BullBeauty
@BullBeauty
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Am I being irrational?
Understanding Gemini Behavior and Emotional Communication
Gemini individuals often communicate through messages and emails and may prefer texting over calls, especially during stressful times. His frequent emails suggest he is trying to stay connected, but his delay in calling may reflect his current emotional state. It does not necessarily mean he is being irrational, but understanding his communication style can clarify expectations.
sorry, that should read "without expectations of anything serious..."
He is going through the though time. YOU should be the one calling HIM and making sure he is okay and sending him 'i love you' messages. Have you called him? If not, why not? I would be upset if you hadn't called...near on the verge of dumping you actually.
FYI...A Cancer/gemini will like communication more than a Taurus. All that shut down/silent/shy stuff can get you forgotten about or dumped and replaced. We will wander on to the next one while you are away unless we are really taken by you.
Yep, have called him and sent him sweet messages. He told me that he'd call me when things settled down, so I've respected that and will wait for him to call once family leaves town.
Humm...I am cuspy cancer/gemini. Just wait. He could be hiding something. Even if he is, i'd bet it is not important what so ever. he seems focused on you. I would say not to worry about it. Wait it out.
All is good. I vented here and not to him. He actually surprised me last night by coming to see me and brought me flowers. He called me late in the afternoon yesterday and we talked for about an hour. About 8 last night, I had a knock on my door and he was there with flowers. He said that he didn't realize how much he missed me until he heard my voice and talked to me over the phone. Said he had to end his night on a good note by seeing me and telling me how he felt about me.
It was an awww moment.
It was an awww moment.
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Anyway,I started casually dating someone with expectations of anything serious. He pursued me and did sweet, and romantic things. He's Gemini - June 20th. He was bringing me flowers each time he saw me (once a week), and planned two trips that were surprises...the most recent one to New Orleans last weekend. I haven't seen him or talked to him over the phone since last Monday, a day after we got back from NOLA.
He told me while we were driving to New Orleans that his grandfather wasn't doing well and problably wouldn't make it the week. His grandpa passed away Tuesday. I have not called him because I figured he and his kids needed some time with family. He, instead, has emailed me once per day with things like "I miss you", "I love you", "I hope to see you soon".
The thing is he isn't hosting any of his family who came in from out town, yet he still has chosen to email me once a day instead of calling? I can understand if he has family staying with him and he might not have time to talk, but he's been home every day by 10pm - we've talked on the phone at night- many times past midnight.
In an email on Thursday, he said he would call me Friday. That didn't happen. Then Friday's email said he'd call me for sure by Saturday. That didn't happen.
Tell me if I'm being irrational - if he has time to type up an email on his phone, then he has time to actually call me, right? That's my thinking.