
happykitsune
@happykitsune
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Posted by BigGirlPanties
He had to get on his hands and knees with a magnifying glass in hand to find that hair. he then attached that hair to the voo-doo doll he has made of you, in which he drew your face on from memory. He is now in the process of praying a mantra over the doll, begging his higher power to make you love him again.
true story 😉






Posted by Sag89
Nice kits!
Who won smash bros? lol
Yea I don't know what is with him. *shrugs*

Posted by BigGirlPanties
Kits, I get the feeling you didnt straight out ask what he wanted with you, huh?
Got intoxicted by that scorpio charm>? I know it well. 😢

Posted by happykitsunePosted by Sag89
Nice kits!
Who won smash bros? lol
Yea I don't know what is with him. *shrugs*
He did...everytime. We were gna place bets, but we only ended up placing one (a massage) and he of course won it.
Idk sag89 sounds like a bunch of games to meclick to expand

Posted by happykitsunePosted by BigGirlPanties
Kits, I get the feeling you didnt straight out ask what he wanted with you, huh?
Got intoxicted by that scorpio charm>? I know it well. 😢
Things were very silent on both ends.
While I did get the initial reactions from him I wanted I didn't come right out and ask what he wanted. That's one of the things I failed at :/ Yes I fail for the charm.
I'm trying to think how I can bring myself back from thisclick to expand




Posted by Sag89
Lol I've played the game with bets
Yea probably I mean I just wonder whats the pointclick to expand
He made mention of my altered version of it (Sexy smash bros) that I had told him about before we stopped dating, but I told him no.
Honestly I was doing good up until he kissed me. We didn't do anything really passed that, but he did pin me a few times.
The last thing he did to me that really made me wonder if I ruined my chance is that he grabbed me, aggressively (which I like, but it really is my worst weakness) and started thrusting against me. I kept telling him to stop it, but he just continued, then took me to the floor. At that point he was really turning me on and I told him NO, but he took it as a sign that he had won because he finally turned me on.
After that it was really hard to tell what he was thinking cus he was just laying on the floor not saying anything, so I told him I was going to leave and got my stuff together. I was grabbing for the door and he hit his arm down on the ground to get my attention, so I looked over. Then he started getting dressed and walked me to the car.
I finally got tired of waiting for a hug so I hugged him, then I was pulling away and he still had his hand on my back like he wanted to me stay, so I hugged him again. Then I kissed him and got back in the car. It wasn't quite detached, but very mixed feeling.

Posted by Sag89Posted by happykitsunePosted by BigGirlPanties
Kits, I get the feeling you didnt straight out ask what he wanted with you, huh?
Got intoxicted by that scorpio charm>? I know it well. 😢
Things were very silent on both ends.
While I did get the initial reactions from him I wanted I didn't come right out and ask what he wanted. That's one of the things I failed at :/ Yes I fail for the charm.
I'm trying to think how I can bring myself back from this
Do want to be with him kits?click to expand

Posted by happykitsunePosted by Sag89
Lol I've played the game with bets
Yea probably I mean I just wonder whats the point
He made mention of my altered version of it (Sexy smash bros) that I had told him about before we stopped dating, but I told him no.
Honestly I was doing good up until he kissed me. We didn't do anything really passed that, but he did pin me a few times.
The last thing he did to me that really made me wonder if I ruined my chance is that he grabbed me, aggressively (which I like, but it really is my worst weakness) and started thrusting against me. I kept telling him to stop it, but he just continued, then took me to the floor. At that point he was really turning me on and I told him NO, but he took it as a sign that he had won because he finally turned me on.
After that it was really hard to tell what he was thinking cus he was just laying on the floor not saying anything, so I told him I was going to leave and got my stuff together. I was grabbing for the door and he hit his arm down on the ground to get my attention, so I looked over. Then he started getting dressed and walked me to the car.
I finally got tired of waiting for a hug so I hugged him, then I was pulling away and he still had his hand on my back like he wanted to me stay, so I hugged him again. Then I kissed him and got back in the car. It wasn't quite detached, but very mixed feeling.
click to expand
This was just when you guys were gaming?

Posted by OceanDeep
Your situation is and was diff then where happy is right now with her Scorp.
Again, both agreed to be friends. He's not doing anything wrong, and she's going along with it. Both their choices. Happy needs to decide for herself what she feels she wants, and that was friendship. If she feels it's too hard then she needs to say it's too hard being friends right now. But not be mad at him or push him to defining anything when it already was defined when he broke up with her.
This isn't him, this is her going along with it. They are communicating, both by choice. To advise her to push him into what he wants from her is not fair to him. He's not putting a gun to her head. And even if he is reconsidering? It is way to early for her to be pushing him into any decisions. This could be the beginning of a new relationship for them, and if it was someone new? Anyone would be advising to go with the flow, and quit being so pushy.
Seriously.

Posted by happykitsunePosted by OceanDeep
Your situation is and was diff then where happy is right now with her Scorp.
Again, both agreed to be friends. He's not doing anything wrong, and she's going along with it. Both their choices. Happy needs to decide for herself what she feels she wants, and that was friendship. If she feels it's too hard then she needs to say it's too hard being friends right now. But not be mad at him or push him to defining anything when it already was defined when he broke up with her.
This isn't him, this is her going along with it. They are communicating, both by choice. To advise her to push him into what he wants from her is not fair to him. He's not putting a gun to her head. And even if he is reconsidering? It is way to early for her to be pushing him into any decisions. This could be the beginning of a new relationship for them, and if it was someone new? Anyone would be advising to go with the flow, and quit being so pushy.
Seriously.
True, all very true. Which is why I'm going to send that text to him, letting him know I don't want these mixed signals. I was talking to him about his critical-ness and how he is too harsh on people and he said something like "How do you know this isn't all a big game?". It made me feel like he was being critical with me just to get him way (to shape me) like you said. And it pissed me off. He said I looked like I wanted to punch him, but I didn't tell him why.
I need to get this straightened out tho, then get my focus back on God and school. I feel like I displayed a great deal of dominance and resistance in telling him not to do certain things (and he'd listen), but towards the end with that dry humping deal I feel like I messed up a lil :/ He was holding me all night tho...it felt so nice for him to tell me he was going to protect me and hold me tighter. I had really missed that...and just talking with him in general. It felt like nothing bad had happened in the first place. And that's what inevitably threw me off :/click to expand

Posted by OceanDeep
This was just when you guys were gaming?

Posted by OceanDeep
You posted a lot more details to just a simple gaming night after I posted that. lol Thats a lot that you left out when you told us you were back, knowing there was way more behind the night. Get what Im saying?


Posted by OceanDeep
Well, for my opinion it makes a diff because my stance has been you two agreed to be friends. Before you posted that, I didnt see anything wrong with what he's doing. This does make a difference, what you posted after the fact. I guess I dont know what to tell you. I would be confused by this, but nothing by what he was doing before as I dont think he was giving you mixed signals as a friend, but of course too a good basis for something you two to build on something. ... With you keeping the mindset that you two only being friends.

Posted by happykitsunePosted by OceanDeep
Well, for my opinion it makes a diff because my stance has been you two agreed to be friends. Before you posted that, I didnt see anything wrong with what he's doing. This does make a difference, what you posted after the fact. I guess I dont know what to tell you. I would be confused by this, but nothing by what he was doing before as I dont think he was giving you mixed signals as a friend, but of course too a good basis for something you two to build on something. ... With you keeping the mindset that you two only being friends.
But you know at this point I don't wanna just be friends. So I need to set things straight.
I kinda figured I wouldn't ask right away when I first hung out with him. To me it was more of a feeling out process to see if he was going to flirt with me or not. What I didn't plan on was him coming on so strong. And with that much affection.
But I have my next move planned out. I'll execute it when I feel like the time is right. For now I'll just go about my life as I have beenclick to expand



Posted by OceanDeepPosted by happykitsunePosted by OceanDeep
Well, for my opinion it makes a diff because my stance has been you two agreed to be friends. Before you posted that, I didnt see anything wrong with what he's doing. This does make a difference, what you posted after the fact. I guess I dont know what to tell you. I would be confused by this, but nothing by what he was doing before as I dont think he was giving you mixed signals as a friend, but of course too a good basis for something you two to build on something. ... With you keeping the mindset that you two only being friends.
But you know at this point I don't wanna just be friends. So I need to set things straight.
I kinda figured I wouldn't ask right away when I first hung out with him. To me it was more of a feeling out process to see if he was going to flirt with me or not. What I didn't plan on was him coming on so strong. And with that much affection.
But I have my next move planned out. I'll execute it when I feel like the time is right. For now I'll just go about my life as I have been
I understand what you're saying. But I've stood by my thought on this and actually went to bat for both he and you that you both wanted to be friends. And to give the guy a break both off of what you two decided you wanted. I'm not a mind reader when I posted that again tonight, and for you now to say that you no longer want to be friends and based off of something none of us were aware of after you said the night went well, and left quite a bit out. lol Hope it works out to the way you want it!! 🙂click to expand

Posted by Sag89
Why are you sexually weak kits? It sounds like your ashamed of your sexuality sometimes if anything?

Posted by happykitsunePosted by Sag89
Why are you sexually weak kits? It sounds like your ashamed of your sexuality sometimes if anything?
Because I get horny very easily. Especially around scorpio...when he has his shirt off.
I'm only ashamed if I know I should be holding out. Right now is not the right time to be giving into my sexual appetite. Especially since he said one of the things that bothered him is that when we were dating we went too fast sexually. I hated this too. I want to take it slow and build the sexual stuff on more than just lustclick to expand



Posted by BigGirlPanties
ah hem...May I remind you about MY diamond comment several pages back. 😉
You cannot expect him to control the sexual direction...your body, your choice. Respect it and he will follow.
*damnscorpiocharm*



Posted by BigGirlPanties
That's a decision only you can make. The real question lies in why you didnt follow thru with asking him what his intention is. To get back together, or just remain friends. You know whats best for you. When you accept it without clarification, you are sendng the same mixed messages.
Just ask him...the worst he can do is reject you which has already happened. better to know the truth NOW, than when you are all wrapped up in him again, no?




Posted by BigGirlPanties
Well at least you know where you stand. I think he is quite confused, but not evil. He obviosuly likes you and is attracted to you. But he has to know he cant have it both ways.
Im sorry. I do think he will try again to connect with you again. Im thinking your scarcity is best....for your own well being.
(((hugggggs))






Posted by Sag89
Right?
Oh well his life

Posted by happykitsunePosted by Sag89
Right?
Oh well his life
Well take into consideration you're dating someone else right now. You guys haven't really talked things over. He really doesn't have any idea how you feel at this point. He obviously still likes you, but he has to keep it under wraps or risk hurting himself cus you may not like him and to him you prob don't cus you're dating someone else and cutting him outta the picture... so now he'll just suffer in silence till he's gotten over youclick to expand


Posted by BigGirlPanties
Sag89....admit it...you still want it. Its obvious as Ive read all your posts on him.
Why are you dilly dallying around with him?

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He's been texting me all day... he just sent me this..
"I just found one of your hairs on one of my blankets"
WTF?! lol