Sagittarius freaking out over Scorpio Break (Page 2)

Posted by IrresistableScorp
I hate to say this but Scorpios can be quite devious in getting you to show your real hand. Seriously.

I could be wrong but the probe here was to find out where your integrity can be compromised. The bahsterds.

You didn't want FWB but agreed to it. Why?

I wanted to tell him no because I knew that I couldn't just have that type of relationship with him but I felt like I was putting too much of my feelings out there for him and he was being so mean and cold even though I was doing that. So I told him I was cool with it so I could seem indifferent. He's texted me 3 times since this telling me to call him, and telling me to have a great weekend. And now the good part about it is that I am indifferent. When he said those things to me something just clicked in my head and now I don't care about him.

Posted by scalpisces
Now what LIB said was that the scorp will mirror her "game" - but of course, that her indifference and so called "mind game" was a self defense mechanism.
So he is going to mirror what "hurt" him, completely forgetting that the reason she hurt him was because she was hurt by him.
If this is going to happen like that, he should take a good honest look into the mirror himself.
You don't propose "just sex" to a woman that wants a relationship with you and has feelings for you, unless you dont mind being a jerk, of course.

No, you read that wrong.
She basically telling Manda to go look herself in the mirror.
What that means is "check self first, before you judge someone else.

You're trying to slam the Scorpio when all you or anyone else, here, knows about him is
what we are being told here. The Scorp man she is interested in, likely doesn't even know
he is being talked about behind his back.


We are only hearing one side of the story. HER side.
Manda, please invite your love interest to this thread and ask him to comment on it.

Doesnt that depend on how involved you are emotionally?
There is always the funny hope in women that he may change his mind and wants a relationship after all. Plus having sex with the guy would mean she doesnt completely lose him.

And after you come to think and realize that this may kill you emotionally and you get scared you pull back.
(I swear this would happen to me just like that)

Not everyone is as strong as you.
But that's no reason to pray on the weak!!

Posted by LetltB

Posted by MandapantsI have no intentions of seeing him again but I agreed to his proposal so he wouldn't get the satisfaction of knowing I was upset. He said, " you're sure, all cards on the table and you're ok with this?" I said yes. He said "ok, you want to call me and chat?" I told him not really. Then he text me telling me that he DID miss the sound of my voice. I did not respond. Then he text me again with a picture of his boxers saying thinking of me was turning him on, again I didn't respond and he hadn't sent anything after that. I'm now officially over it. What a mess.

So because this guy was up front from the beginning that your mind could not grasp, you feel entitled to play head games? He's an asshole because you're dense? ok..got it.

$ 100.00 he figures this out, and we see another thread that he's changed and wants a relationship?
Another $ 100.00 he goes silent after making her believe him. The mirror is a weapon I tell ya.

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So we are talking about suicide?

I agree, the guy should see this thread and say something about that, would like to hear his version.

Posted by scalpisces

Posted by LetltB

Posted by MandapantsI have no intentions of seeing him again but I agreed to his proposal so he wouldn't get the satisfaction of knowing I was upset. He said, " you're sure, all cards on the table and you're ok with this?" I said yes. He said "ok, you want to call me and chat?" I told him not really. Then he text me telling me that he DID miss the sound of my voice. I did not respond. Then he text me again with a picture of his boxers saying thinking of me was turning him on, again I didn't respond and he hadn't sent anything after that. I'm now officially over it. What a mess.

So because this guy was up front from the beginning that your mind could not grasp, you feel entitled to play head games? He's an asshole because you're dense? ok..got it.

$ 100.00 he figures this out, and we see another thread that he's changed and wants a relationship?
Another $ 100.00 he goes silent after making her believe him. The mirror is a weapon I tell ya.

So we are talking about suicide?

I agree, the guy should see this thread and say something about that, would like to hear his version.

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Never gonna happen

Posted by scalpisces

Posted by LetltB

Posted by MandapantsI have no intentions of seeing him again but I agreed to his proposal so he wouldn't get the satisfaction of knowing I was upset. He said, " you're sure, all cards on the table and you're ok with this?" I said yes. He said "ok, you want to call me and chat?" I told him not really. Then he text me telling me that he DID miss the sound of my voice. I did not respond. Then he text me again with a picture of his boxers saying thinking of me was turning him on, again I didn't respond and he hadn't sent anything after that. I'm now officially over it. What a mess.

So because this guy was up front from the beginning that your mind could not grasp, you feel entitled to play head games? He's an asshole because you're dense? ok..got it.

$ 100.00 he figures this out, and we see another thread that he's changed and wants a relationship?
Another $ 100.00 he goes silent after making her believe him. The mirror is a weapon I tell ya.

So we are talking about suicide?

I agree, the guy should see this thread and say something about that, would like to hear his version.

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Scalp... do you know what a "Figure of speech" is?

Yes I do Mr.F - I just dont agree with you that LIB meant what you think she meant.
Im not sure if you are aware of scorps mirroring peoples behavior in order to get the upper hand. I believe LIB was talking about that.

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Posted by scalpisces

Posted by LetltB

Posted by MandapantsI have no intentions of seeing him again but I agreed to his proposal so he wouldn't get the satisfaction of knowing I was upset. He said, " you're sure, all cards on the table and you're ok with this?" I said yes. He said "ok, you want to call me and chat?" I told him not really. Then he text me telling me that he DID miss the sound of my voice. I did not respond. Then he text me again with a picture of his boxers saying thinking of me was turning him on, again I didn't respond and he hadn't sent anything after that. I'm now officially over it. What a mess.

So because this guy was up front from the beginning that your mind could not grasp, you feel entitled to play head games? He's an asshole because you're dense? ok..got it.

$ 100.00 he figures this out, and we see another thread that he's changed and wants a relationship?
Another $ 100.00 he goes silent after making her believe him. The mirror is a weapon I tell ya.

So we are talking about suicide?

I agree, the guy should see this thread and say something about that, would like to hear his version.

Never gonna happen

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It should happen!

All you have to do is tell him that I am picking on you.

(she may have meant the suicide that wasnt going to happen)


Mr.F - you and I wont ever understand things the same way, I wonder why that is? 😉

Posted by IrresistableScorp
If it was me--not that I'm right--but if I was asked that question and I had no intention of seeing that through, I would have said something like:

Him: For reals, I still want to have sex yada yada yada

Me: are you kidding?

Him: no for realz

Me: no way. I am not looking for FWB. Why would you even think I'd go for that?


Make him explain himself.

I feel like he would not have explained himself after all of this. For me to basically pour my heart and for him to reply the way he did, i didn't even want to know why he proposed that. It makes me feel like even though he did tell me he loved me and talked about how amazing i was, this could have been his intention all along. Scorpio or not he could have been just a liar trying to get laid and he proposed his most ideal situation to me.

Posted by Mandapants

Posted by IrresistableScorp
If it was me--not that I'm right--but if I was asked that question and I had no intention of seeing that through, I would have said something like:

Him: For reals, I still want to have sex yada yada yada

Me: are you kidding?

Him: no for realz

Me: no way. I am not looking for FWB. Why would you even think I'd go for that?


Make him explain himself.

I feel like he would not have explained himself after all of this. For me to basically pour my heart and for him to reply the way he did, i didn't even want to know why he proposed that. It makes me feel like even though he did tell me he loved me and talked about how amazing i was, this could have been his intention all along. Scorpio or not he could have been just a liar trying to get laid and he proposed his most ideal situation to me.

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I STILL suggest that you get him in here and explain his side of the story.
I want the truth. I don't like one sided stories. I get enough of that on the news.

Keep in mind, that you are a Sag and sags have a tendency to dream up things that are
not so and get unnecessarily anxious and short on patience. The scorp will react to this
and here you are, providing one side of the story.

Again, I strongly advise you to get him to join and enter this discussion.

Posted by scalpisces
(she may have meant the suicide that wasnt going to happen)


Mr.F - you and I wont ever understand things the same way, I wonder why that is? 😉

I think LIB was trying to get Manda to look inwardly at her own actions as she detected "head games"
going on.
IF Manda is playing head games with her scorp, then what goes around comes back around... hence... the
mirror.

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by Mandapants

Posted by IrresistableScorp
If it was me--not that I'm right--but if I was asked that question and I had no intention of seeing that through, I would have said something like:

Him: For reals, I still want to have sex yada yada yada

Me: are you kidding?

Him: no for realz

Me: no way. I am not looking for FWB. Why would you even think I'd go for that?


Make him explain himself.

I feel like he would not have explained himself after all of this. For me to basically pour my heart and for him to reply the way he did, i didn't even want to know why he proposed that. It makes me feel like even though he did tell me he loved me and talked about how amazing i was, this could have been his intention all along. Scorpio or not he could have been just a liar trying to get laid and he proposed his most ideal situation to me.

I STILL suggest that you get him in here and explain his side of the story.
I want the truth. I don't like one sided stories. I get enough of that on the news.

Keep in mind, that you are a Sag and sags have a tendency to dream up things that are
not so and get unnecessarily anxious and short on patience. The scorp will react to this
and here you are, providing one side of the story.

Again, I strongly advise you to get him to join and enter this discussion.

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PS, I missed that part where IrresistableScorp demands that she "make him explain himself".....
I agree.

IMHO, Manda could be deceiving yourself with your own assumptions.

how would he know its her playing headgames or just trying to protect herself from him?

I dont see where revenge is justified, ever - especially if you are too lazy to find out why somebody acted the way they did. Maybe its your own damn fault, but as long as we are self righteous we can just go around plotting our revenge - its always justified.

As I said before, Ill be staying away from Scorpios from now on. - you just cant do right with them obviously. You caugh, they feel upset about it and will hit you with a car to satisfy their revenge and its justified as long there is someone saying "what goes around comes around"

Posted by scalpisces

I hope not every scorp is like this.
A decent person would recognize that she was hurt by his proposal.
So, LetItBe, just so I understand this kind of behavior,
He breaks her heart + makes an outrageous suggestion which reduces to a free whore and THEN he feels butthurt and comes back for revenge?
I doubt all scorps are like that - but just in case they are, I will stay the hell away from them!!!

I really don't give a rats ass what you grasp or don't grasp. I answered the original poster here.

Posted by MrFirebird

I think LIB was trying to get Manda to look inwardly at her own actions as she detected "head games"
going on.
IF Manda is playing head games with her scorp, then what goes around comes back around... hence... the
mirror.

TRANSLATION: I'm trying to get "Manda's" head out of her own ass and to move on.

Posted by scalpisces
how would he know its her playing headgames or just trying to protect herself from him?

I dont see where revenge is justified, ever - especially if you are too lazy to find out why somebody acted the way they did. Maybe its your own damn fault, but as long as we are self righteous we can just go around plotting our revenge - its always justified.

As I said before, Ill be staying away from Scorpios from now on. - you just cant do right with them obviously. You caugh, they feel upset about it and will hit you with a car to satisfy their revenge and its justified as long there is someone saying "what goes around comes around"

He coughed.

Posted by LetltB

Posted by MrFirebird

I think LIB was trying to get Manda to look inwardly at her own actions as she detected "head games"
going on.
IF Manda is playing head games with her scorp, then what goes around comes back around... hence... the
mirror.

TRANSLATION: I'm trying to get "Manda's" head out of her own ass and to move on.

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So there!
😉

Fair warning:
Don't ever play head games with a Scorp. It's stupid! Whatever the motives are, are likely stupid, as well! And you're not going to win.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Trying to get to the truth is not trying to get the upper hand. People play bullshit bluff games all day. Mirroring merely helps someone recognize their own truth.

Btw I don't think it's deliberate. Scorpios are shy. They mirror because its the safe choice.

As do fish.

We mirror feelings not actions. If someone hurts us we leave, we don't run around trying to "get even"

LIB And I dont give a rats ass about your view of life because you are to arrogant and too immature to accept other peoples opinion. We are here on a Forum and everyone can answer to every thread, you might want to get used to it or only have phone conversations from now on!!
And if I feel asking you HOW YOU MEANT something that you POSTED to a PUBLIC page then I will do that, regardless of what you think.

Posted by scalpisces
We mirror feelings not actions. If someone hurts us we leave, we don't run around trying to "get even"

LIB And I dont give a rats ass about your view of life because you are to arrogant and too immature to accept other peoples opinion. We are here on a Forum and everyone can answer to every thread, you might want to get used to it or only have phone conversations from now on!!
And if I feel asking you HOW YOU MEANT something that you POSTED to a PUBLIC page then I will do that, regardless of what you think.

HEY...

You speak for yourself and keep me out of your antics.
I do just fine on my own when I deem it necessary. Thank you.

Posted by IrresistableScorp

Posted by scalpisces

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Trying to get to the truth is not trying to get the upper hand. People play bullshit bluff games all day. Mirroring merely helps someone recognize their own truth.

Btw I don't think it's deliberate. Scorpios are shy. They mirror because its the safe choice.

As do fish.

We mirror feelings not actions. If someone hurts us we leave, we don't run around trying to "get even"

LIB And I dont give a rats ass about your view of life because you are to arrogant and too immature to accept other peoples opinion. We are here on a Forum and everyone can answer to every thread, you might want to get used to it or only have phone conversations from now on!!
And if I feel asking you HOW YOU MEANT something that you POSTED to a PUBLIC page then I will do that, regardless of what you think.

I've never gotten even with a lover in my life. Stop reading the Internet version of Scorpio please. If we loved someone and it doesn't work out we walk away with dignity not vindictive games.

Fish most certainly do mirror actions. They will throw your bullshit back in your face no problemo. What planet do you live on? Lol

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Speaks for itself, I dont even need to comment on that.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
I've never gotten even with a lover in my life. Stop reading the Internet version of Scorpio please. If we loved someone and it doesn't work out we walk away with dignity not vindictive games.

utter bullshit

there is no way you can be serious when you say this

Take back your power archer. You are the prize!