Scorpio moon when betrayed

What's the deal guys, how long does it last? I got betrayed by someone close to me and I can't feel much or anything for them. It's so strange to go from really loving and caring about someone to nothing.

Basically we had a stupid argument over something irrelevant. She got annoyed and brought some other people into it. Yeah not a fan of that at all.

So fellow Scorpio moons what stages do you go through when you feel betrayed?

Other Scorpio placements can answer this too if you like.

betrayal is a primal fear for scorpio moons...we are careful about who we let into our lives and hearts for this very reason ...some people have betrayed me in big ways and I was able to forgive them ...and other people have betrayed me in small ways and i just couldn't trust them after that ...

Posted by Cancan26
betrayal is a primal fear for scorpio moons...we are careful about who we let into our lives and hearts for this very reason ...some people have betrayed me in big ways and I was able to forgive them ...and other people have betrayed me in small ways and i just couldn't trust them after that ...

Same here, it's so strange. Sometimes I feel like I have no control that feeling of betrayal, even after rationalising it wasn't a huge deal.

Posted by Cancan26
betrayal is a primal fear for scorpio moons...we are careful about who we let into our lives and hearts for this very reason ...some people have betrayed me in big ways and I was able to forgive them ...and other people have betrayed me in small ways and i just couldn't trust them after that ...

My sun betrays me often.

As in, even though I may see red flags in someone's behaviour, I either don't pay enough attention to address it or I'm too deluded to notice.

I would say I am the reverse of Cancan - small ways get me thinking about the circumstances and I may still interact with you, but I won't trust you.

Betrayal in a big way though usually results in me cutting that person off completely.

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Posted by Cancan26
betrayal is a primal fear for scorpio moons...we are careful about who we let into our lives and hearts for this very reason ...some people have betrayed me in big ways and I was able to forgive them ...and other people have betrayed me in small ways and i just couldn't trust them after that ...

Same here, it's so strange. Sometimes I feel like I have no control that feeling of betrayal, even after rationalising it wasn't a huge deal.

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same...like for example me accepting help is a big deal (I guess its a pride thing) so if this is EVER thrown back in my face at any point ...I will not trust you ...in mind ..it feels like you threw a time when I needed you back in my face ...its a small thing ..but its something that deeply hurts me

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Posted by Cancan26
betrayal is a primal fear for scorpio moons...we are careful about who we let into our lives and hearts for this very reason ...some people have betrayed me in big ways and I was able to forgive them ...and other people have betrayed me in small ways and i just couldn't trust them after that ...

My sun betrays me often.

As in, even though I may see red flags in someone's behaviour, I either don't pay enough attention to address it or I'm too deluded to notice.

I would say I am the reverse of Cancan - small ways get me thinking about the circumstances and I may still interact with you, but I won't trust you.

Betrayal in a big way though usually results in me cutting that person off completely.

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I understand that too. I actually feel like when someone betrays me then I see all the other flaws in the behaviour that I was overlooking before. Then it's like uh oh, Pandora's box is well and truly open lol.

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Posted by Cancan26
betrayal is a primal fear for scorpio moons...we are careful about who we let into our lives and hearts for this very reason ...some people have betrayed me in big ways and I was able to forgive them ...and other people have betrayed me in small ways and i just couldn't trust them after that ...

Same here, it's so strange. Sometimes I feel like I have no control that feeling of betrayal, even after rationalising it wasn't a huge deal.

same...like for example me accepting help is a big deal (I guess its a pride thing) so if this is EVER thrown back in my face at any point ...I will not trust you ...in mind ..it feels like you threw a time when I needed you back in my face ...its a small thing ..but its something that deeply hurts me

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That's very well put. I completely agree with that. I think it's hard for us to trust in the first place. So when betrayal happens we question everything.

lol regardless even if you forgive it won't be the same at least that's how I am.

Posted by Stinger408scorp
lol regardless even if you forgive it won't be the same at least that's how I am.

lol that's where I'm at right now. Just hoping I can move beyond it.

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lol regardless even if you forgive it won't be the same at least that's how I am.

lol that's where I'm at right now. Just hoping I can move beyond it.

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You could if you want to but it's gonna be tough bruh been dealing with the same prob for a very long time myself.

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Posted by Stinger408scorp
lol regardless even if you forgive it won't be the same at least that's how I am.

lol that's where I'm at right now. Just hoping I can move beyond it.

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Piece of advise always keep your emotions in check and never make decisions when your mad.

There is no rhyme or reason for me when it comes to betrayal. I have forgiven ppl that you would think I was insane to forgive, and then iced out ppl that would on the surface seem easier to forgive. I think when I get to that place, it becomes instinct for me. Did you betray me because that's who you are or was it something done from hurt or something I can understand and I make those decisions based on my instincts rather than what you say. And I am aware that this may not make any sense at all.

How many of you guys withdraw as soon as soon as you've betrayed? Then how long does it take for you to confront the person?

Posted by Solitude
Why is that detachment strange?

You shouldn't want to commit to deceit and betrayal.

Very good point. However I do wonder if we're more sensitive that we should be sometimes. I feel like most other placements and signs can forgive and get past something. That it takes us longer or we don't truly forgive deep down inside. Also I feel like with Scorpio moons I've seen a lot supposedly forgive but when an opportunity arises to cut someone out they take it. Say a siblings who partner that I don't like for whatver reason because they had issues but made pace with.

Posted by Explicit
I think the quote "I can forgive, but I will NEVER forget" was made for Scorpio Moons. lol.

Sometimes it takes them years and years to forgive, even if they have no contact left with the person who betrayed them, but they're smart and intuitive enough to know that they're not forgiving for the other person, they forgive for themselves so they're not haunted by the anger and resentment of the betrayal.

If you don't let go, you will get dragged. That's just life. You can never be happy carrying a bunch of anger and resentment around. Sometimes you just have to realize that hurt people hurt people. It's not an excuse but it's a good way to look at it. People who are in pain or wounded in some way hurt others.

That's a great point. I totally know what you mean. I forgot that sometimes not everyone can handle things the way we do. Sometimes it is the other person coping mechanism. Not trying to condone someone's behaviour like that but i feel like Scorpio moons can take a lot more than the average when it comes to emotions .