Scorpio's witholding sex (ladies) (Page 2)

"Virgs excel at practical caring - those little touches (lots of them in the background) that make life pleasant and care-free for the ones we love. But demonstrative, highly-charged, sweep you off your feet passionate is not in our vocabulary - we frankly don't comprehend it - it's not natural for us. We can be passionate, but it disturbs us when we are swept up in emotion, so we avoid it..."

This is why I don't date men that aren't demonstrative and passionate. My fellow Earth signs turn me off. If a man only showed me practical caring, I'd feel emotionally unsatisfied. Maybe its because my chart is mainly fire/water.

Caper - Be a man and make the first move. This is what is expected so live up to your role. Otherwise you may turn this girl off. Don't expect a woman to make the first move, it is your job, not ours! I don't care about modern expectations, men need to be bold & women need to allow them to take the lead (yes I'm in my 20s and I've taken the lead before but it just doesn't feel right and the guys' egos got inflated). I diss every man that thinks he can be passive and not make any moves, its such a big turnoff and shows me that the guy is either spoiled by other women, conceited or a coward.

I think caper is amazing...honestly, your patience and non-forcefulness (is that even a word?)!! are to be applauded. She must be pretty special 🙂

"I agree with capangel on some points........get to some dominating !!!!
it's way too much fun,to be honest, but i totally disagree that it's only a mans job to come-a-courting,to put it nicely......any women who just expects that a man should always do the legwork/initiating is ,in my mind,lazy,a little insecure,and to be blunt,totally selfish and insecure .........take it in turns,but don't keep a tally,"

I see where you're coming from (a little) but I am old-fashioned when it comes to dating and I'll be damned if a man expects ME to pursue him. A man needs to step up and show interest if he's interested. There's nothing insecure about a woman that expects a man to come up to her (which is tradition and there's a reason why tradition works in this case). I think its desperate & insecure if a woman chases a man. A confident woman can approach a man but thats not the norm in our society so a man really needs to understand that he shouldn't expect this behavior all the time. A man that doesn't approach women and expect them to do it all the time is insecure, selfish and lazy!

Amen CapAngel!!