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PinkySagLove
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My Scorpio husband and I called ourselves working on our marriage after he cheated. I felt that our marriage meant a lot to me and he felt the same, claimed me made a huge mistake and didn't want to lose me. Blah blah blah... So we made up, he moved back in and things were going sweet there for a moment. Until...

He used my phone for about 4 days until his replacement phone came in the mail. When I got my phone back, I noticed my Google maps kept asking me to update certain locations. Weird seeing how the times the locations were visited, we were both supposed to be at work.

I do further research and pull up data from my Google timeline and I find he's been randomly driving past the woman's house he cheated on me with. Almost everyday of the week. Then I find a burner phone in his truck. Didn't go thru it at all but I should have.

At this point, I just want to leave. He's been asking what's been wrong with me and I want to go apeshit but I'm tired of lies. I know he'll lie so leaving seems less frustrating.

I don't wanna work on this anymore since it seems I'm the only one working.

He's making time to drive past her house and we live on the other side of town. How does he expect me to be here when he's light weight stalking the woman he cheated with?

Question tho, should I let him know my findings or just keep quiet?



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Posted by EnochtheWise
Have you ever been unfaithful towards him? I'd say its time to leave....Are there kids involved? And definitely plot your escape before you let him know you know.
Never been unfaithful. Never even entertained another man. That's the sucky part about it. He's doing his thing. We could've just split and went our separate ways.

We have a son together. That's it.

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Posted by leowww
I don't even know how you could keep quiet.

You're good.

Tell him.

Even if he denies it.

I think it's important he knows you know.

I'm sorry this is happening to you Op.
Didn't say anything because it happened again and I'm at a phase of this is who he is so shit really dont matter.

I know he'll deny it so why bother? Him denying it didn't happen won't make it go away. It'll only show me how much of a liar he is. I've been shown enough.
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I wouldn't let him know if it was me. I'd just walk out on him. Pointless to tell him as it will turn into an argument, he won't admit it anyway. That's just me tho.
My sentiments...

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you know, that might just be it - why bother when he's just going to drag out the drama and stress -you don't need it - cover your butt, put him out, close the door, done, focus on yourself and your son and getting your life settled and one day you will meet a good man who will love you the way you deserve
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My Scorpio husband and I called ourselves working on our marriage after he cheated. I felt that our marriage meant a lot to me and he felt the same, claimed me made a huge mistake and didn't want to lose me. Blah blah blah... So we made up, he moved back in and things were going sweet there for a moment. Until...

He used my phone for about 4 days until his replacement phone came in the mail. When I got my phone back, I noticed my Google maps kept asking me to update certain locations. Weird seeing how the times the locations were visited, we were both supposed to be at work.

I do further research and pull up data from my Google timeline and I find he's been randomly driving past the woman's house he cheated on me with. Almost everyday of the week. Then I find a burner phone in his truck. Didn't go thru it at all but I should have.

At this point, I just want to leave. He's been asking what's been wrong with me and I want to go apeshit but I'm tired of lies. I know he'll lie so leaving seems less frustrating.

I don't wanna work on this anymore since it seems I'm the only one working.

He's making time to drive past her house and we live on the other side of town. How does he expect me to be here when he's light weight stalking the woman he cheated with?

Question tho, should I let him know my findings or just keep quiet?




He never ended the affair with her, he just made it seem that way to you. Why else have a burner phone? He's not just driving by her house. You know better than that.

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Regarding the light stalking ? Do they work together? Is this during lunch where they're both heading to that location or meeting

either way he is emotionally cheating at minimum
They don't work together. He's driving past her house.

How do I know her address? She invited me over at one point to talk to her "woman to woman"

So yeah...

Then the burner phone. Lol
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My Scorpio husband and I called ourselves working on our marriage after he cheated. I felt that our marriage meant a lot to me and he felt the same, claimed me made a huge mistake and didn't want to lose me. Blah blah blah... So we made up, he moved back in and things were going sweet there for a moment. Until...

He used my phone for about 4 days until his replacement phone came in the mail. When I got my phone back, I noticed my Google maps kept asking me to update certain locations. Weird seeing how the times the locations were visited, we were both supposed to be at work.

I do further research and pull up data from my Google timeline and I find he's been randomly driving past the woman's house he cheated on me with. Almost everyday of the week. Then I find a burner phone in his truck. Didn't go thru it at all but I should have.

At this point, I just want to leave. He's been asking what's been wrong with me and I want to go apeshit but I'm tired of lies. I know he'll lie so leaving seems less frustrating.

I don't wanna work on this anymore since it seems I'm the only one working.

He's making time to drive past her house and we live on the other side of town. How does he expect me to be here when he's light weight stalking the woman he cheated with?

Question tho, should I let him know my findings or just keep quiet?




He never ended the affair with her, he just made it seem that way to you. Why else have a burner phone? He's not just driving by her house. You know better than that.



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I said driving past because when pulling up the raw data, it gives the actual time at a point. You'd be surprised. Look it up on a laptop or desktop tho.

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My Scorpio husband and I called ourselves working on our marriage after he cheated. I felt that our marriage meant a lot to me and he felt the same, claimed me made a huge mistake and didn't want to lose me. Blah blah blah... So we made up, he moved back in and things were going sweet there for a moment. Until...

He used my phone for about 4 days until his replacement phone came in the mail. When I got my phone back, I noticed my Google maps kept asking me to update certain locations. Weird seeing how the times the locations were visited, we were both supposed to be at work.

I do further research and pull up data from my Google timeline and I find he's been randomly driving past the woman's house he cheated on me with. Almost everyday of the week. Then I find a burner phone in his truck. Didn't go thru it at all but I should have.

At this point, I just want to leave. He's been asking what's been wrong with me and I want to go apeshit but I'm tired of lies. I know he'll lie so leaving seems less frustrating.

I don't wanna work on this anymore since it seems I'm the only one working.

He's making time to drive past her house and we live on the other side of town. How does he expect me to be here when he's light weight stalking the woman he cheated with?

Question tho, should I let him know my findings or just keep quiet?




He never ended the affair with her, he just made it seem that way to you. Why else have a burner phone? He's not just driving by her house. You know better than that.




I said driving past because when pulling up the raw data, it gives the actual time at a point. You'd be surprised. Look it up on a laptop or desktop tho.

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"the actual time at a point"

One point in time... Your man is still getting his dick wet in this hoe. Don't be naive.
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My Scorpio husband and I called ourselves working on our marriage after he cheated. I felt that our marriage meant a lot to me and he felt the same, claimed me made a huge mistake and didn't want to lose me. Blah blah blah... So we made up, he moved back in and things were going sweet there for a moment. Until...

He used my phone for about 4 days until his replacement phone came in the mail. When I got my phone back, I noticed my Google maps kept asking me to update certain locations. Weird seeing how the times the locations were visited, we were both supposed to be at work.

I do further research and pull up data from my Google timeline and I find he's been randomly driving past the woman's house he cheated on me with. Almost everyday of the week. Then I find a burner phone in his truck. Didn't go thru it at all but I should have.

At this point, I just want to leave. He's been asking what's been wrong with me and I want to go apeshit but I'm tired of lies. I know he'll lie so leaving seems less frustrating.

I don't wanna work on this anymore since it seems I'm the only one working.

He's making time to drive past her house and we live on the other side of town. How does he expect me to be here when he's light weight stalking the woman he cheated with?

Question tho, should I let him know my findings or just keep quiet?




He never ended the affair with her, he just made it seem that way to you. Why else have a burner phone? He's not just driving by her house. You know better than that.




I said driving past because when pulling up the raw data, it gives the actual time at a point. You'd be surprised. Look it up on a laptop or desktop tho.


"the actual time at a point"

One point in time... Your man is still getting his dick wet in this hoe. Don't be naive.

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Oh I'm not. The drive by and burner phone is enough evidence that he's still fucking her. That's a no brainer.

I'd be naive to think he's doing all this and still not fucking.

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Regarding the light stalking ? Do they work together? Is this during lunch where they're both heading to that location or meeting

either way he is emotionally cheating at minimum
They don't work together. He's driving past her house.

How do I know her address? She invited me over at one point to talk to her "woman to woman"

So yeah...

Then the burner phone. Lol

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I'm telling you this isn't stalking. You 'stalk' someone who doesn't want anything to do with you... They had/have a relationship, an extra marital affair.

He's not creeping on her house, she's inviting him over for a mouth party.

It's not stalking if your invited over and the door is opened for you...
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Regarding the light stalking ? Do they work together? Is this during lunch where they're both heading to that location or meeting

either way he is emotionally cheating at minimum
They don't work together. He's driving past her house.

How do I know her address? She invited me over at one point to talk to her "woman to woman"

So yeah...

Then the burner phone. Lol


I'm telling you this isn't stalking. You 'stalk' someone who doesn't want anything to do with you... They had/have a relationship, an extra marital affair.

He's not creeping on her house, she's inviting him over for a mouth party.

It's not stalking if your invited over and the door is opened for you...
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Ok. I get it.

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I assume you busted him the first time as well. Scorpio men aren't exactly known for their honesty. If you're expecting him to fess up, you'll grow old and wrinkly and stinky before that happens.

You're just delaying the inevitable. Get it over with and move on.
Yep I did.

Ironic how he wants me to completely transparent to him.

But whatever.

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My father is a trademark Scorpio and he's the biggest liar in the world. If he says "bananas are blue" and you prove to him that bananas are actually yellow by shoving a banana under his nose, he'll still insist they are blue.

Scorpio men are full of shiit, period. I agree with the other one who says just walk out and don't bother explaining yourself. They're not worth the effort.
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Cheating is definitely not a Scorpio thing but my buddy cheats on his cancer like his life depended on it. She's caught him numerous times and they've broken up and gotten back together. He's still at it tho.

His behavior surprises me. I would have never pinned that on him. I wonder if him and your husband have any similar placements.


I know he's a Scorpio sun, Leo moon, Scorpio Venus, Virgo Rising
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Do you own property with him? If there a prenup protecting your assets?

Go get legal representation and find out what is the best was to proceed to protect yourself and fuck him up in the process. Don't let on that you know. Not yet...
We have this house together. Nothing else.

I'm speaking to a friend now in family law. She's giving me some extra pointers as well. You guys are extremely helpful.
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I assume you busted him the first time as well. Scorpio men aren't exactly known for their honesty. If you're expecting him to fess up, you'll grow old and wrinkly and stinky before that happens.

You're just delaying the inevitable. Get it over with and move on.
Yep I did.

Ironic how he wants me to completely transparent to him.

But whatever.


My father is a trademark Scorpio and he's the biggest liar in the world. If he says "bananas are blue" and you prove to him that bananas are actually yellow by shoving a banana under his nose, he'll still insist they are blue.

Scorpio men are full of shiit, period. I agree with the other one who says just walk out and don't bother explaining yourself. They're not worth the effort.
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He'll tell the truth if it benefits him, tho.
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Anyways...just call the fucker out, tell him you're done with him, and consult a lawyer.


What do I gain by revealing my cards?


Peace of mind. Think of it as ripping a bandaid off.

Otherwise you're going to live your life with it boiling inside.

Plus...it might just be the trigger to get him to finally leave you for his hoochie side piece and you can be free of his fuckery in the short term.

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I do plan on telling him after I'm gone tho. But while I'm getting my shit together, I don't want to. Because if he lies or tries to turn on me, I'm gonna punch him.
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I assume you busted him the first time as well. Scorpio men aren't exactly known for their honesty. If you're expecting him to fess up, you'll grow old and wrinkly and stinky before that happens.

You're just delaying the inevitable. Get it over with and move on.
Yep I did.

Ironic how he wants me to completely transparent to him.

But whatever.


My father is a trademark Scorpio and he's the biggest liar in the world. If he says "bananas are blue" and you prove to him that bananas are actually yellow by shoving a banana under his nose, he'll still insist they are blue.

Scorpio men are full of shiit, period. I agree with the other one who says just walk out and don't bother explaining yourself. They're not worth the effort.
He'll tell the truth if it benefits him, tho.



What's your sign?
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Sagittarius

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I assume you busted him the first time as well. Scorpio men aren't exactly known for their honesty. If you're expecting him to fess up, you'll grow old and wrinkly and stinky before that happens.

You're just delaying the inevitable. Get it over with and move on.
Yep I did.

Ironic how he wants me to completely transparent to him.

But whatever.


My father is a trademark Scorpio and he's the biggest liar in the world. If he says "bananas are blue" and you prove to him that bananas are actually yellow by shoving a banana under his nose, he'll still insist they are blue.

Scorpio men are full of shiit, period. I agree with the other one who says just walk out and don't bother explaining yourself. They're not worth the effort.
He'll tell the truth if it benefits him, tho.



What's your sign?
Sagittarius



I see.

I think we had a Sag woman complain about the same thing a few months ago.
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It was probably me. That was when he first got caught and he was staying at her mom's house with her.

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I assume you busted him the first time as well. Scorpio men aren't exactly known for their honesty. If you're expecting him to fess up, you'll grow old and wrinkly and stinky before that happens.

You're just delaying the inevitable. Get it over with and move on.
Yep I did.

Ironic how he wants me to completely transparent to him.

But whatever.


My father is a trademark Scorpio and he's the biggest liar in the world. If he says "bananas are blue" and you prove to him that bananas are actually yellow by shoving a banana under his nose, he'll still insist they are blue.

Scorpio men are full of shiit, period. I agree with the other one who says just walk out and don't bother explaining yourself. They're not worth the effort.
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maybe he's colorblind - but really, that just sounds stupid ...
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My Scorpio husband and I called ourselves working on our marriage after he cheated. I felt that our marriage meant a lot to me and he felt the same, claimed me made a huge mistake and didn't want to lose me. Blah blah blah... So we made up, he moved back in and things were going sweet there for a moment. Until...

He used my phone for about 4 days until his replacement phone came in the mail. When I got my phone back, I noticed my Google maps kept asking me to update certain locations. Weird seeing how the times the locations were visited, we were both supposed to be at work.

I do further research and pull up data from my Google timeline and I find he's been randomly driving past the woman's house he cheated on me with. Almost everyday of the week. Then I find a burner phone in his truck. Didn't go thru it at all but I should have.

At this point, I just want to leave. He's been asking what's been wrong with me and I want to go apeshit but I'm tired of lies. I know he'll lie so leaving seems less frustrating.

I don't wanna work on this anymore since it seems I'm the only one working.

He's making time to drive past her house and we live on the other side of town. How does he expect me to be here when he's light weight stalking the woman he cheated with?

Question tho, should I let him know my findings or just keep quiet?




He never ended the affair with her, he just made it seem that way to you. Why else have a burner phone? He's not just driving by her house. You know better than that.




I said driving past because when pulling up the raw data, it gives the actual time at a point. You'd be surprised. Look it up on a laptop or desktop tho.


"the actual time at a point"

One point in time... Your man is still getting his dick wet in this hoe. Don't be naive.


Oh I'm not. The drive by and burner phone is enough evidence that he's still fucking her. That's a no brainer.

I'd be naive to think he's doing all this and still not fucking.

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Are you sure he was spending time at her house? Google Maps Timeline shows you how much time you spend at a specific location, so when you said he was "driving past her house" I thought that meant the map showed you he had just spent a minute or two driving through her neighborhood. :O
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My Scorpio husband and I called ourselves working on our marriage after he cheated. I felt that our marriage meant a lot to me and he felt the same, claimed me made a huge mistake and didn't want to lose me. Blah blah blah... So we made up, he moved back in and things were going sweet there for a moment. Until...

He used my phone for about 4 days until his replacement phone came in the mail. When I got my phone back, I noticed my Google maps kept asking me to update certain locations. Weird seeing how the times the locations were visited, we were both supposed to be at work.

I do further research and pull up data from my Google timeline and I find he's been randomly driving past the woman's house he cheated on me with. Almost everyday of the week. Then I find a burner phone in his truck. Didn't go thru it at all but I should have.

At this point, I just want to leave. He's been asking what's been wrong with me and I want to go apeshit but I'm tired of lies. I know he'll lie so leaving seems less frustrating.

I don't wanna work on this anymore since it seems I'm the only one working.

He's making time to drive past her house and we live on the other side of town. How does he expect me to be here when he's light weight stalking the woman he cheated with?

Question tho, should I let him know my findings or just keep quiet?




This is why the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" exists.



While technically some people do cheat once and never again, statistically a person who cheats once will almost always do it again at some point. Whether it's years later, or a week later.



This is why it's foolish to give a cheater a second chance. You're taking a huge gamble on your own happiness and sanity.



Cheating isn't a mistake. It's a conscious decision.
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While I admire her for giving him another chance (probably for the sake of their son), this is very well said, and I agree.
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it's also dangerous to keep someone whose heart and loyalty are no longer with you. it's like sleeping with the enemy. you never know what he and his new love are plotting.
you made the right decision a few months ago when you kicked him out. he was cold and neglected you and your baby when you were just starting a family when you both needed him the most. And then you caught him sexing on iPad with this woman while you were busy taking care of your home and baby, at home.

you must be saint to let him move back

i really think it's dangerous to keep him around. his heart and loyalty are obviously not with you and the family
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My Scorpio husband and I called ourselves working on our marriage after he cheated. I felt that our marriage meant a lot to me and he felt the same, claimed me made a huge mistake and didn't want to lose me. Blah blah blah... So we made up, he moved back in and things were going sweet there for a moment. Until...

He used my phone for about 4 days until his replacement phone came in the mail. When I got my phone back, I noticed my Google maps kept asking me to update certain locations. Weird seeing how the times the locations were visited, we were both supposed to be at work.

I do further research and pull up data from my Google timeline and I find he's been randomly driving past the woman's house he cheated on me with. Almost everyday of the week. Then I find a burner phone in his truck. Didn't go thru it at all but I should have.

At this point, I just want to leave. He's been asking what's been wrong with me and I want to go apeshit but I'm tired of lies. I know he'll lie so leaving seems less frustrating.

I don't wanna work on this anymore since it seems I'm the only one working.

He's making time to drive past her house and we live on the other side of town. How does he expect me to be here when he's light weight stalking the woman he cheated with?

Question tho, should I let him know my findings or just keep quiet?




He never ended the affair with her, he just made it seem that way to you. Why else have a burner phone? He's not just driving by her house. You know better than that.




I said driving past because when pulling up the raw data, it gives the actual time at a point. You'd be surprised. Look it up on a laptop or desktop tho.


"the actual time at a point"

One point in time... Your man is still getting his dick wet in this hoe. Don't be naive.


Oh I'm not. The drive by and burner phone is enough evidence that he's still fucking her. That's a no brainer.

I'd be naive to think he's doing all this and still not fucking.




Are you sure he was spending time at her house? Google Maps Timeline shows you how much time you spend at a specific location, so when you said he was "driving past her house" I thought that meant the map showed you he had just spent a minute or two driving through her neighborhood. :O
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Yes. It shows him driving past her house. I don't think he spends time there but this sudden unaccounted time thing he's doing again let's me know he's spending time with her some where, plus the burner phone.
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Cheating is definitely not a Scorpio thing but my buddy cheats on his cancer like his life depended on it. She's caught him numerous times and they've broken up and gotten back together. He's still at it tho.

His behavior surprises me. I would have never pinned that on him. I wonder if him and your husband have any similar placements.


I know he's a Scorpio sun, Leo moon, Scorpio Venus, Virgo Rising


My friend is a Scorpio sun, Virgo rising, Capricorn moon, ...I forget the Venus and Mercury but he has Sagittarius in Mars.
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are you ...talking about this type of Scorpio sun/cap moon/Sag mars?





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I wouldn't let him know if it was me. I'd just walk out on him. Pointless to tell him as it will turn into an argument, he won't admit it anyway. That's just me tho.
My sentiments...


I went through your ordeal a decade ago with my cancer ex. At this point you're just too tired to even say a word to him. Stay strong and you'll get through this.
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dolluxe said it best.

stay strong and just leave him, you both sound very unhappy.
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If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.

You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
what's that gonna do—

he's just probably gonna look outside and go, there's my nosey ex wife.

edit or be like this....

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If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.

You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
what's that gonna do—

he's just probably gonna look outside and go, there's my nosey ex wife.
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#1......let him know she knows

#2.......avoid the direct confrontation

#3........she can get the proof she needs for continued infidelity. More leverage in court
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Ssuperman
If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.

You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
what's that gonna do—

he's just probably gonna look outside and go, there's my nosey ex wife.
#1......let him know she knows

#2.......avoid the direct confrontation

#3........she can get the proof she needs for continued infidelity. More leverage in court
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I probably need to think of a celeb this happened to so you'll get it
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Posted by Ssuperman
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Ssuperman
If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.

You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
what's that gonna do—

he's just probably gonna look outside and go, there's my nosey ex wife.
#1......let him know she knows

#2.......avoid the direct confrontation

#3........she can get the proof she needs for continued infidelity. More leverage in court
I probably need to think of a celeb this happened to so you'll get it
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nope nope I got it covered!! she should be doing this!! who happens to also be a leo mooner!! haha



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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Ssuperman
Posted by Ssuperman
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Ssuperman
If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.

You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
what's that gonna do—

he's just probably gonna look outside and go, there's my nosey ex wife.
#1......let him know she knows

#2.......avoid the direct confrontation

#3........she can get the proof she needs for continued infidelity. More leverage in court
I probably need to think of a celeb this happened to so you'll get it

nope nope I got it covered!! she should be doing this!! who happens to also be a leo mooner!! haha





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Good lord! You trying to get her committed?
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