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Posted by natural25
Saweetz, has totally lost sight of her own happiness in the process of trying to figure out this man.
Saweetz, let the doctors do that. How about, for now, you focus on yourself, and try to understand why you are willing to love so hard and receive so little in return for a man who you just started dating, and perhaps, might not know well at all.
What are your thought on that?
Oh, agreed .
Im headed to the gym for a run. Ill speak with you ladies in a few hours. 🙂
Aww you ladies are amazing . I sincerely appreciate everything you mentioned. I feel that walking away from him is a sense of guilt in some way if that make any sense? It's like caring for your family involved with this problem . I am not saying im happy I'm in such situation . I'm just happy I learnt to care for someone so deeply and learnt to love that way. You ladies could be right." Maybe I am the broken one after all . " I am yet to find the answer. Right now it's my "me" time. I need to still reflect on many many things . I need to learn and retreat like you scorpions. Its fascinating. At first I was so angry with the world.. With everything when I got myself into such situation . . I guess I learnt. If only , I make the commitment " after" knowing about the guy.. Things would be alot easier. Sadly my Taurus stubborn self is off limit here. It's all or nothing . The commitment is given . It's done. I don't see a rewind button anywhere.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by natural25
Saweetz, has totally lost sight of her own happiness in the process of trying to figure out this man.
Saweetz, let the doctors do that. How about, for now, you focus on yourself, and try to understand why you are willing to love so hard and receive so little in return for a man who you just started dating, and perhaps, might not know well at all.
What are your thought on that?
Oh, agreed .click to expand
I will come back with answers! It's 3 am here! Thanks ladies.. It's time to sleep !
Posted by saweetz1988
Aww you ladies are amazing . I sincerely appreciate everything you mentioned. I feel that walking away from him is a sense of guilt in some way if that make any sense? It's like caring for your family involved with this problem . I am not saying im happy I'm in such situation . I'm just happy I learnt to care for someone so deeply and learnt to love that way. You ladies could be right." Maybe I am the broken one after all . " I am yet to find the answer. Right now it's my "me" time. I need to still reflect on many many things . I need to learn and retreat like you scorpions. Its fascinating. At first I was so angry with the world.. With everything when I got myself into such situation . . I guess I learnt. If only , I make the commitment " after" knowing about the guy.. Things would be alot easier. Sadly my Taurus stubborn self is off limit here. It's all or nothing . The commitment is given . It's done. I don't see a rewind button anywhere.
No one called you "broken". Where did that come from? That was a rhetorical question. Just something you should ponder.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by saweetz1988
Aww you ladies are amazing . I sincerely appreciate everything you mentioned. I feel that walking away from him is a sense of guilt in some way if that make any sense? It's like caring for your family involved with this problem . I am not saying im happy I'm in such situation . I'm just happy I learnt to care for someone so deeply and learnt to love that way. You ladies could be right." Maybe I am the broken one after all . " I am yet to find the answer. Right now it's my "me" time. I need to still reflect on many many things . I need to learn and retreat like you scorpions. Its fascinating. At first I was so angry with the world.. With everything when I got myself into such situation . . I guess I learnt. If only , I make the commitment " after" knowing about the guy.. Things would be alot easier. Sadly my Taurus stubborn self is off limit here. It's all or nothing . The commitment is given . It's done. I don't see a rewind button anywhere.
No one called you "broken". Where did that come from? That was a rhetorical question. Just something you should ponder.click to expand
thank you. I will keep those thoughts in mind ..
...Day three......and damn it hurts......>
*it doesnt matter what we call ourselves as i know deep down theres always an *us* somewhere... *
This sentence made my toes curl. Not when it is a long term relationship, but in the beginning.
He already seems to be dealing with health which is not an easy time, for we think we are strong. If our body fails on us, there is a lot of fighting going inside.
Words don't matter so much when making big promises. Only time will tell if you will have *us* always somewhere.
This sentence made my toes curl. Not when it is a long term relationship, but in the beginning.
He already seems to be dealing with health which is not an easy time, for we think we are strong. If our body fails on us, there is a lot of fighting going inside.
Words don't matter so much when making big promises. Only time will tell if you will have *us* always somewhere.
Posted by FUMPosted by saweetz1988
...Day three......and damn it hurts......>click to expand
He has to get his ducks in a row.
It's an internal struggle. We may seem quiet, but our inner world when resolving issues is damn loud.
Don't worry, saweetz. Just trust in him that he includes you into one of his duck dealings. Just allow him to get to peace with himself. I'd say wait a week -- not more -- to contact him again.
http://sfhelp.org/gwc/gwc.htm<BR>
Check this link,hope it helps.
The scorp sure is a GWC described in the above link.He has to work on healing those 'wounds' as well besides the Biploar Disorder he has been diagnosed of before he can become 'whole' again which is a long and complicated process with no guarantees of complete success/no relapses.
Open up that non-receptive,1 track taurus mind of yours and get the following to penetrate your skull.This has to sink into your being and stay there.
-He can't be 'normal' because he is sick and is healing so no matter what you won't put balance back into the 'relationship'.
Check this link,hope it helps.
The scorp sure is a GWC described in the above link.He has to work on healing those 'wounds' as well besides the Biploar Disorder he has been diagnosed of before he can become 'whole' again which is a long and complicated process with no guarantees of complete success/no relapses.
Open up that non-receptive,1 track taurus mind of yours and get the following to penetrate your skull.This has to sink into your being and stay there.
-He can't be 'normal' because he is sick and is healing so no matter what you won't put balance back into the 'relationship'.
Also,go meet his therapist and all the other folks who are treating him and ask them if he is 'stable' enough to be able to enter into and sustain a relationship/closeness/attachments while he is being healed.
Take what they say seriously even if it conflicts with your taurean stubbornness and if they say he isn't or won't be for 'xyz time period',back off and stay away.
P.S-This is not a game of 'thrills' but serious business so snap out of the daydream mode and face facts.
Take what they say seriously even if it conflicts with your taurean stubbornness and if they say he isn't or won't be for 'xyz time period',back off and stay away.
P.S-This is not a game of 'thrills' but serious business so snap out of the daydream mode and face facts.
I see, I missed a whole chunk on the mental disorder.
If only Bipolar and takes his pills regularly, things might get normal. However all the other stuff of illness you are talking about is unclear if you should even consider getting into a relationship with this man.
If only Bipolar and takes his pills regularly, things might get normal. However all the other stuff of illness you are talking about is unclear if you should even consider getting into a relationship with this man.
Posted by FUM
I see, I missed a whole chunk on the mental disorder.
If only Bipolar and takes his pills regularly, things might get normal. However all the other stuff of illness you are talking about is unclear if you should even consider getting into a relationship with this man.
^^bingo
I just want tomclarify that he has "not" yet been diagnose with bipolar. He has other issues yes but not bipolar. Anyhow, i know he"s not capable of entering to any kimd of relationships. He needs to create one within himself first.
Posted by Scorpvenus
Also,go meet his therapist and all the other folks who are treating him and ask them if he is 'stable' enough to be able to enter into and sustain a relationship/closeness/attachments while he is being healed.
Take what they say seriously even if it conflicts with your taurean stubbornness and if they say he isn't or won't be for 'xyz time period',back off and stay away.
P.S-This is not a game of 'thrills' but serious business so snap out of the daydream mode and face facts.
Thank you, i have to find my way around meeting his therapist.
^^ saweetz - this is an issue of patient confidentiality. there is no way anyone treating your man will divulge even a sneeze to you.
i dated an unmedicated bipolar crab on & off for almost 4 years. it's only possible when they themselves are grounded enough to give. what you need to do is focus on being a pillar of strength for yourself and for him if he comes back around. if a man cannot tend to himself, he's not going to try and give what little he has to someone else. he needs all his strength just to survive.
although he may not be dx'd, it would behoove you to read up on bipolar and other possibilities to try and get a grasp on how they are in relationships. you're pairing a possible mental/emotional/mood disorder with an astrological sign and merc rx (thank god it's over) and you want answers?!?! it's not that easy 😢
i dated an unmedicated bipolar crab on & off for almost 4 years. it's only possible when they themselves are grounded enough to give. what you need to do is focus on being a pillar of strength for yourself and for him if he comes back around. if a man cannot tend to himself, he's not going to try and give what little he has to someone else. he needs all his strength just to survive.
although he may not be dx'd, it would behoove you to read up on bipolar and other possibilities to try and get a grasp on how they are in relationships. you're pairing a possible mental/emotional/mood disorder with an astrological sign and merc rx (thank god it's over) and you want answers?!?! it's not that easy 😢
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Agreed.
Agreed.
Which is why I always take what people post on this board with a grain of salt. It's always filtered through their eyes. Not enough to start diagnosing someone, even if she had provided me with a list of symptoms--it's still coming from her.
From my experience people hear a few labels and run with it, not knowing what they actually mean and they don't get the proper help they needs because they are focused on the wrong thing. It's like taking allergy medicine for the flu. That was all I was trying to avoid with my post. He has a doctor, so he's in good hands imo. All of this was taking away from the real focus, which is saweetz and what she struggles with. As I've written before: