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Posted by Ssuperman
If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
Not doing all that. He chose, I need to exit and bow out gracefully.
Posted by Ssuperman
If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
Not doing all that. He chose, I need to exit and bow out gracefully.
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I'm not saying to take a golf club and smash his windows in
Posted by Ssuperman
If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
Not doing all that. He chose, I need to exit and bow out gracefully.
I'm not saying to take a golf club and smash his windows in
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DEFINITELY not doing that. Lol
She's a Leo. I refuse to give her that much of an ego boost.
Posted by Impulsv
First though move ur money from your joint account to your separate, contact an attorney and when you serve him tell
That's 1st wives club right there.
Posted by mzmee
My Scorpio husband and I called ourselves working on our marriage after he cheated. I felt that our marriage meant a lot to me and he felt the same, claimed me made a huge mistake and didn't want to lose me. Blah blah blah... So we made up, he moved back in and things were going sweet there for a moment. Until...He used my phone for about 4 days until his replacement phone came in the mail. When I got my phone back, I noticed my Google maps kept asking me to update certain locations. Weird seeing how the times the locations were visited, we were both supposed to be at work.
I do further research and pull up data from my Google timeline and I find he's been randomly driving past the woman's house he cheated on me with. Almost everyday of the week. Then I find a burner phone in his truck. Didn't go thru it at all but I should have.
At this point, I just want to leave. He's been asking what's been wrong with me and I want to go apeshit but I'm tired of lies. I know he'll lie so leaving seems less frustrating.
I don't wanna work on this anymore since it seems I'm the only one working.
He's making time to drive past her house and we live on the other side of town. How does he expect me to be here when he's light weight stalking the woman he cheated with?
Question tho, should I let him know my findings or just keep quiet?
I'm so sorry you're experiencing this. Do what feels good.
As far as your question, it depends. Some people fill their own heads up with delusions... the best liars have to believe their lies. Secondly, he might harrass you with "why's." You might loose your temper with his act. Just somethings to think about.
Telling him affords a cleaner break.
Edit: or write a letter and leave it... after you've left. You can mail it too.
You may need evidence of adultery, if you don't live in a "no fault" state. Check into the divorce laws a bit.
Posted by Ssuperman
If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
Not doing all that. He chose, I need to exit and bow out gracefully.
I'm not saying to take a golf club and smash his windows in
DEFINITELY not doing that. Lol
She's a Leo. I refuse to give her that much of an ego boost.
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Sweetie, she's getting all the ego boost she needs already
Posted by Ssuperman
If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
Not doing all that. He chose, I need to exit and bow out gracefully.
I'm not saying to take a golf club and smash his windows in
DEFINITELY not doing that. Lol
She's a Leo. I refuse to give her that much of an ego boost.
Sweetie, she's getting all the ego boost she needs already
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Yep. And she won't get more on the account of me.
Posted by Ssuperman
If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
Not doing all that. He chose, I need to exit and bow out gracefully.
I'm not saying to take a golf club and smash his windows in
DEFINITELY not doing that. Lol
She's a Leo. I refuse to give her that much of an ego boost.
Sweetie, she's getting all the ego boost she needs already
Yep. And she won't get more on the account of me.
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That's when you give her the greatest gift of all. A cheating boyfriend to live with.
Posted by Se7en
Cheating is definitely not a Scorpio thing but my buddy cheats on his cancer like his life depended on it. She's caught him numerous times and they've broken up and gotten back together. He's still at it tho.His behavior surprises me. I would have never pinned that on him. I wonder if him and your husband have any similar placements.
I know he's a Scorpio sun, Leo moon, Scorpio Venus, Virgo Rising
My friend is a Scorpio sun, Virgo rising, Capricorn moon, ...I forget the Venus and Mercury but he has Sagittarius in Mars.
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are you ...talking about this type of Scorpio sun/cap moon/Sag mars?
To be honest with you I don't know if they're alike or not. And this is the first time I've heard of this.
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really?? I usually see it on the front page of the news when I open the news section feeds. If they are big celebs, it's all over the place. Even obscure celebs will be noticed if they get divorced.
Posted by Ssuperman
If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
Not doing all that. He chose, I need to exit and bow out gracefully.
I'm not saying to take a golf club and smash his windows in
DEFINITELY not doing that. Lol
She's a Leo. I refuse to give her that much of an ego boost.
Sweetie, she's getting all the ego boost she needs already
Yep. And she won't get more on the account of me.
That's when you give her the greatest gift of all. A cheating boyfriend to live with.
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or never divorce him and make sure she / the other woman get him.
this is what happened to one of the family's in laws, the wife is being cheated on and he has a mistress for decades. But, we all wonder why she stays even though the wife and children know he has mistress with grown children. My aunts and mother think she will not give the satisfaction of giving him over to the mistress!! the mistress was once a best friend of hers. the entire thing is realy crazy, the first time I've ever heard of something like this close to us. it's usually in the celeb news.
Posted by Ssuperman
If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
Not doing all that. He chose, I need to exit and bow out gracefully.
I'm not saying to take a golf club and smash his windows in
DEFINITELY not doing that. Lol
She's a Leo. I refuse to give her that much of an ego boost.
Sweetie, she's getting all the ego boost she needs already
Yep. And she won't get more on the account of me.
That's when you give her the greatest gift of all. A cheating boyfriend to live with.
or never divorce him and make sure she / the other woman get him.
this is what happened to one of the family's in laws, the wife is being cheated on and he has a mistress for decades. But, we all wonder why she stays even though the wife and children know he has mistress with grown children. My aunts and mother think she will not give the satisfaction of giving him over to the mistress!! the mistress was once a best friend of hers. the entire thing is realy crazy, the first time I've ever heard of something like this close to us. it's usually in the celeb news.
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Would you do that?
Posted by Ssuperman
If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
Not doing all that. He chose, I need to exit and bow out gracefully.
I'm not saying to take a golf club and smash his windows in
DEFINITELY not doing that. Lol
She's a Leo. I refuse to give her that much of an ego boost.
Sweetie, she's getting all the ego boost she needs already
Yep. And she won't get more on the account of me.
That's when you give her the greatest gift of all. A cheating boyfriend to live with.
or never divorce him and make sure she / the other woman get him.
this is what happened to one of the family's in laws, the wife is being cheated on and he has a mistress for decades. But, we all wonder why she stays even though the wife and children know he has mistress with grown children. My aunts and mother think she will not give the satisfaction of giving him over to the mistress!! the mistress was once a best friend of hers. the entire thing is realy crazy, the first time I've ever heard of something like this close to us. it's usually in the celeb news.
Would you do that?
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nope. my hatred of him and the mistress (former best friend) would be too great, and I would plot and scheme like a low level entitiy of ways to sabotage their life. 8th house problems. I couldn't deal. plus, I would not have a best friend who would do that to me, i'd watch their every move together, to see if her eyes are smiling towards him and he's twinkling towards her, then I would interrupt them and say, what the fuck man!!?? what the fuck is going on??!! there would be a WAR.
like this,
Posted by Ssuperman
If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
Not doing all that. He chose, I need to exit and bow out gracefully.
I'm not saying to take a golf club and smash his windows in
DEFINITELY not doing that. Lol
She's a Leo. I refuse to give her that much of an ego boost.
Sweetie, she's getting all the ego boost she needs already
Yep. And she won't get more on the account of me.
That's when you give her the greatest gift of all. A cheating boyfriend to live with.
or never divorce him and make sure she / the other woman get him.
this is what happened to one of the family's in laws, the wife is being cheated on and he has a mistress for decades. But, we all wonder why she stays even though the wife and children know he has mistress with grown children. My aunts and mother think she will not give the satisfaction of giving him over to the mistress!! the mistress was once a best friend of hers. the entire thing is realy crazy, the first time I've ever heard of something like this close to us. it's usually in the celeb news.
Would you do that?
nope. my hatred of him and the mistress (former best friend) would be too great, and I would plot and scheme like a low level entitiy of ways to sabotage their life. 8th house problems. I couldn't deal. plus, I would not have a best friend who would do that to me, i'd watch their every move together, to see if her eyes are smiling towards him and he's twinkling towards her, then I would interrupt them and say, what the fuck man!!?? what the fuck is going on??!! there would be a WAR.
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Then why even mention it as an option?
Posted by Ssuperman
If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
Not doing all that. He chose, I need to exit and bow out gracefully.
I'm not saying to take a golf club and smash his windows in
DEFINITELY not doing that. Lol
She's a Leo. I refuse to give her that much of an ego boost.
Sweetie, she's getting all the ego boost she needs already
Yep. And she won't get more on the account of me.
That's when you give her the greatest gift of all. A cheating boyfriend to live with.
or never divorce him and make sure she / the other woman get him.
this is what happened to one of the family's in laws, the wife is being cheated on and he has a mistress for decades. But, we all wonder why she stays even though the wife and children know he has mistress with grown children. My aunts and mother think she will not give the satisfaction of giving him over to the mistress!! the mistress was once a best friend of hers. the entire thing is realy crazy, the first time I've ever heard of something like this close to us. it's usually in the celeb news.
Would you do that?
nope. my hatred of him and the mistress (former best friend) would be too great, and I would plot and scheme like a low level entitiy of ways to sabotage their life. 8th house problems. I couldn't deal. plus, I would not have a best friend who would do that to me, i'd watch their every move together, to see if her eyes are smiling towards him and he's twinkling towards her, then I would interrupt them and say, what the fuck man!!?? what the fuck is going on??!! there would be a WAR.
Then why even mention it as an option?
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why not— she is free to do as she pleases.
edit - if she wants to make his life, ball and chain, to KEEP him, why not? later in life, he will probably just give in and see that she was there for him all the time. it works for some women. There is no passion but at the end of their life, they are together.
some women will NOT give the satisfacation to the mistress.
they probably think, "you may have his ____" but you will NEVER have him. For chrsitmas and birthdays, he will be there for us FIRST. but you will never have him. that's the thinking some women think.
Posted by Ssuperman
If he's driving past her house everyday, he's doing more than just stalking. They are still hooking up.You should just park down the street and wait for him to pull in her driveway. Honk when he gets out and you drive past. He will get the hint.
Not doing all that. He chose, I need to exit and bow out gracefully.
I'm not saying to take a golf club and smash his windows in
DEFINITELY not doing that. Lol
She's a Leo. I refuse to give her that much of an ego boost.
Sweetie, she's getting all the ego boost she needs already
Yep. And she won't get more on the account of me.
That's when you give her the greatest gift of all. A cheating boyfriend to live with.
or never divorce him and make sure she / the other woman get him.
this is what happened to one of the family's in laws, the wife is being cheated on and he has a mistress for decades. But, we all wonder why she stays even though the wife and children know he has mistress with grown children. My aunts and mother think she will not give the satisfaction of giving him over to the mistress!! the mistress was once a best friend of hers. the entire thing is realy crazy, the first time I've ever heard of something like this close to us. it's usually in the celeb news.
Would you do that?
nope. my hatred of him and the mistress (former best friend) would be too great, and I would plot and scheme like a low level entitiy of ways to sabotage their life. 8th house problems. I couldn't deal. plus, I would not have a best friend who would do that to me, i'd watch their every move together, to see if her eyes are smiling towards him and he's twinkling towards her, then I would interrupt them and say, what the fuck man!!?? what the fuck is going on??!! there would be a WAR.
Then why even mention it as an option?
why not— she is free to do as she pleases.
edit - if she wants to make his life, ball and chain, to KEEP him, why not? later in life, he will probably just give in and see that she was there for him all the time. it works for some women. There is no passion but at the end of their life, they are together.
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I don't understand you one bit. That's ok though, you still cool beans
If he's still riding by her house yall didn't make up, he told you what you wanted to hear. Move on. You trying to work it out after infidelity makes you stronger than me. What a fool for passing that up. Good luck. Just passing through.
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No one can keep a man faithful, only a man that want to be kept can. You asked about placements and that hopefully someone could interpret, so I posted.
I already knows what it is, sucks tho, but I gotta do what I need to do.