Relationships

What are reasons you'd leave a relationship?

someone who has no goals in their life just sits around being lazy, lies too much, too controlling and jealous, abusive emotionally, physically....

Everyone's given good reasons...

Good idea, 187

I think I'll start a new thread...what makes you stay in a relationship...

if i found someone hotter

NOTHING can make me leave a person unless i jus dont have feleings for them, i gotta fall out of love with them to leave..anything else i am too damn stubborn to give up, i believe love can conquer all...
if two ppl truly love eaCHOther but jus cant seem to keep it together..when do u get to the point where enuff is enuff? NEVER!

You should know from the get go if someone has violent tendencies, is financially unstable, incompatible, etc. Now if you leave your lover for someone hotter, maybe your the one with the issues. I would have to say that the goals are so so essential, as we mature, our common goals are the glue in our relationships. There has to be fun and play, so we don't become so duty oriented, and we must balance each other out spritually. We need to be able to look back and say wow - look at what we accomplished together.

Ah, the nightmare scenario. Combination of things to tell the truth.

1. Love dies
2. The either direct or indirect knowledge that we'd be happier apart than together.
3. That electric feeling is gone replaced by a darker one.
4. Lack of support.
5. Mental intimacy goes.

I think thats a nice summation. 🙂

LOL @ Fiddlesticks..

I would only leave if i didn't love the person any longer

"I would only leave if i didn't love the person any longer"

And which would happen every 5 years 😛

LOL..Nooooooooo

I have the overwhelming desire to get you in a headlock

No ?...Earlier than that ?

"have the overwhelming desire to get you in a headlock"


haa haa...headlock - No. Liplock - Yes.

Grrrrrrrr...

I'll have you know, I am a very committed person having found "the one"

"Liplock - Yes"

Come on then big guy..lets see whatcha made of..

LOL..I feel like a good snog today

1. Lack of sex
2. Spends to much time with friends, not enough with family
3. No work ethnics
4. Spends to much time on DXP

Waking up in the morning and your first thought is this relationship is crap

Waking up in the middle of the night and your first thought is if I don't get outta here I'm gonna kill someone

LOL@VAL! That is a serious red flag!

Well my point is you don't need reasons, and if you do chances are your selling yourself a big juicy rationale

SimplyMe,

Commitment is so scary. If I come to a point where I feel like I need to share my life with my lover, I mean to share a space together, provided that I have my own bathroom and a hide out if things get too intense, then I would say I'm ready. I mean if I feel like I would be a better person with the one I love, then that's a sure sign that I'm ready.