Ladies

Would you date a man who didn't have a car/driver's license?

Or a dude who lived in his parents' basement?

What about a guy who's 3 inches shorter than you (taken from dward)?

Do you have any seemingly superficial dealbreakers? If so, list them.

For me it's halitosis and bad feet. I can't deal with bad breath or feet.

Violence ... any man who talks about kicking ass of anybody, I'll pass. Or, if he disrespects his mother, or sister, or any female family member, I'll pass.

The violence turnoff isn't superficial.

how bout 'small thingy'? Is that superficial enuff?

lol

Are they cuppable? I gots big hands, I can palm a basketball lol.

too short
bad hygene
abusive, verbally or physically

what is too short for you?

i prefer 6 ft and above.

abuse isn't superficial. that's a legitimate dealbreaker.

Drag queens are scary man. Don't mess with that. They;re literally wolves in sheeps clothing. Plus I can run fast.

I'd hate to see the pole vault and relay races.

lol

yea, i know

LOL

lol @ "you sound poor"

My e-hubby is not poor.

We are building a life together, and that means having to make sacrafices. lol

''My biggest deal breaker is if they don't go down on me.''

LMAO

Egadds! Poor hygiene of ANY kind (including what Ferdy said about yellow teeth); disrespectful to me or my family, and what Keva said! LMAO!

OOOOOOOOOOOOO AWESOME topic 😄


Would you date a man who didn't have a car/driver's license?

Yes I would date a guy without a car and/or a driver's license. That's not important, the important thing is that the man knows how to work 🙂 If he knows how to make a living then that's required, how he gets there is his own cncern, not mine 😄 Plus, he less likely to be a cheater if he doesn't have a car LOL, a man will get tired of having to walk to every woman's house in order to have sex with her hahahahaha!!!

Or a dude who lived in his parents' basement?

Well ... it depends on how old he is. At a certain age, you really shouldn't be living in any room in your parents home.

What about a guy who's 3 inches shorter than you (taken from dward)?

Hahahaha, I can lay my boobs on top of the guys head so that wouldn't matter to me 😄

Do you have any seemingly superficial dealbreakers? If so, list them.

Hmmm, well, lets see ... not really ... I'm thinking ...

Well, I guess I have a few:

1. He must be clean 😄 That's a given, why not bath, you know?

2. If the guy askes about sex too soon. I'm sorry, but I feel like this -- I understand that its on your mind 24 hours a day, but at least get to know me before you want to rut lol!!!

3. No adventure, this is another dealbreaker. I like a guy who likes to get out and see stuff. Not do the same old movie/dinner/ ... whatever all the time. I like to go out and see stuff, I want to explore. And I don't mean by care either. I don't know, I'm wierd like that, I need certain "spice" with a guy and I get that if he's adventurous -- it's the Saggie in me.

4. Wanting me to look like something I'm not. I feel that if you met me a certain way, then why do you want me to change to meet your standards. You knew I was this way when we started going out, right? I may refine myself where I see fit, but if you expect an average girl to turn into a runway model, then no way.

5. Having no ambition. I like men with drive 🙂 If I have to direct you then that means you aren't ready to be in a relationship because you have no idea what you want to do.

"The violence turnoff isn't superficial."


There's nothing superficial that I can think of .. pretty much the only things that turn me off with people in general, and this happens often, with most people I meet .... is if they are superficial.

For example: Any person who looks another up and down and makes a comment about their appearance or physical attributes in any form, the wall goes up. Any person who makes a decision of another persons character based on impressions that aren't genuine to how they actually feel (and I can feel how another person feels), the wall goes up against both the person giving the false impression, and the one being so ignorant to their inner voice telling them that the normal person doesn't present theirself to new people exaltingly.

Any sign at all that indicates to me that a person siezed another up, and reacted accordingly based off of anything without depth of the other person .... is a deal-breaker for any kind of relations.

.. "siezed" another up .... damn, you know what I meant to spell.

I have been with guys with:

"Dealbreaker for me is - a man with more than 8 1/2, and don't know what to do with it. 🙂


P-Angel

"Any sign at all that indicates to me that a person siezed another up, and reacted accordingly based off of anything without depth of the other person .... is a deal-breaker for any kind of relations."

I so agree, don't do that to me cuz I will do it back and then walk the hell away cuz my frist thought would be that he is ARROGANT and I can't stand over arrogance in a man.