@Rituv13
14 Years
Good topic.
I used to be quite vindictive. As I've gotten older, I simply don't feel the need to "teach a lesson" to others like I have in the past. It seems I don't often get very angry or lose my temper. I now regard my old ways as childish and a clear sign of immaturity.
To give an example, there was a time when the thought of my ex-fiance suffering brought me great pleasure. In retrospect, that was because I wasn't actually over him. Now that I am, I hardly ever think of him, and when I do, my hope is that he becomes a better man for his own sake and that of his daughter. When I see him, I'm able to be cordial and keep it moving. The feeling now is concern more than anything.
I find that I have a high tolerance till I blow, but then it is over quickly.
i get rages, lol. proper red mist anger. usually when someone keeps me waiting for ages or if someone jumps ahead of me in a queue and also, if someone is bad-mouthing my kids...i instantly go for the jugular. it scares me tbh cos i am literally capable of doing anything when i've lost control like that.
these days i do yoga but i always used to do alot of martial arts...like extreme amounts, lol. martial arts gets all the agression out of you but it does kinda pump you up too whereas yoga is sooooo chillaxing...it's a much nicer way to channel negative energy like anger.
What do you do to control your anger ?
Still a work in progress. I literally jump from 0-100 within a matter of moments, but what that actually looks like depends on who you are and my (very fast) assessment of how much damage my words are about to cause. No one is immune. It just looks different from person to person. The only time I "manage" my anger or keep quiet is when I really don't a rat's ass about the person/what was said. I won't rage, but there will be absolutely no doubt in your mind that you're on my sh*t list.
*don't give a rat's ass
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Hi, This is basically for all the Scorpios.
We Scorpions are knows for our revenge and anger. How far is that true ?
I have seen that I normally don't get angry and have a great level of tolerance. But if I get angry, i really give the other person whom I am angry on my piece of mind and then its over.
My anger doesn't stay for long, but it spoils relations. I have actually lost 2 guys coz i gave them my piece of mind.
I have seen myself change with time, I am more tolerant now and control my anger, but is this same for others as well.
What do you do to control your anger ?