rate the importancy of control!

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by butterfly84 on Sunday, October 27, 2013 and has 5 replies.

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@butterfly84
12 Years

If you would say on a scale from 1 till 10 being the highest......how important is trying out control over your partner?

Would you rather have little control or a lot.
And if you trust them enough do you let go a little then or doesnt that change at all? 😉

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@butterfly84
12 Years

Haha control over their lives , not bedroom, more bout their partners in general or if scorps can freeze for a sec and do a step back when they feel like they lost a bit control 😉

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@Sasori701
12 YearsScorpio

if i have total control that means you're a puppet who cant stand and think for yourself. that would be like being with a child, or a senseless droid. so i'd rather have some control. hell, at least put up a little fight for your own identity. but in the bedroom, you are my puppet. you have no say on the many ways i will manipulate your body.

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@insertyourquarters
13 Years

I would like to think 3. I myself like mental and physical freedom and if I have no reason to doubt or mistrust then you go about your business. If I do then you will be made sorry and I won't stop digging around until your in the ground. That reaction is rare though for me now.

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@butterfly84
12 Years

Yesss thats what my guess was to. And kinda what i was wondering about since my man tells me he was obsessive about his ex's but they all cheated. I hateee cheating and i was the same with my ex and he was a cheater too. And he did and said some horrible things to them hahahaha frankly i found them funny and deserved where most people would be shocked hahahaah and i gave my ex hell also xD 😉 but the 2 of us , he lets me go wherever i go doesnt ask too much he does wanna hear all about it afterwards and i have the same with him so what you are saying kinda confirms what i was thinking: when you earn a scorps (and a cancers) trust :s we are not so bad as everyone claims we are. I always have more of a feeling that people get angry with our traits simply cause they know they will cheat if things go ruff hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha oooh the digging. Funny though cause im a cancer and im the same with that HA