What do Scorp's think about Virgo Scorpio pairing (Page 2)

A friend of mine (Virgo) extremely picky when it comes to men. Once at dinner, I invite a guy (Scorpio) who I think is very picky as well. Eight months later, they are married, still do now.

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I — Virgo's!

They're quirky and odd, and silly... They have inquisitive minds and love to get to know people. They are quite sociable but seem to prefer smaller groups and love one on ones. They're totally adorable when drunk and give the best hugs.

The only Virgo guy I know abused the girl I'm seeing. He choked her and stalked her. He even let himself into her house via the garage door pass code she had never give him. He just memorized watching her do it. He hid in her back yard and would wait till I left to go talk to her. When I confronted him he hit me in the jaw with a sucker punch as my head was turned. I proceeded to beat the shit out of him. I made his tooth puncture his lower lip. While he was on his back I choked him until she made me stop.

Obviously this is only one Virgo guy. I don't like him much.

Damnata is awesome though. Just my two cents.

Virgo male...Scorpio female

Best match over Scorp male/Virgo female

Anyway, Virgos are one of the few signs I am drawn to with little effort. They are quite balanced, calming--at least my ex was, overall good people. One of the few signs I would trust to take the lead.

Posted by scorptoohott
When you start dating the Virgo things will start very hot. You'll wonder how you lived without them , and then the games begin. You'll hear from the every day , then every other day , then every week until they fizzle out then BAM they're back. The cycle continue until you break it as we Scorps usually do. Then that's when the Virgo breaks down and becomes vulnerable for your empathy. At this point RUUUUUNNNNNN.

I can't relate to this.

Posted by scorptoohott
Yea sure.... You can't help anyone these days...

Posted by SteveW
PhoenixRising

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My father was a Virgo and I loved him to pieces. However, I could never date a Virgo. I dated two and it was a hot mess. Maybe it was just them, but it seemed like we thought and approached life very differently. Neither right or wrong or good or bad. Just different, which led to fundamental differences in the long run.

Posted by Andalusia
Overall, Male Virgo / Female Scorp seems to fair better than Male Scorp / Female Virgo.

Female Virgos tend to be blunt and emotionally obtuse, TBH; especially in relationships once da feelz are activated. They seem to do better long term with partners that are equally either as blunt or as obtuse.

Sagittarius males

Posted by Mscorp
Virgo females are more talkative than Gemini's 😢.
They are not healthy for ears.

This is true. Unfortunately.

Snippet on Virgo Women:

"For one thing, Virgo women have opinions. Mercury's connection with the sign seems to come out in a need to communicate, to talk, sometimes to simply gossip and chat. Many Virgo women talk endlessly. Sometimes it can make you cover your ears and begin screaming, just to make the sound stop. It may not be the traditional Virgo criticism, either. It may be all about the latest book she read, or the film she saw, or the person she's lately been taking apart and analyzing psychologically. Virgos love to talk about other people, in great detail. So if you're after the beautiful, silent type, forget it. "

http://songsdomain.tripod.com/virgo/page7.html

Posted by CluelessCancer
My laos friend is dating a scorpio from Romania. They seem to be doing well.

Oh, I remember you telling me about them. Glad to hear it.

How did he adapt to the US? My Romanian friend who lives in Palo Alto constantly complains about everything tasting like plastic.

Posted by Rabbit
I'm in the chair trying to read my book...and she's going through Groupon. And commenting on everything...

Show her that snippet. We are so annoying sometimes.

I know I do that too.

LoL

Posted by Rabbit
Criticizing a Virgo woman = no sex for a long time

Well you need to get over that a bit to make her aware of her flaws.

We really need to learn how to deal with criticism.

Posted by Rabbit
No.

I don't even know what sex you're referring to since it might only be the spreadsheet kind.

Get over spreadsheets man, you can do it.

One day I am going to write down a book about dating me and when I meet the next poor bastard on the first date:

"Here! Read this! Then we can date!"

I can only imagine the look on his face.

Posted by FrostAndBite
I like this thread. Blunt, snarky and talks too much, where can I put in an application for a Virgo gal pal? Sounds like a blast. I get on super great with cap women so I often wonder what the other sextile is like.

Never met a Virgo man in my life. So no opinion there. Though if they talk a lot too I probably couldn't deal. I love my at home quiet time. Chatting is for going/hanging out. At home is quiet time lol.

We can be bffs!!! You and me and Fox. 😄 All applications to my inbox 😄

I ran into my scorpio female friends in debates. We just had fun with that and kept on talking.

Actually that's my pattern with scorpios in general, we click, we keep on talking and talking. They are like Geminis around me.

omg Rabbit, I do that!!

ahahaha.

First date with the Aries..he talked and talked and talked about his life and his issues. Opened up. I was in heaven lol.

The faster I find out what demons I'm about to run into, the better. I can make an educated choice if my demons play well with yours or not.

Let me show this board what it's about, I'm sure you'd approve of it Rabbit.

LOL. This threat seems to think that the two signs are at least very friendly.

Even with the couple of attempts to derail the thread.

I am still confused is this a "Yes" vote or a "It Depends" vote?

It's complicated lol.

From my experience, if this bond is formed..it's really really hard to break it off.

For good or for worse. If it's good, you'll see very very happy virgos and scorpios...if it goes bad..it will go really bad for both.

Just my experience.

This topic is a mental exercise in virgoan/scorpionic sarcasm though lol.

It's a Yes.

^^^That.

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Posted by Shruikan
The only Virgo guy I know abused the girl I'm seeing. He choked her and stalked her. He even let himself into her house via the garage door pass code she had never give him. He just memorized watching her do it. He hid in her back yard and would wait till I left to go talk to her. When I confronted him he hit me in the jaw with a sucker punch as my head was turned. I proceeded to beat the shit out of him. I made his tooth puncture his lower lip. While he was on his back I choked him until she made me stop.

Obviously this is only one Virgo guy. I don't like him much.

Damnata is awesome though. Just my two cents.

I hope you fucked him up good.

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He came around a second time with a box cutter. It was little though. Pretty funny. I had to beat his ass again. Since then, he hasn't come back.

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Posted by Andalusia
It's a Yes.

No!

No one should date a Scorpio man. Ever.

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It's an exercise in insanity and few people do insanity as good as Virgo Women.

Why, it's quite the art and quite the life style for us.

Posted by CluelessCancer

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Posted by CluelessCancer
My laos friend is dating a scorpio from Romania. They seem to be doing well.

Oh, I remember you telling me about them. Glad to hear it.

How did he adapt to the US? My Romanian friend who lives in Palo Alto constantly complains about everything tasting like plastic.

I don't know he's awfully quiet and reserved. Can't crack him.

He just went back for 3 weeks to visit his mother.

I def see them together forever. He's nice to her, and she really values that.

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You know, few people value people who treat them nice. So I'm happy to hear that.

Most of the world, if they aren't fighting, there is no value in their relationship.

However much it will last..just to have that experience between 2 individuals is awesome.

I collect knives also (and letter openers). But I'm a lady so murano glass is the way to go.

I love white weapons in general. I think I still have a picture of antique swords in the national weaponry museum in Rome.

I like how this topic went from virgo-scorpio pairings to weapons lol.

Sounds like the natural progression.

Posted by Rabbit
Machetes are such a visceral tool...

katanas are much more visceral since they are used...for visceral purposes.

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Posted by Rabbit
Machetes are such a visceral tool...

katanas are much more visceral since they are used...for visceral purposes.

Maybe for Virgo efficiency. One quick swipe...

A machete might require a second or third satisfyingly painful swipe.

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I am trying to lure Tachi in here.

Stop twarting my efforts.

So getting back to the question at hand.

Do Scorp's and Virgo's get along—

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Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by Shruikan
The only Virgo guy I know abused the girl I'm seeing. He choked her and stalked her. He even let himself into her house via the garage door pass code she had never give him. He just memorized watching her do it. He hid in her back yard and would wait till I left to go talk to her. When I confronted him he hit me in the jaw with a sucker punch as my head was turned. I proceeded to beat the shit out of him. I made his tooth puncture his lower lip. While he was on his back I choked him until she made me stop.

Obviously this is only one Virgo guy. I don't like him much.

Damnata is awesome though. Just my two cents.

I hope you fucked him up good.

He came around a second time with a box cutter. It was little though. Pretty funny. I had to beat his ass again. Since then, he hasn't come back.

Virgo shows up with box cutter...


Scorpio pulls out this:

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That's not a knife. This is a knife. *Aussie accent.

Posted by miamivirgo
So getting back to the question at hand.

Do Scorp's and Virgo's get along—

No

Posted by Shruikan

Posted by miamivirgo
So getting back to the question at hand.

Do Scorp's and Virgo's get along—

No

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Hey!

I resent that 😐

Virgos - about 1000 ways to look at a topic.

Geminis - one way to look at 1000 topics.

It depends on which state you're in.

Virgo talking requires you to focus on a topic. Gemini talking requires your mind to be calm and rested so you can branch into the Universe and beyond. Also not to focus on anything because the topic changes with lightning speed.

Both produce high anxiety in geminis and virgos and piss people off if they're.just.not.in.the.mood. Which someone it never dawn on us that people might not be in a mood or be more private and silent by nature. I used to go into one of my rants and completely forget to check for that person's reaction. I cut that out when a friend of mine mid talking just stood up, put his jacket on and walked out the door. It's amazing I even noticed that. Oh well, he was back with icecream though.

One day I will strike gold selling ear muffs to gemini and virgo's partners 😄

I hate talking health. I'm the farthest thing from a hypochondriac.

Food? I will talk til I'm blue in the face.

*somehow *dawn

*dawns

Posted by Rabbit
I have it worse with both though 😭

It's not the talking that's bad with that combo is the propensity to stress like crazy.

The only, let me repeat, THE ONLY way to pull a Virgo out of that isn't sex. It's going on a mini holiday. It can be for a day, it doesn't matter..it soothes our nerves like wow.

Posted by IrresistableScorp

Posted by Damnata
I used to go into one of my rants and completely forget to check for that person's reaction.

This happens a lot with Virgos. I was raised by a Virgo. 😛

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Yeah so was I.

I completely feel Rabbit's pain because my father is a Virgo Sun/ Gemini Moon.

There is no stopping him.

Posted by IrresistableScorp

Posted by Rabbit
I have it worse with both though 😭

OMG a Virgo with a Gemini Moon! I feel your pain, man??_ no really

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Mine also 😭

I can't even bring myself to smile with my dad anymore.

I stay there looking vacant. If I break eye contact he finds that disrespectful so there will be another rant on respect as soon as the ongoing rant is over.

Maddening.

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Posted by Damnata
I can't even bring myself to smile with my dad anymore.

I stay there looking vacant. If I break eye contact he finds that disrespectful so there will be another rant on respect as soon as the ongoing rant is over.

Maddening.

A Virgo raised by a Virgo? That must have been *interesting.*.

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Very. Amazing for my intelect, devastating for my emotions.

I owe a lot of my principles in life and most of my knowledge to him.

On the flipside, he never could show affection so I learned that by caring for my cocker spaniel lol. He still can't do it now.

Well elly I still see no messages 😛

You must be taking the covert approach to chasing..you uber Scorpio you 😛

#trainingasatelepathtounderstandscorpios

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Posted by FrostAndBite

Posted by Damnata
Most of the world, if they aren't fighting, there is no value in their relationship.

However much it will last..just to have that experience between 2 individuals is awesome.

I fully support this statement as a Cancer moon in relationship with a Libra Moon. And it makes me smile that someone isn't attempting to invalidate our relationship style for once.

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Posted by Infinite8
^^^ just to clarify, I was not cheated on by Virgo men. They were trying to cheat on their girlfriends to be with me. They were upfront and persistent(became awesome friends). But, red flag remained: they like to look WHILE still with another.

+1

I was in a relationship with a Virgo for about 6 years. I won't get into the gory details but he made me feel as if I would never be good enough. Nothing I did was right and should have been done his way cause that's the way. The only way. He demanded a great deal from others but very little of himself. Granted, he was broken before he even left home so his jealousy, anger, and controlling ways were for sure, partly/mostly to do with his childhood. How much of that is Virgo trait, I have no idea.

Tiz, I haven't experienced this "straight up" person you refer to, perhaps not available in Canada? 😢

Damnata that dating video you posted on about page 8 was ROFLMAO kinda funny! Thanks for that. Lol