@Sag89
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Posted by Sag89
Just because you care or love someone doesn't mean you should be with them. We get this right?
Not saying you should. I care about the scorpio I was with, but I'm not even gna be friends with him now. Just comes down to what's healthy.
But you do have unfinished business, which causes problems in your current and future relationships
Posted by Sag89
Just because you care or love someone doesn't mean you should be with them. We get this right?Not saying you should. I care about the scorpio I was with, but I'm not even gna be friends with him now. Just comes down to what's healthy.
But you do have unfinished business, which causes problems in your current and future relationships
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What is the business?
Posted by Sag89
Just because you care or love someone doesn't mean you should be with them. We get this right?
Why then do you keep contacting him? And posting it here?
Posted by Sag89
Just because you care or love someone doesn't mean you should be with them. We get this right?Why then do you keep contacting him? And posting it here?
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Am I not allowed to talk about someone if I'm not going to date them? I thought it was relate able to kits situation except in the fact I know longer want him as a boyfriend.
I'm a sag when people say things to my face I usually take it as face value I don't look for hidden meanings. Thats why I post here asking for what other people thought since they seem to do that.
he seems upset so I'm trying to be a nice person and ask if he's okay but he's not really directly saying anything. Or if he is I don't get it.
Posted by happykitsune
You still really care about him
hmm seems like a job for King Of Aries, I will need picture of your boobs, and vegienie in order to evaluate the cause of your problems.. i will also use them to tell you whether you are pregnant or not.. these kinds of evaluations sometimes need extra data and images for evaluation.. you may inbox me for more details.
bullshit. You dont post all those text's of drama cus he is your friend. He isnt your friend, btw. Drama, drama, drama.
Oh...and denial too. 😉
^^^ ha ha ha
Posted by Sag89
Just because you care or love someone doesn't mean you should be with them. We get this right?Not saying you should. I care about the scorpio I was with, but I'm not even gna be friends with him now. Just comes down to what's healthy.
But you do have unfinished business, which causes problems in your current and future relationships
What is the business?
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unfinished business... like things left unsaid. Stuff unsettled. Questions you still ponder. You still are talking about him, and thinking about him...and it's in an emotional way from what I can tell.
Just seems like unfinished business to me
Posted by BigGirlPanties
bullshit. You dont post all those text's of drama cus he is your friend. He isnt your friend, btw. Drama, drama, drama.Oh...and denial too. 😉
Exactly he isn't my friend lol I asked him to be and he rejected me I was very sad for a while
Posted by Sag89
Just because you care or love someone doesn't mean you should be with them. We get this right?Not saying you should. I care about the scorpio I was with, but I'm not even gna be friends with him now. Just comes down to what's healthy.
But you do have unfinished business, which causes problems in your current and future relationships
What is the business?
unfinished business... like things left unsaid. Stuff unsettled. Questions you still ponder. You still are talking about him, and thinking about him...and it's in an emotional way from what I can tell.
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Yea because he's all of a sudden talking to me and yes I do wonder what it is about!
Kits scorpio txted her after he dumped her and she wanted to know why.
I don't see how I am any different?
Posted by Sag89
Kits scorpio txted her after he dumped her and she wanted to know why.I don't see how I am any different?
I think they're seeing it as different because I asked him flat out what he saw me as then straight after I told him I couldn't be friends with him (because I needed to get over him). I've removed him from my daily life and am trying to move on from all of this
Posted by Sag89
Kits scorpio txted her after he dumped her and she wanted to know why.I don't see how I am any different?
I think they're seeing it as different because I asked him flat out what he saw me as then straight after I told him I couldn't be friends with him (because I needed to get over him). I've removed him from my daily life and am trying to move on from all of this
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Ya because you are like in love with him or whatever. I ask him because he sounds upset and I'm trying to be a human being and be nice and ask what the problem is and why he feels the need to even be talking to me.
if he would say it's has to do anything with us romanticly I would tell to please not contact me anymore. Maybe he is just fucking depressed. I don't know. I'm trying to see.
Posted by Sag89
Kits scorpio txted her after he dumped her and she wanted to know why.I don't see how I am any different?
I think they're seeing it as different because I asked him flat out what he saw me as then straight after I told him I couldn't be friends with him (because I needed to get over him). I've removed him from my daily life and am trying to move on from all of this
Ya because you are like in love with him or whatever. I ask him because he sounds upset and I'm trying to be a human being and be nice and ask what the problem is and why he feels the need to even be talking to me.
if he would say it's has to do anything with us romanticly I would tell to please not contact me anymore. Maybe he is just fucking depressed. I don't know. I'm trying to see.
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I wouldn't say I'm in love with him...I love him and care about him, but not in love.
What does he tell you the reason for him contacting you is?
If it bothers you that he contacts you, regardless of if it's romantic or not, you should still cut off contact with him. It's better for him in the long run so he can get completely over you. Obviously, based on your posts, he can't handle a friendship.
Posted by Sag89
Kits scorpio txted her after he dumped her and she wanted to know why.I don't see how I am any different?
I think they're seeing it as different because I asked him flat out what he saw me as then straight after I told him I couldn't be friends with him (because I needed to get over him). I've removed him from my daily life and am trying to move on from all of this
Ya because you are like in love with him or whatever. I ask him because he sounds upset and I'm trying to be a human being and be nice and ask what the problem is and why he feels the need to even be talking to me.
if he would say it's has to do anything with us romanticly I would tell to please not contact me anymore. Maybe he is just fucking depressed. I don't know. I'm trying to see.
I wouldn't say I'm in love with him...I love him and care about him, but not in love.
What does he tell you the reason for him contacting you is?
If it bothers you that he contacts you, regardless of if it's romantic or not, you should still cut off contact with him. It's better for him in the long run so he can get completely over you. Obviously, based on your posts, he can't handle a friendship.
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That is what I don't get. When he dumped me he said it was totally over me and did not love me. So obiviously I believed that.
I don't know I'm asking.
lol
he says alot is hard and he is sad. What should I say?
I said " what do you think you need? "
Posted by Sag89
he says alot is hard and he is sad. What should I say?
He lied of course. He just wants to have the upper hand. I blame your sag sun for believing his word as I do the same too. My scorpio placements are what eventually kick in and say "hey wait a min..."
Maybe call him bluff. Say something like "I know you're not over me.."
Expose the elephant in the room and make sure you get to the bottom of it. Don't be scare that it'll scare him away because it's better to get to the root of the problem then to be wondering all the time and both of you are stuck confused and (prob more so him) hurt.
Posted by Sag89
he says alot is hard and he is sad. What should I say?He lied of course. He just wants to have the upper hand. I blame your sag sun for believing his word as I do the same too. My scorpio placements are what eventually kick in and say "hey wait a min..."
Maybe call him bluff. Say something like "I know you're not over me.."
Expose the elephant in the room and make sure you get to the bottom of it. Don't be scare that it'll scare him away because it's better to get to the root of the problem then to be wondering all the time and both of you are stuck confused and (prob more so him) hurt.
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Yea? I was thinking of saying " what is that you think you need? " meaning like maybe you should look at why your sad and fix it. But he may not be insightful enough for that. I thought it would be worth a try tho?
What was a lie? yes my sag sun wants to think ppl tell the truth. Well emotional stable do anyway ;P
Posted by Sag89
he says alot is hard and he is sad. What should I say?He lied of course. He just wants to have the upper hand. I blame your sag sun for believing his word as I do the same too. My scorpio placements are what eventually kick in and say "hey wait a min..."
Maybe call him bluff. Say something like "I know you're not over me.."
Expose the elephant in the room and make sure you get to the bottom of it. Don't be scare that it'll scare him away because it's better to get to the root of the problem then to be wondering all the time and both of you are stuck confused and (prob more so him) hurt.
Yea? I was thinking of saying " what is that you think you need? " meaning like maybe you should look at why your sad and fix it. But he may not be insightful enough for that. I thought it would be worth a try tho?
What was a lie? yes my sag sun wants to think ppl tell the truth. Well emotional stable do anyway ;P
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A lie that he's fine and over it.
Yeah I guess start out by asking what he thinks he needs, but you need to push the issue of why he keeps contacting u and why he's sad... my guess is it's because of you
Posted by Sag89
he says alot is hard and he is sad. What should I say?He lied of course. He just wants to have the upper hand. I blame your sag sun for believing his word as I do the same too. My scorpio placements are what eventually kick in and say "hey wait a min..."
Maybe call him bluff. Say something like "I know you're not over me.."
Expose the elephant in the room and make sure you get to the bottom of it. Don't be scare that it'll scare him away because it's better to get to the root of the problem then to be wondering all the time and both of you are stuck confused and (prob more so him) hurt.
Yea? I was thinking of saying " what is that you think you need? " meaning like maybe you should look at why your sad and fix it. But he may not be insightful enough for that. I thought it would be worth a try tho?
What was a lie? yes my sag sun wants to think ppl tell the truth. Well emotional stable do anyway ;P
A lie that he's fine and over it.
Yeah I guess start out by asking what he thinks he needs, but you need to push the issue of why he keeps contacting u and why he's sad... my guess is it's because of you
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Just because you care or love someone doesn't mean you should be with them. We get this right?