Questions? Hit-N-Run bad? Boody calls bad?

"So I have some questions I've done the "Hit-N-Run" thing and I didn't mind it, I gave the dude the wrong number when I dropped him off" hahah.......... But then a month later I saw him at a club and he asked why I did him so wrong? The second "Hit-N-Run" I attempted afterwards I told him to never call me again"
"I've had this boody call for like a year and a half now and not once have I ever slept the night at his house I told him up front what I wanted from him ( his body) but the other day he called me and out of no where he asked me to be his girlfriend " Yike" I said no, becasue thats the last thing I want right now or need right now!
"You think this is bad? "But, the key here is that I always tell them what I want, I'm honest about it, and it seems as if non of them take me serious when I say this. It sounds bad yes I know but what can I do? "Women have needs to"? Another thing is that the guy I pick to do this to are players them-selves so i don't get it, they shouldn't play it off like players if they can't play the game? I'm I right? or am I wrong? PS I'm a scorpio

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ah - but they say thats what they want too, so i see no big deal but then it always back fires and they start catchin feelings when in the beginning thats what they said they don't do, men lie about being players then ...... maybe they shouldn't do that?

Hit-N-Run bad?

--Yes. You're affecting someone in a negative way and that makes it bad. Can't possibly be good can it?

Booty calls bad?

--Depends on the people involved.

"Another thing is that the guy I pick to do this to are players them-selves so i don't get it"

--"Players" is just a label. That's what you call a guy who goes around, doesn't take women seriously. Being a 'player' doesn't mean a person can't develop feelings, they're only human.

"they shouldn't play it off like players if they can't play the game? I'm I right? or am I wrong?"

--He played the game, maybe it's just game over. He did ask you out so obviously he developed some sort of feelings for you and it doesn't seem like a good idea to go on the way you were, that's all.

That whole guys are players is BS,most don't and even then the ones that run thier mouths about it is generally just trying to be "cool" amongst thier flaky friends and are flaky themselves usually being mommys boys who have no clue how to deal with life in realtime terms.If you're honest about it why is the fake phone numbers involved?It doesn't sound too honest if you ask me and im a chick too.It's not always what it seems to be with loud and flamboyant people!

I agree with Aprilbaby.. and others too.

"I think for guys relationships begin more when sex is involved."

I totally agree with this.