Scorpio Hermits

Hello my fellow scorpios it's been a while since I posted anything. I've been traveling enjoying a great summer and I will be visiting Cancun next week I am super excited. Aside from that I wanted to make a forum about usbeing hermits and loners. I went on a road trip with a Leo girl to visit our Aquaruis friend for a girls night out. In the midst of us hanging out having fun I found myslf being irritated and annoyed and just wanting to be myself. That loner feelng came out of nowhere when at first I wa joking around being social having a good time. Example: We went to the Galleria in Houston we all just laughing and shopping and I got really annoyed with the Leo girl. She is the oveweight one in the group but her personailty is really chill. I was annoyed with her making comments about how us skinny girls can wear anything and when we would go to stores that had both our sizes she would pick up things i picked up or if I said oh I like this top or jewelry piece she would say "oh I was looking at that!" it was really annoying and I just wanted to shop alone the rest of the week. She did the same thing with our aquaruis friend asking where she got her shoes from and went bought ones exactly like hers. I literally rolled my eyes and was irritated the rest of the day. I like people who have their own fashion and style not copy what their friends wear and I wasn't flattered that she would copy me. Another time was when we went out to this hot night club and before we went there we pregame to get some drinks. She just was concerned about food the whole time being sour in the club not dancing or anything and she rushed to order her food first after the club. I was over if it wasn't for my aqaurius friend to keep things light and fun I wouldve packed my bags sooner and went home. When we finally arrived back home I was so happy to be alone I went out and had lunch alone the next day enjoying my own company,

Bascially this post is about us being loners and prefer our company and being irritated by people quickly. Has anyone expierenced a Leo friend doing this or any other sign? I know us scorps like orginaity and annoyed with being mocked by people. Why we are we such loners and hermits?

twodrinkminimum she is actually in the process of losing weight we do yoga together but i have noticed her slacking lately I ask her to come to the gym all the time so if she has a problem with her weight then she can change that. Making backhand compliments about my shape and repeating how skinny girls can wear anything is the annoying part. The food part annoyed me but picking up clothing biting my style irritated me the most that's why I prefer to shop alone. I don't care about her being overweight I try to avoid being shallow with friendships but I notice when Im with attractive nice figure females I'm not irritated as much or have to worry about jealousy.

Oct29 Yeah I get annoyed quick and perfer my alone time a lot I have more fun being by myself. The trip was ok I don't why once we got there she was acting strange my Aqauruis friend kept asking her why she was being so boring I felt like she wanted to have attention on her she even set in the car in the middle of us being at the night club.

Posted by Forren
Not a scorp, but I have an older sister exactly the same way, so I can relate to this. We are both Cancers, but she has a Leo moon and I have a Scorp moon. She is extroverted always has a smile on her face, very sunny personality, which always striked me as fake and not geniune. We do not get along at all. Always telling me why I don't smile and laugh more often, bla bla bla. I do, but not around people my 'gut' tells me are bad to open up to.

I have a leo moon too. Yur scorp moon gives you more intuition and we can see who is being fake genuine. I am an introvert I can be extrovert every once in a while I have to be in the mood. Did your older sister did the copying thing too?

I wasn't referring to that part Rabbit when I said being a loner but ok. I was annoyed that she chose to act like that when we got in town. She never did that before. I can get in the loner mood at any time I wasd giving an example on how I get annoyed with people and perfer to be alone. My life isn't perfect but if I'm spending my money to go on vacation I want to have fun without someone trying to sabatoage the trip out of their insecurity. I had fun at the club either way the copying part bothered me the most honestly. I rarely go out I just went out because I was on a trip when I'm in my city I workout and chill at home mostly which makes me a loner. I started taking these vacations because I've been working really hard towards my career but after awhile of having fun I just want to be alone.

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i saw it rabbit and i agree.

Posted by Octoberbaby91
Oct29 Yeah I get annoyed quick and perfer my alone time a lot I have more fun being by myself. The trip was ok I don't why once we got there she was acting strange my Aqauruis friend kept asking her why she was being so boring I felt like she wanted to have attention on her she even set in the car in the middle of us being at the night club.

lol @ this.

My Virgo sister (with no Leo placements but Mars and Venus in Scorp) once found a summer gown at the same moment a gf of us found it. In the same store. The girl asked her not to buy it. LOL

My sister did buy it. LOL

They were never ever friendly to each other. LOL

My 99 problems are of other types.

I agree with hermit thing. But texts say the four signs Leo, Virgo, Libra and Scorp are social signs (my sis is active on fb which I'm not). Maybe they are alternating social and hermit?

Posted by DwellingOnMove
My Virgo sister (with no Leo placements but Mars and Venus in Scorp) once found a summer gown at the same moment a gf of us found it. In the same store. The girl asked her not to buy it. LOL

My sister did buy it. LOL

They were never ever friendly to each other. LOL

My 99 problems are of other types.

I agree with hermit thing. But texts say the four signs Leo, Virgo, Libra and Scorp are social signs (my sis is active on fb which I'm not). Maybe they are alternating social and hermit?

LOL virgos are mutable I had a virgo friend who wanted the nail polishes I picked out when we would go get our nails done so annoying and i would always change the color an sh would be like oh I wanted that color super annying haha lol

Posted by SingASong41
Admit it. This thread was made to complain about your Leo friend lol. She only needs support. It's good that you ask her to go to the gym with you and you encourage her by doing yoga together.

My Leo friends need reassurance sometimes, especially if they are going through a hard time--like with anyone. They are very original & complete sweethearts. You aren't the only one to like your style, maybe she does too. Maybe she saw how great it looked on you and thought it would look nice on her too. Maybe she wasn't copying you and she genuinely liked it.. so if you see strangers walking around with the same clothes you bought, they are unoriginal and copying you? There are hundreds of copies of certain clothing made for a reason.

Maybe if you had gone with different friends you wouldn't have felt the need to be alone so much? Certain people can be draining... I can't imagine what it must be like for a water sign nonetheless. I hope next time you will fully enjoy yourself. The Leo was clearly projecting her insecurities, so if you can't handle that, invite someone more fun and confident.

I admit I'm complaining at the same time as being a hermit. I can't be around any of my friends that long I get annoyed quickly lol. Trust me I observe and she was doing to me and the aquarius that was not concidence at all. She would go right behind me and pick up the same shirt and I would put it down go find something else I don't want to look like my friends. That morning we were getting dress and I had on jeans she was like why you didnt tell me to pack jeans I'm like because I didn't have to wear your own style like wtf I don't want to walk around looking like twins. She did the same thing when I had on shorts the day before it was annoying. She bought the same shoes my aqauruis had on and she try to buy 7 of the items I picked out. Yesterday I went shopping alone so she couldn't try to sabotage my shopping. Following trends is a different thing because anyone can take ideas and make it their own but to try to buy the exact same thing is creepy to me. I can dress very well but it's never a compliment for someone to mock me I like having my own style I'm creative.

I'm good at motivating my friends but they have to help themselves so if she don't like the way she look she can change that without insulting my shape. She is cool to h

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she is cool to hangout at the gym with and dinner but for shopping and traveling I think I would hit up another one of my friends for that. Maybe I do attract insecure girls because some overweight women have confidence to. My aquaruis friend bought along a coworker to go out with she was overweight but she was very confident and pretty I liked her energy and she had style.

sorry Forren I thought you were girl I didn't see your photo...some Leo girls are followers i do noticed that and I get what you are saying. I'm socially antisocial I have to be in the mood to talk but I'm too shy to be a extrovert having drinks usually loosen me up lol.

You are so pretty!

my leo best friend has her own style and she is very confident. she is also very sweet, caring, and giving. i love that girl; she is like my sister. my aqua best friend is laid back, kind, and has a cool demeanor. i love her too. when we hang out, we have fun and like each others' company. when i want to be alone, its not because i am annoyed. sometimes i feel overwhelmed when im around crowds of people and i need to be alone. it is draining. but when my friends come around, its always good to see them. your leo friend does sound very insecure. maybe she will snap out of it one day. have patience.

Posted by lnana04
You are so pretty!

Thank you 🙂

Posted by LadyYin
my leo best friend has her own style and she is very confident. she is also very sweet, caring, and giving. i love that girl; she is like my sister. my aqua best friend is laid back, kind, and has a cool demeanor. i love her too. when we hang out, we have fun and like each others' company. when i want to be alone, its not because i am annoyed. sometimes i feel overwhelmed when im around crowds of people and i need to be alone. it is draining. but when my friends come around, its always good to see them. your leo friend does sound very insecure. maybe she will snap out of it one day. have patience.

I get overwhelmed with large crowds too. I don't have many gfs honestly I just prefer to do things alone most of the time and I always end up ending the friendship with most of them because they get on my nerves sometimes lol. Of course the ones I end it with was a good benefit for me I was attracting the wrong type of people. I can be patient but I don't see her as long term at all. I met her threw my brother he use to date her but she seemed cool now she's showing her annoying traits so idk how long this will last lol I sound like a guy when it comes to girls o just can't deal with them sometimes.

ah, i do understand. maybe you getting annoyed is your spirit's way of telling you that she's not the one to hang with. i do believe with each frustration towards her, the small bond that you guys do have will fade until it is nonexistent. i cant deal with some types of girls myself. i get really annoyed. then i phase them out. if i dont, i might end up hurting their feelings. i dont want to do that lol.

Cancer's can be just as much of a loner I can go for a few days not talking to anybody I can be pretty antisocial, I'm not into parties or large groups of people.

and you are very pretty.

@stilt46 It is really rare when I'm in the mood to be around groups and crowds. When too many of my relatives come over I'm in my room doing my own thing idk why but that's just me. I'm also sensitive to energy I don't like when people project their bad energy onto me. Also when I do engage im still on the outside looking in and I catch all kind of subliminal mess going on I shake my head and go back to my room.

@ladyyin thank you 🙂 . I knew from the beginning actually that it will fade I already have a plan on when I will end it which would be when my semester starts I'll be way too busy to hangout anyway. Also, yes it was always for the better I end a friendship with a sag girl because all she wanted to do was party and she had no morals. She wanted to start a fight with me and try to hook up with a guy that liked me but I didn't even liked him I just laughed at her and made a mental note I was right to end it 🙂

I feel Cancer and Scorpio's are very introverted, groups and crowds actually make be very uneasy.

Posted by Stihl46
I feel Cancer and Scorpio's are very introverted, groups and crowds actually make be very uneasy.

I'm still very shy even as an adult I'm slowly overcoming it but being a introvert is just who I am. A lot of extrovert people come off as trying to hard and followers to me. People are surprised when you don't care what they think and do your own thing

Posted by Octoberbaby91

Posted by Stihl46
I feel Cancer and Scorpio's are very introverted, groups and crowds actually make be very uneasy.

I'm still very shy even as an adult I'm slowly overcoming it but being a introvert is just who I am. A lot of extrovert people come off as trying to hard and followers to me. People are surprised when you don't care what they think and do your own thing

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I'm working on my shyness I used to be really bad I decided to see if I could change that which I have, being around groups wear me out I get tired and I need to zone out. People think I'm being rude, no I'm not I need some space to myself, then I get asked if I'm okay, grrr why can't you extroverted people understand introverted people need quiet time.

yes. i believe when you follow instincts you cannot go wrong. often there are people who do not even deserve our friendship. stay strong, lovely one.