Scorpio guy

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by aftershine on Wednesday, March 8, 2017 and has 25 replies.

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@aftershine
12 Years

This scorpio guy legit came upto me and wanted to be friends. I was all ok but quite frankly i didnt care, i would go about my own business and he would always come up and talk to me. Then it got a bit weird:

1) he asks me how many guy friends i have and then when i mention my guy bff his reply is you should date him. I mention how nice a guy classmate was and he replies with "oh so hes not gay?"

2) i was talking a guy from my class and then he sees it and once the dude is gone the scorp guy says "oh i didnt know you were friends with that boy" then gives me the cold shoulder for the entire day

3) he has been ignoring me? Idk what i did, i havent lied or done anything un-friendlike

I just dont get it

Keep in mind that i dont have much/any exp with scorpio men

Im in college btw

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@aftershine
12 Years

Well he wont have a chance in hell with me if he cant even be consistent and upfront. I despise mind games, but why ignore me? Is that something scorpios do?

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@femme
10 Years500+ Posts

I'm not trying to make excuses for the man, but he probably thinks you have all these men at your beck and call now lol

But you're right he needs to be upfront instead of whatever it is he's doing.

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@femme
10 Years500+ Posts

Lol I might've been exaggerating a little bit. He seems really territorial when it comes to you interacting with other men though.

I don't know if you like him as just a friend or something more, but when you get the chance you should ask him about it.

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@femme
10 Years500+ Posts

Posted by halalbabe
These kind of Scorpios need a mommy, Cancer types

Ignore, ignore, ignore, every time he starts talking to you again

I think there's a chance she might like him, I was trying to figure that part out.

But do you think he wants her to chase him?

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@13th
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by LadyNeptune
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Despite what he's said, he's not interested in being friends. And apparently too much of a pussy to court you like a man.

like a man? hes a college kid. smh

Your kidding. Right?

no im not..theyre college kids.

They are grown. If they are old enough to smoke and drink and vote they are old enough to man up.

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Good point. but youre lookin at it wrong...we cant get rejected by smoke or a drink..that girl can reject him...whole different ball game, we talking abt feelings here, not some vice. I wish another scorpio guy says he could care less abt rejection from women...No way do we like that shit..Some other signs (in general) take it on the chin like its nothing.

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@aftershine
12 Years

I cant say that i like him but I'm interested (Im a cautious gem). So it'll take longer than a week of interest in him for me to deem this as an actual crush.

We've been friends for a month

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@13th
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by aftershine
I cant say that i like him but I'm interested (Im a cautious gem). So it'll take longer than a week of interest in him for me to deem this as an actual crush.

We've been friends for a month

You crazy kids have fun.. lol good luck 🙂

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@aftershine
12 Years

Idk taurus moon and scorpio sun the placement themselves seem intense i wouldnt know tho my sun and moon are gemini.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by 13th
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by 13th
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by 13th
Posted by LadyNeptune
Despite what he's said, he's not interested in being friends. And apparently too much of a pussy to court you like a man.

like a man? hes a college kid. smh

Your kidding. Right?

no im not..theyre college kids.

They are grown. If they are old enough to smoke and drink and vote they are old enough to man up.

Good point. but youre lookin at it wrong...we cant get rejected by smoke or a drink..that girl can reject him...whole different ball game, we talking abt feelings here, not some vice. I wish another scorpio guy says he could care less abt rejection from women...No way do we like that shit..Some other signs (in general) take it on the chin like its nothing.

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I'm not looking at it wrong. If your too chicken shit to go after what you want like a man than you get called a pussy. The pussy label stays.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by aftershine
I cant say that i like him but I'm interested (Im a cautious gem). So it'll take longer than a week of interest in him for me to deem this as an actual crush.

We've been friends for a month

You haven't been friends for a month. Your not friends period. Real friends don't get upset if you have other male friends. He used the 'friends' thing as an excuse to get close to you cause he's thirsty for that ass.

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@aftershine
12 Years

Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by 13th
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by 13th
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by 13th
Posted by LadyNeptune
Despite what he's said, he's not interested in being friends. And apparently too much of a pussy to court you like a man.

like a man? hes a college kid. smh

Your kidding. Right?

no im not..theyre college kids.

They are grown. If they are old enough to smoke and drink and vote they are old enough to man up.

Good point. but youre lookin at it wrong...we cant get rejected by smoke or a drink..that girl can reject him...whole different ball game, we talking abt feelings here, not some vice. I wish another scorpio guy says he could care less abt rejection from women...No way do we like that shit..Some other signs (in general) take it on the chin like its nothing.

I'm not looking at it wrong. If your too chicken shit to go after what you want like a man than you get called a pussy. The pussy label stays.

I think she just called you a pussy, @13th.

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.....kinda not helpful

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@aftershine
12 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by aftershine
I cant say that i like him but I'm interested (Im a cautious gem). So it'll take longer than a week of interest in him for me to deem this as an actual crush.

We've been friends for a month

You haven't been friends for a month. Your not friends period. Real friends don't get upset if you have other male friends. He used the 'friends' thing as an excuse to get close to you cause he's thirsty for that ass.

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okay

then

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@aftershine
12 Years

Posted by Infinite8
Posted by aftershine
Well he wont have a chance in hell with me if he cant even be consistent and upfront. I despise mind games, but why ignore me? Is that something scorpios do?

It's what immature guys will do when they don't get their way.

Don't let it affect you. ? It's him, not you.

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IKR, it gets on my nerves, my venus in aries despises gray areas in romance. I prefer confrontations, honesty over this hiding behind the bushes shit