Should I give up on this Scorpio? (Page 5)

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by LostMonster
Posted by ellessque
seriously, stop texting. even if he is asking for a reply.

he'll keep going the longer you ignore him.

WE HATE being ignored.

you want to get under his skin......completely let him drop off the face of the earth in your world. no matter what.

arguing with him or telling him off will give him EXACTLY what he wants.

sometimes we feed off of drama.

don't feed the animals. πŸ˜›

I'm starting to feel like I was being mean.. Should I at least wish him well and give him a proper goodbye?

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r u f'n kidding me

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@OceanDeep
15 Years1,000+ Posts

He's playing on you to guilt you. Yes, it's always nice to apologize and too when you know you've hurt someone it would and will be genuine. I'm really leaning though towards the end that if you say anything more or apologize, you've put the ball back in his court. Remember, when in doubt do nothing. If you feel you need to apologize, wait a bit. Anything too soon, and it's going to come across as insincere given the heat of it all...AND he knows that he put it out there that he was thinking about getting back together with you, and only AFTER this shyte hit the fan today. Coding: Guilt, drama, guilt, drama. So if you apologize? He's going to think that you're apologizing ONLY because he threw that out there, and you're wanting him back or that he wants to date you again...and so begins the next treetrunked up mess and step in all of this (in his head). Then you're feeding right out of his hand. Let him stew. Make HIM realize what he did was messed up with you...even if you did agree to FWB, he knew you still loved/cared about him. You may never get an apology from him, let alone that he was wrong OR messed up. Let him stew.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by ellessque
don't say anything. turn your phone off and have a chocolate caramel sundae.

seriously.

i challenge you to not say a word to him, in any form of communication, for at least 72 hours. (thats three days)

he'll lose his mind.

then maybe he can talk to you with a little bit of respect.

ooo i just had one...

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@LostMonster
14 YearsAquarius

Posted by ellessque
don't say anything. turn your phone off and have a chocolate caramel sundae.

seriously.

i challenge you to not say a word to him, in any form of communication, for at least 72 hours. (thats three days)

he'll lose his mind.

then maybe he can talk to you with a little bit of respect.

Haha, well, that is a challenge. But I think it can be done. I'm not gonna talk to him if he's not gonna talk to me, and I highly doubt he will try to contact me again. :/ Heh.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by LostMonster
Posted by ellessque
don't say anything. turn your phone off and have a chocolate caramel sundae.

seriously.

i challenge you to not say a word to him, in any form of communication, for at least 72 hours. (thats three days)

he'll lose his mind.

then maybe he can talk to you with a little bit of respect.

Haha, well, that is a challenge. But I think it can be done. I'm not gonna talk to him if he's not gonna talk to me, and I highly doubt he will try to contact me again. :/ Heh.

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stop saying that! you dont have to talk to him just because he talks to you....

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@LostMonster
14 YearsAquarius

Posted by DMV

stop saying that! you dont have to talk to him just because he talks to you....

Oh, haha, I know.. But maybe three days, if he does contact me after that. Maybe I'll apologize and leave it at that. Maybe. Most likely not. :/

And someone suggested not dating just yet. I think I may take that advice as well. I had two outings planned with some guys, but I cancelled them both. I don't know if I can do it, haha. So I'll wait, if I can.

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@LostMonster
14 YearsAquarius

Posted by enni
LostMonster...you need your own time and break for yourself. You know.

Yeah.. I'm just worried what I'm doing is a mistake. :/ I make a LOT of them... And it just makes this all the more difficult. πŸ˜›
Cause I don't really know how he feels. I wish I did. >:/ So dumb. Or I could at least make him feel terrible for all of this.

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@Sagittarius89
17 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

You have to be totally selfish

Like with my leo moon. If someone isn't giving me the right attention I completely ice them out.

Did you ever find what yours was? Look up your chart and read about yourself. That should keep you entertained...

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@LostMonster
14 YearsAquarius

Posted by ellessque
what do you need to apologize for? you've been entertaining his ass all weekend.

he should have at least paid for a ticket or a cover charge.

*smh* aquas. πŸ˜„

So this is really nothing to him?
Maaaan. I was feeling better on the prospect that he's feeling terrible and depressed right now. :/ And will be back so I can see the damage.

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@OceanDeep
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Aww, it's okay! Go Google Carly Simon's video "You're so Vain." Listen to the words girly πŸ™‚ Don't know how to upload it on here, otherwise I would for ya...unless someone wants to do me the fave πŸ˜‰

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@LostMonster
14 YearsAquarius

Posted by DazedScorp

Seriously? That dick better be mighty tastey for you to be drooling over like you are.

Now for Saggy....she's got ahold of the scorp golden scepter.

Ha, sort of. It's the rest of him too, though, cause I'm 17 and the sex doesn't really matter to me. But it was good.
I loved him a lot, we had a lot in common, more than anyone else I'd ever met. :/
Also, he's not 17, he's 19.

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@OceanDeep
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by OceanDeep
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by OceanDeep
Posted by everevolvingepithet

Aww, thanks for uploading it!

Everyone should have this dedicated to them at some point lol πŸ™‚

^^ Damn straight lol

^^^You have me belly laughing!

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by LostMonster
Posted by ellessque
what do you need to apologize for? you've been entertaining his ass all weekend.

he should have at least paid for a ticket or a cover charge.

*smh* aquas. πŸ˜„

So this is really nothing to him?
Maaaan. I was feeling better on the prospect that he's feeling terrible and depressed right now. :/ And will be back so I can see the damage.

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lol, hes not...

where have you been in the last 298 posts?

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@LostMonster
14 YearsAquarius

Posted by enni
wtf? excuse me? you're fucking feeding my flame...im angry now. you say such things you have a fucking sick mind.

I really appreciate the help. Even though I think I'm hurting more than when I first made this thread. :/

I really don't wanna believe what you're all saying. :/ But at the same time, I'm sure he won't be back.
Even so, he really hurt me, and it hurts more cause you're all saying he doesn't give two shits.
It shouldn't make me sad, because if what you're saying is true, he's a mega dick, but it does. :/ WHY?

He's always depressed and feels bad for his life. I thought maybe that would make him miss me at least. :/