Need advice from all scorpio moons

New here.. And wanted to get advice why this scorpio moon I'm dating is so back and forth with me. She was very persistent saying she loves me gm txt everyday. Then we have a falling out and it the end of the world.. Sometimes is draining I don't know if I have another go around to do this. So I go silent about my day only forever to txt me saying hey or we talking or not. I communicate only for her to rip me apart, but I don't fall for it I just keep calm and act like her not caring doesn't bother me like she has to complete fuck me up it's disturbing. One minute she blocking me ibdont bother her at all for her to come and say hey are we not talking. What wrong with this girl. Please help

How old are you guys? And what's your placements?

Tread carefully then.

Scorpio moons like honesty. There seems to be some miscommunication here. I think she wanted you to ask her for an honest chat when she was ignoring you. Something along the lines of 'I know we had a falling out, and I think we should resolve this with everything out in the open'. You're acting like you don't care but you actually do. Why not make it clear to her that it's unacceptable?

Also, please tell us your other placements. I'm basing my answer off guesswork only.

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How old are you guys? And what's your placements?

FDTW! how are youuuu?

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How old are you guys? And what's your placements?

FDTW! how are youuuu?

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Muahzzzzzz okay and you?

On topic, IDK.

She's obviously not sure what she wants...

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How old are you guys? And what's your placements?

FDTW! how are youuuu?

Muahzzzzzz okay and you?

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I'm good! 🙂 .. Hows your back and how was your weekend...? Didn't see you around 😘

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
How old are you guys? And what's your placements?

FDTW! how are youuuu?

Muahzzzzzz okay and you?

I'm good! 🙂 .. Hows your back and how was your weekend...? Didn't see you around 😘

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You changed your avi, I like it... I am okay with my back but I try not to do anything straining. It was busy I did work. How was yours? How is class going?

JFC I couldn't read the OP.

Sounds like - but not really.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
How old are you guys? And what's your placements?

FDTW! how are youuuu?

Muahzzzzzz okay and you?

I'm good! 🙂 .. Hows your back and how was your weekend...? Didn't see you around 😘

You changed your avi, I like it... I am okay with my back but I try not to do anything straining. It was busy I did work. How was yours? How is class going?

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Thanks FDTW🙂

My weekend was okay.. Everything is okay 😄 ..haha.

Hey, what's your MBTI personality type??

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Posted by RumiL

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
How old are you guys? And what's your placements?

FDTW! how are youuuu?

Muahzzzzzz okay and you?

I'm good! 🙂 .. Hows your back and how was your weekend...? Didn't see you around 😘

You changed your avi, I like it... I am okay with my back but I try not to do anything straining. It was busy I did work. How was yours? How is class going?

Thanks FDTW🙂

My weekend was okay.. Everything is okay 😄 ..haha.

Hey, what's your MBTI personality type??

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INFJ and yours?

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Posted by RumiL

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by RumiL

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
How old are you guys? And what's your placements?

FDTW! how are youuuu?

Muahzzzzzz okay and you?

I'm good! 🙂 .. Hows your back and how was your weekend...? Didn't see you around 😘

You changed your avi, I like it... I am okay with my back but I try not to do anything straining. It was busy I did work. How was yours? How is class going?

Thanks FDTW🙂

My weekend was okay.. Everything is okay 😄 ..haha.

Hey, what's your MBTI personality type??

INFJ and yours?

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ISFJ! 🙂 IFJ are common :p

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Posted by RumiL

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by RumiL

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
How old are you guys? And what's your placements?

FDTW! how are youuuu?

Muahzzzzzz okay and you?

I'm good! 🙂 .. Hows your back and how was your weekend...? Didn't see you around 😘

You changed your avi, I like it... I am okay with my back but I try not to do anything straining. It was busy I did work. How was yours? How is class going?

Thanks FDTW🙂

My weekend was okay.. Everything is okay 😄 ..haha.

Hey, what's your MBTI personality type??

INFJ and yours?

ISFJ! 🙂 IFJ are common :p

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Posted by Btruerenee101
New here.. And wanted to get advice why this scorpio moon I'm dating is so back and forth with me. She was very persistent saying she loves me gm txt everyday. Then we have a falling out and it the end of the world.. Sometimes is draining I don't know if I have another go around to do this. So I go silent about my day only forever to txt me saying hey or we talking or not. I communicate only for her to rip me apart, but I don't fall for it I just keep calm and act like her not caring doesn't bother me like she has to complete fuck me up it's disturbing. One minute she blocking me ibdont bother her at all for her to come and say hey are we not talking. What wrong with this girl. Please help

It looks like she's hurt or feels slighted. She probably has very strong and complex feelings towards you... attraction, repulsion (by your apathetic behavior), resentment, attachment, etc. Based on how she's reacting and what she did at the beginning (chasing you), it looks like she took an enormous emotional risk with you.

If you like her enough and want something with her she WILL make you pay for whatever pain she thinks you've caused her. I think she realizes you're not as deep as her since you can't understand her nor seem to be able to communicate in her language. She feels love but is extremely protective of herself as she senses you are a different animal with a different way of thinking and emotional makeup.

Again, if you stick with her she will probably put you through hell and try to destroy any superficiality she perceives in you by trying to turn you inside out in an attempt to change you into someone she can connect with. Because to her, right now you're superficial and clueless AF.

With Scorpio Moon you are either in or out, hot or cold. So your half-assed approach at showing interest and your apathetic reactions are not helping your case. They are insulting to her as they signal your feelings are mediocre and lukewarm.

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This all damn day

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that lunar scorp moment when you realize the disconnect?

An ugly feeling of familarity ...

Your post was....touching. I mean you nailed everything ive evee felt but couldnt express.

I can recall some real connections i thought i had. To only be hit with the realization that i was wrong. Hits me like a ton of bricks

Nice job lady

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Posted by Btruerenee101
New here.. And wanted to get advice why this scorpio moon I'm dating is so back and forth with me. She was very persistent saying she loves me gm txt everyday. Then we have a falling out and it the end of the world.. Sometimes is draining I don't know if I have another go around to do this. So I go silent about my day only forever to txt me saying hey or we talking or not. I communicate only for her to rip me apart, but I don't fall for it I just keep calm and act like her not caring doesn't bother me like she has to complete fuck me up it's disturbing. One minute she blocking me ibdont bother her at all for her to come and say hey are we not talking. What wrong with this girl. Please help

It looks like she's hurt or feels slighted. She probably has very strong and complex feelings towards you... attraction, repulsion (by your apathetic behavior), resentment, attachment, etc. Based on how she's reacting and what she did at the beginning (chasing you), it looks like she took an enormous emotional risk with you.

If you like her enough and want something with her she WILL make you pay for whatever pain she thinks you've caused her. I think she realizes you're not as deep as her since you can't understand her nor seem to be able to communicate in her language. She feels love but is extremely protective of herself as she senses you are a different animal with a different way of thinking and emotional makeup.

Again, if you stick with her she will probably put you through hell and try to destroy any superficiality she perceives in you by trying to turn you inside out in an attempt to change you into someone she can connect with. Because to her, right now you're superficial and clueless AF.

With Scorpio Moon you are either in or out, hot or cold. So your half-assed approach at showing interest and your apathetic reactions are not helping your case. They are insulting to her as they signal your feelings are mediocre and lukewarm.

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what I have noticed, this is the key sentence : " she WILL make you pay for whatever pain she thinks you've caused her"........ more specifically she THINKS youve caused her...... their paranoia is what causing them to act like this.... they THINK you did something (or you did not do something) and you will never know what you did wrong, because 95 % of what you did wrong is in their head, and they react very strongly and vengeful to their own head-scenerios

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@Pandora101

Sometimes that's the case but I wasn't specifically referring to that alone. What I also meant by "thinks" is that someone can hurt you but if you take a look at the situation, that's not really the case (unless they physically hurt you). Instead you allowed the hurt to happen by giving this person power over your emotions. It happens all the time and many appear to be unaware of this.

I agree, but what the other person involved should do? you know, your scorp moon people have your head-scenerios and react to them, not to the real situation..... so the other person is like wth? where is this coming from? 🙂

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that lunar scorp moment when you realize the disconnect?

An ugly feeling of familarity ...

Your post was....touching. I mean you nailed everything ive evee felt but couldnt express.

I can recall some real connections i thought i had. To only be hit with the realization that i was wrong. Hits me like a ton of bricks

Nice job lady

Takes one to know one 😉

Does it feel like a validation when you realize the disconnect, do you withdraw and feel sad?

I found the sooner i accept it and move on the better. cause you know those poisoned feelings can pop up to the surface. So i neutralize them.

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Im currently neutralizing some emotions right now.

I knew said person to be a snake in the grass years ago but i gave her another chance.

Valdiation is a mixed blessing.

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@Pandora101

Sometimes that's the case but I wasn't specifically referring to that alone. What I also meant by "thinks" is that someone can hurt you but if you take a look at the situation, that's not really the case (unless they physically hurt you). Instead you allowed the hurt to happen by giving this person power over your emotions. It happens all the time and many appear to be unaware of this.

I agree, but what the other person involved should do? you know, your scorp moon people have your head-scenerios and react to them, not to the real situation..... so the other person is like wth? where is this coming from? 🙂

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Scorp moons dont talk. We feel. Even if it i made up something in my mind, my emotions are still based on your actions. Your actions still play a part.

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@Pandora101

Sometimes that's the case but I wasn't specifically referring to that alone. What I also meant by "thinks" is that someone can hurt you but if you take a look at the situation, that's not really the case (unless they physically hurt you). Instead you allowed the hurt to happen by giving this person power over your emotions. It happens all the time and many appear to be unaware of this.

I agree, but what the other person involved should do? you know, your scorp moon people have your head-scenerios and react to them, not to the real situation..... so the other person is like wth? where is this coming from? 🙂

Scorp moons dont talk. We feel. Even if it i made up something in my mind, my emotions are still based on your actions. Your actions still play a part.

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Scorp moons sometimes can not manage their own intensity. You said "your actions still play a part" - yes, a part, a small part 🙂 a trigger 🙂 the distrust is soo deeply rooted, that involves actions of all the other people, and if something anything! triggers this then comes the punishment, in whatever form🙂

its like this joke from animal world:

rabbit: I broke my shovel, nevermind, I will ask the bear to lend me his, I go and ask him

rabbit on its way, thinking: The bear is fine, he has a good shovel, he will lend it to me, he is nice person

after 100 meters, rabbit thinking: The bear is fine, but what if he would reject me?

after 500 meters, rabbit thinking: He would reject my request, surely, why he would lend his shovel to me?

after 1000 meters, rabbit thinking: The bear would never lend me his shovel, he would laugh at me

reaching the bear´s house, the bear opens the door with a smile and the rabbit says: You know, just put your damn shovel up into your a**

the bear: — wth??

🙂 you may say, that the bear has surely acted previously to trigger this, but its not the case and the point, the point is the deeply rooted untrust issue and unreasonable reactions (the "punishment") 🙂

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@Pandora101

Sometimes that's the case but I wasn't specifically referring to that alone. What I also meant by "thinks" is that someone can hurt you but if you take a look at the situation, that's not really the case (unless they physically hurt you). Instead you allowed the hurt to happen by giving this person power over your emotions. It happens all the time and many appear to be unaware of this.

I agree, but what the other person involved should do? you know, your scorp moon people have your head-scenerios and react to them, not to the real situation..... so the other person is like wth? where is this coming from? 🙂

Scorp moons dont talk. We feel. Even if it i made up something in my mind, my emotions are still based on your actions. Your actions still play a part.

Scorp moons sometimes can not manage their own intensity. You said "your actions still play a part" - yes, a part, a small part 🙂 a trigger 🙂 the distrust is soo deeply rooted, that involves actions of all the other people, and if something anything! triggers this then comes the punishment, in whatever form🙂

its like this joke from animal world:

rabbit: I broke my shovel, nevermind, I will ask the bear to lend me his, I go and ask him

rabbit on its way, thinking: The bear is fine, he has a good shovel, he will lend it to me, he is nice person

after 100 meters, rabbit thinking: The bear is fine, but what if he would reject me?

after 500 meters, rabbit thinking: He would reject my request, surely, why he would lend his shovel to me?

after 1000 meters, rabbit thinking: The bear would never lend me his shovel, he would laugh at me

reaching the bear´s house, the bear opens the door with a smile and the rabbit says: You know, just put your damn shovel up into your a**

the bear: — wth??

🙂 you may say, that the bear has surely acted previously to trigger this, but its not the case and the point, the point is the deeply rooted untrust issue and unreasonable reactions (the "punishment") 🙂

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Scorpio moon here and this hit the nail on the head...we are our own worst enemy in any form of relationship, romantic or not.