
^^ right right. I hate when it cuts me off


Posted by LostMonster
Lol, actually.. He just ended it. Said he didn't wanna be friends anymore and said bye. Sooo I guess that's it. 🙂
Hurts reaaaaally badly, because he said a lot of awful things, and then I said a lot of awful things..
But I guess it's over now.

Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by LostMonster
Lol, actually.. He just ended it. Said he didn't wanna be friends anymore and said bye. Sooo I guess that's it. 🙂
Hurts reaaaaally badly, because he said a lot of awful things, and then I said a lot of awful things..
But I guess it's over now.
There ya goclick to expand

Posted by LostMonsterPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by LostMonster
Lol, actually.. He just ended it. Said he didn't wanna be friends anymore and said bye. Sooo I guess that's it. 🙂
Hurts reaaaaally badly, because he said a lot of awful things, and then I said a lot of awful things..
But I guess it's over now.
There ya go
Mmm, now to heal. I don't know how to do that. :/
Is he gonna contact me again?click to expand

Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by LostMonsterPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by LostMonster
Lol, actually.. He just ended it. Said he didn't wanna be friends anymore and said bye. Sooo I guess that's it. 🙂
Hurts reaaaaally badly, because he said a lot of awful things, and then I said a lot of awful things..
But I guess it's over now.
There ya go
Mmm, now to heal. I don't know how to do that. :/
Is he gonna contact me again?
Only if he breaks down. That usually won't though because they are pridefully.
Start dating someone elseclick to expand


Posted by LostMonsterPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by LostMonsterPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by LostMonster
Lol, actually.. He just ended it. Said he didn't wanna be friends anymore and said bye. Sooo I guess that's it. 🙂
Hurts reaaaaally badly, because he said a lot of awful things, and then I said a lot of awful things..
But I guess it's over now.
There ya go
Mmm, now to heal. I don't know how to do that. :/
Is he gonna contact me again?
Only if he breaks down. That usually won't though because they are pridefully.
Start dating someone else
Lol, rebound? Alright. I'll work on it. It's just a matter of finding someone better, haha.click to expand

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by LostMonster
-Sigh-
And he deleted me from Facebook. This is awfully suckish. xD
It's facebook, not life or death lolclick to expand


Posted by OceanDeep
I wouldn't rush into anyone right now. Two reasons. First and foremost, it's not right to drag someone into you trying to get over someone...human end of it. Second, if you run out and start dating someone then it only proves to him you couldn't have been all that serious about him, and he'll come back tenfold on you. Your best bet is to become an enigma. Make him wonder what's going on with you, stew about you..and all of this... kick himself, hate you, hate himself, sulk, and all of the above. You're playing with fire in both ways. Regroup yourself, take time to heal. Learn and grow from this. And really in the end, if he does come back? He wants to see you're still the girl he fell in love with but rose up from this and became better and stronger. But regardless if he comes back and whether permanently or not, you WILL be better and stronger...and either way it's a win-win for you because YOU became a better person. Remember, Scorps eventually (and most) become an eagle, and this is where you've probably read up on the most evolved...when they've risen up from the ashes. They expect their partners to be just as strong and good as they are, and rather than allow the fall to take them down..they want (and want their partners) to pick themselves up and grow and soar to the top of life, and become the best they can be. (Even if they might bring the drama in themselves, they'll self destruct and sting themselves to death just to get there lol).

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by OceanDeep
I wouldn't rush into anyone right now. Two reasons. First and foremost, it's not right to drag someone into you trying to get over someone...human end of it. Second, if you run out and start dating someone then it only proves to him you couldn't have been all that serious about him, and he'll come back tenfold on you. Your best bet is to become an enigma. Make him wonder what's going on with you, stew about you..and all of this... kick himself, hate you, hate himself, sulk, and all of the above. You're playing with fire in both ways. Regroup yourself, take time to heal. Learn and grow from this. And really in the end, if he does come back? He wants to see you're still the girl he fell in love with but rose up from this and became better and stronger. But regardless if he comes back and whether permanently or not, you WILL be better and stronger...and either way it's a win-win for you because YOU became a better person. Remember, Scorps eventually (and most) become an eagle, and this is where you've probably read up on the most evolved...when they've risen up from the ashes. They expect their partners to be just as strong and good as they are, and rather than allow the fall to take them down..they want (and want their partners) to pick themselves up and grow and soar to the top of life, and become the best they can be. (Even if they might bring the drama in themselves, they'll self destruct and sting themselves to death just to get there lol).
No. That's a game.
Best thing to do is get on with your life if that's what you want.
If it isn't, don't.
It doesn't so like you do though 🙂click to expand


Posted by LostMonster
He blocked me too. Meaning he won't be checking up and stalking me, haha.
I wouldn't worry about him coming back. :/ Pretty sure he's gone for good.
One thing he did say, before he broke our 'friendship.'
"You disappointed me. 😢 I deserve to be proud of the person I'm with." Right after his angry text about how awful I am
I think that really, really hurt me..
But he keeps dragging it out. :/ I did not reply to him. But he did. What the fuck does he want??
"I don't think saying someone who's insecure about their masculinity isn't a man is something you can apologize for."
Uhhh.. okay.. Then what do you want from me? A metal?

Posted by LostMonster
Lol, actually.. He just ended it. Said he didn't wanna be friends anymore and said bye. Sooo I guess that's it. 🙂
Hurts reaaaaally badly, because he said a lot of awful things, and then I said a lot of awful things..
But I guess it's over now.


Posted by DazedScorp
Girl, it sounds like he really doesn't want you to talk to him.
If my ex called me right now, it'd go something like this.
*ring*
Me: "hello?"
Her: "hey..."
Me: "Uhhhh, yeah?"
Her: "You want to go get a drink?"
Me: "Fuck no you skankass, clap giving, trashcan of a bitch, ho! You remember what happened last time?"
Her: "...."
Me: "By the way, I fucked your sister in case you didn't know already"
Her: "...."
Me: "...."
*click*

Posted by LostMonster
He blocked me too. Meaning he won't be checking up and stalking me, haha.
I wouldn't worry about him coming back. :/ Pretty sure he's gone for good.
One thing he did say, before he broke our 'friendship.'
"You disappointed me. 😢 I deserve to be proud of the person I'm with." Right after his angry text about how awful I am
I think that really, really hurt me..
But he keeps dragging it out. :/ I did not reply to him. But he did. What the fuck does he want??
"I don't think saying someone who's insecure about their masculinity isn't a man is something you can apologize for."
Uhhh.. okay.. Then what do you want from me? A metal?



Posted by DazedScorpPosted by DMVPosted by DazedScorp
Girl, it sounds like he really doesn't want you to talk to him.
If my ex called me right now, it'd go something like this.
*ring*
Me: "hello?"
Her: "hey..."
Me: "Uhhhh, yeah?"
Her: "You want to go get a drink?"
Me: "Fuck no you skankass, clap giving, trashcan of a bitch, ho! You remember what happened last time?"
Her: "...."
Me: "By the way, I fucked your sister in case you didn't know already"
Her: "...."
Me: "...."
*click*
damn gina..
Say what?click to expand

Posted by DazedScorp
Girl, it sounds like he really doesn't want you to talk to him.
If my ex called me right now, it'd go something like this.
*ring*
Me: "hello?"
Her: "hey..."
Me: "Uhhhh, yeah?"
Her: "You want to go get a drink?"
Me: "Fuck no you skankass, clap giving, trashcan of a bitch, ho! You remember what happened last time?"
Her: "...."
Me: "By the way, I fucked your sister in case you didn't know already"
Her: "...."
Me: "...."
*click*

Posted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
not a Martin Lawrence fan huh?
what i mean is, damn thats pretty rough. imagine if someone you liked said that 2 u.
She gave me the clap, what do you expect?click to expand

Posted by OceanDeepPosted by DazedScorp
Girl, it sounds like he really doesn't want you to talk to him.
If my ex called me right now, it'd go something like this.
*ring*
Me: "hello?"
Her: "hey..."
Me: "Uhhhh, yeah?"
Her: "You want to go get a drink?"
Me: "Fuck no you skankass, clap giving, trashcan of a bitch, ho! You remember what happened last time?"
Her: "...."
Me: "By the way, I fucked your sister in case you didn't know already"
Her: "...."
Me: "...."
*click*
Ding, ding, ding...whata we got for him Johnny 😉 This is EXACTLY what I meant in guarding HER heart and him coming back 10x and ten fold with OP if she just runs out and dates someone....great example Dazed. He's gonna mess her up and keep doing it until he grows bored...which could be 20 years from now....and it ain't gonna be pretty.click to expand

Posted by OceanDeep
No, it's not all about him. This is about her. And I don't think she should rush out and rebound...that just plain sucks,and someone always gets hurt. My point was that SHE needs to take this time and get over him...there's nothing wrong in that. The girl still loves him, so it's a win win for her if she properly heals rather than bury herself under blankets with some dude all to get over the treetrunker..then she's dragging someone else in, AND hiding from her feelings for tree trunker. It's IF and when (if he ever did come back) that he will want to know/see/realize/get/understand/be awed that she became a better person from all of this. SMH, when in life does it become bad to grow from it. And it's not playing games by becoming an enigma to him. Either way, it's no longer his business WHAT she does but if she runs out and starts dating then he knows both she couldn't have been all too serious (test, test, test) whether he wants her or not. We're talking a scorp here, he'll thrash her emotionally and mentally and everything that has happened up until this point will be worse by 10x and tenfold. That's a given, and a promise. This is about guarding and protecting HER heart, emotions and mind...from him.

Posted by OceanDeepPosted by DazedScorp
Girl, it sounds like he really doesn't want you to talk to him.
If my ex called me right now, it'd go something like this.
*ring*
Me: "hello?"
Her: "hey..."
Me: "Uhhhh, yeah?"
Her: "You want to go get a drink?"
Me: "Fuck no you skankass, clap giving, trashcan of a bitch, ho! You remember what happened last time?"
Her: "...."
Me: "By the way, I fucked your sister in case you didn't know already"
Her: "...."
Me: "...."
*click*
Ding, ding, ding...whata we got for him Johnny 😉 This is EXACTLY what I meant in guarding HER heart and him coming back 10x and ten fold with OP if she just runs out and dates someone....great example Dazed. He's gonna mess her up and keep doing it until he grows bored...which could be 20 years from now....and it ain't gonna be pretty.click to expand


Posted by DMV
@lost,
leave this dude alone. hes going to up the ante and get even more pissed off and then you will call him an asshole, etc.
you have to understand that this is not the actions of someone who likes you.

Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by DMV
@lost,
leave this dude alone. hes going to up the ante and get even more pissed off and then you will call him an asshole, etc.
you have to understand that this is not the actions of someone who likes you.
Ye[, skedaddle little one!click to expand

Posted by DMVPosted by OceanDeepPosted by DazedScorp
Girl, it sounds like he really doesn't want you to talk to him.
If my ex called me right now, it'd go something like this.
*ring*
Me: "hello?"
Her: "hey..."
Me: "Uhhhh, yeah?"
Her: "You want to go get a drink?"
Me: "Fuck no you skankass, clap giving, trashcan of a bitch, ho! You remember what happened last time?"
Her: "...."
Me: "By the way, I fucked your sister in case you didn't know already"
Her: "...."
Me: "...."
*click*
Ding, ding, ding...whata we got for him Johnny 😉 This is EXACTLY what I meant in guarding HER heart and him coming back 10x and ten fold with OP if she just runs out and dates someone....great example Dazed. He's gonna mess her up and keep doing it until he grows bored...which could be 20 years from now....and it ain't gonna be pretty.
weve all told her to stop contacting him....so at some point, she has to take responsibility.click to expand


Posted by DazedScorp
Only the experienced should play with my breed. Dangerous territory I tell you.


Posted by DazedScorpPosted by OceanDeep
Ding, ding, ding...whata we got for him Johnny 😉 This is EXACTLY what I meant in guarding HER heart and him coming back 10x and ten fold with OP if she just runs out and dates someone....great example Dazed. He's gonna mess her up and keep doing it until he grows bored...which could be 20 years from now....and it ain't gonna be pretty.
For your info, I haven't talked to my ex in about 6 months. She fucked me over. I've made it a point to never talk to her again.
You don't know what happened, so it's not exactly what you meant.
My example and the OPs are completely different.click to expand

Posted by LostMonsterPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by DMV
@lost,
leave this dude alone. hes going to up the ante and get even more pissed off and then you will call him an asshole, etc.
you have to understand that this is not the actions of someone who likes you.
Ye[, skedaddle little one!
I have been, but he keeps texting me...
He's slowed down a bit. He might be calming down, but I doubt it. He's still pointing out how I ruined things. I'm still being calm, though. If I hit a breaking point, I'll turn off my phone, cause I'm still texting other people as well.click to expand

Posted by DMVPosted by LostMonsterPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by DMV
@lost,
leave this dude alone. hes going to up the ante and get even more pissed off and then you will call him an asshole, etc.
you have to understand that this is not the actions of someone who likes you.
Ye[, skedaddle little one!
I have been, but he keeps texting me...
He's slowed down a bit. He might be calming down, but I doubt it. He's still pointing out how I ruined things. I'm still being calm, though. If I hit a breaking point, I'll turn off my phone, cause I'm still texting other people as well.
turn your phone off and forget he ever existed. the other ppl can wait till another day.click to expand

Posted by DazedScorpPosted by nimbuePosted by DazedScorp
Only the experienced should play with my breed. Dangerous territory I tell you.
hear, hear.
You want some dis?click to expand

Posted by DMV
turn your phone off and forget he ever existed. the other ppl can wait till another day.

Posted by LostMonsterPosted by DMV
turn your phone off and forget he ever existed. the other ppl can wait till another day.
He's resorted to contacting not so close friends of mine. xD It's honestly funny.
Whatever he says to them won't do anything. I'm really good with people.
I'm getting a bunch of messages from people I hardly talk to. Stuff like
"Uhhh, your crazy ex is messaging me and talking shit. What's his deal? o__O Damn." Haha.
If this is his idea of stinging, he should've just kept stringing me along. Hurt waaaay more than this sad attempt.click to expand

Posted by DazedScorpPosted by nimbuePosted by DazedScorpPosted by nimbuePosted by DazedScorp
Only the experienced should play with my breed. Dangerous territory I tell you.
hear, hear.
You want some dis?
i'm a veggie.
...
Meaning you don't like...um...meat?click to expand

Posted by LostMonsterPosted by DMV
turn your phone off and forget he ever existed. the other ppl can wait till another day.
He's resorted to contacting not so close friends of mine. xD It's honestly funny.
Whatever he says to them won't do anything. I'm really good with people.
I'm getting a bunch of messages from people I hardly talk to. Stuff like
"Uhhh, your crazy ex is messaging me and talking shit. What's his deal? o__O Damn." Haha.
If this is his idea of stinging, he should've just kept stringing me along. Hurt waaaay more than this sad attempt.click to expand

Posted by enniPosted by LostMonster
He's resorted to contacting not so close friends of mine. xD It's honestly funny.
Whatever he says to them won't do anything. I'm really good with people.
I'm getting a bunch of messages from people I hardly talk to. Stuff like
"Uhhh, your crazy ex is messaging me and talking shit. What's his deal? o__O Damn." Haha.
If this is his idea of stinging, he should've just kept stringing me along. Hurt waaaay more than this sad attempt.
OH FFS THAT SCORPIO KID IS IMMATURE. whatever don't get involved with this dumb immature scorpio's rumor, because it will always GO AROUND PEOPLE AND THEN BACK TO HIM AND THAT RUMOR will fade. Don't worry about him or that bullshit drama.click to expand

Posted by enni
sooooo since the main issue is resolved...so shall we have fun!?!? 😄 😄 😄 😄 PARTY TIME!

Posted by LostMonsterPosted by enniPosted by LostMonster
He's resorted to contacting not so close friends of mine. xD It's honestly funny.
Whatever he says to them won't do anything. I'm really good with people.
I'm getting a bunch of messages from people I hardly talk to. Stuff like
"Uhhh, your crazy ex is messaging me and talking shit. What's his deal? o__O Damn." Haha.
If this is his idea of stinging, he should've just kept stringing me along. Hurt waaaay more than this sad attempt.
OH FFS THAT SCORPIO KID IS IMMATURE. whatever don't get involved with this dumb immature scorpio's rumor, because it will always GO AROUND PEOPLE AND THEN BACK TO HIM AND THAT RUMOR will fade. Don't worry about him or that bullshit drama.
Oh yes, and he just won't quit. Just sitting here taking it.
Him: "I don't wanna be with you cause this and this and this."
Me: "Yep."
Him: "Yeah, oh well, huh?"
Me: "Mhm."
Him: "Anyway, I'm still full of disdain for you. You said mean things."
Me: "You did too. But I forgive you. Don't want you, though."
Him: "Really? So giving you another chance would be useless. Mkay. 🙂"
Me: "You wouldn't anyway. I'll take my awesomeness elsewhere."click to expand


Posted by everevolvingepithet
Stop texting. That's what you both want.🙂


Posted by everevolvingepithet
He asked her to stop texting just a moment ago (I'm assuming this is all live .....lol )
So respect those wishes ?

Posted by ellessque
seriously, stop texting. even if he is asking for a reply.
he'll keep going the longer you ignore him.
WE HATE being ignored.
you want to get under his skin......completely let him drop off the face of the earth in your world. no matter what.
arguing with him or telling him off will give him EXACTLY what he wants.
sometimes we feed off of drama.
don't feed the animals. 😛

Posted by enni
That's one of the way to get closure and move on...I did that to my ex so I felt better and moved on...

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by ellessque
seriously, stop texting. even if he is asking for a reply.
he'll keep going the longer you ignore him.
WE HATE being ignored.
you want to get under his skin......completely let him drop off the face of the earth in your world. no matter what.
arguing with him or telling him off will give him EXACTLY what he wants.
sometimes we feed off of drama.
don't feed the animals. 😛
He asked her to stop texting just a moment ago (I'm assuming this is all live .....lol )
So respect those wishes ?click to expand
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