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wow ..... looks like you are getting a lot of helping in working it.

Men aren't that hard to figure out ... women are extremely hard in realizing it's them that hinder any relationship due to attacking his every move with her emotional whirlwinds.


I'm sure more will come to help you work it more.



Pity .. you have to have instant gratification to satisfy your insecurity, instead of letting nature run it's course.

Sheesh people are up and around today aren't they.

I agree with P and LadyScorp... I tend to over analyze too much and not let things be as they should. I had to take a deep breath last night and today and realize I can't keep trying to analyze and direct this...it should flow... that being said I am slowly working a "calm" into myself so that I won't think so much. Tea helps some.

I checked my phone today and had a fb notification from him, inviting me to his next band performances. Unless I get a bunch of people to go with me I probably won't go, but I just thought I'd share that.

I think he likes you still!

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Posted by happykitsune
"You too! Sorry I didn't respond. We just finished practice"

Pretty basic. The "sorry" is a nice touch. And he keeps using those dang "!" like he wants me to get excited

Yey!

Haha, the "!" was typical of Scorp/Aqua too, especially when I was being aloof or indifferent with him, and especially after the whole FB thing is when he really started using them. How funny is that lol

Yes, his sorry keeps him the good guy and showing care. Always the good guy, never the bad. Remember that as his moto, and how he wants to be perceived.

Nice touch was he was letting you know why he couldnt respond right away 🙂


BTW, where was his libra placement again or did I confuse that with another Scorp story on here?

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I'm try to remember that

Yeah if I had waited till then and let him text me it would have been closer to 1. I had an 8:30 am class so that wasn't happening and also I had told myself I'd end the conversation before 12.

He has a libra mars. They're suppose to be all about compromise and equality apparently

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Posted by happykitsune
Sheesh people are up and around today aren't they.

I agree with P and LadyScorp... I tend to over analyze too much and not let things be as they should. I had to take a deep breath last night and today and realize I can't keep trying to analyze and direct this...it should flow... that being said I am slowly working a "calm" into myself so that I won't think so much. Tea helps some.

I checked my phone today and had a fb notification from him, inviting me to his next band performances. Unless I get a bunch of people to go with me I probably won't go, but I just thought I'd share that.

Stop thinking, I know it is hard but do, let things flow as organically as possible. Whence you have found your calm then you are able to assess the situation for what it is, you will be able to take decisions from what your inner voice tells you, your intuition is there for a reason, use it...not hinder it 🙂

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Agreed. I'm drinking some stress-relieving tea as we speak.

Got a sag texting me so maybe that'll keep my mind off of things

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Posted by BigGirlPanties
Ocean Deep is speaking from a calm, serene mind. Me, on the other hand, ain't 😉

So, take a little bit from each of us...bottom line...protect yourself. He is a good guy but your feelings and emotional well being is important.

If ya like, you can send me his number and me and my Leo mouth, broken hearted venus cancer and smarmy scorp moon will give him a call and find out what's what...😛

Can I give you Scorp/Scorps (A's) number? Ask wth is up, and give him the what fors? Remain anonymous, but be the boys with the bats for me. His number is tatooed on my brain if you need it, I can say it in 17 differnet language, including sign. 😛

Hahahaha, Oh Ocean! 😄

Yes, can I enlist this lovely lioness's aid as well?

Well I cant speak for BGP but I think she would.... and could do the job very nicely, discreetly, and to the point quite effortlessly, don't you agree? 🙂 Wasnt there a fish you wanted cooked? 🙂

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Thank you, ladies. While I can rarely speak well for myself and achieve the desired outcome, I feel confident in my ability to represent any of your beautiful women well and with high regard to any stinky boy scorpio. :p

Oh and speaking of over-reading texts..hmm....well, I certainly read into multiple exclamation points, but my favorite was when he typed in ALL caps, hence his bringing GREAT excitement and attention getting in THOSE words. Oh the analysis....

;P

Lady p i love your pic btw I love that part in the movie!

Posted by BigGirlPanties
Oh and speaking of over-reading texts..hmm....well, I certainly read into multiple exclamation points, but my favorite was when he typed in ALL caps, hence his bringing GREAT excitement and attention getting in THOSE words. Oh the analysis....

;P

Haha all caps huh? Never got that with him, but there were several smilie faces. Also even tho I kept it vague he would always have an answer to the text I'd send and a lot of times questions. It felt like he knew I was trying to keep it short so he purposely asked questions to get responses out of me

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Lady p i love your pic btw I love that part in the movie!

What movie is that?

;P



It felt like he knew I was trying to keep it short so he purposely asked questions to get responses out of me



Yup, thats him trying to pull you towards him because he feels you pulling back. You're doing it right, missy 🙂

anything else from him?

Posted by BigGirlPanties
anything else from him?

Just a comment on my recent status ("I intend to be independently blue.") He had to go and be literal and ask if I was talking about the navi from avatar.

I actually just got a lot of action recently on my fb. Made some new guy friends and some of us were hanging and one of them grabbed my phn and posted a status about him being the best and tagged himself. I thought it might be kinda interesting if it got a reaction outta scorpio, but now I honestly don't care to do that anymore so I've been going back to being mellow on my fb and prob gna go silent again to see if that sparks a text or something

Posted by LadyScorpP
Sorry to spoil the fun girls, but a text is but a text, mere words and punctuations (there is no eye contact nor body language to pick up upon) 🙂

Therefore please do not over look into it, trying to seek a meaning. I have been guilty of it in the past, all it brings is much stress and unneeded worry....relax, and allow things to unfold as it is meant to be

I used to think that too, until I heard about all the things guys do intentionally via text. This was from a guy and right away everything and every way he had texted me made sense.

I do need to hang with him soon tho so I can get body language...he is bad about giving things away cus he says so little. Then again I don't need body language to tell me he is detaching from his emotions when he texts me. Dang aqua moon

Idk what's up with DXP lately, but it's not showing my posts are coming up.

Anywho, he just texted me regarding my status. Now my next move...hmm..decisions, decisions

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BGP you're killin' me

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Idk what's up with DXP lately, but it's not showing my posts are coming up.

Anywho, he just texted me regarding my status. Now my next move...hmm..decisions, decisions

RELAX girl, you are getting all jittered up. Do not think, just feel your answer...if you want to reply, reply (do not keep it cool since it is against your nature but do remain relaxed and calm) 🙂

A cup of chamomile tea?

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Yes chamomile and honey :3

Can't help the jittery-ness... I get bad anxiety sometimes :/

Ah kits, I had posted before I read you prior posts, didnt know wht updated you meant..

ok, I got it now..yes, be calm, cool and collected. Lady S will make you a spot of tea so you can be your serene self and handle this all in good form. 🙂

I do believe in waiting a nice chuck of time before replying. That has been helpful to me in past.

PS I had anxiety today too... 😢 not like it. It helps me to talk to people when this happens. Ive been on the phone most of the day, also prayer and meditation, tho meditating thru anxiety is a toughie.

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PS I had anxiety today too... 😢 not like it. It helps me to talk to people when this happens. Ive been on the phone most of the day, also prayer and meditation, tho meditating thru anxiety is a toughie.

Really? :/ It's times like these when I just wanna curl up in my bed and hide under the covers. Luckily I live in the dorms so I have people all around me and my suite mate has came in from time to time.

I waited a bit of time to reply tho... he actually started sending other texts if I didn't respond right away. Signs are getting better.

are you still going to wait til you see him to bring up the issue of what he wants?

Posted by BigGirlPanties
are you still going to wait til you see him to bring up the issue of what he wants?

I plan on it. I thought he was gna invite me to hang earlier cus he asked what I was doing, but that just sparked an hr long convo about super smash bros. No clue what he's doing now

I just want to make sure he appreciates that he shouldnt hurt your heart if he isnt interested in getting back together with you. Take care of you and your heart.

Yes, sometimes its so hard to let it just unfold on it's own. I've done much better than in the past tho. I was so bad about being scarce. Now look at me 🙂 I've come so far.

Thanks girls for being so comforting. I'm hoping at this rate he will eventually ask me to hang out since he's withdrawing is becoming less and less. And you bet I will ask him what his intentions are. I went through years of being dragged around by a leo and I'm not about to let that happen again.

He just texted me...like an hr later...games tsk tsk. Hmm should I just leave it and answer in the morning?

I got an email back from ex scorp saying " ok if thats how you feel " lol

Posted by Sag89
I got an email back from ex scorp saying " ok if thats how you feel " lol

These dang scorpios...somethings up with them again *sigh*

Posted by Sag89
I got an email back from ex scorp saying " ok if thats how you feel " lol

Wait, what was his email a response to?

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Posted by Sag89
I got an email back from ex scorp saying " ok if thats how you feel " lol

These dang scorpios...somethings up with them again *sigh*

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I'm not going to say anything because I really rather never talk to him again. lol

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I got an email back from ex scorp saying " ok if thats how you feel " lol

Wait, what was his email a response to?

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" I hate you so much. I hope we never run into eachother. You were the worst thing that ever happened in my life. Jsut pretened you never knew me and I will do that same "

His response sounds almost detached, but with a hint of sadness.

Do you srsly not wanna see him again?

Posted by happykitsune
His response sounds almost detached, but with a hint of sadness.

Do you srsly not wanna see him again?

Yeah that is how I would describe it too.


He's not a very nice person lol

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Posted by happykitsune
His response sounds almost detached, but with a hint of sadness.

Do you srsly not wanna see him again?

Yeah that is how I would describe it too.


He's not a very nice person lol

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Lol oh ok. Well you're the best judge of that. Feel what you need to do is right. Don't you miss him tho? :/ Or does he just hurt u too much?

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Posted by happykitsune
His response sounds almost detached, but with a hint of sadness.

Do you srsly not wanna see him again?

Yeah that is how I would describe it too.


He's not a very nice person lol

Lol oh ok. Well you're the best judge of that. Feel what you need to do is right. Don't you miss him tho? :/ Or does he just hurt u too much?

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Not anymore. I tried to be his friend because I did miss him and he was cold to me. Than I flipped out and all these hidden feelings of hurt and anger just consumed me.

Now I just want to see him dead lol hopefully though this anger will pass into just nothingness.


He was just so rude! lol

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Posted by happykitsune
His response sounds almost detached, but with a hint of sadness.

Do you srsly not wanna see him again?

Yeah that is how I would describe it too.


He's not a very nice person lol

Lol oh ok. Well you're the best judge of that. Feel what you need to do is right. Don't you miss him tho? :/ Or does he just hurt u too much?

Not anymore. I tried to be his friend because I did miss him and he was cold to me. Than I flipped out and all these hidden feelings of hurt and anger just consumed me.

Now I just want to see him dead lol hopefully though this anger will pass into just nothingness.


He was just so rude! lol

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Oh wow. that's not good :/

But at least you got all those emotions out in the open.

So we've been texting throughout the day. Very long pauses on my part. He asked if I was gna play super smash bros and when I told him I wish I could play the wii one he told me he had it... We joked about him playing with a certain character and making bet. Still hasn't straight up invited me over tho and I'm not saying anything till he does >.>

I was a little bad tho. I made some innuendos (oops) and told him he's cuter when he's not a know it all. He asked why and I said nevermind. Now he wants to know and it's almost overwhelming... the sag in me is feeling a little crowded. :/

Gonna go do hw now. Wonder how long he'll be able to last without an answer 😛

its true sag can get a little fearful of losing freedom..? that explains something to me. well let him wonder...nice to feel a little in control isnt it?

Posted by BigGirlPanties
its true sag can get a little fearful of losing freedom..? that explains something to me. well let him wonder...nice to feel a little in control isnt it?

I'm never afraid for my freedom, but I do have the tendency to feel crowded. I fight through it tho, which is the only way I can have long term relationships.

The control is nice, tho his text dwindled down to a simple "yep" and that's where it ended. I'm tempted to ask him when we're gonna play super smash bros together

i say dont ask....let him pursue you. be scarce,.,,you're a diamond...let him work to earn you back... ;p

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i say dont ask....let him pursue you. be scarce,.,,you're a diamond...let him work to earn you back... ;p

Lol thanks, I didn't ask. He keeps asking me what I'm doing and it keeps making me think he's going to invite me over. He's playing some srs games by saying we should play video games then not inviting me over. Hate that!

A +1 tho.. he said we should make a drinking game out of super smash bros. Remember he had gotten upset at me for getting drunk previous... so of course I sneakily made a remark that I probably would have a terrible tolerance now. He asked when the last time I had drank. Test alert! I passed. Without making it seem like it was for him. Cus it's not >.>

Now he's telling me about some fast he did... he's being way more talkative than he usually is... bad sign? Maybe -.- I hate these games. Srsly

This thread and the Sagi style is such a source of reflection.
You know how they say in astrology, that marriages between two adjacent signs are veey good combinations? Cause the sign that's ahead has recently (in the latest life) been through the trial that the sign behind is living? I believe there's some solid truth in that. Apparently the sign ahead has this innate compassion towards the sign behind who anticipates what's in store for the future and is preparing for it. So Scorps crave for what the Sag has and Sags seem to instinctively get what Scorps are made of 🙂
Incidentally just remembered my first was a Virgo guy 🙂)

BGP reading you and the others made me understand why I could never be with a Scorp. Cause this game of pretending you're juust a bit too good for him is vital to keep a Scorp around, makes him happy, but to me it seems so terribly fake I could never do it. To me being better is becoming more humble, quietly hoping, seeing how someone else cultivating the same value discovers your inner gold 🙂

Another shocking thing I've discovered on DXP is how rational Sagis are. They can have sex with ppl without loving them! Not saying its good or bad, just sheer force. For me, a Leo girl, that's huge. I'm honestly a naive child in this world. Where, where have I been living so far?! 🙂)

I'd wish the op good luck but I realize I wasn't nearly as rational as her at that age

(sorry if I keep referring to my own experience and myself, it's cause the Leo path means self discovery)

No worries. It's all good.

I'm hoping that in some way this thread will help those in the future in how they deal with a male scorpio.

Ultimately it's up to them to honest and confident in who they are, but they should also keep in mind that the things they do can not only seem desperate, but disrespecting to yourself. I've come a long ways in learning this and applying it to my life. I've also found that it's been great being single. I don't find myself acting desperately or wishing I had a boyfriend.

Now don't get me wrong, I say I don't have to have a boyfriend, but I still really like this scorpio. He had a lot of the qualities I wanted in a person. And I found that (while I was dating him no less) that I not only would be okay if I was single at that moment, but that even so I still enjoyed him in my life. Even so I still shy away from being friends because of the reasons he chose to just be friends. I won't go into them cus they are in another thread, but basically they were things that I had been working on and he was too impatient for me to fix them. That's why I'm still debating if I want to continue talking to him on a friend level.

UPDATE

Him: What are you doing this weekend?

Me: stuff

Him: Like what?

Me: Nosey

Him: Yep

Me: Typical. Why do you wanna know?

Him: Just seeing when we are playing super smash bros. I'm not typically nosey.

Me: Sure you're not. Well when do u have free?

Basically my whole week was busy, his was basically all free lol, but I told him we could probably still do something if he wanted. I'm thinking either tonight or tomorrow night we're gonna hang. Finally! I'll get that chance I needed to observe and see what he wants.

^ way to play it kits!

Interesting way to put it leo.

Posted by happykitsune
. I've also found that it's been great being single

I'm thinking of dumping my current scorpio because I'm getting stifled. It felt really good to let go of ex scorpio for now lol I guess I'm on a roll

good going kitsy girl 😉

Keep us updated...and kick his ass in SSB 🙂

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^ way to play it kits!

Thanks 😄 I'm pretty proud of myself

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Posted by happykitsune
. I've also found that it's been great being single

I'm thinking of dumping my current scorpio because I'm getting stifled. It felt really good to let go of ex scorpio for now lol I guess I'm on a roll

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Lol on a roll of gettin' rid of scorpios?

Do you not still like him? o.o

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good going kitsy girl 😉

Keep us updated...and kick his ass in SSB 🙂

Whoop! Whoop!

I'm playing some SSB tonight with some guy friends so I will be ready for him ;P