Redbull33
@Redbull33
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Posted by GeniassI would say you are dead on
She sounds hurt, IDK but she seems like she was mistreated in the past by an ex lover maybe? But that’s just me talking from little to no knowledge of the situation.

Posted by MyStarsShineOh yeah, I’ve been too. It affected me very much and changed several parts of me that I still discover till this very day. One day we will forgive and forget, not for anybody but for ourselves.Posted by GeniassI would say you are dead on
She sounds hurt, IDK but she seems like she was mistreated in the past by an ex lover maybe? But that’s just me talking from little to no knowledge of the situation.
I've been like this in the past.....it isn't game playing, it's due to huge vulnerabilityclick to expand

Posted by GeniassI get that totallyPosted by MyStarsShineOh yeah, I’ve been too. It affected me very much and changed several parts of me that I still discover till this very day. One day we will forgive and forget, not for anybody but for ourselves.Posted by GeniassI would say you are dead on
She sounds hurt, IDK but she seems like she was mistreated in the past by an ex lover maybe? But that’s just me talking from little to no knowledge of the situation.
I've been like this in the past.....it isn't game playing, it's due to huge vulnerability
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Posted by Redbull33Did the *I love you* happen when you were having sex, Redbull?
Yea shes been hurt by 2 different people.. last one was abusive. But I try to show her i care by always being there. I want to reach out to her but don't want to come off as needy since her replies are short. Just not sure why she'd say i love you when drunk since shes never crossed that line before
Posted by CreativeCapAt first it was because she was in a relationship with the abusive ex, and said she never does stuff like that (cheating). But after they broke up she said to leave her alone because she thought I wanted a relationship. Then comes back 7 months later. Never pushed me away from arguments or anything of the sort..
How come so many attempts at leaving you? What did you do to cause her to want to leave you? We’re there arguments?
Without hearing more. Her behavior sounds as if she is not satisfied with the relationship and wants out, but for whatever reason (maybe boredom, loneliness, you seduce her etc) she keeps coming back.
Posted by MyStarsShineNo it happened afterwards when we were going to sleep and completely out of nowhere.Posted by Redbull33Did the *I love you* happen when you were having sex, Redbull?
Yea shes been hurt by 2 different people.. last one was abusive. But I try to show her i care by always being there. I want to reach out to her but don't want to come off as needy since her replies are short. Just not sure why she'd say i love you when drunk since shes never crossed that line beforeclick to expand
Posted by Redbull33I mainly trying to decipher if it was genuine or if it was just drunk talk. Not sure if you Scorpios let out true emotions when you're drunk or whatPosted by MyStarsShineNo it happened afterwards when we were going to sleep and completely out of nowhere.Posted by Redbull33Did the *I love you* happen when you were having sex, Redbull?
Yea shes been hurt by 2 different people.. last one was abusive. But I try to show her i care by always being there. I want to reach out to her but don't want to come off as needy since her replies are short. Just not sure why she'd say i love you when drunk since shes never crossed that line beforeclick to expand
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeNo I haven't I just figured she needs some space so I gave her it
Have you ever talked to her directly about her hot and cold behavior before?

Posted by Redbull33Sounds like she needs time to heal from the abusePosted by MyStarsShineNo it happened afterwards when we were going to sleep and completely out of nowhere.Posted by Redbull33Did the *I love you* happen when you were having sex, Redbull?
Yea shes been hurt by 2 different people.. last one was abusive. But I try to show her i care by always being there. I want to reach out to her but don't want to come off as needy since her replies are short. Just not sure why she'd say i love you when drunk since shes never crossed that line beforeclick to expand
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeIt seems like every time I tried to be vulnerable to her invoice my genuine interest she backs away in fear of the thought of becoming too attached. Maybe unsure if I'll hurt her again or what. She's told me I treat her better than any man has ever treated her so I don't knowPosted by Redbull33Well after her space period is over, you should talk to her about thisPosted by UnusualVaginalDischargeNo I haven't I just figured she needs some space so I gave her it
Have you ever talked to her directly about her hot and cold behavior before?
Tell her how you feel and show her your vulnerabilityclick to expand

Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeWell that's why she broke up with her ex because he was abusive. Her father was not abusive eitherPosted by Redbull33These are deep psychological woundsPosted by UnusualVaginalDischargeIt seems like every time I tried to be vulnerable to her invoice my genuine interest she backs away in fear of the thought of becoming too attached. Maybe unsure if I'll hurt her again or what. She's told me I treat her better than any man has ever treated her so I don't knowPosted by Redbull33Well after her space period is over, you should talk to her about thisPosted by UnusualVaginalDischargeNo I haven't I just figured she needs some space so I gave her it
Have you ever talked to her directly about her hot and cold behavior before?
Tell her how you feel and show her your vulnerability
She needs therapy
You can’t fix her
She probably had an abusive or mean father figure
She will stick around you if you are abusive and controlling because that is what feels comfortable to her
Me for example, anybody who treats me well—I don’t like
Anyone who treats me like shit—I go crazy for him
I see my pattern and am trying to give nicer guys a chance
She needs to see this and want to change from withinclick to expand
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesIm in it for the long haul.. Ive invested too much to quit now. And i want to be there for her cause i feel like she needs someone to be. But then acts as if she doesnt by being so distant. She was sexually abused to. Just trying to figure out how to get closer without being annoying
I think you just need to keep showing her that you are there for her. She sounds like she really likes you and as others have pointed out she is very afraid to trust you and we all know how hard it is for a Scorpio to trust never mind a very wounded one. If you really want this you will need to reassure her as much as possible. If you can't see this through for the long haul it's best to walk away now to not cause further hurt and damage to her. If you love het, keep showing her as you are already doing.
I hope you two find love and happiness x
Remember also Scorpios connect through sex. If she been in an abusive relationship it could be her struggling with something that could of happened to her in the past. A painful memory but being with you in that beautiful way is causing all sorts of emotions.
Shrug hard to say in these situations when you don't know someone personally

Posted by Redbull33Have an open and honest conversation with herPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesIm in it for the long haul.. Ive invested too much to quit now. And i want to be there for her cause i feel like she needs someone to be. But then acts as if she doesnt by being so distant. She was sexually abused to. Just trying to figure out how to get closer without being annoying
I think you just need to keep showing her that you are there for her. She sounds like she really likes you and as others have pointed out she is very afraid to trust you and we all know how hard it is for a Scorpio to trust never mind a very wounded one. If you really want this you will need to reassure her as much as possible. If you can't see this through for the long haul it's best to walk away now to not cause further hurt and damage to her. If you love het, keep showing her as you are already doing.
I hope you two find love and happiness x
Remember also Scorpios connect through sex. If she been in an abusive relationship it could be her struggling with something that could of happened to her in the past. A painful memory but being with you in that beautiful way is causing all sorts of emotions.
Shrug hard to say in these situations when you don't know someone personallyclick to expand

Posted by bricklemarkLol literally
Wow a Scorpio not caring about your feelings, and crushing your emotions almost to death?
Sumthin ain't right 😂😂😂😂😂
I mean they're usually all strawberries and puppies in waterparks.
Posted by peachy06Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advicePosted by Redbull33We can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkclick to expand
Posted by ImpulsvI have initiated constantly, but do not want to come off as desperate because im not. Shes also is the type that gets non stop attention from other guys. 1k likes on photos etc. I'm just trying to understand the mindset behind this Behavior
No not a test
She wants you to man up
Tell her you love her n initiate constantly like a normal man would in prrsuit
Posted by TaniwhaWell then why doesn't she stay away? And I actually showered her with attention in the beginning.. almost too much. Then began backing off a bit when she did. No one likes a Stage 5 ClingerPosted by Redbull33Oh boy, this girl your frothing all over is trying to get away from you for a good reason by the looks of things bucko.Posted by peachy06Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advicePosted by Redbull33We can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkclick to expand
Posted by ImpulsvOf course I returned it. And thanks for your insight
Ok she told you she loved you
If you didn’t return it
I got my answer n try to move on
Posted by TaniwhaBecause I make my own waffles and do my own laundryPosted by Redbull33Then why doesn't she stay in your bed every other night and cook you waffles in the morning and do your laundry?Posted by TaniwhaWell then why doesn't she stay away? And I actually showered her with attention in the beginning.. almost too much. Then began backing off a bit when she did. No one likes a Stage 5 ClingerPosted by Redbull33Oh boy, this girl your frothing all over is trying to get away from you for a good reason by the looks of things bucko.Posted by peachy06Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advicePosted by Redbull33We can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkclick to expand
Posted by ellesbellesNot at all I've just seen enough of her posts to know she brings nothing but negative energy to everything she comments on.Posted by Redbull33Yeah, you should totally run out and find you a Scorpio woman. Your tact and manners are so to die for!Posted by peachy06Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advicePosted by Redbull33We can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drink
You should have them crawling all over you.
True colours much?click to expand
Posted by peachy06Manipulating me by treetrunking me everytime? Haha I guess I'll take that manipulation all day then..Posted by Redbull33Lmao what "negative energy" ? My life is good. However you sound like you were hurt. Only the truth hurts. That scorpio chick doesn't give a fuck about you, you're her toy and now I understand why she's manipulating you, you're a sensitive bitch. Grow some balls and move on.Posted by peachy06Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advicePosted by Redbull33We can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkclick to expand

Posted by Redbull33
I just need some serious insight please..
Im a taurus, shes a scopio sun/moon. We met about a year ago. When we first met she used to text me every day like i was the best thing that ever happened to her. Shed tell me how much she liked me. She's had a few bad relationships in the past. I was very sweet and caring and still am. When we had sex she would have a an emotional breakdown and tell me to lose her number. We would end up hanging out a few months later, sex again. Then she would tell me leave her alone. Blocked me from social media. Met up a month later, had sex again... told me to 'seriously leave her alone' so i did. We went 7 months without talking, i initiated contact and we hung out again for the first time recently. We had a good time, she stayed over we had sex again and then she told me she loved me for the 1st time.. but was drunk. Now shes acting distant
What is this. A test? I actually love her, and i think she knows it.. But i give her her space when she does this. I just don't know if I should keep pursuing or whats going thrunthat beautiful little mind of hers.

Posted by Redbull33i think you should be open to what this scorpio is sayingPosted by peachy06Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advicePosted by Redbull33We can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkclick to expand

Posted by Redbull33you can pay for likes and follows you know?Posted by ImpulsvI have initiated constantly, but do not want to come off as desperate because im not. Shes also is the type that gets non stop attention from other guys. 1k likes on photos etc. I'm just trying to understand the mindset behind this Behavior
No not a test
She wants you to man up
Tell her you love her n initiate constantly like a normal man would in prrsuitclick to expand

Posted by Redbull33not into negative energy?Posted by ellesbellesNot at all I've just seen enough of her posts to know she brings nothing but negative energy to everything she comments on.Posted by Redbull33Yeah, you should totally run out and find you a Scorpio woman. Your tact and manners are so to die for!Posted by peachy06Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advicePosted by Redbull33We can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drink
You should have them crawling all over you.
True colours much?click to expand

Posted by Redbull33lolPosted by peachy06Manipulating me by treetrunking me everytime? Haha I guess I'll take that manipulation all day then..Posted by Redbull33Lmao what "negative energy" ? My life is good. However you sound like you were hurt. Only the truth hurts. That scorpio chick doesn't give a fuck about you, you're her toy and now I understand why she's manipulating you, you're a sensitive bitch. Grow some balls and move on.Posted by peachy06Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advicePosted by Redbull33We can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkclick to expand

Posted by xoxscorpioAgreed.
She's using you. All she wants right now is sex from you hence why she tells you to leave her alone after and doesn't talk to you for a while. Once she gets what she wants at that time she's out. The whole I love you thing is just to keep you near. Her defense will be she was drunk. Move on

Posted by peachy06No ones whining* Just not seeking advice from a depressed invidivual who cant even spell..Posted by Redbull33Take it, choke up with it and stop whinning. Also don't date a scorpio if you don't like "negativity".Posted by peachy06Manipulating me by treetrunking me everytime? Haha I guess I'll take that manipulation all day then..Posted by Redbull33Lmao what "negative energy" ? My life is good. However you sound like you were hurt. Only the truth hurts. That scorpio chick doesn't give a fuck about you, you're her toy and now I understand why she's manipulating you, you're a sensitive bitch. Grow some balls and move on.Posted by peachy06Sure. You're just full of negative energy. I see all your depressing posts. You probably got slits all across your wrists and havnt been fucked in years. I don't want your emo advicePosted by Redbull33We can be good liars when we want to, if she trully loved you then she wouldn't go on and off all the time. But Taurus is too blind to see this.
Do you Scorpios just tell your treetrunk buddies that you love them when you've had too much to drinkclick to expand
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Im a taurus, shes a scopio sun/moon. We met about a year ago. When we first met she used to text me every day like i was the best thing that ever happened to her. Shed tell me how much she liked me. She's had a few bad relationships in the past. I was very sweet and caring and still am. When we had sex she would have a an emotional breakdown and tell me to lose her number. We would end up hanging out a few months later, sex again. Then she would tell me leave her alone. Blocked me from social media. Met up a month later, had sex again... told me to 'seriously leave her alone' so i did. We went 7 months without talking, i initiated contact and we hung out again for the first time recently. We had a good time, she stayed over we had sex again and then she told me she loved me for the 1st time.. but was drunk. Now shes acting distant
What is this. A test? I actually love her, and i think she knows it.. But i give her her space when she does this. I just don't know if I should keep pursuing or whats going thrunthat beautiful little mind of hers.