Scorp man in love with you?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by sweet&sour on Friday, October 26, 2007 and has 64 replies.

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@SouthernT
18 Years

I think that everybody's story can be summed up to "mixed signals" and "lack of communication". And I'm getting to a point to where I think this is not evan a Scorpio issue. I think it's just an issue in dating men period.

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@SouthernT
18 Years

Would you please share you story and how you two started out? So that I can see how it it's supposed to happen with a man?

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@SouthernT
18 Years

"I think cause she is in this dating thing for one year this means she is chosen
to be a good candiate in his eyes.

Regarding obession, I think she is not a person who would call him. She is very
cool. On the other hand she is suffering cause passion is knocking at her door.
well I guess."

who are you refering to Brad?

And TB....very good insight.

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@missmorals
20 Years10,000+ Posts

A scorpio will never fully know whether they want you or not...theres always something better.....when things are going too well...its like ok, I am bored....whats next..

That applies to me..not sure about anyone else...

Just stop trying to work us out....and you will live happily ever after...Get on with your own life as though you didn't have us in it...that way both parties are happy and relationship will be healthy as well.

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@Yum
18 Years1,000+ Posts

"1) Which part of the globe are you located?"

Israel.

"2) What's your favourite color?"

Don't have one.

"3) Do you have a girlfriend?"

See 2).

"4) Are you still a virgin?"

Nope.

"5) What are you studying in college?"

Sort of complicated.

"6) Where's your best pal Satyrs?"

She's in the USA, I think.

Anyway, it's been nice talking to you gals.

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@Scorpionlady
20 Years1,000+ Posts

LMAO....I find all this to be so funny....I think if my scrop friend act like that I would leave him for acting like a dam fool....I guess that must be the difference between the men and the women because I am not going to be that presisitent in getting no one I would walk away and deal with the hurt before I beg you to take me back or take me at all.

If I want you I am going to let you know..and if you say yea or nay then I will move on to the next phase.

I did not know that scorp men were so dam persisitent...I guess I better keep my eyes an ears open so that I will know when to walk away if that shit ever happens to me with my scorp friend. hahahahah

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@CapAngel
19 Years

"How to Lose a Scorpio:
-Show him who you are without reservation
-Tell him who you are without reservation
-Don't take him (or your relationship) seriously"

If you can't be yourself, then why bother?
Why not take the relationsihp seriously? I dont understand this.
Any Scorpios agree with that?

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@CapAngel
19 Years

"Sweet and sour, you said he wants to marry you and he always contacts you what are the mixed signals?"

From what I understand, there's no problems. She's just compiling info to help woman who have trouble reading their Scorpio guy.

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@CapAngel
19 Years

Hi Sagigoat
Thats something I would do, dress up and look all sexy or disguise yourself, then take off your mask. You got nothing to lose. But do what u feel is best. Hopefully you'll get a treat! 🙂

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@Queenscorpio
19 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

Persistant is what they are really! I told my scorp friend that if someone came along I liked and was compatible with, I might try a relationship with them.

He says: "I don't know how, because I am going to harrass the hell out of you. I won't let you go and he will run away."

I told him he was insane and needed therapy, then he said he was playing. He wasn't... He was dead serious. He smirked while saying it though. I told him I might have to bring harrassment charges against him.

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@Queenscorpio
19 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

***i'll be true to myself and dress up like a cute ghost to cover up myself completely including my face and get a feeling from him at the door first... i'll wear very casual and comfy inside (a fit T-shirt with a heart on it )***

Uhhh, negative, go with something sexy.

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@Queenscorpio
19 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

Candy g-string good idea, if you knew for sure he would get that far to taste the candy, but, the middle wear something sexy, and don't keep the ghost costume on long. Wear a sexy outfit and a mascarade mask, maybe a naughty little wig. He will definitely open the door and won't know its you. A ghost outfit? He may think you are a kid...

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@CapAngel
19 Years

YAYY! 🙂 *High Five* *spills popcorn*
I love that story, sounds just like a good movie. *makes more popcorn*
Did you get any explanation for his disappearance? I guess your apology was finally accepted last night 🙂 Did ya'll talk things out or was it more like it never happened?

For a second when you talked of the van, I thought the kids got kidnapped. And then I was expecting you to run down the van and save the kids lol. Ya, my Cancer moon imagination is very overactive coupled with some NYC paranoia.

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@El_Greca
20 Years

I was waiting to kiss you him damn it!!!! I love your story and I wanted so many times to wish you a happy ending sagi!!!
Waiting for your news!

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@pookie42
18 Years

well i am a virgo in a relationship with a scropio man for 8months now he is great,but you are right you never know what they are feeling he shows me in lots of ways that he cares,but in sept he left and moved back to his home town not far way about 2hrs , but we still comunicate , but i just done' know what to think? we had problems communicating, and i was so afraid, becuase things were moving fast, and he moved in , my family didn't like him, my friend didn't understand why i was with him, and that affected my decisions. i love him , and he tells me he loves me, but the distance is killing me. i fell so alone. i am not clingy type i love my space, and i allow him to have his. i haven't been wiht him sexually for about 10wks now, because things were going bad. he cam over this past weekend , becuase it was his b-day , and he brought friend i thought we were going to be together well that turned out bad i got angry , and again he punished me with no sex. what is going on in his mind. he calls , textes, but i just don't understand. i believe he loves me , but no as much as before. help me

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@pookie42
18 Years

well i am a virgo in a relationship with a scropio man for 8months now he is great,but you are right you never know what they are feeling he shows me in lots of ways that he cares,but in sept he left and moved back to his home town not far way about 2hrs , but we still comunicate , but i just done' know what to think? we had problems communicating, and i was so afraid, becuase things were moving fast, and he moved in , my family didn't like him, my friend didn't understand why i was with him, and that affected my decisions. i love him , and he tells me he loves me, but the distance is killing me. i fell so alone. i am not clingy type i love my space, and i allow him to have his. i haven't been wiht him sexually for about 10wks now, because things were going bad. he cam over this past weekend , becuase it was his b-day , and he brought friend i thought we were going to be together well that turned out bad i got angry , and again he punished me with no sex. what is going on in his mind. he calls , textes, but i just don't understand. i believe he loves me , but no as much as before. help me

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@CapAngel
19 Years

If it was his bday, he should celebrate it as he wants. Of course he'll punish you. Does he call you? How did 10 weeks past and no sex - did you/him not visit each other?

Wear nothing under your jacket & show up at his doorstep when you know he's home.

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@Queenscorpio
19 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

***And btw, I disagree with some of you here, sex is NOT the solution to everything. I infact respect a man much more who connects his emotion with the act of sex***

And this is the scorp way, for the males especially. So more sex, more emotional connection...

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@Queenscorpio
19 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

*** think some Scorpio men by nature has difficulty expressing what bothers them or their true self openly / voluntarily***

I can't for the life of me seem to figure out why I don't have this problem with scorp men, libra men or any other sign who so many women claim are hard to open up. They spill their gutts to me, so excuse me if I am baffled about all the posts re: Scorp men (and esp. Libra men on the libra board) not expressing themselves and people being confused about what they want...

I recently find that scorp men are very open and honest even about their feelings, even when they feel they might get rejected.

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@CapAngel
19 Years

"I recently find that scorp men are very open and honest even about their feelings, even when they feel they might get rejected."

True. My experience has been the same. He is so expressive that it encouraged me to be expressive. His openness helped me to be more open. This is what I love about him and our relationship. I don't have communication problems that other girls with Scorpios have. We discuss every issue and resolve it right away. I am very direct so once I put the question out there, he answers and leaves me with no doubt. He told me this has been his best relationship when it comes to communication & honesty.

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