What does scorpio guy wants?

I am a virgo woman who is in love with a scorpio man. I am so attracted to this scorpio guy that i have read all the scorpio articles on google to prevent mistakes with him. However, scorpios are just so complex that it really mindfucks me.

When i first got together with this scorpio guy, i didn't really think much. I didn't knew much about relationships and what i wanted, that you had to date to find out if he is suitable before accepting a guy as your boyfriend because i'm quite new to relationships.

I broke off with my pisces boyfriend because he was violent and mistreating me. And after going back to him again and again, getting hurt, manipulated and used. I met a saggitaurus guy but he was unable to make me leave my pisces ex-bf. Virgos are sentimental creatures and they will go back to the previous relationship no matter how badly they are treated. I found it so hard to leave my pisces ex, but somehow this scorpio managed to do it. I used to stay at my ex bf house and i would lie to all the guys that its my grandmother's house. (Which is one of the things scorpios hate most -lies; but i swear it wasn't intentional)

After being in an official relationship with scorpio, i continued to go out with other dates whenever he could not accompany me. I knew it was wrong but at that time, i wasn't mature enough and i couldn't stand being alone. I was that kind of sticky gf and my exes were the kind who would always accomodate me and listen to me. But this scorpio was different, he was charismatic, intellectual, family-guy, gentle and caring.

I know scorpios, and any other horoscopes all has a good and bad side. There were many articles that say scorpios are manipulators and they will sting you and plot for a revenge. I know i was playing with fire but i couldn't get away from this scorpio guy. When he was nice, he was really nice. But when he was diabolical, he was really mean, the true nature of a scorpio.

To be honest, virgos are always misunderstood as princesses and selfish. But for this scorpio, i did many things that i would have never done, like household chores and putting up with his temper, and even when he does things in public which makes me really ashamed like quarrelling with others over small things ( i know thats his nature to be easily angered, thats why i understand and accept him for who he is).

After breaking up with him twice, and me being needy and clingy, and almost suicidal, i got my feet together and decided to be independent. I went overseas alone, i dated new guys, i tried to get over him, i improved myself (virgo trait).

But recently, we met again. And we went for dates that really touched my heart, although it was just a simple date. I had guys who chased me, brought me to expensive restaurants, gave me gifts, but they just couldn't compare to this feeling scorpio gives me. I don't know if scorpio went out on dates with other girls as well, i know nobody can put up with his temper, maybe except a

Pisces (because they like to please others).

Well, this scorpio really for once i feel he is starting to warm up to me. He watches horror movies with me even though it genuinely scares him. (which is really sweet) and he eats at my favourite restaurant (which is really something because scorpio always likes to dominates and decide even on simple things like meals)

Recently, he is starting to ask me where i am. Who i am with. I know this is a sign that scorpio is starting to care for you, but i'm really scared because i am afraid i'll be a door mat for him again. I refuse to talk about our relationship status because i don't want to be the fragile one. I don't want to beg him for a relationship. I go out with other guys on dates to make myself happier and more independent individual, but scorpio is really mindfucking me. He says he likes me, he tries to test how i would feel by making me jealous and saying he is going out with other girls, and then he asked if i would feel sad if he really decides to get married. I just don't know what he wants. He doesn't really want to commit to me yet he doesn't allow me to get on with my life or go on dates with other guys. I am really mindfucked and fragile, he has breaked me up so badly before that i changed into a total different person. But i really like him and don't want to be a door mat again. How do i get him to be frank and honest about his feelings and at the same time, not be fragile to him.

Scorpios like to have control but i will not let him break me down again. I like him, but i will not let him manipulate me again, and virgos are not afraid to leave when they don't get treated how they should be. I am a strong independent woman now. Please advice me on what i should do

I think sometimes being "needy and clingy" is a response to your neds not being met. Everyone is "needy", we all have "needs", some more than others - yes - but if for example some of your needs are emotional reassurance / open conversation thn this can be difficult sometimes with Scorpios.

So, you know, you have to get to a place of feeling comfortable with being drip fed to some degree for the time being.

You can't keep trying to fill your needs elsewhere because this is counter productive with Scorpio.

It is hard and complex, some people are more "closed" emotionally than other and a "closed" Scorpio is hard to reach. It can creat a psychological insecurity in certain people.

I don't think you can act strong, you have to actually be strong.

nobody knows

Posted by MoonArtist

lol..exactly

Posted by LetltB

Posted by MoonArtist

lol..exactly

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I just can't wrap my head around the entire clusterfuck she described. Normally I like helping, but this is just one of those moments of "shake head, walk away, quickly read something meaningful and intelligent as a purge".

im going to be brutally honest here and say this virgo sounds like an emotional slut...hopefully scorpio guy wants to make a emotional slut his girl

Posted by Virgoxscorpio1993
Wall of Text. I am a strong independent woman now. Please advice me on what i should do

Move.On.

Wooaaahh!! i think you your all being slightly harsh! This is girl is clearly still hurting! Look chick you need to stop dating the others and let the scorpio guy in. Love with your heart! dont be all over the top just make your intemtions clear, whats the point in playing games! it sounds like he likes you and if you like him back whats stopping you (apart from being scared)? Let go of your own insecerites and open that heart up!! PLEASE NOTE THS IS MY OPIONION ITS NOT BASED on any knowlege of scorpios! x PEACE KID! x

Posted by Aquawho
Wooaaahh!! i think you your all being slightly harsh! This is girl is clearly still hurting! Look chick you need to stop dating the others and let the scorpio guy in. Love with your heart! dont be all over the top just make your intemtions clear, whats the point in playing games! it sounds like he likes you and if you like him back whats stopping you (apart from being scared)? Let go of your own insecerites and open that heart up!! PLEASE NOTE THS IS MY OPIONION ITS NOT BASED on any knowlege of scorpios! x PEACE KID! x

fawk that sheete, maybe one of those guys she dates when though she has a boyfriend is hurting for her just like she hurtin for this scorp

*even though she has a boyfriend

Posted by 13th
*even though she has a boyfriend

I dont think the scorpio guy is her boyfriend—— Is he? x

Posted by Aquawho

Posted by 13th
*even though she has a boyfriend

I dont think the scorpio guy is her boyfriend—— Is he? x

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idk lol I swore she said they were "in a relationship" in one of her post..

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Posted by Aquawho

Posted by 13th
*even though she has a boyfriend

I dont think the scorpio guy is her boyfriend—— Is he? x

idk lol I swore she said they were "in a relationship" in one of her post..

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Ha! ohhhh well if that is the case i take it all back!! All of it!! 🙂

"I go out with other guys on dates to make myself happier and more independent individual, but scorpio is really mindfucking me."


If he is mindfucking you, what are YOU doing—
Dishonestly will cause some major mindfucking from a Scorpio. We sense it, so we will play at YOUR game. You get what you give no?

"Recently, he is starting to ask me where i am. Who i am with.

I know this is a sign that scorpio is starting to care for you... "


This is a sign that you tolerate and quite naturally gravitate

toward abusive relationships-- nothing more.

Most controlling people, regardless of sign, do this.

Don't kid yourself.


I hope this is a troll thread. 😐

From my experience I just think scorpio is too difficult for me, too much mind games.

Since i have at least 3 scorp friends in my life for years ... i believe i can talk abou this surely.

They look for love , care , honesty , and truthfullness but also can take advantage easily.[aka pisces woman or virgo or maybe aqua]
They must find a woman with a full package [body,character , everything at balance] to stay monogamous.

They are the same as me on this.