New Scorpio woman..disappearing always (Page 2)

Wellllll, bummer. You can also try again and keep trying. I love that

She clearly liked you at first, just got put off. Keep showing interest if you really felt that strongly for her

they say a man knows when he met the one

Lol really though!!! I love the passion, lack of it is too dull. I couldn't stand it

I just gave you contradictory advice lol but you know best

Posted by wildflower
Wellllll, bummer. You can also try again and keep trying. I love that
She clearly liked you at first, just got put off. Keep showing interest if you really felt that strongly for her
they say a man knows when he met the one

We have a lot in common, the same culture, religion and traditions. She understood me better because I'm half Russian and half Turkish and she's full Turkish born in turkey. I saw a big potential... not just hooking up and crap

Posted by wildflower
Lol really though!!! I love the passion, lack of it is too dull. I couldn't stand it
I just gave you contradictory advice lol but you know best

I feel like everyone take Aries for being into nothing but boring fuck fuck sex. No a mature Aries likes to make love to his/her partner and provide a lot of kissing and cuddles. And when in love we will ofcourse remain faithful till the end.



This Scorpio and I had a lot in common lol. Plus I heard Scorpios are possessive partners, after being cheated on by my partner of 3 years that didn't truly love me, I infact need a possessive woman. I like it, makes me feel safe and secure if you get what I mean.

Posted by wildflower
Wellllll, bummer. You can also try again and keep trying. I love that
She clearly liked you at first, just got put off. Keep showing interest if you really felt that strongly for her
they say a man knows when he met the one

I just wanted to give her some space and time before I try again because i didn't wanna come off needy or pushy.

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Posted by wildflower
Lol really though!!! I love the passion, lack of it is too dull. I couldn't stand it
I just gave you contradictory advice lol but you know best

I feel like everyone take Aries for being into nothing but boring fuck fuck sex. No a mature Aries likes to make love to his/her partner and provide a lot of kissing and cuddles. And when in love we will ofcourse remain faithful till the end.


This Scorpio and I had a lot in common lol. Plus I heard Scorpios are possessive partners, after being cheated on by my partner of 3 years that didn't truly love me, I infact need a possessive woman. I like it, makes me feel safe and secure if you get what I mean.

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lol we are possessive lol I guess its not always a bad thing, eh?

Did you know the rest of her chart?

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Posted by wildflower
Lol really though!!! I love the passion, lack of it is too dull. I couldn't stand it
I just gave you contradictory advice lol but you know best

I feel like everyone take Aries for being into nothing but boring fuck fuck sex. No a mature Aries likes to make love to his/her partner and provide a lot of kissing and cuddles. And when in love we will ofcourse remain faithful till the end.


This Scorpio and I had a lot in common lol. Plus I heard Scorpios are possessive partners, after being cheated on by my partner of 3 years that didn't truly love me, I infact need a possessive woman. I like it, makes me feel safe and secure if you get what I mean.

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lol we are possessive lol I guess its not always a bad thing, eh?
Did you know the rest of her chart? click to expand

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Aries men love possessive women, trust me!!! Lol her birth chart is Scorpio sun and moon and Mercury is in Scorpio, Venus in libra and mars in Virgo..... yaaaaaa I know lol

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Posted by Mark-23
...The other night I saw her for the second time...I feel she's the one, gimmi a hand here folks lol

This is why she's probably disappearing. She may be feeling you, but your energy is more than likely giving off "suffocation". Too many people think that just because you are more accessible due an electronic device means you must be accessible. It doesn't. It's actually quite annoying when someone thinks it does.

Simmer down Ram Moon. click to expand

1.) i'm just very open and very confident and very social and a lot of people see that as a problem and they get offended because not a lot of people open the way I am but it's a double edge sword because I also get easily hurt

2.) I guess I could agree with you because I do give a lot of affection of the too much and many times I've felt in relationships and in dating wise that I've gotten very little in return

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Understood. Here's the thing, you said you really like this girl and wanted feedback. You had quite a few Scorp females tell you slow down, pace yourself and engage her verbally vs texting if you would truly like this to progress. You two work at different speeds (fire vs water) and you have a ton of fire. I don't believe her slowness is about playing games, it's simply about different approaches. Scorps are slower to trust, give of themselves fully. Don't confuse all that passionate kissing for more than what it is. She is attracted to you. Probably very interested, but that is not the same thing as falling deep for someone, so there is going to be an air of detachment until she feels more secure about you.

Now that girl harem you were joking about and standing her up may put a bit of a barrier between you for a period of time. If she sense they are around, you're already a distant thought. However, if you're serious about her and patient you may be very happy you did. Good luck.

Posted by C69
okay, just do it one last time and if she ignores, that’s it, move on

well i texted her today asking how shes doing. Lets see how things go, if not then its cool ill leave it be

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...The other night I saw her for the second time...I feel she's the one, gimmi a hand here folks lol

This is why she's probably disappearing. She may be feeling you, but your energy is more than likely giving off "suffocation". Too many people think that just because you are more accessible due an electronic device means you must be accessible. It doesn't. It's actually quite annoying when someone thinks it does.

Simmer down Ram Moon. click to expand

1.) i'm just very open and very confident and very social and a lot of people see that as a problem and they get offended because not a lot of people open the way I am but it's a double edge sword because I also get easily hurt

2.) I guess I could agree with you because I do give a lot of affection of the too much and many times I've felt in relationships and in dating wise that I've gotten very little in return

Understood. Here's the thing, you said you really like this girl and wanted feedback. You had quite a few Scorp females tell you slow down, pace yourself and engage her verbally vs texting if you would truly like this to progress. You two work at different speeds (fire vs water) and you have a ton of fire. I don't believe her slowness is about playing games, it's simply about different approaches. Scorps are slower to trust, give of themselves fully. Don't confuse all that passionate kissing for more than what it is. She is attracted to you. Probably very interested, but that is not the same thing as falling deep for someone, so there is going to be an air of detachment until she feels more secure about you.

Now that girl harem you were joking about and standing her up may put a bit of a barrier between you for a period of time. If she sense they are around, you're already a distant thought. However, if you're serious about her and patient you may be very happy you did. Good luck. click to expand

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well i sent her a light hearted text today, lets see how it goes. lets see if she gets back to me before she flys back home to Turkey, shes gonna be there for 3 months before coming back. If i get to see her before she leaves then i hope to establish something if not and im letting it go lol

What is it that you are looking for and hoping to achieve from this situation and from this girl?

She's going back to Turkey for three months. What then? Where are the realities and practicalities here? I trust they have been considered and a viable plan is in place?

What is it she is looking for from her life right now? Do you even fit into it? Is she looking for a boyfriend right now even though she'll be in Turkey?

Lots of things need to be considered.

Posted by AgentP911
What is it that you are looking for and hoping to achieve from this situation and from this girl?

She's going back to Turkey for three months. What then? Where are the realities and practicalities here? I trust they have been considered and a viable plan is in place?

What is it she is looking for from her life right now? Do you even fit into it? Is she looking for a boyfriend right now even though she'll be in Turkey?

Lots of things need to be considered.

I'm looking for a relationship TBH. She's gonna come back and we could see each other, she even told me when she comes back we can sleep together at her place ect. I don't know what she is looking for and she still hasn't replied to my text message 😢 I'm guessing she's over me and I'm fine with that. Though there was a lot of potential, a lot. I think she was looking for one so when she comes back she won't be so lonely.

But I'm seriously confused, why completely ignore someone w/out giving them a proper explanation.

Im pretty sure after 5-6 days of not hearing back from someone it means forget about it.

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What is it that you are looking for and hoping to achieve from this situation and from this girl?

She's going back to Turkey for three months. What then? Where are the realities and practicalities here? I trust they have been considered and a viable plan is in place?

What is it she is looking for from her life right now? Do you even fit into it? Is she looking for a boyfriend right now even though she'll be in Turkey?

Lots of things need to be considered.

I'm looking for a relationship TBH. She's gonna come back and we could see each other, she even told me when she comes back we can sleep together at her place ect. I don't know what she is looking for and she still hasn't replied to my text message I'm guessing she's over me and I'm fine with that. Though there was a lot of potential, a lot. I think she was looking for one so when she comes back she won't be so lonely.

But I'm seriously confused, why completely ignore someone w/out giving them a proper explanation.

Im pretty sure after 5-6 days of not hearing back from someone it means forget about it. click to expand

I really think you standing her up so early in the relationship process is what sealed the deal.

Whether you provided a reason or not. Whether her reasoning behind it is irrational or not. That is probably what landed her conclusion.

That happened to me in a former relationship and we *were* established....and it still entered into my thoughts about the person and their disregard for my time and feelings, which eventually added to the demise of the relationship later on. click to expand

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True, my ex flaked on me one time and I never forgot it. It changed our entire relationship.. Then he flaked 2 more times that week 🙂

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Probably out banging Chad.

haha lmao the funny thing is when we were making out Friday night she said she was a virgin. I told her I could care less cause I want something serious that will eventually lead to me settling down (I told her I ain't here for the sex). She understood and seemed quiet happy as we continued kissing romantically and ect. click to expand

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Hahaha I knew she was BSing me that moment but I didn't know she'd disappear off the face of the earth like this. Lol this is all too entertaining