Scorpio inner circle

Hey guys, I am curious about something related to the Scorpio inner circle. They say that it's reserved to a lucky few but one you're in, you're in for good.

So, I have finally made it into the inner circle of this Scorpio guy (Sun, AC, Venus, Uranus). It did take some years... but the issue is that this circle seems to be reserved for close friends only, and honestly I want to be more than close friends. I am now wondering if there is any chance to get there, or the innner circle is just it, with no further possibility.

I would love to hear from Scorpios their view on the inner circle, and also from other signs which have experienced this.

Thanks in advance.

Posted by INTJLioness
Hey guys, I am curious about something related to the Scorpio inner circle. They say that it's reserved to a lucky few but one you're in, you're in for good.

So, I have finally made it into the inner circle of this Scorpio guy (Sun, AC, Venus, Uranus). It did take some years... but the issue is that this circle seems to be reserved for close friends only, and honestly I want to be more than close friends. I am now wondering if there is any chance to get there, or the innner circle is just it, with no further possibility.

I would love to hear from Scorpios their view on the inner circle, and also from other signs which have experienced this.

Thanks in advance.

False. You f*ck up and you're out sooner than you think.

It doesn't require any special "trick" or any magical length of time. It could be one thing you did that shifted things for me or I simply sense something about you that allows me to feel safe and comfortable.

Anyway, this guy....is there some reason you're dancing around what you really want with him? The fact that it took "some years" suggest you are either passively waiting for him to notice you or there is something else going on. Is he dating or interested someone else?

I don't use the term inner circle but I imagine it's similar to saying the people we're the closest to by choice?

If I trust and care about someone enough for them to be one of my closest friends, then if I also have strong physical attraction to them something more could develop, absolutely, but when that's the case I'm going to be feeling/wanting more fairly early into knowing them, it wouldn't be drawn out over a long period of time.

People aren't necessarily my closest friends for good. I'd like that to be the case, but sometimes friendships don't last. I had a best friend for many years who I'm not friends with any more, for example. For reasons I may never fully understand, she started to be unethical and to treat a number of people, including me, poorly. My attempt to resolve that with her in a fair respectful way failed so I had to let the friendship go. But I have other long term friendships that have lasted - one of them close to 25 years. 🙂

Dear INTJLioness, please spare us the beating around the bush - what do you want from him and this situation?

Do you want to be in his inner circle as a friend, or do you want to be his lover?

Those are two very different circles of intimacy.

Once you have clarified we may then be able to help advise you. 🙂