@anna1
11 Years500+ PostsAries
quick question: will he stay faithful or cheat
Are you going to post this on all boards?
Ok, on this board I will say he won't cheat.
Meet you on another one where he will cheat.
You're the one who is dating him.....so, will he cheat? A chart isn't the deciding factor.
Ummm did I miss the background story or is this it?? Where is Cleo when you need her— In my fake accent *Call meh now✨....but in all seriousness, if you cant trust him now because of your baseless fears, marriage isnt in the future for him to even cheat on you. So dont worry you would have scared him off well before then.
Lol, so it would seem. 🙂
She's very thorough. 😉
Just to keep the balance I'll say he will cheat. Cause someone as insecure as you will make him cheat.
I Know i am a little bit insecure that's just because security is of utmost importance to me i can ignore all the other mistakes if he will offer me security.
Well we need to see your chart too so we can judge how exciting you are.
Is this an arranged marriage where you only met him once? If so, I get the question. If not..I just..can't.
50-50 odds regardless.
My sun: Aries
Moon and ascendant : Capricorn
Venus and mars: Aquarius
and yeah its an arrange marriage
Just to put a positive spin on this. My grandparents had an arranged marriage. They couldn't stand each other.
But they built a house together and had 3 kids and have been married for more than 50 years. They started liking each other and respecting each other and at some point they fell for each other.
As my grandmother would say "you cannot build a house from the ground up and not feel something for the person you'll be living with"
Proximity will spark familiarity so if there's a minimum of respect there, you might like each other enough to make it work. No idea on cheating though.
I Know i am a little bit insecure that's just because security is of utmost importance to me i can ignore all the other mistakes if he will offer me security.
Oooooooh now it makes sense! Ok forgive me for my previous response. Let me climb out this box I trapped my mind in......If its an arranged marriage Im guessing all you can really do is hope and put forth an effort to make things work in your favor. Good luck
Posted by TokerX
Posted by Damnata
Just to put a positive spin on this.
WHY— :p
Posted by Damnata
familiarity... respect... you might like each other...
If that's your idea of love I pity you. 😉 Respect is of course a big part of it, but it's not enough, what you're describing is more like friendship.
Anyway, there's no way to tell if he'll cheat or not. Either he will, either he won't. If he does: sucks for you.
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umm, get off your high horse?😉
Not my idea of love but you can have a succesfull aranged marriage in the absence of love. Not all marriages are based on love and it's not either/or between "love and bliss" and "pain and misery"
Posted by Damnata
Just to put a positive spin on this. My grandparents had an arranged marriage. They couldn't stand each other.But they built a house together and had 3 kids and have been married for more than 50 years. They started liking each other and respecting each other and at some point they fell for each other.
As my grandmother would say "you cannot build a house from the ground up and not feel something for the person you'll be living with"
Proximity will spark familiarity so if there's a minimum of respect there, you might like each other enough to make it work. No idea on cheating though.
My marriage did the reverse of this, which is the more time spent in his company, the more I loathed him. I really do hate the motherfucking goddamn piece of shit, may he rot in hell. 😛
lol, I know Moon 🙂
50-50 odds, as with everything.
As for the arranged marriage part: you have as much a chance of success as anyone else with any other kind of marriage. If he's an asshole, the marriage will be miserable no matter what you do. If he's not an asshole, you have a chance at a truly lovely partnership, assuming you're also not an asshole. The real deciding factor is if there's an asshole involved or not.
As for the insecurities you have, you need to look into your own heart and mind to find the strength to conquer those and lay them to rest. You won't find that in any other person. If you do, it's just a temporary fix that won't last.
Awwww, Whatu, you're ruining all our sage advice giving! I was really warming up to the whole "beware of assholes" thing.
Well ...why not have an arranged week where you both can cheat. Does it matter?
Posted by Whatu
Posted by MoonArtist
Awwww, Whatu, you're ruining all our sage advice giving! I was really warming up to the whole "beware of assholes" thing.
We are everywhere.
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I know....I keep finding them, and then I have to avoid, or be rude, or in general disrupt my zen flow. ~shakes fist at assholes~
Posted by anna1
I am dating this guy and we plan to marry in near future. I just wanted your opinions whether he will stay faithful to me throughout his live or will cheat on me someday.Sun: Capricorn
Moon: Scorpio
mercury: Capricorn
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Scorpio
ascendant: Sagittarius
Posted by CancerrifiC
*Call meh now!.*...
...you're marrying this man and you don't know his deepest secrets, his deep thoughts, and you don't trust him??
Posted by TokerX
Posted by Damnata
Just to put a positive spin on this.
WHY— :p
Posted by Damnata
familiarity... respect... you might like each other...
If that's your idea of love I pity you. 😉
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Love is love... and that's that.
You can't say it isn't authentic because it didn't start the way *you* think it should.
Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by CancerrifiC
*Call meh now!.*...
lmao 😄
Posted by TokerX
Posted by heartlocket
...you're marrying this man and you don't know his deepest secrets, his deep thoughts, and you don't trust him??
Lol, you seem socked? :p
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'Socked?' Yes, quite socked.
😄
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I am dating this guy and we plan to marry in near future. I just wanted your opinions whether he will stay faithful to me throughout his live or will cheat on me someday.
Sun: Capricorn
Moon: Scorpio
mercury: Capricorn
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Scorpio
ascendant: Sagittarius
thanks
One thing that is concerning me most is that he is very secretive and mysterious I sometimes fear what he is like, from inside. he's very deep but I fear about his real intentions, any tips ?