Question for the Experts

If you were in love or lust with someone and were contemplating having sex in the near future, but you wanted to make sure they were healthy(clean) how would you go about protecting yourself completely—

and can you be fully protected—?

OK, have a great day and be safe in or out there!

Love

Disregard that question! I should not of even asked it! If you love someone enough to give yourself to them, then you should trust them enough to know they wouldn't hurt you, intentionally.

Wait a bit 205. Love should be as you say but it also has a funny way of makeing people do silly things...

Things like hold their tongue when their intentions are good and true...to which there is no point.

If these people love each other as you say they should...then what hurt will it do saking...—

I know that sometimes ok alot of people never think that someone could be dirty before sex. I have never thought that till afterwards and that was always something that I would wonder about.

I dont think that there is anything wrong in asking him to take tests....just go with him and do it urself...let him know that u love or u are very attracted to him and if he wants to be with you and cares about u sooo much he is going to consider your feelings, if not then do what ur heart and head tells you to do.

Just be careful and good luck.

I always ask my partner if he is clean and how he knows that (AIDS test, STD screening,etc.) I know it sounds unromantic, but I'm a Scorpio and am very straightforward and hey, I need to take care of myself. Otherwise I make sure we use protection.

just kick his butt to those places and check him out and if he um..."loved" you.. then he'd do it! and if he didnt then he'd be like "c'mon baby you know im clean" yeah sure ok *cough* omfg im making up my own lil drama..o.oLuZ

I don't like the feeling of latex and I would rather not have any sex. Doesn't very feel good!

It's only information for the future. I guess I'll deal with it when the time comes!

Yes, definately ask, a sexual or potentially fatal disease is not worth risking for the sake of being polite. If you are going to enter into a sexual relationship and not use condoms i would want to SEE the results of the test first.

Excellent point, Libragirl! STD's are on the rise!