Mental Asylum of Utter Madness- 24/7 Stinger Home! (Page 21)

Posted by LilliLou


Thanks for the hugs PR x

No prob. Sometimes an e-hug makes me feel better especially when I'm being a grouchy Stinger--not implying that you are one.

Posted by LilliLou

I hope your leo is behaving himself, but they seem to be making almost as much of a mess of things/ hard year as we scorps are?!

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Hmmmm, I don't recall ever saying he was a Leo...did I? And he's not mine. Yet.

....no he's not behaving himself, but since there is no real investment, it's not an issue that will occupy my mind anymore. My life lesson I suppose....

I've stuck a dagger in quite a few relationships this month. The relationship that matters the most to me has bled a little, but survived and seem to be healing nicely. One simple died as they should have. One...well see above. I was scared as f*ck, but it was something I had to do. I'm on a drama-free-selfish-free diet for 2014.

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Posted by PhoenixRising
Saturn Therapy, I love it!

Don't you mean satin therapy?

Satin sheets and or restraints...

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All in due time. Heal the heart, then the body .

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Saturn Therapy, I love it!

Don't you mean satin therapy?

Satin sheets and or restraints...

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....oh and restraints are a must. There is no choice in the matter.

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Posted by LilliLou


Thanks for the hugs PR x

No prob. Sometimes an e-hug makes me feel better especially when I'm being a grouchy Stinger--not implying that you are one.

Posted by LilliLou

I hope your leo is behaving himself, but they seem to be making almost as much of a mess of things/ hard year as we scorps are?!

Hmmmm, I don't recall ever saying he was a Leo...did I? And he's not mine. Yet.

....no he's not behaving himself, but since there is no real investment, it's not an issue that will occupy my mind anymore. My life lesson I suppose....

I've stuck a dagger in quite a few relationships this month. The relationship that matters the most to me has bled a little, but survived and seem to be healing nicely. One simple died as they should have. One...well see above. I was scared as f*ck, but it was something I had to do. I'm on a drama-free-selfish-free diet for 2014.

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I know exactly what you mean... wish I didn't! But yeah, its hard to cope when you are usually a drama-free zone and this year is just a bloody emo-storm. One thing after the other.

Absolutely his loss- you seem like a wonderful lady, but its a shame none the less 😢

And sorry about the one that hurt PR 😭

I managed to mend a bridge with a friend who I had written off earlier, but sometimes I just feel like screaming at the things some people are saying/ doing. Its relentless! And if saturn is hanging around till 2015 I just want to hibernate until then!

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Lilli you did great. 😄

Now just implement said lessons and hopefully things will look up.

Yes indeed Pineapples! 😐 so far so good though! A whole weekend drinking and no drunken texts! Still in militant mode though... Must not relax my guard. If only I wasn't such a damn lazy bones with all that venusian influence...

Like your cheeky wee pun there Moon! 🙂

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Posted by LilliLou


Thanks for the hugs PR x

No prob. Sometimes an e-hug makes me feel better especially when I'm being a grouchy Stinger--not implying that you are one.

Posted by LilliLou

I hope your leo is behaving himself, but they seem to be making almost as much of a mess of things/ hard year as we scorps are?!

Hmmmm, I don't recall ever saying he was a Leo...did I? And he's not mine. Yet.

....no he's not behaving himself, but since there is no real investment, it's not an issue that will occupy my mind anymore. My life lesson I suppose....

I've stuck a dagger in quite a few relationships this month. The relationship that matters the most to me has bled a little, but survived and seem to be healing nicely. One simple died as they should have. One...well see above. I was scared as f*ck, but it was something I had to do. I'm on a drama-free-selfish-free diet for 2014.

I know exactly what you mean... wish I didn't! But yeah, its hard to cope when you are usually a drama-free zone and this year is just a bloody emo-storm. One thing after the other.

Absolutely his loss- you seem like a wonderful lady, but its a shame none the less 😢

And sorry about the one that hurt PR 😭

I managed to mend a bridge with a friend who I had written off earlier, but sometimes I just feel like screaming at the things some people are saying/ doing. Its relentless! And if saturn is hanging around till 2015 I just want to hibernate until then!

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Or you can face it in true Scorpio fashion *polish armor*

P.S. Thanks Lilli...your cub---err Lion (😉) doesn't know what he's missing out on. I think you're quite the lady.

Posted by Rabbit
It pains me to admit this...but I actually miss the "OMG! Gemini woman-Scorpio man" threads.

Some of the threads on here recently have been so vapid and dull.

Hmph....how do you feel now?

P.S. Thanks....

*deepest sigh*

Posted by xMoonMan
Can't sleep, Phoenix?

No. It's a combination of things....things on my mind, too much to do and reflecting on a conversation that didn't go well.

So, I've been up since 3:05am watching documentaries on ancient rulers/warriors. The goal was to help me sleep, but I got caught up.Haha, why did I think I of all people would be bored by watching that?....fading to black now *yawn* enjoy the day folks!

I was awake at 3am, my time though... Your doco's do sound interesting PR! I am always intrigued by historical figures 😄

Have a good Sunday!

Posted by LilliLou
I was awake at 3am, my time though... Your doco's do sound interesting PR! I am always intrigued by historical figures 😄

Have a good Sunday!

You too Kiwi!

sadly my Sunday has been and gone- its already Monday here... sigh! 😢

did have a good weekend though- work xmas do, shopping with my bestie and then wines and dinner with friends 🙂

Posted by LilliLou
sadly my Sunday has been and gone- its already Monday here... sigh! 😢

did have a good weekend though- work xmas do, shopping with my bestie and then wines and dinner with friends 🙂

That sounds like a really nice weekend. I'm sick, so I'm in bed. In typical Gem Moon fashion, one minute I'm on DXP, then mid-thread, I decide to start blogging, send a tweet, call a girl friend, email some friends to catch up, start watching tv and then I realize I didn't finish a post/thread on DXP, so here I am again. I'm gonna read a book after I hit "post message"

Aww, crapola!

Hope you feel better soon PR...

to make you feel better; its a beautiful sunny summer day here 19?? and climbing and I'm stuck at my desk with absolutely 0% motivation to do any work what-so-ever... 3 weeks til the holidays thank the sweet baby jebus!

Posted by LilliLou
to make you feel better; its a beautiful sunny summer day here 19?? and climbing and I'm stuck at my desk with absolutely 0% motivation to do any work what-so-ever... 3 weeks til the holidays thank the sweet baby jebus!

Lol. Your "pain" does not make me feel better, but your reference to Jesus did make me giggle.

hehehe... oops! so telling you that the forecast is for a magnificent 29?? on Friday certainly won't help??!

but, owning up to be a horrible person... I forgot to feed the cats their biscuits this morning! they are probably plotting to trip me up the moment I get through the door after work!!

Yeah, I am hoping that the Christmas tree is still standing... that would be the perfect form of cat retaliation! I am rather precious about my xmas tree!

Which would probably be pretty naff considering how much the rest of the world dresses up for xmas, but by NZ standards its pretty good!

Posted by LilliLou
hehehe... oops! so telling you that the forecast is for a magnificent 29?? on Friday certainly won't help??!

but, owning up to be a horrible person... I forgot to feed the cats their biscuits this morning! they are probably plotting to trip me up the moment I get through the door after work!!

Lol. I remember once my cat bit my toe because I forgot to feed him. I thought he was greeting me, but the sneaky bugger nipped me. Not hard enough to break skin, but enough to say "IT'S MY FOOD OR YOUR TOE CHICK. YOU DECIDE!!!"

I'm just hoping you didn't pop him in a big terracotta vase to teach the wee ratbag a lesson?!
What kind of cat do you have PR? Moggy? Or something aristocatic.... lame I know- but I giggled!

Maybe I should video Blue tonight when I get home! The caterwauling is bound to be impressive 🙂

Rabbit, where art thou?

"Power is like being a lady... if you have to tell people you are, you aren't."

~Margaret Thatcher

*like*

Posted by Rabbit
Meh.

Where ya been Rabbit? This place has been soooooo.....*sigh*

Posted by Rabbit
Pretty soon I'll be busy baking cookies and fruit cakes.

I love the holidays but also hate the holidays at the same time.

Yup. Do you have a fancy apron? 😛

Decorating the house is a chore for me. So much so, I wasn't going to do it this year. I'm glad I did. Feels good.

Anyway, if you don't stop by for a whle (or at all 😄), have a great holiday.

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Pretty soon I'll be busy baking cookies and fruit cakes.

I love the holidays but also hate the holidays at the same time.

Yup. Do you have a fancy apron? 😛

Decorating the house is a chore for me. So much so, I wasn't going to do it this year. I'm glad I did. Feels good.

No I have my white chef coat from school and when I worked BOH. Works far better than an apron.

The wifey also likes when I wear it for some reason.

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I could see that.

And I was teasing about the apron.

So, the Scorp and I set a date, and we have a venue.
5-16-15

Pretty excited even though it is a long way off.

Thanks! 🙂

Nice news. Congrats again capgirl _??_

congrats capgirl!

(p.s. it's nice to see a scorp with their shit together atm!)

heya M&Mmmhmmmm's! hope you had a lovely long weekend you wee rascal!

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Pretty soon I'll be busy baking cookies and fruit cakes.

I love the holidays but also hate the holidays at the same time.

Yup. Do you have a fancy apron? 😛

Decorating the house is a chore for me. So much so, I wasn't going to do it this year. I'm glad I did. Feels good.

No I have my white chef coat from school and when I worked BOH. Works far better than an apron.

The wifey also likes when I wear it for some reason.

I could see that.

And I was teasing about the apron.

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😛

Someone asked me "what would a man have to do to show you he loved you?"

I have yet to answer......

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Pretty soon I'll be busy baking cookies and fruit cakes.

I love the holidays but also hate the holidays at the same time.

Yup. Do you have a fancy apron? 😛

Decorating the house is a chore for me. So much so, I wasn't going to do it this year. I'm glad I did. Feels good.

No I have my white chef coat from school and when I worked BOH. Works far better than an apron.

The wifey also likes when I wear it for some reason.

I could see that.

And I was teasing about the apron.

😛

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Lol! Apron? That's a tent. It's far too big.....😛

BTW, does that say "kiss the cook" or "kiss the.....".....? Never mind.

hehehe, cheeky PR!

but back to your question; what would a man have to do to show you he loved you??

Did the Leo merc ask this??



Le sigh (to borrow fromm TLS) I have my next collision with a Leo in 2 weeks! Am I excited/ nervous/ resigned/ over it?

Posted by LilliLou
hehehe, cheeky PR!

but back to your question; what would a man have to do to show you he loved you??

Did the Leo merc ask this??



Le sigh (to borrow fromm TLS) I have my next collision with a Leo in 2 weeks! Am I excited/ nervous/ resigned/ over it?

Yeah, in April.

Hmmmm, that sound interesting. I usually prep for encounters like that because I don't like them. Is it a clandestine meeting, a social event or a "we just so happen to be at the same place, but I am going to look fabulous while I sip my drink seductively so you regret being a douche" type of affair?

hmmm, now lovely PR do you have an answer, general outline or perhaps criteria after these 6 months?

hahaha! that is just brilliant!!! a bit of both of the last two- if he heads home with a case of 'blue balls' that'll bring an evil little smile to my countenance 😉

this is meeting in a social setting- the NYE wedding- but I do potentially owe him a trip up the coast to a waterfall with baby seals (kind of a long story)... It's an interesting situation, my best friend is marrying one of his best friends- as she describes this leo & I- "they have a connection, and want a relationship but live in different places so they can't". I was left open mouthed at this description, and then immediately wondered what he'd said to generate this kind of statement- I'm playing my cards pretty close to my chest with this one...

Interesting, very interesting...

Posted by Rabbit
*SMH*

Thank god I'm married.

I couldn't take the games.

Games? Whatever do you mean?

Posted by IrresistableScorp

Posted by LilliLou
hehehe, cheeky PR!

but back to your question; what would a man have to do to show you he loved you??

Did the Leo merc ask this??



Le sigh (to borrow fromm TLS) I have my next collision with a Leo in 2 weeks! Am I excited/ nervous/ resigned/ over it?

Hmmm. Lilli. The story's not over? To paraphrase Nem, she once said: in the end everything works out for the best. If its not the best yet, it's not the end.

I always thought that was very astute.

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My story? Sorry! I'm being confusing... there are 2 Leo's- my ex Leo sun/ Leo moon... and I have cut contact with him- its just too heartbreaking, we're in vastly different places.

This other one- Leo sun/ Aries moon is a fellow kiwi who lives in Melbourne... We have a very different yet somehow equally difficult dynamic!

Anyone would think I had a couple of Leo placements with this apparent love of drama eh?

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Posted by Rabbit
*SMH*

Thank god I'm married.

I couldn't take the games.

Games? Whatever do you mean?

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hehe... not even naked twister bunnykins??!

Posted by LilliLou
hmmm, now lovely PR do you have an answer, general outline or perhaps criteria after these 6 months?

hahaha! that is just brilliant!!! a bit of both of the last two- if he heads home with a case of 'blue balls' that'll bring an evil little smile to my countenance 😉

...

That truly was not my intention. Up until most recently, our communication has been sincere and honest and I want to keep it that way....it's a rare thing. I could not give him an honest answer, because I really don't know what that would look like. I thought I did and I realized some time ago that I really don't. I know what it feels like, but not what it "looks" like or how someone could "prove it to me" and have it still feel genuine. That was all I could say.

I did suggest that maybe we could figure it out together. That way it would be more authentic to who we are vs. a bunch of thing to be check off on a list. That's all I got, but it wasn't an "answer", so f*ck I got nothing.

^^ hmmmm... is that not the paradox- love should be inexplicable?

Upon further reflection I think that the question is more indicative of a person struggling with their own feelings rather than trying to understand yours?

Posted by LilliLou
I have my next collision with a Leo in 2 weeks! Am I excited/ nervous/ resigned/ over it?

Posted by LilliLou

this is meeting in a social setting- the NYE wedding- but I do potentially owe him a trip up the coast to a waterfall with baby seals (kind of a long story)... It's an interesting situation, my best friend is marrying one of his best friends- as she describes this leo & I- "they have a connection, and want a relationship but live in different places so they can't". I was left open mouthed at this description, and then immediately wondered what he'd said to generate this kind of statement- I'm playing my cards pretty close to my chest with this one...

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Ummm, NYE isn't in 2 weeks lol, even for those few living in a different time zone 😛.

And understandable....it sounds like it will be a very interesting adventure.

Posted by IrresistableScorp

Jeebus. Fish asked a similar question--Leo ascendant-- and it threw me into an existential crisis. No joke. :/

This.

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hehehe, cheeky PR!

but back to your question; what would a man have to do to show you he loved you??

Did the Leo merc ask this??



Le sigh (to borrow fromm TLS) I have my next collision with a Leo in 2 weeks! Am I excited/ nervous/ resigned/ over it?

Hmmm. Lilli. The story's not over? To paraphrase Nem, she once said: in the end everything works out for the best. If its not the best yet, it's not the end.

I always thought that was very astute.

My story? Sorry! I'm being confusing... there are 2 Leo's- my ex Leo sun/ Leo moon... and I have cut contact with him- its just too heartbreaking, we're in vastly different places.

This other one- Leo sun/ Aries moon is a fellow kiwi who lives in Melbourne... We have a very different yet somehow equally difficult dynamic!

Anyone would think I had a couple of Leo placements with this apparent love of drama eh?

So many Leo's so little time. Haha. Don't you have some airy placements? Might make sense why you attract fire.

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Hehe! OMG- wearing the dunce cap firmly on head- yes, a whole lot of libra, in fact air is 32% ... I never really thought of it that way- just the Leo & Scorp thing that seems to be repeated over and over again!

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Posted by LilliLou
I have my next collision with a Leo in 2 weeks! Am I excited/ nervous/ resigned/ over it?

Posted by LilliLou

this is meeting in a social setting- the NYE wedding- but I do potentially owe him a trip up the coast to a waterfall with baby seals (kind of a long story)... It's an interesting situation, my best friend is marrying one of his best friends- as she describes this leo & I- "they have a connection, and want a relationship but live in different places so they can't". I was left open mouthed at this description, and then immediately wondered what he'd said to generate this kind of statement- I'm playing my cards pretty close to my chest with this one...

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Ummm, NYE isn't in 2 weeks lol, even for those few living in a different time zone 😛.

And understandable....it sounds like it will be a very interesting adventure.

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he's here early- on the 19th... his family still live in chch...

hehe- spastic merc today (clearly!) 😛

Posted by Rabbit
All the head games that everyone plays off of one another.

If I found myself single...the f*ck if I'm ever dating again. No thank you.

haha- I don't blame you! total mindfu*kery half of the time... don't know what it is the other half?

I go through cycles of being direct and then that doesn't work so I go back to being cryptic- engage poker face- its a weird see saw