Scorpio and Aquarius parents

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I have a Scorpio mum and an Aquarius dad. Honestly it is not a good mix.
And yes we are a dysfunctional family, but I have to say I'm glad we are, it keeps things interesting for the most part. In saying that though, I feel my parents are still only together because of fear of being alone. After nearly 30 years together, they hate each other as much as they love each other.
My mum is a typical Scorpio, controlling, possessive and jealous but she has her reasons. My dad has cheated and mistreated her over the years and though he doesn't want to be with any other woman, he doesn't seem to understand the concept of respect when it comes to her needs of security. He hasn't cheated (as far as we know) for many years, but sometimes his behaviour is inappropriate in a sense that it disrespects their union.
He too can be jealous and controlling, more so then her. When I was younger and she would want to catch up with her friends or go out for a night out to dance and let her hair down, he would absolutely lose his temper, causing some kind of a fight so she would stay home in fear of leaving us at home with him. Her wanting to see her friends or go out was a very rare Occassion, maybe once or twice a year but in the end her friends stopped inviting her places or to events because they knew she'd either say no or cancel at the last minute. She would make up some excuse like she was tired after working all week or tht one of us kids were sick so her friends wouldn't grow resentment towards my dad, but I think they knew it was his doing.
My mum is very family orientated, she honestly is the backbone of the family. I'm not sure that my dad is, I love the man but he's very selfish. He tries to manipulate us all into being scared of the world, instilling fear into us so that we feel we need him, when in actual fact it's he who needs us. He and I get into a lot of arguments (I never hold any resentment though) because I'm very independent and he knows I don't need him. He will never admit it though, but he is without a doubt one of the most dependant people I know. Wouldn't even know how to call a doctor and make an appointment for himself If he were sick, he's always relied on my mum for everything.
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I have a Scorpio mum and an Aquarius dad. Honestly it is not a good mix.
And yes we are a dysfunctional family, but I have to say I'm glad we are, it keeps things interesting for the most part. In saying that though, I feel my parents are still only together because of fear of being alone. After nearly 30 years together, they hate each other as much as they love each other.
My mum is a typical Scorpio, controlling, possessive and jealous but she has her reasons. My dad has cheated and mistreated her over the years and though he doesn't want to be with any other woman, he doesn't seem to understand the concept of respect when it comes to her needs of security. He hasn't cheated (as far as we know) for many years, but sometimes his behaviour is inappropriate in a sense that it disrespects their union.
He too can be jealous and controlling, more so then her. When I was younger and she would want to catch up with her friends or go out for a night out to dance and let her hair down, he would absolutely lose his temper, causing some kind of a fight so she would stay home in fear of leaving us at home with him. Her wanting to see her friends or go out was a very rare Occassion, maybe once or twice a year but in the end her friends stopped inviting her places or to events because they knew she'd either say no or cancel at the last minute. She would make up some excuse like she was tired after working all week or tht one of us kids were sick so her friends wouldn't grow resentment towards my dad, but I think they knew it was his doing.
My mum is very family orientated, she honestly is the backbone of the family. I'm not sure that my dad is, I love the man but he's very selfish. He tries to manipulate us all into being scared of the world, instilling fear into us so that we feel we need him, when in actual fact it's he who needs us. He and I get into a lot of arguments (I never hold any resentment though) because I'm very independent and he knows I don't need him. He will never admit it though, but he is without a doubt one of the most dependant people I know. Wouldn't even know how to call a doctor and make an appointment for himself If he were sick, he's always relied on my mum for everything.
This is very familiar to me, and I'm not a Scorpio.
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I have a Scorpio mum and an Aquarius dad. Honestly it is not a good mix.
And yes we are a dysfunctional family, but I have to say I'm glad we are, it keeps things interesting for the most part. In saying that though, I feel my parents are still only together because of fear of being alone. After nearly 30 years together, they hate each other as much as they love each other.
My mum is a typical Scorpio, controlling, possessive and jealous but she has her reasons. My dad has cheated and mistreated her over the years and though he doesn't want to be with any other woman, he doesn't seem to understand the concept of respect when it comes to her needs of security. He hasn't cheated (as far as we know) for many years, but sometimes his behaviour is inappropriate in a sense that it disrespects their union.
He too can be jealous and controlling, more so then her. When I was younger and she would want to catch up with her friends or go out for a night out to dance and let her hair down, he would absolutely lose his temper, causing some kind of a fight so she would stay home in fear of leaving us at home with him. Her wanting to see her friends or go out was a very rare Occassion, maybe once or twice a year but in the end her friends stopped inviting her places or to events because they knew she'd either say no or cancel at the last minute. She would make up some excuse like she was tired after working all week or tht one of us kids were sick so her friends wouldn't grow resentment towards my dad, but I think they knew it was his doing.
My mum is very family orientated, she honestly is the backbone of the family. I'm not sure that my dad is, I love the man but he's very selfish. He tries to manipulate us all into being scared of the world, instilling fear into us so that we feel we need him, when in actual fact it's he who needs us. He and I get into a lot of arguments (I never hold any resentment though) because I'm very independent and he knows I don't need him. He will never admit it though, but he is without a doubt one of the most dependant people I know. Wouldn't even know how to call a doctor and make an appointment for himself If he were sick, he's always relied on my mum for everything.
Thanks for sharing.

I find so much irony in that. You would think your Aquarius dad understood the importance of space. I wonder what moons your parents have.
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I don't know the times of their birth but based off of the information I do know, I believe my mums moon is in Taurus and my dads is in virgo.

It's funny though because I am also a Scorpio (think the name may have given it away) and my brother is an Aquarius. I think we both managed to possess less of the dark/bad qualities of our star signs thanks to recognising them in our parents and not wanting to turn out like them, being as unhappy as they are in their lives.
I love my family and wouldn't choose any other over mine, but as to answer your question; perhaps Scorpio and Aquarius can make a good romantic duo (I've always been a fan of the stories that out beat the odds) but from my personal experience they just don't mesh well together.
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I think that combination would be amusing to witness. They're both weird af.

What kind of parents do you think they'd be?

Scorpio dad/Aquarius mom
Aquarius dad/Scorpio mom

Shit I have a Aqua mum with Scorpio moon
And a Scorpio dad with Leo moon


fuck my life I'm Scorpio with libra moon

Aqua mum keeps me from killing myself on many occasion where as my dad makes me wanna do it more


Fucking mad af house full of aquas and scorpios (Scorpio brother who has a mad af Aqua girl and I'm fucked in the head bc of Aqua dude with scorp moon)


Any one out there who can top my tragic life come battle me for the weird as fuck title

No jokes here I'm dead serious .......
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I think that combination would be amusing to witness. They're both weird af.

What kind of parents do you think they'd be?

Scorpio dad/Aquarius mom
Aquarius dad/Scorpio mom

Shit I have a Aqua mum with Scorpio moon
And a Scorpio dad with Leo moon


fuck my life I'm Scorpio with libra moon

Aqua mum keeps me from killing myself on many occasion where as my dad makes me wanna do it more


Fucking mad af house full of aquas and scorpios (Scorpio brother who has a mad af Aqua girl and I'm fucked in the head bc of Aqua dude with scorp moon)


Any one out there who can top my tragic life come battle me for the weird as fuck title

No jokes here I'm dead serious .......
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Oh, it's on, Tinxy....

What do you want first?
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I think that combination would be amusing to witness. They're both weird af.

What kind of parents do you think they'd be?

Scorpio dad/Aquarius mom
Aquarius dad/Scorpio mom

Shit I have a Aqua mum with Scorpio moon
And a Scorpio dad with Leo moon


fuck my life I'm Scorpio with libra moon

Aqua mum keeps me from killing myself on many occasion where as my dad makes me wanna do it more


Fucking mad af house full of aquas and scorpios (Scorpio brother who has a mad af Aqua girl and I'm fucked in the head bc of Aqua dude with scorp moon)


Any one out there who can top my tragic life come battle me for the weird as fuck title

No jokes here I'm dead serious .......
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Aw I would think you'd be able to relate with your father as well 😢

Omg what is with Scorpio and Aqua parents breeding more Scorps or Aquas.
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I think that combination would be amusing to witness. They're both weird af.

What kind of parents do you think they'd be?

Scorpio dad/Aquarius mom
Aquarius dad/Scorpio mom

Shit I have a Aqua mum with Scorpio moon
And a Scorpio dad with Leo moon


fuck my life I'm Scorpio with libra moon

Aqua mum keeps me from killing myself on many occasion where as my dad makes me wanna do it more


Fucking mad af house full of aquas and scorpios (Scorpio brother who has a mad af Aqua girl and I'm fucked in the head bc of Aqua dude with scorp moon)


Any one out there who can top my tragic life come battle me for the weird as fuck title

No jokes here I'm dead serious .......
Oh, it's on, Tinxy....

What do you want first?
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😄 loooooooool

Go for it please make me feel better xx
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😄 loooooooool

Go for it please make me feel better xx

LOL...

Mom Gem sun / either Scorpio or Libra moon (no birth time)/Taurus venus

Dad Virgo sun / aqua moon, cap mars

The fights were EPIC. Mom screaming and crying at the top of her lungs while dad sits there, lips pursed, arms crossed. Mom slamming the front door on her way out to nobody knew where. Virgo brothers and me just disgusted, Cancer sister is out of sight.

This happened just about every 2 months growing up.

I've disowned my Cancer sister due to serious crazytown behavior. Actually, she kind of disowned the rest of the family before anyone else, but still demands her fair share of whatever she wants, whuch changes bi monthly. I can't remember her birthday but she's an attention whore to the nth degree. The perpetual victim.

Then there's me and the aqua...opposites attract, love for sure but serious knock down, drag out fightd between his Ares Mars and my Leo mars in the beginning. My Libra venus just sits back while my scorp Neptune befuddles his (aqua) venus.
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LOL...

Mom Gem sun / either Scorpio or Libra moon (no birth time)/Taurus venus

Dad Virgo sun / aqua moon, cap mars

The fights were EPIC. Mom screaming and crying at the top of her lungs while dad sits there, lips pursed, arms crossed. Mom slamming the front door on her way out to nobody knew where. Virgo brothers and me just disgusted, Cancer sister is out of sight.

This happened just about every 2 months growing up.

I've disowned my Cancer sister due to serious crazytown behavior. Actually, she kind of disowned the rest of the family before anyone else, but still demands her fair share of whatever she wants, whuch changes bi monthly. I can't remember her birthday but she's an attention whore to the nth degree. The perpetual victim.

Then there's me and the aqua...opposites attract, love for sure but serious knock down, drag out fightd between his Ares Mars and my Leo mars in the beginning. My Libra venus just sits back while my scorp Neptune befuddles his (aqua) venus.
Aww 😢 Wow

Children following after their parents by being attracted to the supposedly least compatible. I wish you luck!
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LOL...

Mom Gem sun / either Scorpio or Libra moon (no birth time)/Taurus venus

Dad Virgo sun / aqua moon, cap mars

The fights were EPIC. Mom screaming and crying at the top of her lungs while dad sits there, lips pursed, arms crossed. Mom slamming the front door on her way out to nobody knew where. Virgo brothers and me just disgusted, Cancer sister is out of sight.

This happened just about every 2 months growing up.

I've disowned my Cancer sister due to serious crazytown behavior. Actually, she kind of disowned the rest of the family before anyone else, but still demands her fair share of whatever she wants, whuch changes bi monthly. I can't remember her birthday but she's an attention whore to the nth degree. The perpetual victim.

Then there's me and the aqua...opposites attract, love for sure but serious knock down, drag out fightd between his Ares Mars and my Leo mars in the beginning. My Libra venus just sits back while my scorp Neptune befuddles his (aqua) venus.
Aww 😢 Wow

Children following after their parents by being attracted to the supposedly least compatible. I wish you luck!
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how is that not compatible?? one has an aquarius moon to the sun sign. and all the other placements are in place.

Bruce Willis with aquarius moon, pisces sun, married happily with his 2nd wife who is a Gemini sun. (dont know her planets)

and i was just mentioning Billy Graham. Scorpio sun with dominant Sagittarius, and he married a Gemini sun happily. the list goes on and on.
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LOL...

Mom Gem sun / either Scorpio or Libra moon (no birth time)/Taurus venus

Dad Virgo sun / aqua moon, cap mars

The fights were EPIC. Mom screaming and crying at the top of her lungs while dad sits there, lips pursed, arms crossed. Mom slamming the front door on her way out to nobody knew where. Virgo brothers and me just disgusted, Cancer sister is out of sight.

This happened just about every 2 months growing up.

I've disowned my Cancer sister due to serious crazytown behavior. Actually, she kind of disowned the rest of the family before anyone else, but still demands her fair share of whatever she wants, whuch changes bi monthly. I can't remember her birthday but she's an attention whore to the nth degree. The perpetual victim.

Then there's me and the aqua...opposites attract, love for sure but serious knock down, drag out fightd between his Ares Mars and my Leo mars in the beginning. My Libra venus just sits back while my scorp Neptune befuddles his (aqua) venus.
Aww 😢 Wow

Children following after their parents by being attracted to the supposedly least compatible. I wish you luck!

how is that not compatible?? one has an aquarius moon to the sun sign. and all the other placements are in place.

Bruce Willis with aquarius moon, pisces sun, married happily with his 2nd wife who is a Gemini sun. (dont know her planets)

and i was just mentioning Billy Graham. Scorpio sun with dominant Sagittarius, and he married a Gemini sun happily. the list goes on and on.
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Celebrities are not real people !!
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how come Bruce willis and his Scorpio ex wife didnt last?? SEE— not all trine even want to be together even IF they were together.
-282 Square Sun - Mercury

Challenging aspect: Lack of understanding between the two persons can frequently cause disruptions. They may not have the same intellectual interests or the same tastes and this can result in problems understanding each other or feeling as if they are on the same page. This could lead to conflicts, lies, etc.


-89 Opposition Moon - Saturn

Negative aspect: Planetary aspect that does not augur well for a life together, it will bring disappointment.

-82 Square Moon - Pluto

Negative aspect: Great physical attraction, uncontrolled passion, possessiveness, jealousy and suffocation. This relationship can become very negative because it is destructive rather than constructive. Problems can arise on the sexual level. It will be very difficult to get over this relationship, if it is possible to get over it.


-56 Opposition Mars - Uranus

Negative aspect: They make each other impatient and easily frustrate each other. The sexual attraction is unique and powerful at first, seeming to arise suddenly and unexpectedly. However, it is a temperamental attraction and can leave just as suddenly. Erratic responses to each other.


-37 Opposition Mars - Pluto

Negative aspect: Sexual passion leading to destruction. It will be very difficult to pick oneself up after such a relationship. If it ends, there are likely to be hard feelings.



Of course there are some beautiful aspects as well, that's why they're still married after 56 years.

But all of the above? Oh yeah. (This is assuming a Libra moon)
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Horrible.

Aqua mum, scorp dad. Only child. Got divorced when I was 4.

Lived in the middle of a constant war involving court: mom sued dad for more child support, dad sued mom for total custody one year before I turned 18 (legal age when you stop being a child in my country) and so on until my dad passed away when I was 18. After he died my mum says "I shouldn't have divorced him, I was bored, our lives would have been easier if we stayed married" F**k u mom.
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Horrible.

Aqua mum, scorp dad. Only child. Got divorced when I was 4.

Lived in the middle of a constant war involving court: mom sued dad for more child support, dad sued mom for total custody one year before I turned 18 (legal age when you stop being a child in my country) and so on until my dad passed away when I was 18. After he died my mum says "I shouldn't have divorced him, I was bored, our lives would have been easier if we stayed married" F**k u mom.
Sorry for the awkward +1, on phone

I'm sorry about your dad. Er astrology can not prevail.

There must be some hope for this match.
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I'm scorpio and also have a continuous emotional war with my aqua mum.

I agree with you that astrology is not the only factor on my own personal demons. There is so much more than a sun sign in life.

I lost hope in this paring because what I explained, you asked for experience that was mine. Wish you the best though, I wish to be wrong in your case, even though I don't believe I'm wrong, does that make sense to you?