man with Low sex drive (Page 2)

"You need a scorp or a Libra"

That is funny those are the ONLY two signs I have yet to dabble with. Add Leo to the list. Never been with any of those. hmmmn

QS
...thanks for the REFRESH suggestion.. I dont usually tamper with my 'scent' down there just try to keep it squeaky clean w/soap. 🙂

"but....you cannot be looking for a replacement father. you need to be looking for a partner."

Yes like QS mentioned once you have an offspring it becomes intermeshed. I would never consider someone that was not even halfway interested in my babe to begin with. THis is more like gravy.

EMGEM yes, evaluate now, because the likeliehood of it getting 'better' is slim.
TreetrunkinA--YOU are funny!

"If you start cookiemonsterin about it he will resist."

Frusteratingly amusing but true.

The more someone ...can sense that 'you want it or need it' ...they almost do the opposite. Obstinancy.

Thanks, I will take that in consideration.

Kennyg ...at what price.. true

I wish I could peek into the crystal ball and see what 5 years from now looks like😛

Errrr ewwww I am too hotblooded for that..I better revise my strategy

***QS
...thanks for the REFRESH suggestion.. I dont usually tamper with my 'scent' down there just try to keep it squeaky clean w/soap. ***

Oh I hear it is a supository, to balance your PH, dryness and odor if any. I haven't used it, just heard about it from a g/f of mine who was a Marketing Director for Walgreens, who recommended to a friend when she had some ph imbalance.

Ooooh Kenny G I would have to commit suicide if my future looked like that or go against my rule and CHEAT!

"Capricorn men with Aquarius influences suck in bed LOL"

Only a slut would know this hahahaha

Mad? Not really.

One comment/insult towards me and I'll insult you for life. There's no going back. You brought this on to yourself.🙂

::: raises eyebrows :::


ARe you saying that he is more interested in affection with the children then he is with you?


Perhaps you just don't turn him on, Marchgirl.

I love with ppl randomly attach "-wise" to the end of a word. Sometimes it sounds funny. lol


This guy once said "bullet-wise", LOL, in reference to a video game. lol

P-angel ........I guess not! He can't handle this jelly.. 🙂

We are hopefully going to be friends though. You can lead a horse to water but ya just can't make them drink!

Capricorns officially suck!!!!!!!

Sagggegoat I love you. Im drinking right now asnd Im pouting having a pity party. You are right. I havent ta,lked to him since my birthday😢

*Shivers at the thought of a screen name on the internet insulting me for life.*

LMAO!!!!

"Capricorn men with Aquarius influences suck in bed LOL"

But he doesn't, does he— It makes him puke.

Seriously, not meaning to turn this nasty, but there are men out there who are in relationships with women with children BECAUSE of the children. I only say this because there's a headline news case in the UK right now.

Gal, you deserve the sex you want! Someone will think you smell and taste wonderful. Go find him!!

MsPisces, as I read your post I had a mental image of SJP tying her column! lol

Nobody can have it all. But we've been taught to WANT to have it all. Big problem in society. Everyone has different things they can tolerate - I must say being told someone had vomited on his g/f would be quite a red flag to me. Who knows what else might trigger it?? But most of all, if someone was showing that little interest and I knew he wasn't gay (SURE now??) I woulde definitely check out his love for my child. That should be part of the package, not the main reason I thought he was a good guy. The child is first to the Mum, but secondary to the relationship.

In the end you decide for yourself, don't you, what is acceptable. Just don't sell yourself short. Model strength and happiness to your little one

***I suppose some will say believing you can't have both, is selling yourself short. But, is that really true? Can we really have it all, or is it just luck if and when we do find it all in one package? What if you don't get lucky, like so many people don't, and end up with nothing at all in the end??***

MsP, I have wondered the same thing over the years and the conclusion I came up with was. Having a relationship that is workable. Not perfect but workable. There are key elements that must be involved: Compatibility, similar goals and future plans, Good sex (may not be the best but if both are willing to work on it it can be). Have fun together, friendship and a great bonding. Everything else can be incorporated. I find (even with myself) before we get deep into a relationship/marriage we as people fail to discuss these issues early on and find out what the other persons thought process is in this area. I think that would prevent a lot of drama during the relationship/marriage. However, people do change so, if we could change together and communicate when these changes come about I think it is workable. Oh and number one. Never let things get to bad without dealing with them and the gap becomes too wide to close - the biggest lesson I learned about my previous marriage.

Sex:
I am sure everyone has had this experience. Different levels of satisfaction with different partners.

1.Amazing mind blowing sex - nothing else
2.Great sex - some of the other stuff, missing a major aspect though,
3.Bad sex - Everything else is good

What to do? I don't know if I could stay with option 3 at all but 2 would be workable. 1 would be the hardest and maybe unrealistic.

Look if this woman is deprived this much? As she clearly is because she is here discussing it. She should find another more compatible person. Her unhappiness will eventually affect the relationship and affect the child, so it doesn't benefit anyone in the end. Although being a now divorced single mother, I know it is tough as hell.