Kryptonite (Page 3)

Posted by Kim31
Wasn't about validation. More like curiosity. Why I attract them and not fish. This is the thought which lead to the next which led to the thread

Kim, give it up. MoonArtist has got you figured out on this one.

Posted by SilverScorpio

Posted by MoonArtist
Not being a fish, I can't give a good answer on why you don't attract pisces. As for the why you attract Scorpios....well, water and water, plus sensuality, the whole fixed vs cardinal energy thing, soft vs hard, easy comfortable understanding that is mutual, boobs....

Don't EVER forget Cancer woman boobs! 😄 That's one of the most important parts!(pun intended)!

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rofl....point taken!

Come on with it, Rein! Post it!!!

You probably didn't notice, but if you check my history you'll see I've been up for 36 hours straight. Gettin a little crabby here....

Posted by SilverScorpio

Posted by Kim31
Wasn't about validation. More like curiosity. Why I attract them and not fish. This is the thought which lead to the next which led to the thread

Kim, give it up. MoonArtist has got you figured out on this one.

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based on the available information, yes, but no.

Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by MoonArtist
You're also seeking validation on a Scorpio forum as to how much Cancers and Scorpios are attracted to each other

I am going to make a thread soon on the attraction dynamics between the three water signs from a Scorp man's perspective.

I am going to be as honest as possible and destroy any myths.

Your "Kryptonite" question will be addressed as well.

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No, what you're going to do is write a thread on the attraction dynamics between the three water signs from ONE Scorp man's perspective.
YOUR Perspective - We're all different. So don't be writin' like the cat ladies, eh.

Who's the cat ladies?

Posted by Kim31

Posted by MoonArtist
Not being a fish, I can't give a good answer on why you don't attract pisces. As for the why you attract Scorpios....well, water and water, plus sensuality, the whole fixed vs cardinal energy thing, soft vs hard, easy comfortable understanding that is mutual, boobs....

yeah you made sense of what I was looking for in the crab corner! if the fish was doing all this-actually the fish wouldn't have to-but if he did, I'd love every second of it

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I don't think the cardinal/mutable thing is a solid enough combo to attract a lot. It would depend on what other stuff is in the chart, but generally speaking, this is why you see fixed with either mutable or cardinal. They're the pillars.

Kim,
There are two sides of the story and you have not explained to me WHY you punched the guy.
IF you had a fear, you should have said something to your employer, the police.

For what it's worth, I have the impression that you may have flirted with him at the beginning
and sent mixed signals. His behavior is a reaction to your behavior and you end up punchin' him
in the nose and turn around and complain about "Scorpios" and stalking and all that nonsense.

you tried to hide this with a.... what was it you called it? Hypothetical?

Posted by Kim31
FUCK!
I MEANT the hypothetical crab and her hypothetical stalker scorp.

It's either hypothetical or it's real. The two are VERY different.
But your line of replies suggests that it's very real and others have confirmed that
you have had issues with the man, before. You should have taken it (stalking) up with your employer
and/or the police.
Apparently you did not, you assaulted him, and you come here seeking validation.
IF he DOES sue you, you had better be prepared to face the music and have your ducks in a row.

Posted by MoonArtist

Posted by Kim31

Posted by MoonArtist
Not being a fish, I can't give a good answer on why you don't attract pisces. As for the why you attract Scorpios....well, water and water, plus sensuality, the whole fixed vs cardinal energy thing, soft vs hard, easy comfortable understanding that is mutual, boobs....

yeah you made sense of what I was looking for in the crab corner! if the fish was doing all this-actually the fish wouldn't have to-but if he did, I'd love every second of it

I don't think the cardinal/mutable thing is a solid enough combo to attract a lot. It would depend on what other stuff is in the chart, but generally speaking, this is why you see fixed with either mutable or cardinal. They're the pillars.

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Check that bullshit out.

If he were a fish, no problemo.
But he is a scorp, so problemo.

Those are the words of a two-faced woman.

IF he sues, and wins. You deserve it.
IF he.... well.... you'll be surprised, won't you.

Maybe you have every right to be very afraid.
But then, you might learn real fast not to play these stupid games.

Sorry, thought it was clear it was clear the hypothetical isn't so hypothetical.

I'm aware of the possibility but I don't think he would sue because he takes matters into his own hands. He can be violent but he also is very clever and can easily fuck some one over without being caught. I've seen it.

Posted by FixedWater
Who's the cat ladies?

The cat ladies are astrologers who generate and parrot bullshit opinions to be believed
by the "astronuts" that basically believe and parrot those opinions.

Posted by Kim31
Sorry, thought it was clear it was clear the hypothetical isn't so hypothetical.

I'm aware of the possibility but I don't think he would sue because he takes matters into his own hands. He can be violent but he also is very clever and can easily fuck some one over without being caught. I've seen it.

Then, Afraid, You WILL BE.

😢

Wait a minute. I don't have anything to be sorry about. The bastard yanked a chair from under me just to get attention. I should've gotten up and decked his ass right then.
So bleep on you!

Posted by FixedWater
@PR, I do not know your society...

Hmmm, it looks a little like this:

Police Officer: Ms. Tyson, Mr. Scorp is accusing you of assaulting him. Can you tell me what happened?
Tyson:Well he was trying to "eavesdrop on my phone conversation".
Police: I'm sorry?
Tyson: He was trying to eavesdrop on my phone conversation. I was trying to "shake him" but he kept pushing.
Police: Oh, okay so he was threatening you? Did he attack you ma'am?
Tyson: Well... "I was frustrated and needed privacy". It's been an ongoing issue.
Police: I see. Well Ma'am, there are laws that protect you if you feel he is a threat of some kind. Unfortunately, you've assaulted him and he is saying he would like to press charges....

Now the chances of him charging her is slim. However, if he was a very petty and vindictive person and he lacks the ability to see how inappropriate his behaviour is (which Kim explained after our posts) he would be in the position to do exactly that. She allowed him to be in that position because she was acting out of frustration. When you suggested her actions were done because she felt threatened that was a stretch because she clearly stated otherwise ("frustrated and needed privacy"--unless you know/read something I didnt). That was my only point. Perhaps it got muddled in the fact that I quoted your whole post.

I read and understood the context of your post quite well. I agreed with most of it. I'm all for respecting personal boundaries and protecting yourself if you are being physically threatened, so your point is not lost on me. In this situation however, as it was presented her lack of control for the reasons she stated just wouldn't fly. If he got physical with her, that was not stated at the time of my post.

There is a man in NY that was charged with a misdemeanor assault for slapping a woman after provoking him and slapped across the face with heels for no other reason than she felt like it. Some would call what he did self defense, yet he was charged (since dropped). Kim was frustrated (understandably), but her actions are justified? As for it being an accident, that was also stated after our posts.

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by FixedWater
Who's the cat ladies?

The cat ladies are astrologers who generate and parrot bullshit opinions to be believed
by the "astronuts" that basically believe and parrot those opinions.

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They are in part why so many women show up on the Scorp forum to moan and groan about
the Scorpio man.

I have offered the final solution.
Exterminate the Scorpio Man.
Have you signed the petition?
You might save your son from the agony that awaits him.
Think of it the way the Government viewed the American Indian - "Kill The Scorp And Save The Man"

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Posted by MoonArtist

Posted by Kim31

Posted by MoonArtist
Not being a fish, I can't give a good answer on why you don't attract pisces. As for the why you attract Scorpios....well, water and water, plus sensuality, the whole fixed vs cardinal energy thing, soft vs hard, easy comfortable understanding that is mutual, boobs....

yeah you made sense of what I was looking for in the crab corner! if the fish was doing all this-actually the fish wouldn't have to-but if he did, I'd love every second of it

I don't think the cardinal/mutable thing is a solid enough combo to attract a lot. It would depend on what other stuff is in the chart, but generally speaking, this is why you see fixed with either mutable or cardinal. They're the pillars.

Check that bullshit out.

If he were a fish, no problemo.
But he is a scorp, so problemo.

Those are the words of a two-faced woman.

IF he sues, and wins. You deserve it.
IF he.... well.... you'll be surprised, won't you.

Maybe you have every right to be very afraid.
But then, you might learn real fast not to play these stupid games.

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whhaaaa? ...no no no! Not any old fish or scorp. The fish I want! If the fish I want was all over me I wouldn't have a problem. Since I don't want the Scorpio, he's apparently flipped or something. Or he doesn't want me at all, he's just crazy as hell.

Can we please go back to the original post? My eyes are starting to water.

Posted by Kim31
Wait a minute. I don't have anything to be sorry about. The bastard yanked a chair from under me just to get attention. I should've gotten up and decked his ass right then.
So bleep on you!

Ok, so we come into the scorp forum seeking answers, and when we don't like what we hear,
we assault. - kid, you're not scoring points, nor are you helping matters doing that.

Why did he pull the chair out from under you? What did you do, before?

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People need to think carefully about why they are putting their hands on someone because you may not like the consequences---especially when you could have handled it in a way to avoid risk to yourself*. An actual physical threat is a different matter.

Now Kim in a position where she's making a thread about some guy, putting herself on the defensive worried about what he might do (my words) when that could have been handled differently by putting him in his place--without a threat of negative outcome she didn't want.

Anyway, like I stated, I want trying to make this about anything else other than the OP, but I wanted to respond to your comment to clear that up.

*wasn't

Posted by Kim31
Can we please go back to the original post? My eyes are starting to water.

Kim, We never left the original post.

You need to be honest with yourself so that you can be honest with others.
If you have been doing things (flirting) with the man, and you turn around and
got bit (the chair, phone snoop) and retaliated with a punch in the nose......
then, you have been getting what you had asked for.

I am getting the impression that you had planted the seeds that progressively
led to where you are now.

Posted by PhoenixRising
^^^^
People need to think carefully about why they are putting their hands on someone because you may not like the consequences---especially when you could have handled it in a way to avoid risk to yourself*. An actual physical threat is a different matter.

Now Kim in a position where she's making a thread about some guy, putting herself on the defensive worried about what he might do (my words) when that could have been handled differently by putting him in his place--without a threat of negative outcome she didn't want.

Anyway, like I stated, I want trying to make this about anything else other than the OP, but I wanted to respond to your comment to clear that up.

Kim, has made it clear that she had physically assaulted the man. -
She should bring it up with her boss and be going to the police and file a report.
Make it known that she is having problems with the man.

It's not about just her but also him. - She should be thinking long and hard about
what she had done that led to his behavior that led her physical assault.

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Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by PhoenixRising
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People need to think carefully about why they are putting their hands on someone because you may not like the consequences---especially when you could have handled it in a way to avoid risk to yourself*. An actual physical threat is a different matter.

Now Kim in a position where she's making a thread about some guy, putting herself on the defensive worried about what he might do (my words) when that could have been handled differently by putting him in his place--without a threat of negative outcome she didn't want.

Anyway, like I stated, I want trying to make this about anything else other than the OP, but I wanted to respond to your comment to clear that up.

Kim, has made it clear that she had physically assaulted the man. -
She should bring it up with her boss and be going to the police and file a report.
Make it known that she is having problems with the man.

It's not about just her but also him. - She should be thinking long and hard about
what she had done that led to his behavior that led her physical assault.

Yeah but if she does that, the attention she is getting will go away.

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It will be on official record and not a forum.

No, Kon. You don't understand the situation or my personality to assess with any kind of accuracy. Come to think of it, I cant think of one accurate statement you've made since joining dxp.

Kim you had better listen.

Y'all are all over the place. I love the dialogue but I wish all this was in a different thread.

FB if you're truly interested in this Scorpio drama I can send it pm. This isn't some cut and dry foolishness. It goes way back and really isn't as simple as I'M CALLING THE COPS!

Plus, I'm not a cop caller. Cops here are not your friends.

Ok people. Can we get back on topic about the original question and that is: Are Cancers Scorpio's Kryptonite?

Posted by SilverScorpio
Ok people. Can we get back on topic about the original question and that is: Are Cancers Scorpio's Kryptonite?

It's actually a mutual thing....which is why both parties should never take it lightly and always treat the other with respect.

Why do you think that?

Posted by MoonArtist

Posted by SilverScorpio
Ok people. Can we get back on topic about the original question and that is: Are Cancers Scorpio's Kryptonite?

It's actually a mutual thing....which is why both parties should never take it lightly and always treat the other with respect.

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I agree.

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Posted by FixedWater
@PR, I do not know your society...

Hmmm, it looks a little like this:

Police Officer: Ms. Tyson, Mr. Scorp is accusing you of assaulting him. Can you tell me what happened?
Tyson:Well he was trying to "eavesdrop on my phone conversation".
Police: I'm sorry?
Tyson: He was trying to eavesdrop on my phone conversation. I was trying to "shake him" but he kept pushing.
Police: Oh, okay so he was threatening you? Did he attack you ma'am?
Tyson: Well... "I was frustrated and needed privacy". It's been an ongoing issue.
Police: I see. Well Ma'am, there are laws that protect you if you feel he is a threat of some kind. Unfortunately, you've assaulted him and he is saying he would like to press charges....

Now the chances of him charging her is slim. However, if he was a very petty and vindictive person and he lacks the ability to see how inappropriate his behaviour is (which Kim explained after our posts) he would be in the position to do exactly that. She allowed him to be in that position because she was acting out of frustration. When you suggested her actions were done because she felt threatened that was a stretch because she clearly stated otherwise ("frustrated and needed privacy"--unless you know/read something I didnt). That was my only point. Perhaps it got muddled in the fact that I quoted your whole post.

I read and understood the context of your post quite well. I agreed with most of it. I'm all for respecting personal boundaries and protecting yourself if you are being physically threatened, so your point is not lost on me. In this situation however, as it was presented her lack of control for the reasons she stated just wouldn't fly. If he got physical with her, that was not stated at the time of my post.

There is a man in NY that was charged with a misdemeanor assault for slapping a woman after provoking him and slapped across the face with heels for no other reason than she felt like it. Some would call what he did self defense, yet he was charged (since dropped). Kim was frustrated (understandably), but her actions are justified? As for it being an accident, that was also stated after our posts.

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I am curi

I will try again without the quote ... As I was saying, I am curious PR, if you have ever experienced anything of this nature?

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by FixedWater
Who's the cat ladies?

The cat ladies are astrologers who generate and parrot bullshit opinions to be believed
by the "astronuts" that basically believe and parrot those opinions.

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Ahhhh, Thank you for clarifying

Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by MoonArtist
You're also seeking validation on a Scorpio forum as to how much Cancers and Scorpios are attracted to each other

I am going to make a thread soon on the attraction dynamics between the three water signs from a Scorp man's perspective.

I am going to be as honest as possible and destroy any myths.

Your "Kryptonite" question will be addressed as well.

No, what you're going to do is write a thread on the attraction dynamics between the three water signs from ONE Scorp man's perspective.
YOUR Perspective - We're all different. So don't be writin' like the cat ladies, eh.

Relax, my friend.

"One" and "a" can be considered synonyms in this context.

That weed you just started smoking isn't helping. Try alcohol.

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You just be sure to explicitly point out that your opinion may not necessarily be those of other
Scorpio men.

Posted by FixedWater
I will try again without the quote ... As I was saying, I am curious PR, if you have ever experienced anything of this nature?

Given our past interactions and the respect I hold for you, I'm gonna give you the benefit of the doubt and read this as nothing more than your interest in engaging me in dialogue and not a cheap shot or an attempt to personalize my response given what you quoted. I state this because I am curious as to the relevance you think this question has to what I posted. If you're willing to enlighten me I will engage.

If it was to simply make a point, then do so. I'm not a fan of pretense.

Thankyou PR, and I feel the same way about you. It was a question with no ill-intent behind it. A desire to understand why you have taken the stance that you have where to me it is clear as spring water that Scorp was in the wrong. That he deserved what he got, and that he is lucky she does not file a common assault against him, or a harassment charge at work.
My take on it was simply that without having experienced this kind of altercation or the fight or flight response associated with that kind of distress it would make sense that you and I are at odds where we are usually in agreement.

Aside from the particular details that led to his bloody nose, I do feel this relationship has a somewhat volatile and long history to which I know very little about.

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Posted by Kim31

Posted by FixedWater
Kim, although I am not a Scorpio Male I can say that when my Son got smoked by his Cousin, he was actually quite impressed. Just a different way of thinking about it. Maybe stalker scorp will be impressed that you gave him a bloody nose and not feel the need to initiate stinger operation #20 or whatever number he is currently at right now. Lol

impressed? Wtf goes on in scorp heads that a bloodied nose could impress him?

S&M

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😱
thought that was a rumor!

FW and PR are so sweet

Posted by Kim31
At work, out in public, at home. He's been good for it. Whether pulling my chair from underneath me or throwing food down my shirt, he pops up and does crap for attention. Those last two examples were not at work but out were he happened by.

And how old is this dude?

53

You can't be serious!?!?

Are you sure you aren't enjoying this attention?

Perhaps if I had kept a journal about this I could say a year ago today I did. Then again the attention was different. There's a difference between a flirtatious teasing and frustrated teasing.

Posted by Kim31
Perhaps if I had kept a journal about this I could say a year ago today I did. Then again the attention was different. There's a difference between a flirtatious teasing and frustrated teasing.

Yes, I'm serious. He's a grown man.

I can't remember exactly if I ever thought this was remotely enjoyable since its been so ridiculous for so long.

Posted by MrFirebird
Kim you had better listen.

Not seeing the connection

Posted by Kim31
Perhaps if I had kept a journal about this I could say a year ago today I did. Then again the attention was different. There's a difference between a flirtatious teasing and frustrated teasing.

So you think his teasing is out of frustration?
Frustration that he can't have you as his woman?

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by Kim31
Perhaps if I had kept a journal about this I could say a year ago today I did. Then again the attention was different. There's a difference between a flirtatious teasing and frustrated teasing.

So you think his teasing is out of frustration?
Frustration that he can't have you as his woman?

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My gut instincts tell me he doesn't want me, just picks on me.