My scorpio boyfriend is lying to me about his day-off

I would appreciate if any advice from Scorpio men. My boyfriend is lying to me about his days off. He is intense and attentive when we met in person. Phoned me and texted me daily. However, he came and saw me once per week during his 4 days off. Recently he lied to me about his days off when I found out about it. He is very good at telling a lie. He sometimes turned off his phone during day times. I have a gut feeling that he is seeing someone. However, whenever I asked he bitterly denied. I tried to break up with him. He didn't accept it. I am normally a soft heart person and always kind to people. I am tired and confused of his strange behaviors. How do I find out if he was seeing someone else. If he did, I would stop our relationship. We are in a relationship that he proposed first. He is jealous and very protective too. Thanks for any comment!

How do you know he's lying?

And if he is, what makes you think he's doing anything other than Netflix and chilling with himself?

Posted by Cath26
I would appreciate if any advice from Scorpio men. My boyfriend is lying to me about his days off. He is intense and attentive when we met in person. Phoned me and texted me daily. However, he came and saw me once per week during his 4 days off. Recently he lied to me about his days off when I found out about it. He is very good at telling a lie. He sometimes turned off his phone during day times. I have a gut feeling that he is seeing someone. However, whenever I asked he bitterly denied. I tried to break up with him. He didn't accept it. I am normally a soft heart person and always kind to people. I am tired and confused of his strange behaviors. How do I find out if he was seeing someone else. If he did, I would stop our relationship. We are in a relationship that he proposed first. He is jealous and very protective too. Thanks for any comment!

DA hell?..

Are you clingy ? Not trying to blame you or anything like that but if I didn't want to tell someone my actual days off its because I'd like to have my days off to myself with no obligations.

Not all my days off...just some. Some people try to monopolize your time off which can be annoying. Some people need to recharge by alone time.

But if you think it's to make time for another woman that's totally different. No one here can tell you how to tell if he's cheating...you know him best.

Posted by littlemegabyte
Rabbit is a savage

Rabbit is a BITCH.


He likes shitting on people when they're obviously hurting or seeking answers to sensitive questions.

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Posted by littlemegabyte
Rabbit is a savage

Rabbit is a BITCH.


He likes shitting on people when they're obviously hurting or seeking answers to sensitive questions.

Shut up and make me a sandwich.

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Have your Virgo wife that you like to con out of sex do it.

I'm sure you'll have no problem guilting her into believing she owes you something, Mr.Marital Rapist.

He probably wants time to himself to smoke weed or hang out with friends or do something you don't want to do.

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Posted by littlemegabyte
Rabbit is a savage

Rabbit is a BITCH.


He likes shitting on people when they're obviously hurting or seeking answers to sensitive questions.

Shut up and make me a sandwich.

Have your Virgo wife that you like to con out of sex do it.

I'm sure you'll have no problem guilting her into believing she owes you something, Mr.Marital Rapist.

Why are you still posting?

Where is your male superior? Why are you not in the kitchen?

Jesus doesn't love women who don't submit...

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Of course you'd know all about making women submit. What'd you say today to make her do something?" I'm married to you aren't I?"

You're a real piece of dog shit.

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Posted by littlemegabyte
Rabbit is a savage

Rabbit is a BITCH.


He likes shitting on people when they're obviously hurting or seeking answers to sensitive questions.

Shut up and make me a sandwich.

Have your Virgo wife that you like to con out of sex do it.

I'm sure you'll have no problem guilting her into believing she owes you something, Mr.Marital Rapist.

Do you eat lemons all day?

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Yeh.

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Posted by littlemegabyte
Rabbit is a savage

Rabbit is a BITCH.


He likes shitting on people when they're obviously hurting or seeking answers to sensitive questions.

Shut up and make me a sandwich.

Have your Virgo wife that you like to con out of sex do it.

I'm sure you'll have no problem guilting her into believing she owes you something, Mr.Marital Rapist.

Why are you still posting?

Where is your male superior? Why are you not in the kitchen?

Jesus doesn't love women who don't submit...

Of course you'd know all about making women submit. What'd you say today to make her do something?" I'm married to you aren't I?"

You're a real piece of dog shit.

Indeed.

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Good boy.

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Posted by littlemegabyte
Rabbit is a savage

Rabbit is a BITCH.


He likes shitting on people when they're obviously hurting or seeking answers to sensitive questions.

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lol. I think he just likes to take the piss.

I don't know him, but tis my impression.

WHOA! @_@ DAT RABBIT BACK?!? dude i totally didnt realize til now! hah! good to see ya backs! 😄

Thanks WhiteChocolate for your comment. I feel the same. I am very tired of his lies. I am not clingy, hardly phoned or texted him. Only he did it. I did not phone him so I did not know where he was and what he was doing. Once I phoned or texted him just twice during his day-off, he told me that he would turn off phone as he would go to rest even it was around 9:30 a.m in the morning. I was upset and cut off the communications. He tried to get hold of me. I told him to become just friends and not in the relationship anymore. I think he is playing game with me. 😢 I think it is time to leave this unhealthy relationship.

He might not be cheating,sometimes scorpios need their alone time n maybe he can't explain that to u.just my opinion ,try n Verify though.

Posted by Cath26
I would appreciate if any advice from Scorpio men. My boyfriend is lying to me about his days off. He is intense and attentive when we met in person. Phoned me and texted me daily. However, he came and saw me once per week during his 4 days off. Recently he lied to me about his days off when I found out about it. He is very good at telling a lie. He sometimes turned off his phone during day times. I have a gut feeling that he is seeing someone. However, whenever I asked he bitterly denied. I tried to break up with him. He didn't accept it. I am normally a soft heart person and always kind to people. I am tired and confused of his strange behaviors. How do I find out if he was seeing someone else. If he did, I would stop our relationship. We are in a relationship that he proposed first. He is jealous and very protective too. Thanks for any comment!

OP, the thing is, it doesnt matter, if he has somebody else or not, but that you are not happy with this...... If Scorpio is in love, he would be with you 24/7
they are intense

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Posted by Cath26
I would appreciate if any advice from Scorpio men. My boyfriend is lying to me about his days off. He is intense and attentive when we met in person. Phoned me and texted me daily. However, he came and saw me once per week during his 4 days off. Recently he lied to me about his days off when I found out about it. He is very good at telling a lie. He sometimes turned off his phone during day times. I have a gut feeling that he is seeing someone. However, whenever I asked he bitterly denied. I tried to break up with him. He didn't accept it. I am normally a soft heart person and always kind to people. I am tired and confused of his strange behaviors. How do I find out if he was seeing someone else. If he did, I would stop our relationship. We are in a relationship that he proposed first. He is jealous and very protective too. Thanks for any comment!

What is your Sun sign?

Before you leave, try an ultimatum - like seeing his phone or FB.

Very crazy, but doesn't hurt if you are going to leave him anyway. Makes no difference if you're right.

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Thanks. I am a Capricorn.

Posted by Udylaw1
He might not be cheating,sometimes scorpios need their alone time n maybe he can't explain that to u.just my opinion ,try n Verify though.

Thanks for your comment. I will wait and see his actions.

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Posted by Cath26
I would appreciate if any advice from Scorpio men. My boyfriend is lying to me about his days off. He is intense and attentive when we met in person. Phoned me and texted me daily. However, he came and saw me once per week during his 4 days off. Recently he lied to me about his days off when I found out about it. He is very good at telling a lie. He sometimes turned off his phone during day times. I have a gut feeling that he is seeing someone. However, whenever I asked he bitterly denied. I tried to break up with him. He didn't accept it. I am normally a soft heart person and always kind to people. I am tired and confused of his strange behaviors. How do I find out if he was seeing someone else. If he did, I would stop our relationship. We are in a relationship that he proposed first. He is jealous and very protective too. Thanks for any comment!

OP, the thing is, it doesnt matter, if he has somebody else or not, but that you are not happy with this...... If Scorpio is in love, he would be with you 24/7
they are intense

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Thank you. Yes. it was very confusing. He told me lots of reasons why he could not see me as he wanted to. Some reasons sounded reasonable. I am also not clingy or needy . Hardly phoned or texted him. Always he did. When I tried to talk about break-up , he was very upset. He said that he felt unfair and selfish for me as he could not give me his times enough. He told me that I deserve a better man then he did not want me to leave him too. He said he likes me a lot and admires my qualities. I was upset as a soft heart person. Do not know what should I do 😢

Posted by littlemegabyte
Rabbit is a savage

wait, ..Rabbit is white chocolate?? I think I may have said sumthin to u a few days ago, not knowing it was you lol I take that mean comment back...

Haha yup.

@OP- White lies are horrible and you should check him. Then see if its worth it. Everyone lies to avoid hurt feelings.

I don't think he is cheating on you , scorpios like those mind games , you should leave him because he will always try to manipulate you , some scorpios are sick people trust me

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I don't think he is cheating on you , scorpios like those mind games , you should leave him because he will always try to manipulate you , some scorpios are sick people trust me

we are very sick and manipulative. you should stay far far away.

I'm waiting for someone to invent an app that plays a siren when we walk by so everyone is warned properly.

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i said "SOME" scorpios

I didnt read every reply and maybe somebody said this already but maybe the guy just want to spend his day off ALONE.....OP, did that ever cross your mind? Maybe he sees too much of you....either that or he is cheating lol

Scorps definitely need their alone time! They think too much, so they need a mental break every now and then lol. Trust me, if you leave the Scorp alone for a few days, he will come running back to you and he'll appreciate the fact that you gave him space! Oh, he might accuse you of cheating for the few days you left him alone lmao

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Posted by littlemegabyte
Rabbit is a savage

Rabbit is a BITCH.


He likes shitting on people when they're obviously hurting or seeking answers to sensitive questions.

Shut up and make me a sandwich.

Have your Virgo wife that you like to con out of sex do it.

I'm sure you'll have no problem guilting her into believing she owes you something, Mr.Marital Rapist.

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Holy shit, where did that come from? 😱

I've never gotten a bad vibe from Rabbit. He's one of the funniest people on this site, most of his posts are all in fun.

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I didnt read every reply and maybe somebody said this already but maybe the guy just want to spend his day off ALONE.....OP, did that ever cross your mind? Maybe he sees too much of you....either that or he is cheating lol

Thanks for your thoughts. Well I do not know what he was doing at that time. Once in a while I texted, but no reply until 3 or 4 hours. We didn't see too much for sure. My gut feelings told me there is something going on. He told me that he doesn't want to lose me and want to be with me, however, I know that if he really missed me, he would try to find time to see me. Just one thing I do not understand that why he wants to keep me on a string? 😢

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Posted by Cath26
I would appreciate if any advice from Scorpio men. My boyfriend is lying to me about his days off. He is intense and attentive when we met in person. Phoned me and texted me daily. However, he came and saw me once per week during his 4 days off. Recently he lied to me about his days off when I found out about it. He is very good at telling a lie. He sometimes turned off his phone during day times. I have a gut feeling that he is seeing someone. However, whenever I asked he bitterly denied. I tried to break up with him. He didn't accept it. I am normally a soft heart person and always kind to people. I am tired and confused of his strange behaviors. How do I find out if he was seeing someone else. If he did, I would stop our relationship. We are in a relationship that he proposed first. He is jealous and very protective too. Thanks for any comment!

OP, the thing is, it doesnt matter, if he has somebody else or not, but that you are not happy with this...... If Scorpio is in love, he would be with you 24/7
they are intense

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Thanks. I feel the same. It hurts me a lot!

Posted by elllesque
Looks like you made him take all the initiative and he possibly thought you werent interested anymore.

You probably pulled the trigger too soon.

Can't put toothpaste back in the tube.*shrugs*

Thanks. He knows that I have very deep feeling for him. I think that he is playing game with me for some reasons! 😢

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Posted by Cath26
I would appreciate if any advice from Scorpio men. My boyfriend is lying to me about his days off. He is intense and attentive when we met in person. Phoned me and texted me daily. However, he came and saw me once per week during his 4 days off. Recently he lied to me about his days off when I found out about it. He is very good at telling a lie. He sometimes turned off his phone during day times. I have a gut feeling that he is seeing someone. However, whenever I asked he bitterly denied. I tried to break up with him. He didn't accept it. I am normally a soft heart person and always kind to people. I am tired and confused of his strange behaviors. How do I find out if he was seeing someone else. If he did, I would stop our relationship. We are in a relationship that he proposed first. He is jealous and very protective too. Thanks for any comment!

What is your Sun sign?

Before you leave, try an ultimatum - like seeing his phone or FB.

Very crazy, but doesn't hurt if you are going to leave him anyway. Makes no difference if you're right.

Thanks. I am a Capricorn.

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I know it might be hard, but try to be a little clingy..phone or connect with him first once in a while. Scorpios are that thing...what is it called....emotional.

If you feel that he's hiding something, I woukd definitely try to get to the bottom of it, it might just be miscommunication. He may feel like you're the one not interested because of your aloofness. Just try it, from one Cap to another.

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Posted by Cath26
I would appreciate if any advice from Scorpio men. My boyfriend is lying to me about his days off. He is intense and attentive when we met in person. Phoned me and texted me daily. However, he came and saw me once per week during his 4 days off. Recently he lied to me about his days off when I found out about it. He is very good at telling a lie. He sometimes turned off his phone during day times. I have a gut feeling that he is seeing someone. However, whenever I asked he bitterly denied. I tried to break up with him. He didn't accept it. I am normally a soft heart person and always kind to people. I am tired and confused of his strange behaviors. How do I find out if he was seeing someone else. If he did, I would stop our relationship. We are in a relationship that he proposed first. He is jealous and very protective too. Thanks for any comment!

Cath26, I'm glad you've realized that it's time to move on. But I would like to share something with you. He's still in touch with you coz he wants to keep the upper hand. Let me explain this. Even if you dumped him, he wouldn't accept it politely and will chase you coz he'll never accept the fact that he has been rejected. He'll try his best to establish the bond again and then will dump you, just to satisfy his ego. So, stay strong and take the bold move. Dump him and throw him out of your life. He's not worth your attention. He's a jerk. There are better guys out there. Mingle with them and stay happy. Good Luck!

I'm a Scorpio male.

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