only one question

I have been reading and writing posts on this board this last year of course after a relationship with a male scorpio. I have found this board really helpful and have obtained an insight into most of the signs which I hope will help me through life.

My question is how can someone so sensitive, caring, etc just walk out of your life. I have read so many peoples pain when a male scorpio has decided to leave the relationship mostly without a word and the other person is totally unaware of why. One minute its chocs and roses the next they just disappear. Do they ever look back? How can it be so intense then totally numb! I have read people saying if you have hurt them etc etc but it still doesnt justify how they leave. I think this just walking away means they lose a lot because through communication things can be put right, or if explained the other can realise what they have done. Please if you have had an experience like this please post and if you are a scorpio with any insight or views I would be grateful as well.

Well, it happened to me not too long ago. I was actually the one to make the break because I could sense what was happening. My Scorp also was struggling with alcohol issues, and it was clear that I would have to lose my self-respect to stay with him.
But I still definitely felt his withdrawal after some of the most unbelievable love and emotional intensity that I've ever experienced.
I'm not sure why, but it's funny that I still have such feelings for him that I read this board every day wondering what might have been!!!
I can't believe how many other women have written about what you're writing about! I wanted to just think that they are "F'd" up, but I actually had the best, most secure relationship of my life with another Scorpio who was more able to communicate than my current one.
My advice to you is to try and understand what you might represent to your Scorpio, and you may find the answer in that. In my case, he thought I was a good influence for him and he was on his "best behavior" initially with me with regard to his drinking, etc. Then it probably dawned on him that to be with me, he would have to give up that life style /addiction because I need more from a relationship.
I saw him a couple weeks ago with mutual friends and he didn't take his eyes off me. I could feel them burning right through me. If my attempts to communicate with him a few weeks prior (repeated attempts to communicate with him and try & understand what was happening with him, or how I could support him if he was going through something) had yielded more than him ignoring it, we might have been able to work through some things. Unfortunately no. The mark this guy has left on me is indelible. I will never forget him or how I felt (thought WE felt) together.
I am sorry to read your post because I can tell you are sad and that you obviously had something quite wonderful with your guy. Without the background, I can't try and guess what happened, but take comfort in knowing that you're not alone and that you you deserve more than being shut out without an answer. It's not you that's doing this!!

Geez I was starting to think i was the only one. Yep. I meet a scorp this time last year. We fell in love in a matter of days and he moved in my home. Things were going really well, untill his ex's started phoning him. Anyway this really got to me and I asked him about it. He said he was just being polite and only did business with them. I didnt believe that of course, having been hurt and lied to in my last relationship. I kicked him out. After a few days I really began to miss him. I thought by kicking him out, he would see i was serious about the situation. But he did not return to try and make up with me, nor did he even try to. Head over heals in love with him now, I was pretty heart broken by his response. He really made me out to be the monster. But he did keep coming to see me. He still wanted to have sex, but not a relationship. He does not trust me. how ironic. Its been a year and he still comes and sees me. Only because I want him to. I feel pretty hurt, cause I want to get back together with him. I dont know what to do. He knows hes got me over a barrel. He's played afew head games. Recently he went to Aus with some of his mates. He could of invited me, but didnt. I know he's only using me for sex. I'm an intelligent attracitive pisces. I have told him how i feel, but he does not want to talk deeply about anything. He seems pre-occupied with work and his friends. I feel left out and under loved. Its driving me batty! I really want to let him go. I wonder if he enjoys torturing me? I wonder if I stop allowing him to use me, will he change his attitude towards me? am I flogging a dead horse? He said he still had some love in heart for me, so should I take that seriously? Do scorps come around, if you keep persisting? or would it be easier if i just gave up on him. I dont know! Im really confused and hurt. I want him in my life. I reckon, if he could express how he feels and talk about it, we could have worked out our differences. We have great sex. I know how to make him happy. We got along really well! If it wasnt for his baggage, i reckon we'd still be together now. Can anyone please give me some advice. I'm prepared to give him one more shot. Its needs to be a good one.

Scorpios will make you feel like you are the "disposable" one, but don't buy it...and whatever you do, DO NOT show your weakness. Or they'll only disrespect you moreso...it might kill you inside to wonder "WHY?" 'Why did they leave?' or 'Why are they acting like this?', I know, but face it...they're SCORPIOS! Quit wondering why. You'll never get a forced, direct answer out of them. One of the hardest things for them to do is 'admit' something. Both my best friend and boyfriend are scorpios. How we're still together? I have no idea. Trust me, it's not out of fear that I'll lose them. I love them, but I won't compromise myself for them thank you very much.