Marrying a scorpio

As of a week ago the scorpio and I have decided to get married.
My father is a scorpio, but I would like to hear some insight from others who are married to or getting married to scorpios.

I cannot believe how happy I am with this man. Everything aligns perfectly 🙂

Thank you 🙂

Wow, congrats! 🙂 And well wishes 🙂🙂

(For some reason I thought you were with an Aries.😛)

Congratulations!! Wishing you a lifetime of happiness with your Scorp : )

Posted by Wynter
Wow, congrats! 🙂 And well wishes 🙂🙂

(For some reason I thought you were with an Aries.😛)

You are correct in that I was with an Aries very recently. It is a long story, but long story short the scorpio I had dated in the past contacted me realizing he had made a mistake and I had a hard decision to make in deciding between the two. I chose the better fit.

Congratulations as well...

I will say I think it is not odd at all you guys are doing this based on the fact that Saturn is in Scorpio.

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Posted by piscesmoon2
Congratulations as well...

I will say I think it is not odd at all you guys are doing this based on the fact that Saturn is in Scorpio.

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What exactly does it mean for Saturn to be in scorpio and how does it affect us?

Depends on what house it is in... what planets beside that... Saturn is normally the planet of delays... or yanks you back to a lesson... or taking the next harder or more committed steps... Hard to explain...

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Omg please tell the story kits! I wanna know everything that led up to this! I thought you rode off into the sun with the aries too!

Posted by piscesmoon2
Depends on what house it is in... what planets beside that... Saturn is normally the planet of delays... or yanks you back to a lesson... or taking the next harder or more committed steps... Hard to explain...

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Ahh I see. Well that would definitely make sense in regards to him as he was realizing he was ready to commit.

Posted by Sag89
Omg please tell the story kits! I wanna know everything that led up to this! I thought you rode off into the sun with the aries too!

Yeah funny thing. Aries is an awesome man. Very sweet, respectful and loving. But he wasn't someone I would follow like a wife follows her husband. I didn't always trust his judgement. I just didn't realize how much that meant to me till scorpio came back into my life. He is someone who I could follow. He was the man who I had dated, but due to reasons he named to me (I was too immature, I drank too much) he ended the relationship. He recently told me the reason why he left was because he was getting scared because things were getting serious.
So he pops back up while I'm still dating aries and tells me he has been having dreams of us getting married/living in a house together/traveling. I didn't think much of it. But then the next day aries day "I had a dream I was dating you, but that you were married to someone else". And that got me thinking. I had been pushing the scorpio away up until this point, but now I was intrigued. Finally I ended it with the Aries and things started to pick up with scorpio. That's when we actually started to talk like we were dating. Anywho last week the scorpio confirmed that he would actually like to get married and that we would talk about it when I got back into the country. We talked and were very logical about it all, making sure this is what we both wanted and that he and I were both ready in aspects like money and mentally. Then we talked about what kind of wedding we wanted and have a date set out to look at rings so that he can make a proper proposal. I told my family today and everyone was shocked, but they all like him so the confident feelings I had regarding it all were strengthened. As I've been talking to him I'm realizing how much we go so well together. Very excited to start my life with him 🙂

Im sorry, but you left a good man for a man who pops in and throws out the marry card? I just dont get how you can turn off feelings for one guy and turn on feelings for another?

Shall we blame this on the full moon?

I hope you kids know what your doing.....

Congratulations, and I wish you luck with everything! =) btw what's your sign?

Posted by DMV
Im sorry, but you left a good man for a man who pops in and throws out the marry card? I just dont get how you can turn off feelings for one guy and turn on feelings for another?

Shall we blame this on the full moon?

I hope you kids know what your doing.....

perhaps she never felt anything for the aries in the first place and kept the ruse. So that when the scorpio came in, back in her life, she just "knew".... could be. But then, that's "using" the other guy too in a way. who knows. maybe she has feelings for both and has a kind of "open" relationship personality.

But what happens if things are going through a rough patch sometime in the future with the Scorpio and the Aries happens to ramble on by?

Aries and I have been feeling like something was missing from the relationship, but never quite knew what. They relationship was great in functionality, but as far as purpose it just didn't match up. And we both felt it, but we kept at it because the relationship was good and why ruin a good thing. The presence of the scorpio is what shook me and made me realize I shouldn't be in this thing anymore. And I was beginning to realize that one of the weird things I was feeling about the relationship was that while the Aries and I were very similar we were almost too similar in that it had more of a friend like quality. This was something I had gone into the relationship enjoying, liking the fact that we had so many similar hobbies, but now realizing it did not make for a good spouse because things were beginning to get very serious.

So while I still care for the Aries, I look at him as a good friend, and realize I had been feeling this way for a bit now, but I was confused because of the intimacy and affection we shared. The relationship between us feels right as just a friendship, and he revealed to me he felt the same just last night.

In the end I cannot be more happy. And it is apparent that scorpio feels the same way through the actions he has taken, which is more important to me than his words. He's showed me he is devoted to me and his endeavors to make me his wife.

Posted by FieryAries9108
Congratulations, and I wish you luck with everything! =) btw what's your sign?

Sagittarius with strong scorp/cap influence

I still haven't read the word, LOVE!

Ah yes love 🙂 I felt this was apparent. The love we both show each other and have shown is something that drives my confidence in this situation. It makes us unified in our decisions and considerate in the disagreements we do have. I love all of him. His mind, body and soul. His mind is amazing, nothing I hate about it. I don't think I have ever loved someone's mind as much as I do his. His soul is so beautiful. And his body so sexy.

But are you marrying the Scorpio because he made you realise your relationship with the Aries wasn't perfect? Good that that happened but a reason to marry? Would you have married him if he had asked you when you were together first, before he couldn't decide that he wanted you, before he left, before the Aries came along?

Posted by celticlioness
But are you marrying the Scorpio because he made you realise your relationship with the Aries wasn't perfect? Good that that happened but a reason to marry? Would you have married him if he had asked you when you were together first, before he couldn't decide that he wanted you, before he left, before the Aries came along?

He didn't make me realize it wasn't perfect. It was something we had felt, but couldn't quite put a finger on it. Being in relationship that functions well most would think you are crazy if you leave it so you can imagine I was very confused because it was good but something always lingered in the back of our minds. The scorpio simply helped me remember what I was missing. I missed the teasing because the Aries was so straightforward. I wasn't getting that playful struggle or the mystery. Everything was out in the open, which looks great on paper, but it lost the intrigue. Don't get me wrong I want my significant other to be emotionally open with me. That is a must.
The way our lives are matching up right now, where we are going, makes me confident that this is the right time. I feel safe with him. I know he can provide for me, not just financially, but emotionally. To find a man who I can submit under and who's judgment I trust is a big thing for me. The only person who's judgment I trust is my fathers, and the fact that the scorpio is on the same level makes him a perfect match for me.

When we were first dating and it began to get serious between scorpio and I we did discuss marriage and at the time I was willing to follow and be with him. I feel more confident now, then I did then because both our lives are on track.
These questions are all great. I really want to make sure this is the right thing, as does scorpio, and answering them helps me realize why I making the decisions I do. I want to look at this in a logical way because I want something that lasts.

*cough*

My Sagittarius friend did this with a Pisces (Scorpio Moon). She left her Aries man when the Fish, father of her son, came back throwing around the big M word. Pisces wanted revenge and to "win" the girl away from the Aries, who she was very happy with but would complain to me that it didn't have the same "umph" as the water man. Of course it didn't... very little emotional turmoil with an Aries. I was speechless when she told me... but it is one of those things where you have to keep your mouth shut... because everyone has their own lessons to learn.

Anyway, the marriage didn't materialize (of course) and the Pisces stopped sleeping with her soon after they got back together.

Last time we talked, she was secretly speaking with the Aries behind the Pisces back, trying to get back what she lost . (As if the water man doesn't know)
I think the Pisces is letting her get away with it so she will hang herself... then he will turn around and try for sole custody of their son. I think that was his motivation from the very beginning.

You should be watching the undercurrents Sag. You guys are way too optimistic sometimes

Posted by shellshocker
*cough*

My Sagittarius friend did this with a Pisces (Scorpio Moon). She left her Aries man when the Fish, father of her son, came back throwing around the big M word. Pisces wanted revenge and to "win" the girl away from the Aries, who she was very happy with but would complain to me that it didn't have the same "umph" as the water man. Of course it didn't... very little emotional turmoil with an Aries. I was speechless when she told me... but it is one of those things where you have to keep your mouth shut... because everyone has their own lessons to learn.

Anyway, the marriage didn't materialize (of course) and the Pisces stopped sleeping with her soon after they got back together.

Last time we talked, she was secretly speaking with the Aries behind the Pisces back, trying to get back what she lost . (As if the water man doesn't know)
I think the Pisces is letting her get away with it so she will hang herself... then he will turn around and try for sole custody of their son. I think that was his motivation from the very beginning.

You should be watching the undercurrents Sag. You guys are way too optimistic sometimes

Lot of stupidity on her part. Not sure why you would leave someone you would just so easily get back with. That's too bad he didn't stick to his word tho.

Posted by shellshocker
*cough*

My Sagittarius friend did this with a Pisces (Scorpio Moon). She left her Aries man when the Fish, father of her son, came back throwing around the big M word. Pisces wanted revenge and to "win" the girl away from the Aries, who she was very happy with but would complain to me that it didn't have the same "umph" as the water man. Of course it didn't... very little emotional turmoil with an Aries. I was speechless when she told me... but it is one of those things where you have to keep your mouth shut... because everyone has their own lessons to learn.

Anyway, the marriage didn't materialize (of course) and the Pisces stopped sleeping with her soon after they got back together.

Last time we talked, she was secretly speaking with the Aries behind the Pisces back, trying to get back what she lost . (As if the water man doesn't know)
I think the Pisces is letting her get away with it so she will hang herself... then he will turn around and try for sole custody of their son. I think that was his motivation from the very beginning.

You should be watching the undercurrents Sag. You guys are way too optimistic sometimes

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Posted by everevolvingepithet
At the end of the day congratulations are in order but what's it matter if the person is just waiting to see who puts the best offer in, it's her life ultimately?

Agreed!

Plus, life's way too short to be scared to run with the wind.
Congratulations! 🙂

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This is true. Still I want to be logical with all this. And thank you 🙂

Posted by tiziani
I always liked your avi. Congratulations to you.

Thank you 🙂 I am a big fan of foxes

Posted by Impulsv
My concern is u prefer scorpio because he is more mysterious. What are u going to do when the mystery is over. Because trust me he'll get comfortable n there will be no mystery anymore .

Everyone loses their mystery eventually, but love is something that will be there when the mystery is gone. I am marrying because of love. The mystery is an added bonus.

Also I prefer scorpio over aries because he flirts in a teasing way. This is something that gets me going in so many ways and it is something aries wasn't able to do. This is the sense in which I mean mysterious btw.

Posted by Impulsv
No I don't think it's true. I'm easy going n been told by my partners. We are water signs we flow like water even though a fix water.

i agree with you, especially if there's mutables in the chart. you adapt.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
At the end of the day congratulations are in order but what's it matter if the person is just waiting to see who puts the best offer in, it's her life ultimately?

Really? If talking about marriage then isn't there another life involved that must be taken into account, not to mention the possible new lives that could be created?

Anyway, really hope everything works out well, marriage is a huge step to take.

Posted by Arielle83
What happens if you guys hate living together? A scorpio can be very hard to live with and takes time to settle in and deal with their adaptation to a new routine. They are a fixed sign after all.

That's something you just don't know till you move in with the person. And while I'm not opposed to living with a person before marriage it probably won't happen. If he's anything like my scorpio father I'm sure I can handle it.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Yeh, I think with marriages and births or things of such a nature, one can be congratulatory even if they don't agree with the circumstances entirely. It could easily be the Scorpio guy is getting on so isn't hedging his bets as much these days. They both could have overbearing parents that have decided 'noooo, that one was better,u go marry them...now kiss!!!' etc etc.🙂
I'm not being a dick in those examples either, not too much hopefully anyways.^🙂

Lol it is neither of these. I realize some people on here may not agree with it, but really all I wanted was marriage advice. If the people In my real life aren't showing doubts and instead showing support then I feel confident it is not just him and I who thinks this is a good idea.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Don't ask for that sort of advice on here wtf?!?!? 0.0 🙂

Lol guess I should have known

All very sound advice.
Funny it took this long to get advice on the thing I was actually asking about 😛

I wholeheartedly agree with the last statement. Being open and honest about how I feel, in a caring and unselfish way, is something I am always working at. Not because I have trouble with it, but because I value it so much. That was one of the only problems I had with scorpio the first time around, but when he came to me this last time and showed he could open up (and not be an emotional retard) that's when I knew he was serious about all of this. For someone to open up as much as he has, when it was so hard for him before, shows he really loves and wants to be with me.

Crazy, well good luck kits, i hope it all works out 🙂

Posted by Sag89
Crazy, well good luck kits, i hope it all works out 🙂

Thanks!

Congrats

I wish u nothing but the best, don't forget to tie him up, works everytime

Posted by TaurusNikki
Congrats

I wish u nothing but the best, don't forget to tie him up, works everytime

Thanks. I can only imagine you mean in a sexual way 😉

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by TaurusNikki
Congrats

I wish u nothing but the best, don't forget to tie him up, works everytime

Thanks. I can only imagine you mean in a sexual way 😉

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O yes honey, rip him apart, lmao

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Posted by TaurusNikki
Congrats

I wish u nothing but the best, don't forget to tie him up, works everytime

What is it with you and abusing us poor Scorpios?

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Lol, it's not abuse, o no no no

It's an adventure

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Posted by TaurusNikki
Congrats

I wish u nothing but the best, don't forget to tie him up, works everytime

What is it with you and abusing us poor Scorpios?

Lol, it's not abuse, o no no no

It's an adventure

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I'm sure even if it was the scorpios wouldn't mind it. I know mine likes it when I take charge 😉

Heck yea

That stinger would never stand a chance

Tie his ass to a chair and ride him silly, turn him into a teddy bear

Posted by TaurusNikki
Heck yea

That stinger would never stand a chance

Tie his ass to a chair and ride him silly, turn him into a teddy bear

I take it you have experience with one?

wow. I consider myself a balanced Scorpio.

I hate seeing my Taurus man unhappy with me. It made me think I need to pull the trigger and run. lol.

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Posted by TaurusNikki
Heck yea

That stinger would never stand a chance

Tie his ass to a chair and ride him silly, turn him into a teddy bear

I take it you have experience with one?

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Sure do, with my ex

Everything was fine, but the dude couldn't compromise for sh**, and had impossible standards, so I had to leave too stubborn people just don't work

If I didn't have a libra boyfriend I would ride him again since he keeps asking, but nawww, I ride the scales now

Lmao

Sorry, conquering A Scorpio was my mission, especially when Scorpios try to play mind games and tantrums to get their way

Heck yea I'll play with ya, but don't get mad when I get ya

Muahahahaha

I didn't do nothing

hehehe

Congrats hey 🙂

Well, if your dad is a Scorp, you probably have seen just about everything you need to know. The strengths, the weaknesses and everything that goes along with it. Also might explain why you chose to let go of the one for the other... We stick to what we know and feel comfortable with...

But, that is just my opinion.

Posted by OmagaIII
Congrats hey 🙂

Well, if your dad is a Scorp, you probably have seen just about everything you need to know. The strengths, the weaknesses and everything that goes along with it. Also might explain why you chose to let go of the one for the other... We stick to what we know and feel comfortable with...

But, that is just my opinion.

You're right. I seem to be most attracted to guys who are like my father in some way. Mainly because he has always been there for me, supporting and making sure I am taken care of financially. I feel like this scorpio matches up to my expectations for someone who can support me like my father has.