Well...I broke up with him (Page 3)

Posted by tw1nk1e

Posted by LilliLou
Good morning everyone- Neuro, Elle, M&M??s and Necroblitz in fine (if odd) form!
I??d love a cupcake for breakfast Melly??_?!!!

Poor thing AgentGem??_ I agree with earlier sentiments, she is very young and we all made a bucket load of mistakes at her age! It's not the end of the world for either of them- just another lesson.
AG- there are some pearls of wisdom amongst the cupcakes, namely
1. You need to get a handle on yourself; with the OCD and as DMV suggested body issues and while you have to expend all this energy on your emotional, mental and physical wellbeing there is little point in being with someone else.
2. In fact it could be very damaging- perhaps steer clear of a relationship with anyone for a little while. Until you have the above issues sorted and as Elle mentioned there seems to be unresolved issues with your Leo ex??_?
3. You need to own your age. There is no point in claiming to be mature as you are not there yet. The reason you find it easy to date older people is that they are more indulgent and probably wryly smile at your antics. Someone your own age will call you on it and go to battle! You seem very intelligent, articulate, funny and very sweet, but I'm yet to see the maturity you speak of. This is not a bad thing- simply where you are at in the game of life.
4. If you post??_ expect replies & cupcakes

But also, kudos to you for calling time on it. There is no point dragging it out if you are not there. 3 months is a blink of an eye- a fun, steamy blink of an eye!

This is why I like you.

I think I'm in love!! Posted by LilliLou

click to expand

LOL!

Didnt post right...

"I think I'm in love!!

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
I'm not gonna let you punk ass bitches blame this on her libra moon.

FeckinA!!!

AgentGem,

Girl where to begin? cant stop shaking my head at the way events unfolded. No wonder young gems cannot stand self-obsessed young scorps. I had a scorp guy friend when in college - never understood where he got his creds from for being this "awesome handsome guy" when in reality he was like any other person around. Scorps have delusions of grandeur, the males that i've seen (they're born with it). They truly believe they're the solution to all of woman's problems lol. I always looked it as lolworthy instead of annoyance though, a quirk if you will.

Scorps' sardonic humor is certainly lost on you. Insulting your friends? you should've taught him to hold his tongue when he did that... not by snapping but enough intelligence that would make him think twice before he spoke of them again. Also you place too much weight on others in your life. Others opinions of him shouldnt have mattered to you when you're with him. Only your opinion should matter.

Anyway, you made your choice. Stop giving it stupid reasons and trying to win over everyone here with what your friends and family thought of your situation and give dating a rest for a while.

Posted by MellyMel909
Bobbin' and weavin'... Scuttlin' and side steppin'...

Damn. Must be a mutable sign thing. That Gemini sun with a Cancer Venus must be a bitch.. Don't wanna get too close but wanting the closeness of a man at the same time.. Monkey barring from one relationship to the other so fast that your feet barely have time to bit the ground..

Please, do your fellow sisters a favor and do not date (ESPECIALLY a water sign man!!) until you have a come-to-Jesus sit down with yourself.
Sincerely,
All the women that have to date after you

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/marriage-and-divorce-by-sun-sign-1847974/
Scorpio Men

Scorpio men marry Pisces women more often than those of any other sign, and Geminis and other Scorpios least often. They most often divorce Taurus and Gemini women. There was no statistically significant result regarding which sign Scorpio men are least likely to divorce.

The higher divorce rate between Scorpio men and Gemini women is unsurprising. These signs have little in common. Scorpio is deep, brooding, intense and secretive, whereas Gemini is sociable, open, impulsive and chatty. The Gemini will tend to —pick at?? the Scorpio, attempting to extract information, while the Scorpio will stubbornly dig his heels in. This can result in an impasse.

Scorpios delve deeply into something that is important to them, while Geminis dabble in many things simultaneously. Scorpios are also rigid about commitments, whereas Geminis are laid back and easy going, prone to forgetfulness, lateness and in some cases not showing up at all. While a Gemini is more inclined to tolerate these behaviors in others, Scorpio takes a dim view of them.

Scorpio Women

Scorpio women marry Pisces men most often, and are least inclined to marry Aries and Aquarius men. Scorpio women are least likely to divorce Gemini and Pisces men. As for who they are most likely to divorce, there was no statistically significant result for any sign.
----

thought that was interesting, since it's about "nature" of the sun sign.

Posted by Superseven

Posted by CluelessCancer
This thread is classic, now she got a new man, bahhahahhahahahahhahahahahahah

Oh to be young and FREE, i loved my 20s...I think we're all just a tad bit jealous she's rotating these guys like clothing. I know i am😉

Lol, it's that libra moon.

click to expand

Yup

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
My conclusion is she enjoys attention like many early 20's females and if one attention falters she figures to go to whoever is giving better attention. smh.

Libra moons love attention, especially from more than one person.

As a scorp moon, air moons just dont seem to get me. I react emotionally whereas they look at me with a blanket stare or crack a joke.

If I find them increasingly frustrating they must find my emotional outbursts to be looney.

Posted by Neurotoxin
Some air signs just THINK they are intellectual.

... and some water signs FEEL they're very emotional and can understand the emotional state of everyone!

It goes both ways neuro.

I'm heading out da door right now (going to see Rush with hubby).. will reply to you sometime your night 🙂... and I must say, you've got a very level head for a scorpio 🙂

Posted by Arielle83
Since scorpio can read your thoughts because their intuition and sensing skills are superior to a gemini's, he probably sensed your distaste for him. If he found out you shared intimate details of your relationship with the world, and sought advice from strangers over your annoyance for him, I'm sure he would of left long ago. They are very private and would see this as a sign of betrayal.

+1

well it's all over the internet, "what scorpio man needs/wants." Go to sasstrology and you'll find articles there written all about the scorpio man.

But, I do notice some men don't care about their pride. (some of them in other months born) Women will "emasculate" them until they are mere shells of nothing.

Posted by Neurotoxin
Personally, I think he was just using her for a piece of ass.

There are men of all signs that do that shit.

*shrug*

I have to disagree. Venus in cap wouldnt even waste their time.

Posted by SugarAries

Posted by DMV
libra moons are.........no offense SugAries, but you guys.....

Wha momma? What we do now? ...we are wishy washy with our emotions. Very inconsistent. Is it that? or something else 😢

click to expand

yeah thats the gist of it.

i am so fixed and stagnant. my emotions dont change that often. i dated a libra moon and i was ready to go insane with the "lets be an item" to "I dont want anything" back to "U know what i was thinking lets do this relationship thing" to "its just not a great time."

it was endless. i finally removed myself emotionally which is what OP scorp did.

Posted by DMV

Posted by SugarAries

Posted by DMV
libra moons are.........no offense SugAries, but you guys.....

Wha momma? What we do now? ...we are wishy washy with our emotions. Very inconsistent. Is it that? or something else 😢

yeah thats the gist of it.

i am so fixed and stagnant. my emotions dont change that often. i dated a libra moon and i was ready to go insane with the "lets be an item" to "I dont want anything" back to "U know what i was thinking lets do this relationship thing" to "its just not a great time."

it was endless. i finally removed myself emotionally which is what OP scorp did.

click to expand

i think what made his indecisiveness so much more apparent was the fact that there were other women in the picture. so he was divided between his venus in cap wanting to make the right choice between a few different people. one minute u think youve made it but then you dont.

^^ Don't forget, as AG as mentioned to remind us: he has an Aquarius rising and a Leo Moon too.

Posted by lisabethur8
^^ Don't forget, as AG as mentioned to remind us: he has an Aquarius rising and a Leo Moon too.

i dont have much experience with those 2 placements. What affect would that have had?

Posted by feby16aqua

Posted by DMV

Posted by DMV

Posted by SugarAries

Posted by DMV
libra moons are.........no offense SugAries, but you guys.....

Wha momma? What we do now? ...we are wishy washy with our emotions. Very inconsistent. Is it that? or something else 😢

yeah thats the gist of it.

i am so fixed and stagnant. my emotions dont change that often. i dated a libra moon and i was ready to go insane with the "lets be an item" to "I dont want anything" back to "U know what i was thinking lets do this relationship thing" to "its just not a great time."

it was endless. i finally removed myself emotionally which is what OP scorp did.

i think what made his indecisiveness so much more apparent was the fact that there were other women in the picture. so he was divided between his venus in cap wanting to make the right choice between a few different people. one minute u think youve made it but then you dont.

I have this combo and idk

click to expand

How are you with multiple suitors and picking one for a potential relationship?

bwahahahahaha

Posted by DMV

Posted by lisabethur8
^^ Don't forget, as AG as mentioned to remind us: he has an Aquarius rising and a Leo Moon too.

i dont have much experience with those 2 placements. What affect would that have had?

click to expand

to be honest, DMV i was just making a pun/joke. I dont really like analyzing, it gives me a headache. But i dont mind if others are writing about their analysis. It's fun to read/watch.

And don't forget his sag mercury

Anyways, he was a decent guy...he wasnt all bad. He tried and he really did like me, I didn't want to hurt him.

My friends approval is important but not everything. It only just helped further what I already felt.

Aside from being someone I eventually couldn't stand when he seemed so perfect in the beginning, I still enjoyed our time. The annoyances were there, I was bickering so much and nagging because I was trying to turn him into something I wanted...but that's him. He shouldn't have to stop his jokes or give up his friend for me...he needs someone that should accept all of him and be ok/giggle at the flaws vs irate like me.

He will find someone, I'm sure of it. As for me, I'm enjoying getting good sleep, working out, catching up on my studies and making outings with my friends

Pretty sure I'm keeping my distance from scorps now

I'M SO PROUD OF YOU!!!

You know, my other gem friend had a really bad relationship with this aries. ( worse than your scorp but still not really great ) she didn't leave him for a long time. Than eventually she finally had enough.

For a while after she really went on finding her self seeing what work and didn't. Healing from that. Than she met this great gemini guy and they are so in love.


You're gonna be totally fine AG and I think that is awesome. You're a good woman.

Posted by DMV

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
My conclusion is she enjoys attention like many early 20's females and if one attention falters she figures to go to whoever is giving better attention. smh.

Libra moons love attention, especially from more than one person.

click to expand

Thou doth project too much.

He will be just fine AgentGem.

Posted by AfternoonDelights22

Posted by DMV

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
My conclusion is she enjoys attention like many early 20's females and if one attention falters she figures to go to whoever is giving better attention. smh.

Libra moons love attention, especially from more than one person.

Thou doth project too much.

click to expand

is it not true?

Posted by DMV

Posted by AfternoonDelights22

Posted by DMV

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
My conclusion is she enjoys attention like many early 20's females and if one attention falters she figures to go to whoever is giving better attention. smh.

Libra moons love attention, especially from more than one person.

Thou doth project too much.

is it not true?

click to expand

Maybe if single. But when I'm in a relationship I want to be drowned by and submerged in the object of my affection. Both figuratively and literally. But I'm a Pisces so what do I know.

Posted by AfternoonDelights22

Posted by DMV

Posted by AfternoonDelights22

Posted by DMV

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
My conclusion is she enjoys attention like many early 20's females and if one attention falters she figures to go to whoever is giving better attention. smh.

Libra moons love attention, especially from more than one person.

Thou doth project too much.

is it not true?

Maybe if single. But when I'm in a relationship I want to be drowned by and submerged in the object of my affection. Both figuratively and literally. But I'm a Pisces so what do I know.

click to expand

ahh ic

Posted by Sag89
You know, my other gem friend had a really bad relationship with this aries. ( worse than your scorp but still not really great ) she didn't leave him for a long time. Than eventually she finally had enough.

For a while after she really went on finding her self seeing what work and didn't. Healing from that. Than she met this great gemini guy and they are so in love.


You're gonna be totally fine AG and I think that is awesome. You're a good woman.

I find that Taurus moons work well for me in relationships. Also a combo of earth/fire in the love sector

400+ comments...0.o

Posted by tw1nk1e
Wow.

Honestly, it's stupid to say that everyone born between Oct 22 and Nov 21 are terrible boyfriends. (Saying they are all wonderful is stupid too..)

There is nothing to be "wary" of unless he's an asshole.

That's like someone saying a Gemini screwed them over and then complaining about them online and saying all Geminis are blah.

It's okay to say someone's energy and personality doesn't work with you.... but it's going to bite you in the ass if you select your partner based on astrology.

some placements are non-neogtiable. lol, i mean i not insane. Im not going to keep dating signs that dont work hoping for a different result.

Well, I don't think every sign is that way. I have a thing for Leo's, but only Leo's with heavy earth/air/water placements. I've met some total ass hole Leo's!!

And I thought this Scorp may have been different but....he was the 7th and was just as bad, although much better than others at the same time. Even the Scorp/sag cusp was kuku

But I'm not going to start eliminating signs. Just be very weary of the Scorpy. The water signs I seem to get along the best with are Cancer and Pisces. I mean, both my venus and mars are in Cancer and I have many extremely close people in my life as cancer; my mom(libra moon too, go figure!), my grandpa, and best friend. Also quite a few acquaintances.

2 of my best female friends and a really close work friend are all Pisces.

I also have 2 very close Scorp female friends. Hm maybe it's just the guys lol

Posted by Neurotoxin

Posted by Agentgem24
Pretty sure I'm keeping my distance from scorps now

Aaaaand there it is....

click to expand

+1

If he irks you, he irks you... there is nothing you can do about it. It is what it is.

Hopefully you'll find someone that doesn't piss you off in the future.

Posted by AfternoonDelights22

Posted by DMV

Posted by AfternoonDelights22

Posted by DMV

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
My conclusion is she enjoys attention like many early 20's females and if one attention falters she figures to go to whoever is giving better attention. smh.

Libra moons love attention, especially from more than one person.

Thou doth project too much.

is it not true?

Maybe if single. But when I'm in a relationship I want to be drowned by and submerged in the object of my affection. Both figuratively and literally. But I'm a Pisces so what do I know.

click to expand

That's the Pisces in you. -.-

Fish.

Be nice to the fishy ~.~

Posted by JennGem

Posted by WaterCup

Posted by MilkySoft

Posted by WaterCup
OMG, I'm getting de ja vu just reading this because this is almost exactly how it ended with the scorp I was seeing. 3 mnths in & he also wanted a baby lol.

Interesting, the scorp guy I'm seeing has an impregnation fantasy but I think it is animalistic and kinda hot. We're not having sex yet though. As long as it's just a fantasy I'm cool with it.

Anyway, being a Gemini seems complicated.

Maybe it's a scorpio thing then..it was as weird as hell to me though, I found nothing hot about it.

I must be effed in the head b/c I have had several exes say this to me, it was a TURN ON!! Like mating season in full effect. lol It must be all of my Scorpio placements. For the RECORD I would date another Scorpio. However I have a lot of Scorpio energy. 🙂 🙂

click to expand

Do you have cancer in your chart? I'm scorpio dominant myself, but I still find it very off-putting. Maybe it's because I'm not a 'motherly' person. No crabby energy in my chart or in my womb 😄

What the eff is wrong with me dating Cancer? Remember I have Cancer all in my love sector and I am extremely close to my Cancer mom, grandpa, and best friend. My best friend is an Aries rising, Aqua moon and Gem venus..I swear I act more cancer than her! My grandpa has been married to libra 40+ years, and my mom was married to 2 Sag with the same name lol.

But besides the point, I'm lying low for a bit. But I don't think it's fair to say, "stay away from this sign..." Minus Scorpio...

I'm just saying I act more sensitive and am more easily offended is all. My mom is a cancer and very much like me...although when she is sad, she retreats into herself and I have to pull her out, where I must mingle!

I say I can act it. Obviously I'm not more cancer than cancer as I am not, but I have my moments.

I'm not sure what you are insinuating mellymel...I was stating what was wrong with me dating cancer (or any sign for that matter) because someone told me to stay away from them and I would chew them up and spit them out. A gross assumption.

Posted by Agentgem24
Be nice to the fishy ~.~

He knows I love him.

NotNights22 I've got LOVE for you.... I hope you feel the same.

Sorry my scorpio moon is showing. 😉

You loved being pregnant? How come I have a cancer venus and mars but the thought of having a baby terrifies me to the point of throwing myself off a building?? 0.o

And I'm not sure what 7th house is, but I have Leo in mine.

Posted by Agentgem24
I say I can act it. Obviously I'm not more cancer than cancer as I am not, but I have my moments.

I'm not sure what you are insinuating mellymel...I was stating what was wrong with me dating cancer (or any sign for that matter) because someone told me to stay away from them and I would chew them up and spit them out. A gross assumption.

If you can't read and understand how your words and thoughts are offending these Scorps and Cancers right here in the forum, how can you possibly understand how they perceive you in person?

Never mind 🙂

Stick with air and fire signs, and good luck to you.

The majority of my friends are water signs...Mostly Cancer and Pisces but a few Scorpios too. I don't offend them hardly at all, if anything...they tell me I AM too sensitive. My Pisces and Cancer best friend told me I was being too nice to the Scorp I dated when cutting it off. Fish told me to be firm and blunt, Crab told me to be a bitch about it.

This is the interwebz....people shouldn't be so easily offended online. In person, it's far different.

The only fire sign I like is Leo. Aries is too rude and blunt and Sag is too free spirited and commitment phone from my experiences.

The only earth I really like is Taurus and some Virgo

Air, I really just like Libra. Aquarius and Gem have been too commitment phone and communication distanced for my liking.

In Water, I like Cancer best. I come from a strong Cancer family background and it's in my love sector on both planets. Pisces is in my 2nd house, Scorpio Midheaven.

My brother is a Virgo with a Scorpio moon...I have accepted I will never fully understand him but he is a genius. He and I are very close and I am the only one he opens up to in the family.

Posted by CluelessCancer
This thread is classic, now she got a new man, bahhahahhahahahahhahahahahahah

Oh to be young and FREE, i loved my 20s...I think we're all just a tad bit jealous she's rotating these guys like clothing. I know i am😉

Once I used to despise people like this, easily dating, easily splitting, no remorse and no regrets. Now I envy them, cause it seems lots better than searching and analyzing for the right/acceptable one and then, if something doesn't work, ever-trying and then suffering.

I'm definitely a screwed Gem. I'm worse than an obsessive/emotional Scorp, I guess. Is nice to have the soul and the heart like butterflies. 🙂