
Experiences? Pros n cons?


Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I am. Its fine.
She has a complete breakdown every time we have to discuss anything emotional - in public or private. Once the crying starts, which she hates, it is hard to stop.
The Moon is in detriment in Cap, so there are issues around emotional expression. These arent cold or unemotional people, they just often have some strange heightened anxiety over how they *ought* to express emotions, so things get get really repressed, then spill over, get blown out of proportion, etc.



Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I am. Its fine.
She has a complete breakdown every time we have to discuss anything emotional - in public or private. Once the crying starts, which she hates, it is hard to stop.
The Moon is in detriment in Cap, so there are issues around emotional expression. These arent cold or unemotional people, they just often have some strange heightened anxiety over how they *ought* to express emotions, so things get get really repressed, then spill over, get blown out of proportion, etc.

Posted by WynterPosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I am. Its fine.
She has a complete breakdown every time we have to discuss anything emotional - in public or private. Once the crying starts, which she hates, it is hard to stop.
The Moon is in detriment in Cap, so there are issues around emotional expression. These arent cold or unemotional people, they just often have some strange heightened anxiety over how they *ought* to express emotions, so things get get really repressed, then spill over, get blown out of proportion, etc.
Why must you discuss anything emotional? Or have to. Especially since you know she hates it.click to expand

Posted by WynterPosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I am. Its fine.
She has a complete breakdown every time we have to discuss anything emotional - in public or private. Once the crying starts, which she hates, it is hard to stop.
The Moon is in detriment in Cap, so there are issues around emotional expression. These arent cold or unemotional people, they just often have some strange heightened anxiety over how they *ought* to express emotions, so things get get really repressed, then spill over, get blown out of proportion, etc.
Why must you discuss anything emotional? Or have to. Especially since you know she hates it.click to expand
Posted by saweetz1988
When she's not ok, do you find it difficult to bring the issues out in the open or do you just let her sob in her own time her own way and just be there when the volcano is over?

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by saweetz1988
When she's not ok, do you find it difficult to bring the issues out in the open or do you just let her sob in her own time her own way and just be there when the volcano is over?
Honestly, its rare, but on the nights where she breaks down, I try to distract her like you would a kid. She will have a crying fit that she can't stop. I'll put on some cartoons or something and maybe make her a bowl of cereal...lol. Its hard to cry and eat cereal.click to expand
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