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Sitting with my new Scorpio woman co worker at break time all I can say is I'm having deja vu, WTF, this one is married no tree trunking way I'm letting any thing happening.

What the hell why is she acting differently around me than she does others she's acting the same d*mn way the other Scorpio, when she's around others she all bubbly when her and I are alone she gets really quiet. H*ll she even laughs the same as the other Scorpio its hard to describe its sort of a giggle I've heard her laugh around others.

I'm surprised how comfortable she is around me, god d*mn the mask is coming off already, phuck I won't be hanging in her office too often I'm going to be keeping my distance. Why can't she act like she does around her co-worker with me.

Its not my imagination I felt kind of un-comfortable I don't need her getting that comfortable around me I know what happens when a Scorpio woman gets hurt feelings.



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I got the Scorpio smile out of her today she seems to be happy I'm working with her all I can do is be supportive the big part of the project hasn't started yet I'm not part of it but I'm apart of operational system that affects her. I'm seeing the Scorpio fear of change coming out of her she's a typical Scorpio woman she fears losing control.

I'm seeing the same traits in her that I seen in the other Scorpio, the Scorpio I'm working with changes her tone of her voice when she talks to me its soft, when she talks to others her voice is louder has a higher pitch to it. The last Scorpio did the same thing around me her voice would change when she talked to others.

I think I will have a good working relationship with this Scorpio I just have to watch I don't get in an arguments with her I know damn well things will get tense if that happens. As I said I will be keeping an eye on her she's going to be getting antsy when things start changing there will be lots going on I have a feeling she's going to lose it.

I'm pretty sure she knows I understand her I got her going on a rant yesterday the other Scorpio would do the same funny how they like to vent about things.
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Talking to her co worker it is as I thought the Scorpio is under stress about the new changes happening at her work now that I know that I will be trying to be as supportive as I can.

It brings me to the topic how you Scorpio women like control in your work place and in life in general you like to have things organized, I don't know how to describe it you like to be the boss but really don't want to be the leader. I've seen the effects of when Scorpio's get under stress when things are changing faster than you can handle/process it a Scorpio starts shutting down it starts to snow ball from there. I can see her having a melt down on the other company coming in to do the work it will be chaos for a good month and half up to 2 months.

I'm glad I have Scorpio experience in a work place I know what to expect I know how to handle the situation when she starts losing control, her bosses are not giving her any help they dumped everything onto her.
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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
Better watch out. She's out to bang.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/homo-consumericus/201106/women-s-voice-pitch-changes-depending-their-attraction-man
Interesting, the other Scorpio would talk to me in a soft voice now this Scorpio I work with is doing the same, I know its not my imagination I pick up on little details like that.

No I won't be banging this Scorpio for one she's married, her husband hasn't aged gracefully like she has, she is still a sexy woman for being in her late 40s she's never smoked and she lives a healthier life style, he looks much older than her and they are both the same age. She's been wearing shorts I've been looking there is no cellulite on her legs they she doesn't have a big a**.

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
Better watch out. She's out to bang.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/homo-consumericus/201106/women-s-voice-pitch-changes-depending-their-attraction-man
Interesting article. Is a "whisper" a more high-pitched tone though? There's a more recent study where its argued that men/women will both try to mimic the object of their affection's tone - so men will go higher pitch, women lower:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2442369/Do-fancy--Womens-voices-huskier-mens-higher-pitched.html



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I don't even find that source to be that credible, seeing as it is not an edu, schoarly article, etc. it was just the first thing I found. 😄

I think if someone doesnt know you well they gauge you by using softer tones. I use higher and softer tones when talking to new managers at my job because I don't know how to gauge their personality yet or how I can behave/talk around them. I definitely don't want to sleep with them.
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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I don't even find that source to be that credible, seeing as it is not an edu, schoarly article, etc. it was just the first thing I found. 😄

I think if someone doesnt know you well they gauge you by using softer tones. I use higher and softer tones when talking to new managers at my job because I don't know how to gauge their personality yet or how I can behave/talk around them. I definitely don't want to sleep with them.
Yep....It could be shyness as well. Shyness does not necessarily equate to attraction.
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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I like your article @TaurusLovesScorpio! Yeah when I am around the guys I get attracted to I feel like I just sound like I am full of antics. If we get into a deep conversation then I feel like I sound throaty...in other words like a dying bird. I guess my "attractive" voice flew right out the window LOL
lol...don't feel bad. If I feel really strong chemistry, I'm lucky if I can even speak. I actually do the whisper voice myself...lolol.
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LOL! I can relate. Once a guy I liked who had been avoiding me like the plague finally acknowledged my existence and said hi and asked how I was doing and he kind of kept walking but I just stood there and I felt my entire face turn red and my mouth just hung open. I didn't say a word. That was one for the books lol, too funny. I still can't believe it happened.
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Not sure if its a trait or not I noticed the way this Scorpio walks is the same as the other Scorpio, she's got thick calves, built heavy but she's not fat.

I'm not way in interested of starting anything with this current Scorpio she's older than me, as I said she's married she will always be friends only like she has been since I met her 20 years ago.

I'm having fun noticing similar traits between the two Scorpio women the control freak is the first thing I noticed, what I've been noticing is the nervousness no its not because of me its the changes happening at her work place. You Scorpio's hate change or should say can't handle change, that's what is on her mind right now. Next week I will be prepared for a really nervous Scorpio woman as the month long or longer changes happen.

I will be helping her I won't leave her hanging I understand what she's going through I don't think her co workers really understand how nervous she is right now.

Scorpios are predictable they like things planned uncertainly scares you, she likes routine she's had the same job for a good 18 years.