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The original point I made referred to Kim and Scorp's history, that he took it a 'tad' too far, and that she was trying to remove herself from a situation that she did not want. I am pretty literal at times and the above posts will give you the reasons why I feel the way I do.

Just to be sure, I did not post this information to be a B**ch, I posted the above information because the topic as a whole is one I have had experience with more than I care to elaborate on, and one that I am very passionate about. It is important in this type of conversation that whatever I put on the table is accurate.

That is not to say that this conversation should be held in a thread about 'kryptonite' as I feel it is worthy of it's own thread. However, for the purposes of the way this thread/conversation went, I have done due diligence as I see it.



Fixed, Kim has been very vague and avoids answering very simple questions.
She demanded that I answer her questions, yet she's playing games. You follow?
This thread is a dog that chases it's tail.


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The definition of harassment:

Criminal harassment

264. (1) No person shall, blah blah blah..


Marginal note😛rohibited conduct




Marginal note😛unishment


(http://laws-lois.justice.gc.ca/eng/acts/C-46/section-264.html)




Fixed,
I noticed that Miss Lois Laws of Canada seems to enjoy stickin' her tongue out at ya.
Seems kinda immature, don't ya think?





I noticed that too and thought WTF? Lmao .... ~try to make a serious point and this is what I get~ :d
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You should now understand my thoughts about my "happiness is a fair weather friend" thread.
Those crazies think I am talking about the weather.

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Posted by FixedWater
The original point I made referred to Kim and Scorp's history, that he took it a 'tad' too far, and that she was trying to remove herself from a situation that she did not want. I am pretty literal at times and the above posts will give you the reasons why I feel the way I do.

Just to be sure, I did not post this information to be a B**ch, I posted the above information because the topic as a whole is one I have had experience with more than I care to elaborate on, and one that I am very passionate about. It is important in this type of conversation that whatever I put on the table is accurate.

That is not to say that this conversation should be held in a thread about 'kryptonite' as I feel it is worthy of it's own thread. However, for the purposes of the way this thread/conversation went, I have done due diligence as I see it.

FW has much more information about the situation that I told her in private.
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Maybe you should share what happened so that those that are trying to give you advice can do so with all of the details?
Don't make it look like I have had all of the information since the beginning either. That would have given me an advantage so to speak, and would be unfair to those that are opposed to my original comment. I have maintained confidentiality on your behalf because it was the right thing to do, don't make me regret that. ~shakes head~
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The original point I made referred to Kim and Scorp's history, that he took it a 'tad' too far, and that she was trying to remove herself from a situation that she did not want. I am pretty literal at times and the above posts will give you the reasons why I feel the way I do.

Just to be sure, I did not post this information to be a B**ch, I posted the above information because the topic as a whole is one I have had experience with more than I care to elaborate on, and one that I am very passionate about. It is important in this type of conversation that whatever I put on the table is accurate.

That is not to say that this conversation should be held in a thread about 'kryptonite' as I feel it is worthy of it's own thread. However, for the purposes of the way this thread/conversation went, I have done due diligence as I see it.

FW has much more information about the situation that I told her in private.




Maybe you should share what happened so that those that are trying to give you advice can do so with all of the details?
Don't make it look like I have had all of the information since the beginning either. That would have given me an advantage so to speak, and would be unfair to those that are opposed to my original comment. I have maintained confidentiality on your behalf because it was the right thing to do, don't make me regret that. ~shakes head~
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Posted by FixedWater
The original point I made referred to Kim and Scorp's history, that he took it a 'tad' too far, and that she was trying to remove herself from a situation that she did not want. I am pretty literal at times and the above posts will give you the reasons why I feel the way I do.

Just to be sure, I did not post this information to be a B**ch, I posted the above information because the topic as a whole is one I have had experience with more than I care to elaborate on, and one that I am very passionate about. It is important in this type of conversation that whatever I put on the table is accurate.

That is not to say that this conversation should be held in a thread about 'kryptonite' as I feel it is worthy of it's own thread. However, for the purposes of the way this thread/conversation went, I have done due diligence as I see it.



Fixed, Kim has been very vague and avoids answering very simple questions.
She demanded that I answer her questions, yet she's playing games. You follow?
This thread is a dog that chases it's tail.


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When we are confused, blinded, seeking attention, looking for gratification, validation or any myriad of other needs we overlook the responsibilities and healthy choices we have/should make both to ourselves and to others. I have taken the issue seriously, because it was important that I do so.
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Fixed,
All I can say is that Kim has not been very forthcoming but has been skirting
and avoiding questions that help us get some sense of direction here.

If she got raped. I could understand her privacy concerns. That's a problem for
a lot of rape victims. - However, she has NOT indicated anything of the sort, but
rather something on a far less serious level: a case of flirting that got out of hand.
Lesson to be learned: Don't flirt and you might not get hurt.

But then, there's this Pisces character whom she is interested in. -
She stated, in effect, that the Scorp was nutty over her as much as she was nutty
over the Pisces.
Which makes sense in the raw, to think that Kim appears to be just as much a stalker
as she is being stalked.

I don't know if this some weird love triangle or what, but coming here and screamin'
about Scorpio man just follows the endless repetitions of the same.


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Why the hell is this thread still going on?

Are you daft?




No.

Cheeseburger?



Add bacon, please.

I'm in the mood for some artery hardening this AM
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Have you ever considered "Cementaburger"
It's pretty heavy and will surely harden the arts, if that's your bag.

Personally, it's Formaldeburger for me. This way, they don't need to "embalm"
me - I will be... pre-balmed. And.... here's the kicker.... no matter where
I go, the weather is balmy.

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~ sigh ~

FB, your "don't flirt and you won't get hurt" comment is wrong. From a very Literal Standpoint this would be akin to saying that a Woman got raped because she was dressed provocatively. This is not an acceptable reason for raping a woman by Today's Standards. She does not deserve to "Get Hurt" because she flirted IF that were the case.

Otherwise, I have no problem with, and will not argue the rest of your comments. 😏
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Posted by FixedWater
~ sigh ~

FB, your "don't flirt and you won't get hurt" comment is wrong. From a very Literal Standpoint this would be akin to saying that a Woman got raped because she was dressed provocatively. This is not an acceptable reason for raping a woman by Today's Standards. She does not deserve to "Get Hurt" because she flirted IF that were the case.

Otherwise, I have no problem with, and will not argue the rest of your comments. 😏



Might not be an acceptable reason, but it is what it is and primal urges are what they are, and.....
for some men, who cannot control themselves, it's a weakness that end up committing the act.
I'm sorry, but no matter how it's cut flirting is the breeding ground for mixed signals
and all it takes is to flirt with the wrong man. - I am not justifying the behavior, just
spelling it out like it is. - No law can protect women any more than can protect men or children
or anyone else. - People need to pull their heads out of their arses and work together to determine
the root causes and fertile environments that increase the likelihood of ill behavior.

Just think of tempting chocolate. You want it bad. REAL BAD. You give in. - same thing.
It's lack of self-control.
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Posted by FixedWater
~ thinks about how yummy that sounds and considers how good it would smell and wonders if Mcdonald's happens to be serving gross bacon cheeseburgers yet and then remembers how freaking cold it is outside and resorts to some yoghurt ~

Hell YES! Hehe




Do they have a "Carl's Jr" where you are—?
If so, go there and try a Santa Fe Chicken.

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm my favorite.
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~ sigh ~

FB, your "don't flirt and you won't get hurt" comment is wrong. From a very Literal Standpoint this would be akin to saying that a Woman got raped because she was dressed provocatively. This is not an acceptable reason for raping a woman by Today's Standards. She does not deserve to "Get Hurt" because she flirted IF that were the case.

Otherwise, I have no problem with, and will not argue the rest of your comments. 😏



Might not be an acceptable reason, but it is what it is and primal urges are what they are, and.....
for some men, who cannot control themselves, it's a weakness that end up committing the act.
I'm sorry, but no matter how it's cut flirting is the breeding ground for mixed signals
and all it takes is to flirt with the wrong man. - I am not justifying the behavior, just
spelling it out like it is. - No law can protect women any more than can protect men or children
or anyone else. - People need to pull their heads out of their arses and work together to determine
the root causes and fertile environments that increase the likelihood of ill behavior.

Just think of tempting chocolate. You want it bad. REAL BAD. You give in. - same thing.
It's lack of self-control.
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I do understand your point that primal urges can override good conduct and behavior. That is the point of making laws that help deter those primal urges. I agree 100% that we need to pull our heads out of our asses and work together to determine the root causes and environments that increase the likelihood of ill behavior. I would play heavier on the root cause than I would on the environment. My thoughts always go back to a person's childhood and then it blows up from there with a trillion questions that run through my mind when I have decided to give this thought. Its totally absorbing and fascinating for me, and I always end up with a headache. Lol

Lets talk about cheeseburgers, Carl J's, and ... calories? 😄 (bummer but no we don't have one of those here)

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~ sigh ~

FB, your "don't flirt and you won't get hurt" comment is wrong. From a very Literal Standpoint this would be akin to saying that a Woman got raped because she was dressed provocatively. This is not an acceptable reason for raping a woman by Today's Standards. She does not deserve to "Get Hurt" because she flirted IF that were the case.

Otherwise, I have no problem with, and will not argue the rest of your comments. 😏



Might not be an acceptable reason, but it is what it is and primal urges are what they are, and.....
for some men, who cannot control themselves, it's a weakness that end up committing the act.
I'm sorry, but no matter how it's cut flirting is the breeding ground for mixed signals
and all it takes is to flirt with the wrong man. - I am not justifying the behavior, just
spelling it out like it is. - No law can protect women any more than can protect men or children
or anyone else. - People need to pull their heads out of their arses and work together to determine
the root causes and fertile environments that increase the likelihood of ill behavior.

Just think of tempting chocolate. You want it bad. REAL BAD. You give in. - same thing.
It's lack of self-control.



I do understand your point that primal urges can override good conduct and behavior. That is the point of making laws that help deter those primal urges. I agree 100% that we need to pull our heads out of our asses and work together to determine the root causes and environments that increase the likelihood of ill behavior. I would play heavier on the root cause than I would on the environment. My thoughts always go back to a person's childhood and then it blows up from there with a trillion questions that run through my mind when I have decided to give this thought. Its totally absorbing and fascinating for me, and I always end up with a headache. Lol

Lets talk about cheeseburgers, Carl J's, and ... calories? 😄 (bummer but no we don't have one of those here)

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^^^^
Mixed, You said:

I do understand your point that primal urges can override good conduct and behavior.
Exactly

That is the point of making laws that help deter those primal urges.

> Agreed, But, they don't actually deter primal urges. - Where laws actually come into play
are twofold: They deter due the penalties, and only have affect after the laws are broken
and conviction is made. That's really the only power that such laws have.

I agree 100% that we need to pull our heads out of our asses and work together to determine the root causes and environments that increase the likelihood of ill behavior.
>Remember it goes both ways for both men AND women and boys and girls. - BOTH genders
need to consider their behaviors and how it affects the opposite sex.

I would play heavier on the root cause than I would on the environment.
>There are two environments - the external and the internal. - a much larger topic.

My thoughts always go back to a person's childhood and then it blows up from there with a trillion questions that run through my mind when I have decided to give this thought.
> Exactly. My thoughts, also.

Its totally absorbing and fascinating for me, and I always end up with a headache. Lol

> Likewise.
Even so, I DO recognize that what has been tried and in place is NOT working on the whole.

I actually know the reason why. But none would hear it.
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But FB! I had moved away from this mind-numbing conversation because I was getting a damn headache. Now I just want to be silly and or possibly Because I cannot think anymore. Lol!

I would invite you to start a thread in regards to this statement that would make for an interesting debate later on today or tomorrow:
"I DO recognize that what has been tried and in place is NOT working on the whole.

I actually know the reason why. But none would hear it".

We can complain 'till the cows come home about the problems in society but unless we collaborate there will never be the chance for a solution. I think I could possibly disagree with your theory based solely on the truth that, at times, you are very traditional. However, I am open to hearing what you have to say and your perspective of it because we are individuals with life experience and understand that the opinions and thoughts of others can open doors that were otherwise non-existent.


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Still waiting on that burger, though.

Like usual it looks like I will have to do everything myself.

An Earth lady would have brought me that burger by now. And fries.



I'm hobbling around with a sprained ankle while getting kids fed and settled. That's my excuse. Where's your earth lady? Since you're bragging them up, have the lovely Virgo supply you with gourmet burgers. I'm hankering In n Out, myself.....animal style !
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Moon signs matter more than sun signs when considering attraction.



I disagree. Suns are more important.

Though Moon signs are crucial if you want longevity in a relationship.
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I'd say a combo of both, and then some. The more positive matches in each others charts, the higher the attraction, and long term potential. This isn't saying that things like character and values don't matter, though. They play a role, too.
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Oh... Before I forget......

Carl's Jr.

For fast food joints.
The Santa Fe Chicken is REALLY good.

Charbroiled Chicken
Anaheim Chili (like a mild green pepper)
A sauce that is reminiscent of home-made chili powder mixed with mayo.
not super hot, but mild.
served on a wheat bun.

Beats every chicken sandwich on the market.
When you go Carl's Jr., the place smells like a bar-b-que.
Unbelievable for a fast food joint.

McDonalds STILL has the best french fries.
If no Mickey D's,
Family Restaurant or Truck Stop STEAK FRIES... and ketchup served
with a BIG juicy Swiss Mushroom Burger....

For Fish and Chips.... Ore-Ida crinkle fries and Salmon or Talapia or Cod.
Salmon is my personal favorite - cooked medium rare, lemon and mayo.
Breaded Alaskan Salmon nuggets
Shrimp and Lobster
Fried breaded Zucchini and butter.
MMMM

Charbroiled Filet Mignon Medium Rare
Liver and Onions.

Oh.... and Baked potato with sour cream and butter. (or gravy)
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Still waiting on that burger, though.

Like usual it looks like I will have to do everything myself.

An Earth lady would have brought me that burger by now. And fries.



I'm hobbling around with a sprained ankle while getting kids fed and settled. That's my excuse. Where's your earth lady? Since you're bragging them up, have the lovely Virgo supply you with gourmet burgers. I'm hankering In n Out, myself.....animal style !
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In and Out is another EXCELLENT joint. They are like home made.
Double Double with onions, please.

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I've never been a huge fan of McDonald's fries....too thin. I like chunkier potatoes. The steak fries at Red Robin's are fantastic, as is their season salt mix. I do love Carl's Jr. Santa Fe chicken, but their Green Burrito stuff is pretty good for fast Mexican food. I love Arby's curly fries. Just enough spicy kick to make them extra good. And Farmer Boys has the BEST fried zucchini: thick, long wedges, not too over cooked, perfect amount of batter, and their ranch dip is like homemade.
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I've never been a huge fan of McDonald's fries....too thin. I like chunkier potatoes. The steak fries at Red Robin's are fantastic, as is their season salt mix. I do love Carl's Jr. Santa Fe chicken, but their Green Burrito stuff is pretty good for fast Mexican food. I love Arby's curly fries. Just enough spicy kick to make them extra good. And Farmer Boys has the BEST fried zucchini: thick, long wedges, not too over cooked, perfect amount of batter, and their ranch dip is like homemade.




OK, That's It. I can't take it anymore. LMAO
I am going to A - Hang my TV or B - Bypass the TV and head for the couch.
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I've never been a huge fan of McDonald's fries....too thin. I like chunkier potatoes. The steak fries at Red Robin's are fantastic, as is their season salt mix. I do love Carl's Jr. Santa Fe chicken, but their Green Burrito stuff is pretty good for fast Mexican food. I love Arby's curly fries. Just enough spicy kick to make them extra good. And Farmer Boys has the BEST fried zucchini: thick, long wedges, not too over cooked, perfect amount of batter, and their ranch dip is like homemade.




OK, That's It. I can't take it anymore. LMAO
I am going to A - Hang my TV or B - Bypass the TV and head for the couch.
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That's just not right.
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I've never been a huge fan of McDonald's fries....too thin. I like chunkier potatoes. The steak fries at Red Robin's are fantastic, as is their season salt mix. I do love Carl's Jr. Santa Fe chicken, but their Green Burrito stuff is pretty good for fast Mexican food. I love Arby's curly fries. Just enough spicy kick to make them extra good. And Farmer Boys has the BEST fried zucchini: thick, long wedges, not too over cooked, perfect amount of batter, and their ranch dip is like homemade.




Arby's Plain Roast Beef Sammys
With horse radish.

For mexican food - a genuine Mexican food joint is the BEST place for it.
Be it a restaurant or fast food. - Has to be run by Genuine Mexicans with bi-lingual menus.
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I've never been a huge fan of McDonald's fries....too thin. I like chunkier potatoes. The steak fries at Red Robin's are fantastic, as is their season salt mix. I do love Carl's Jr. Santa Fe chicken, but their Green Burrito stuff is pretty good for fast Mexican food. I love Arby's curly fries. Just enough spicy kick to make them extra good. And Farmer Boys has the BEST fried zucchini: thick, long wedges, not too over cooked, perfect amount of batter, and their ranch dip is like homemade.




Arby's Plain Roast Beef Sammys
With horse radish.

For mexican food - a genuine Mexican food joint is the BEST place for it.
Be it a restaurant or fast food. - Has to be run by Genuine Mexicans with bi-lingual menus.
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AMEN! We have a little whole in the wall place called Cha Cha's that has the BEST Mexican food! I'm hungry now. lol
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Moon signs matter more than sun signs when considering attraction.



I disagree. Suns are more important.

Though Moon signs are crucial if you want longevity in a relationship.



I'd say a combo of both, and then some. The more positive matches in each others charts, the higher the attraction, and long term potential. This isn't saying that things like character and values don't matter, though. They play a role, too.
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I'd say you're right.

His Sun to her Moon, maybe his Moon to her Sun.

Complementary criss-cross seems ideal, generally speaking.


There's something to be said, though, for a bit of friction, with

enough complementary aspects to keep it in check.

🙂