Never fuck with a scorpio

Well this isn't very nice...but I'm taking a little revenge. I don't do it often but this is one of those cases where he deserved it. X got me knocked up, it was believed to be ectopic, they did emergency surgery. Removed my tube. I'm going to pay for it for the rest of my life. And while I was under the knife, he packed up and left, accusig me of cheating. Which is bullshit. So today he calls out of the blue asking if I have vd. ( I don't. I get tested regularly) he absolutely wont believe me when I tell him no. So I decided to tell him that maybe I've been lying and I have hiv. Totally going to ruin his week until he gets in for testing. Truly evil...but, I don't really care.

True, epi. But at the same time, I can tell them that I tried to tell him the truth and he wouldn't have it, so I gave him what he wanted to hear. The people who matter will a) believe me, and b) already know what he did to me.

I know sis, its one of the most fucked up things someone can do to someone else. But I'm clean got tested in feb. If he's telling the truth about me being the only person who could have given him anything then he will be too. And the revenge part would raise some eyebrows but they know how badly he fucked me over. I did try to tell him the truth. He just chose not to believe it, so I monopolized on the doubt. You know if someone is going to accuse you of something with no basis, it makes you want to do it.

elle...way to go with your son!! lesson learned for the moment at least, let's hope. it's great to know other mothers of sons are conscious of the men we are grooming them to be 🙂

sky. what he did to you was unspeakably bad but what you did in return was wrong. you have to bite your tongue in these situations and rise above it, although i can't imagine how i would've felt in your situation.

the thing is that not only did you mislead him but you've also kind our put yourself out there as being of questionable morality. on the one hand, you may get some people blindly believing you have hiv, even when he proves negative (i doubt your revelation will remain secret)...and on the other hand, if people know you don't have hiv, they will judge you pretty harshy for having said you did.

when you take revenge into your own hands, it inevitably backfires. karma never lets you down but you're not always there to witness the subject getting theirs. you just have to trust they will and rise above it.

What you put out into the universe, so the you will get back.

You are not exempt from karma, Sky.

PS..I believe it takes *two* to get "knocked up" these days, no?

Bgp, yes. But it only takes one to abandon someone when they need you the most.


I tried to say no, I get tested regularly. He kept pressing it. Finally got fed up with defending myself and just said maybe I do / am lying. Since he kept accusing me of lying over and over for like an hour.

Sigh. Very well may backfire. Which is why I almost never do this kind of thing.

I guess I just wanted him to have one small taste of what he did to me.

My chart is on my profile.

Ok so I didn't lie.

I spent an hour repeatedly saying ' I get tested every year. Got tested in feb. I don't lie.' And I got told for an hour ' you're lying I don't believe you go get tested' So finally I said ( direct quote) " Or maybe I am lying and I have hiv. Choose your reality."

I didn't lie. Not once. Just got tired of repeating myself and being told I'm a liar. So I said that maybe he's right. Since its all he would listen to anyway. And really, he's just being an idiot not to see it that way, since I also said -you decide.

You didnt need to be the one to give him a taste of his medicine..Im sure the karma po po has already made plenty of visits to his house.

He asked again. So I listened to you all and told him the truth (again). And said 'if you keep accusing me of lying, eventually I'm going to tell you what you want to hear'.

Solved. And made him feel like an idiot. And feel shitty about what he did. *smirk

He asked again. So I listened to you all and told him the truth (again). And said 'if you keep accusing me of lying, eventually I'm going to tell you what you want to hear'.

Solved. And made him feel like an idiot. And feel shitty about what he did. *smirk

sky, i think everyone can sypmathise with why you did what you did and that you wanted him to fee as bad as you but you bascially wasted energy on the conversation in the first place. you should've told him after saying you get regularly tested that if he was unhappy with your answer, he should go and fuck himself. there is no way in hell i would've entered into a dialogue which questions my morality and sexual health. go bother someone else fuckwit!!!

What does treetrunk mean?

Posted by Skykomish
Well this isn't very nice...but I'm taking a little revenge. I don't do it often but this is one of those cases where he deserved it. X got me knocked up, it was believed to be ectopic, they did emergency surgery. Removed my tube. I'm going to pay for it for the rest of my life. And while I was under the knife, he packed up and left, accusig me of cheating. Which is bullshit. So today he calls out of the blue asking if I have vd. ( I don't. I get tested regularly) he absolutely wont believe me when I tell him no. So I decided to tell him that maybe I've been lying and I have hiv. Totally going to ruin his week until he gets in for testing. Truly evil...but, I don't really care.

Only got this far. You realize that once you do this, your name is on a call sheet? Under some States (possible all?) it's required by law you notify all of your sexual partners. So in other words, you may be causing yourself unforseen problems and headaches.

He's fucking with you. Your best bet is to ignore him. Silence is golden, especially when served cold. Rather than feeding into his immaturity level.

That can backfire on you. I wouldn't do that.

Yeah ocean...and the rest of you seem to be missing the fact that I told him the truth. Repeatedly. And again after fucking with his head. It waant nice to fuck with his head, wasn't very mature, but id do it again. I don't regret it.

How many times can you be told you're lying before you get sarcastic and tell them whatever the fuck they want to hear?

Posted by piranhaparadiise
There was a news article... years ago ...where a woman said to her ex or current bf...can't remember... that she had hiv or aids for revenge and in her case she didn't get off lightly he killed her believing her...turns out tests revealed she was not infected...

Take the higher road and move on...now he will most likely say to others you have it or even if you say you don't they will believe you do regardless...probably escalate to no one wanting to go near you...

It is a low blow of morality to want to seek revenge to that sick level...you're 28 an adult...now people in your group will wonder if you lie about something as big as this...what else are you capable of ? Don't be surprised if word gets around you will be ostracised...lesson learned the hard way...

This is not the norm...

^^^^^^^Revenge.....no bueno, next time take the high road it works out better in the long run

Epi, I told him the truth over and over. The sarcastic comment was once. Then the truth, and to lose my number. Id love to see him get fucked over by women the rest of his life, but ill rely on karma for that. Fucking me over the way he did is not equal to fucking with his head for a couple hours.

She's always been that low ....

The saddest part is the intended meaning of the thread title ... it rings a tone of pride of doing what she did, and that by virtue of being Scorpio, all of you should be proud also.


Generally speaking, Scorpios can't get past any type of emotional injury no matter how slight .... so, I guess their only recourse is revenge.

That ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ is being reiterated by the existence of this very thread.

P-Demon is blocked off my account and has been for almost a year. I'm not concerned, since I can't see it anyway. But thanks Intrigued.

If someone cuts me to the quick, I never let it go. The anger subsides, but only if I'm away from those people. I can let it go for the most part.. but its still there, burning quietly, like an ember, just waiting for the wind to blow. After enough years, sometimes, I can rationalize it away.. to forgive.. but the pain never dies, and if its shoved in my face I retaliate. I have NEVER been betrayed to that extent. My life is permanently changed. Permanently. This ranks right up there with my kidnapping and murder of my dad. Fucking with his head for a few hours? Inconsequential in comparison.

I got tested in Feb, need to get it redone (per company protocol)- stuck myself with a needle at work. Thats what they get for not having sharps containers in patient rooms. At any rate I know I'm fine. And I've been spending time with multiple men, not having sex with multiple men. *funny look* Don't think I ever said that.

Posted by IntriguedScorp

So put that in your pipe and smoke it and chalk it up in your list of more reasons you hate scorpio, my dear. 😉

Well, that ^^^^^ just goes to show that you can't handle real talk either. When real talk comes your way, you then make an ass out of yourself by implying that if it's the truth, then it must mean I hate Scorpios.

Thankfully, there are real Scorps who can take it .. you're not one of them.

Posted by Let*It*Be

Nah..not all Scorps.

No, not all .. I said "generally speaking" .. my father is not one of those Scorpios either. In fact, he would rather take the high road.

Very few and far between .. the creator of this thread is definitely not one.

That should have been written in past tense.

I should that by the very existence of this thread, and not what she says she has done or will do, also the fact that her foul play is premeditated ... she plans out how to injure.


I picked this up a long time ago with her ... dxp is like Joey from friends .. you'll are beginning to catch on.

Posted by Skykomish
Epi, I told him the truth over and over. The sarcastic comment was once. Then the truth, and to lose my number. Id love to see him get fucked over by women the rest of his life, but ill rely on karma for that. Fucking me over the way he did is not equal to fucking with his head for a couple hours.

leo girl entering scorpio haven. I'm not one for revenge, but i don't think you ought to be 'punished' for your choice. you did specifically tell us numerous times that you have attempted many times to tell him the truth, but he never took it, and as anyone who is tired and sarcastic it's just kind of fun to play with his head, especially since he's done such great damage to you. i can only imagine how much pain he's made you feel, and will make you feel for some time. treetrunking with his head for a few hours is nothing compared to what he's done. in any case, if things stir up from the news, it wouldn't bother you. i'm sure you're in control of everything if you wish to be. it may sound 'low', but he definitely deserves some kind of slam from the heavens for being so irresponsible with regards to you, and i believe it to be of much greater magnitude than what you did. do take care!

Posted by TaurusManUk
Sometimes the very act of 'revenge' or 'retaliation' is actually closure. To inflict the same circumstances and situation on the perpetator as he unlawfully, amorally and illegally carried out on the victim so that they know and are conscious of the wrong doing and suffering they inflicted on another.

Made me think of this video

Thanks to those who understand that its a human response to this kind of pain.

The only people I care about whether or not they approve is Bling and Elle. And they didn't. So I re-evaluated my action.

Omg I love Waiting To Exhale! So good! Loves it! Angela Bassett is a Leo

Posted by bluemoon9043834
EEE makes an excellent point about karma. Karma is very real and active. Revenge is an emotion that will keep you attached and you will still be unhappy. Sometimes, the targets of your revenge can be immune to it or deal with it quite well because your revenge is a wasted emotion, is it not? Perhaps we should leave things to the universe instead? Just think of the consequences of your lie... imagine some sort of lie coming back to you in an awful way (God forbid)?

very nicely said..

I'm on the receiving end of a Scorpio on the revenge tip and I must admit, i'm up and down with how I feel about it. frustration, annoyance, pity. but all in all, it is very contained and will not effect me as much as intended.

wasted emotion, indeed..

People come to these message boards for advice, for different perspectives on the same things.

That said, the only people who I actually CARE about, beyond just saying "Oh, so from your corner of the universe you think X, thats interesting" is Bling and Elle. I respect them, look up to them.. I usually actually LISTEN to them, instead of just simply acknowledging what they said. (There are a couple others who did not post in this topic who I feel the same for).

Yeah, believe it or not, talking to people for over a year, online and on the phone, kinda eventually makes them sort of your friends. I am still interested in other perspectives, otherwise I'd just have pm or called. I just don't consider it advice from a friend, more just an opinion that I may or may not agree with.

Elle, I was being fascious by saying "kinda". 😛

This post right here.


You whine in another thread you made just today about how people won't let go of an incident in which they blame you for their pain. And you carry on about it wanting them to get over it.


While you carry a grudge for months, according to this thread.


What goes around comes around ... you recieve the energy you send out .... and then cry about it, and act like a victim.



when in reality, you could actually choose to be a good person. You're not a good person. And those people you talk about in the other thread realize it, that's why they turned away from you. Even your pastor.


Perhaps instead of crying and acting like an ass ... you should comprehend the reality of it, the reality that is your own pastor can't stand you, then you must be pretty fucked up.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/how-to-not-care-3222399/?p=2