What should I expect? (Page 2)

these terms are only used for 'hot' parents. P-Angel.

Then how come only Lady_M knows what milf means?..
i am very disappointed with you M.

"Then how come only Lady_M knows what milf means?..
i am very disappointed with you M."

Whaaat?!?!...Im young thats why.

Actually, when I think a bit more, I don't really want to know.

First I have to say you all fit right in with what I was told about him, funny people.
I like the humor on the board.

I am probably going to wear capri's and around the neck tank top? Believe me I know how to dress like a lady and be sexy at the same time. He has seen pictures of me but no not the one on this board. We have been trying to meet for about a month now but life kept on getting in the way. I dont think he got the wrong idea about me from a picture because from I hear he's nervous to meet me. He just doesnt act like a man that wants one thing. He even went out and bought a new outfit which I've never heard a man do. Maybe its a well kept secret? From what I'm told he asks and asks her about me daily and about my son as well. Like he has to know every last detail. My friend said sometimes he asks the same question over and over just so he can hear the answer. Too funny.

I think maybe the reason I'm so curious about what he may do if he likes me is because I want to know for myself and not just by what someone tells me.

We have not spoke and I have not seen his pictures. I do trust my friend and she promises me I will like him. She's says we're just alike which could be scary in a fun way.

I will definitely make a post after the date and let you know how it went. Until then I will keep reading and post here and there. Thank you for all the advice.

eish he's already started the stallker act!! 😛

have fun

hmmm, you do kinda look like Demi...a true MILF which an aqua F's...

Stalker? LOL I have one I dont want anymore. I thought it was a good thing when a Scorp asks questions and shows interest? Oh boy... there should be a school for this. I have so much to learn.

LOL, its a good thing...but it can get out of hand.
its cute that he's so giddy.

yeah he's going to hot on your tail....

Well, capri's and around the neck tank top sounds VERY sexy. And nice, I like that look for summer.

Well, from your looks on this photo (minus the expression which could be misinterpreted) you definitely have looks that a Scorpio would like. Dark, sultry, a bit misterious.

Just be careful of a guy who may be a bit obsessive. Scorpios can get like that. I mean, asking the same questions about someone he has not even met sounds a bit over the top for me. What I mean, healthy interest is good, obsessiveness - be careful.

Anyway, definitely keep us posted and have fun!

"these terms are only used for 'hot' parents. P-Angel."

I'm glad you clarified this really, M .. because I was sitting here thinking, why am I asking my mom to fuck somebody 🙂

Funny, I was writing my reply at the same time as LS and Lady M, so I didn't see their replies, and they are the same.

Be careful, honestly, there are lots of people out there who can't wait to latch onto someone.
Don't mean to scare you, he will probably be O.K., but just be careful (this comes from the person who had those experiences). Pick up the clues. Use your instincts.

LOL @ P-Angel

Here comes the propaganda against Scorpios from Aquas.

It is good when a Scorpio, or anyone else, ask questions and show interest, but asking repeatedly the same question sounds a bit weird. Or the guy has sclerosis. Or....anyway, good luck!

"I'm glad you clarified this really, M .. because I was sitting here thinking, why am I asking my mom to fuck somebody"

LMAO P-Angel

it really just means he's really interested and excited. i've been guilty of doing that

"We have been trying to meet for about a month now but life kept on getting in the way."


lol, oddly enough .. that sounds normal.

And yes, Scorps obssess .. but, you know .. it seems more of the female than the males. I know tons of both genders and it appears that the men have a better handle on the whole obssession thing than the females. I wonder why that is.

QuirkyOne, your dad's a Scorp .. does he obssess over his women?

Make sure you share bling! Bring me back a mountain dew!

my guy's best friend is a scorp...he obssesses and does the same thing Quirky is describing

My friend said the only thing I may not like about him is that he can be a bit overwhelming... sending flowers daily, cute gestures etc. I told her as long as its welcomed its not overbearing to me. However, thanks for the warning.

I'm seeing his giddy as cute to.

Your friends right...and if your a text book aqua....it will become overwhelming.

flowers daily?

P-Angel

Funny you should bring up my dad. He just left my mom after 38 years of a happy marriage for a woman 3 years older than me. Scorp? or just an jerk? I dont know.

I get along with my dad but we're also distant to each other. Either we cant stop talking or we dont say boo to each other. Weird. Never fight though. We had one fight in my life and it was fierce.

You see, he did it before to someone else if he is KNOWN for that.

I personally find that very insecure and overwhelming, but that's me.

I meand, my boyfriend buys me flowers, presents, takes me abroad, to restaurants, BUT, if he was doing it everyday, I would have to wonder why is he trying to buy me with his presents.
I don't know, in my books every exhageration (surely bad spelling here) smacks of either desperation or insecurity.
But good luck, you will see and judge it for yourself.

it wont be just the flowers daily.

the accumulation of overall neediness...

....that's why he is probably single now...

OMG....evil scorpios...

Are you aqua lubenica??

No, I am Cancer

Question

I'm dont like to argue I will usually walk away but someone saw my chart once and said I must argue a lot. They said because I have Sag in Mars and Lilith in Virgo. Whatever that means?

You know to be quite honest with you .. if a man half my age wanted to rock my world, I'd probably do it, too ..

*sighs*

I hope your mother is ok, though .. that has to be tough on her.

*hugs*

oh ok Lubenica.


I dont like to argue.

Oh, I really hate to hear stories of abandonment like that.

Someone has been loyal to him for so long, went through thick and thin together, and he just ups and leaves.

But it is not uncommon. I don't think it is Scorpio thing. It is men thing.

One thing I forgot to mention about him (thats my flighty aqua coming out) he has been married since high school. They just fell out of love and separated on a friendly note. (divorced now for 6 months)

Im a mars in aries...im hardly aggressive. Just more stubborn and I have an 'air; about me...so Ive been told (aries rising).


Im good at quick thinking and counter points...debate really. BUT arguing isnt my thing....mainly REALLY quiet when im truly upset.

The cookout guy, not my dad.

Dont be a rebound. You shouldnt have any problem with taking things slow.

Oh I know how to take care of myself DK.
I just dont really like contact...must preserve my sexy 😛

"he has been married since high school. They just fell out of love and separated on a friendly note. (divorced now for 6 months)"


That sounds like a good quality .. some people just walk out on the other, or make the break-up ugly. The fact that he handled his break-up with maturity and civilly with the ex makes him out to sound like he is respectful, Quirky.

Sounds like you might be getting ready to meet a keeper 🙂🙂 Even if it doesn't work out romantically, a respectful man to his women makes the best male friends.

"divorced now for 6 months"

OMG, going from bad to worse

Well, I am out of here. Good luck!

Why is that bad?

In the states, a person has to be seperated a whole year and now it's been 6 months. That's a year and a half .. is that not long enough?

Now, IF he was still married .. that would be bad, really bad.

What's wrong with divorced men?

Maybe I missed the meaning of something in here .. it wouldn't be the first time stuff went over my head ..

.. why is this bad again?

No, no, the operative word is "6 months", not "divorced".

And it is not about legal issues, or anything like that.

We divorced people here will now why I said "from bad to worse".

Re Re Rebound little jingle comes to mind

Oh, but it is O.K. for a fling.

In my books, don't go near there, heartbreak around the corner.

Just my opinion.

*will know* not "will now"

O.K. seriously,

people who have just (and 6 months is VERY "just") come out from a long term relationship are simply not ready for another serious relationship. Perhaps they believe they are, but it takes time, and life often shows they are not. It is better to let someone else be "the rebound", and come back later.

But, if serious relationship is not desired, then it's O.K.

meanie.
😢

Believe me I wont be someones rebound. He has to show me he's worthy of me giving ALL of myself before I do. Once he does... look out!!! I'm taking this one moment at a time. Anyone can have a fling, but a relationship takes a long time to build. I wont find that on the first date. I know he's attracted to me but he doesnt know ME. I was just curious what a Scorp does to show he's interested in someone AT FIRST.

The 6 months doesnt bother me. Hell I was with a Sag for 8 years. Thats like going through a nuclear war lol. Sorry if this offended anyone, wasnt meant to. Just the ex.

That's ok .. you're allowed to say whatever you want about exes ..

When is this, barbeque? Tomorrow?