what is love

someone tell me this because i been thinkin' and, well...heres the question.
how old should someone be or what do they need to expiriance to know what love is hmm? I'm only 19 but so what. does this mean i cant truly love?

@Random31

I believe age does not matter, but rather the maturity level.

and how would one know when he or she has reach such a level...i thought the same thing btw.

Scorpius, you just know. I think it's something bigger than words. Age doesn't matter.

"it doesn't happen with someone you have never met."

this is true, i know i flirt alot, and quite frankly i hate that about me
but i know that I dont think i felt the love feeling for someone i just met, thats for sure.

another thing, kids my age are not so into commintement are they?
Lol...whats their problem.

Flirting is fun. It's a social thing. An ice breaker even. Why is that bad... because someone else said it was??

well i have noticed it can cause tensions with other people...you know?
i'm too much of a people pleaser for tension but think this too.
flirting isnt serious and people want serious eventually.

....flirting isnt serious and people want serious eventually.....

*stumped* that's true....

If you want friendly flirting, just stay away from the serious folk : ) You can spot them right off the bat . . If someone is flirting back and you know they do it with everyone though, diff story. Flirting or not, eventually someone always wants serious. Kinda like, "can men and women really be just friends" sort of thing...

"can men and women really be just friends"

heh, girls like to think so sometimes but..uh...hell no?

@Random31

"can men and women really be just friends"

yes there are some men I am friends with I would NEVER think of dating, hence the reason we are friends. 😉

is one of them george michael? 😉

Random, from what I've learned, men don't always feel the same about the "just friends" part and there is always an ultimatim. I have 3 brothers, this is what they have taught me, lol...some females have an ultimatim too

ultimatum*

very intresting.....

were exact opposite..i grew up with all girls, no wonder im such a girl, lol

Scorpius, it just helps with understanding women better. Good trait to have.

scorpius understands "damage control" lol

"scorpius understands "damage control" lol"

now that is just hilarious.

@cappysweetie

Scorpius,

There has been research on what I 'm about to say. Women don't understand what true love is until they are between the ages of 25-27 or older. Men don't understand what true love is until they are between the ages of 27-31 or older. However, all the data was based on "serious relationships and why they fail". Scientist believe that the older you get, the more you realize what you want. It's no longer about looks ans the silly trifles anymore ... However, this only applies to those who are over the age of 25 and still single.

That's my 5cents 🙂

i am not suprised that the age is so old to know what you want...but i do know what i don't want and i always thought that was better. what do you think?

...Women don't understand what true love is until they are between the ages of 25-27 or older.....

I had my son at age 19. There goes that theory.

@cappysweetie

Yes, me too. I have ambitions and goals at this point. Yes, I'm 21 but I do know what I want and what i need in order to get it.

@cappysweetie

This also applies to my personal relationships. I don't want BS anymore, I'm look for something real. Not glossed and artifical.

i wat something like that too, cappy

Here is what I want to know. Does anyone ever find exactly what it is they are looking for? We all want/don't want certain things. I look around and I see soo many people who are married and just miserable. Of ripe age or not. Some shit always happens.

Most people want serious, real, "committed" relationships. Does this really exist? I'm sure it exists for some time, but forever? Even though people wed....it's not always because of love. After 10 years, is it really still . . "happily ever after'?

Maybe it's the negative that you're willing to put up with that shows you love someone after a certain amount of time. Because everyone has it.

no i dont think we find what we are wanting until we get more expiriance which must be why the ages are older.

Hi real love is an instinct a feeling like no other, a past life karmic connection and sometimes you cant read it until you are mature, mentally not necessarily physically. But if you feel it is real then it is.

dude you guys still up?

What is love...baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me!

l British people have no soul.

It would be rather nice if you could define "British People" culturally that is—?

I, Robot

British = The culture of boredom

What British Celts, Afro Carribean, Asian what, who is most boring? Please do tell oh angry one.....

Right....

Yawn oh sorry got a bit bored........

whats up Branh..didn't you get any action last night?..its all doom and gloom this morning!

Libra's suck.

I soooo wanted you to like me as well ne'er mind onwards and upwards.

Hahaha..thats the funniest thing i've heard this morning!

I just saw your profile LoudLibra. You are a limey,

Limey is that a quaint American word, aw lovely, no really.

I've yet to admire yours, oh wait you havent posted your piccie have you? Why the devil not Mr Angry Im sure your not limey are you now?

don't get mad because us Americans kicked your ass,

When was this then, do tell..... You know I do find an abusive man soooo devilishly appealing.

thats realy not his goal

I think love happens when you least expect it. Seems to be that with me every single time. When I want to fall in love, it doesn't happen. When I'm not looking, it always happens. To fall in love takes a very LONG time for me. You know, being an Aquarian, I have to observe and see what the person is all about. Love is very difficult. Having crushes is something I often have. I don't like to show my feelings too fast at all to the other person. I can tell very quickly if a guy likes me but I don't show all my cards as a protection. Right now in the recent, I have a guy I really like and I haven't even told him. I'm a little worried it'll backfire since he and I are good friends. Love is not easy I can tell you.

Scorpius, it doesn't matter you are only 19 years old. When you find love you won't want to let that person go and will do everything in your power to keep that special girl. Don't worry. You will find the special one when you least expect it.

Mystical

they get taxed alot over there...it sucks...

We get taxed heavily here also where I am. It's so annoying.

Yeah, I'm sure Mr. Taxman loves everybody who works. I do wonder where the majority of the money goes since there are so many people who need help. Where I am (I'm an American living in another country) they tax us so unfairly. It's so expensive here but it's a great to live in. Don't like the taxes though.

my ex is English, when she told me how much they got taxed, i felt i had no more right to complain about our taxman...its a trade off though, your social programs are much better than ours...

America: its easier to get rich here, but more miserable to be poor here.-David Brooks

where are u Mystical? if i may ask.

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thats realy not his goal

What is then? Enlighten me.....

property taxes are horrible, but i can't see myself living anywhere else.

Gem*Two,

I live in Norway, although I miss America very much. It's where I was born and lived for a number of years. America is a great place to live. Now I'm a fulltime college student and I work parttime also. I'm almost done though. My soon to be oppucation is very popular in attracting the opposite sex.