Broke my own heart Dealing with a Tauras (Page 2)

Posted by jeane

Posted by Scorsagian7
I'll say this one last time. I didn't expect him to "change". I expected him to care for a friendship. That I thought all those hours and days on end of taking deeply about life was doing! I'm hurt over that!

i'm sorry you've been hurt by this guy.

in my mind, chats over text mean very little unless there is some sort of physical contact with you. it's doesn't have to romantic or sexual but the clock doesn't officially start for me until i am in your presence. i don't know if it is that way for taurus people.

chat and online can be so easy dismissed. it's easy to feel that the other person isn't real and when things fizzle out, it is easy to go back to seeing them as a two dimensional person that only exists in that medium.

plus, at a guess, a few months talking online is not nearly enough of a hook for a taurus. i just think back to the start of my relationship (which started out as friends), and even though we were in constant in contact, a few months in was far far too soon to be making any serious and meaningful moves despite there being lots of flirting going on.

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At hate that it doesn't. But it does make sense. We talked about hanging out a lot but he'd just do those things with other people despite me trying to chill with him.
Yah, I jumped the gun so to speak over momentary sexual release. It was a horrible mistake I can no longer take back.

Posted by jeane

Posted by Scorsagian7
I'll say this one last time. I didn't expect him to "change". I expected him to care for a friendship. That I thought all those hours and days on end of taking deeply about life was doing! I'm hurt over that!

i'm sorry you've been hurt by this guy.

in my mind, chats over text mean very little unless there is some sort of physical contact with you. it's doesn't have to romantic or sexual but the clock doesn't officially start for me until i am in your presence. i don't know if it is that way for taurus people.

chat and online can be so easy dismissed. it's easy to feel that the other person isn't real and when things fizzle out, it is easy to go back to seeing them as a two dimensional person that only exists in that medium.

plus, at a guess, a few months talking online is not nearly enough of a hook for a taurus. i just think back to the start of my relationship (which started out as friends), and even though we were in constant in contact, a few months in was far far too soon to be making any serious and meaningful moves despite there being lots of flirting going on.

click to expand

I hate that it doesn't. But it does make sense. We talked about hanging out a lot but he'd just do those things with other people despite me trying to chill with him.
Yah, I jumped the gun so to speak over momentary sexual release. It was a horrible mistake I can no longer take back.

Scorgian7,

You will be fine. Believe it. For now, Give time for yourself. Keep it light.Don't be too hard for yourself. let it go. Let go. I know it's very difficult.
but he was once a stranger in your life.


Update: lol.

Even my ex taurus for decades msg me yesterday (cellphone). yes he was chatting with me the other night and disguising and kept on saying
he loves me so much and miss me so much, im beautiful and im his dream girl .. yada yada. duh. geez. I'm not flattered. I felt manipulated.

So the more you keep silent... the more the taurus buggin' you. tested in my situation. 😆