to attend to because i will tear you up 😛

damn scorps lol

I guess sexual insecurity isnt the right word. If I really have feelings for someone. I'm always afraid they wont like me afterwords or something like. When it comes to performing I'm very confident. It's just after sex I get afraid they person wont want to be with me anymore since they got what they wanted. I have Mars in Gemini

Posted by Scorpatarius
I guess sexual insecurity isnt the right word. If I really have feelings for someone. I'm always afraid they wont like me afterwords or something like. When it comes to performing I'm very confident. It's just after sex I get afraid they person wont want to be with me anymore since they got what they wanted. I have Mars in Gemini

Awww 🙂 my best libra has a mars in gemini you sound just like her!