Seriously do all men have a communication phobia??

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by FemmeScorpion on Thursday, May 5, 2011 and has 16 replies.

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The 2 ppl I wanted to get intouch with...msg me 10mins after each other. 5mins after I created this topic. How weird?.lol
Now the devil on my shoulder is telling me not to msg back. Let them sweat.🙂

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The texting/phone call game,is not even a star sign thing. I think all men try to apply the treat them mean keep them keen.
Its stupid really @ the beginning they text/phone you all the time because they want you to know they are keen.
Once you start liking them they cool off-start texting/phoning less.
So by trying to be less creepy they bring out the craziness in us.
Mmmmmmm wonder how many potential good relationships never take off/went sour because of this?? tutu

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Posted by SweetLibra

Posted by FemmeScorpion
The texting/phone call game,is not even a star sign thing. I think all men try to apply the treat them mean keep them keen.
Its stupid really @ the beginning they text/phone you all the time because they want you to know they are keen.
Once you start liking them they cool off-start texting/phoning less.
So by trying to be less creepy they bring out the craziness in us.
Mmmmmmm wonder how many potential good relationships never take off/went sour because of this?? tutu

I wonder that to. I dove back into the dating pool around a year ago and I have been experiencing this problem. It's gotten to the point that I tell the guy I prefer to talk on the phone or in person. I don't play the text game. If they seem put off by my preference, I have been just letting them fall by the wayside. Tells me upfront they weren't interested in anything whorthwhile. It's just lazy. You can't form a relationship via text message. It's so annoying.

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Good on you sweetheart.🙂

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Posted by FemmeScorpion
I am really interested in finding out why guys bombard you with text,bbm,emails one day then ignore you the next.
What the heck?

Horney one day, gone fishin't the next?

You seem interested one day, then not the next, but another girl seems interested?

Not at work one day, needs to work the next?

New iPhone one daym stolen iPhone the next?

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I am the smothering type.

I would never stop calling or be unapproachable ever. Would mean you did something really bad for me to avoid responding to a call or text.

I try my hardest to pace myself at the start of a romance, because nobody can believe that I can be into somebody day 1. I don't want to appear like a freak to be too attentive etc.

I do think that men not being communicative in relationships is the ultimate in horrible personality problems. It is one thing to want a day from the ball and chain, but another to institute a "never gonna talk more than a grunt" attitude. If you want to be that way, keep out of society, cuz you just annoy people being like that.

And speaking of whether it is an astrological thing or not, ummmm, isn't it a scorpio's divine trait to NOT TALK and NOT BE UP FRONT unless it involves returning a cartoon of eggs or defective item to the store?

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@dazed

maybe that is what we learn from each other, all of us Scorpio men and women, Aries men and women, that we believe each other the stronger, more confident, intimidating one, but secretly we want the other to understand we are worth getting to know despite all that talk of who is more this or that.

I can rest tonight thinking that, haha

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Posted by scorpiopics

Posted by FemmeScorpion
I am really interested in finding out why guys bombard you with text,bbm,emails one day then ignore you the next.
What the heck?

Horney one day, gone fishin't the next?

You seem interested one day, then not the next, but another girl seems interested?

Not at work one day, needs to work the next?

New iPhone one daym stolen iPhone the next?

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hahaha nice summary.🙂