Scorpio Comes Back

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I have this woman in my life who keeps popping back in my life. We first mate in College.

So way back in college, she had a crush on me. I also liked her but I never approached her for a relationship because I thought she was too good for me. I believed I was labeled as one of the bad boys back in college. My friends kept insisting that I should approach her for a relationship. But I was a little stubborn.

Just a few a months ago she sent a friend request on FB. I have been chatting with her like every month or week or so. I feel like I should approach her this time. She seems to be doing well. I have been healing from a break up with a Virgo which happened about a year ago. I still have feelings for the Virgo but on the other hand I feel like I am ready to go into another relationship. I am a Pisces-Aries cusp so sometimes I come out as aggressive and Indecisive. I don't want to ruin this thing I have with the Scorpio. How should I go about it, if I want to get her into a relationship with me I need help.
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Us scorps will sense that you still have feelings for someone else. If you truly are ready to move forward then you need to let that shit go completely. I know I do not want a man that harbors feelings for another woman.

Start off slow, ask to go for coffee and a catch up session. Be yourself and show her you've changed and you're not that bad boy type anymore. Be genuine, be real and I'm sure you'll be just fine. If you want this then go for it, no wishy washy stuff.
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If you have feelings for your ex, which you do, then you are NOT ready for a "new" relationship. Why do people do that? What is the f*****g hurry? No offense. That would neither be fair to you or the new interest. Heal. Relax. Reflect. It's that simple. Continue to build your friendship and learn of her without pulling her into something you are NOT honestly ready for.
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Posted by scorpio1108

Us scorps will sense that you still have feelings for someone else. If you truly are ready to move forward then you need to let that shit go completely. I know I do not want a man that harbors feelings for another woman.

Start off slow, ask to go for coffee and a catch up session. Be yourself and show her you've changed and you're not that bad boy type anymore. Be genuine, be real and I'm sure you'll be just fine. If you want this then go for it, no wishy washy stuff.




All of this! ❤️👏
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Posted by chris19

I have this woman in my life who keeps popping back in my life. We first mate in College.

So way back in college, she had a crush on me. I also liked her but I never approached her for a relationship because I thought she was too good for me. I believed I was labeled as one of the bad boys back in college. My friends kept insisting that I should approach her for a relationship. But I was a little stubborn.

Just a few a months ago she sent a friend request on FB. I have been chatting with her like every month or week or so. I feel like I should approach her this time. She seems to be doing well. I have been healing from a break up with a Virgo which happened about a year ago. I still have feelings for the Virgo but on the other hand I feel like I am ready to go into another relationship. I am a Pisces-Aries cusp so sometimes I come out as aggressive and Indecisive. I don't want to ruin this thing I have with the Scorpio. How should I go about it, if I want to get her into a relationship with me I need help.

Your post sounds gsy mentioning your emotional healing and not approaching the girl in question because you thought she was to good for you. Grow a pair and ask her out. She's probably wondering what does it take to get you to be proactive.
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I asked for her phone number and she gave me. I am planning to call her by this weekend.

Now coming back to the Virgo. I have been watching Pisces and Virgo for April tarot readings on Youtube. Most of them say I am going to find new love or an old lover might return in the near future (maybe in about 8 months or so). The readings say its a relationship which ended badly and left the parties involved in suspense or some kind of heartbreak. The Virgo readings also reveal similar a situation. I have a feeling its the Virgo whose going to show up. Because she left me without a clear explanation.

As mentioned above I have been trying to get together with the Scorpio for a couple of months now. Some how I have felt like taking it slow. I am still reflecting on the past relationship with the Virgo. As to what I did wrong and not to repeat the same mistake I did. I realized I was aggressive and impatient with the Virgo. One thing for sure is that I want to let go of the Virgo. It is surely happening everyday but I feel like one year is a long time.

I got her number yesterday, I want to call her when she is free. I also don't know if she is dating some one else or married. What should I ask the Scorpio? What do Scorpios like to talk about?