Cancer Women and Taurus Man

Looking for some helpful insight! I am so emotional truly eat, breath and sleep it! I think this scares my guy one mins he likes me and wants more when he returns from school the next he dosent know... Any suggestions for me?

I can't speak for the men (although we are very similar),but we can handle emotion just fine.when it comes with drama....we are out.
I personally can't handle someone who's negative all the time either...so if you're emotional,that's not a problem,but if you are ALWAYS depressed and unhappy....I can not take that.but I have Pisces moon and Cancer rising and suck that crap up like a sponge...others may be different.

Its not Negative or filled with Drama. The guy and i a newly seeing each other he is leaving for school on Nov 8 of this yr. We started out dating and have since made thing just casual even though we are only seeing each other. He says he wants to date me when he gets back which will be a yr if i am still single. Which knowing my feelings for him i will be. But is hard not too feel like maybe hes just using me. He dose the call and not call thing alot i talk to him once a week we talk about all kinds of stuff but mostly its to set up our next time to "hang out". Being a Cancer my mind runs all over the place wondering if i am wasting my time thinking it might get some where with him. He tells me he cares about me but not as much as i care about him. I was thinking its my emotions that scare him and make him not talk to me so much. At this point i have desisted to just quit texting him and let him text me when hes ready.

I will say I'm not a huge small talker,and sometime just don't feel like it.if I'm in a relationship of course I talk to him,but if I'm not,and not super close to someone whether it be friends or family....I as you Cancers do "shell up" sometimes.
there are relatives and a friend right now I've put off calling back for a couple of months to be honest....
I have to recharge and be alone and quiet.does not mean I don't love or have feelings at all,it's just something I can't help.
We do not like to feel pressured about anything really,so you may be making him uncomfortable.we like a smooth,natural flow in our lives.

what are your moon signs?

november 8th? what kind of semestre is that? does "school" = prison?

No lol he is going to another state to learn to be a seaman it may not be a whole yr but it will be close let me get our charts! I had my birth time but not his

His moon is Gemini mine is Cancer as well as i sun is Cancer.

You are a very emotional person then.... :/ which is ok.but he definitely is having trouble with it.moon in gemini is not emotional,and also not always big on commitment or at least not right away.

really imo,moons are the biggest factor in relationships.there are of course MANY other aspects that are very important...but emotions are number one imho.if you can't understand how the other feels....it's not easy.

Yeah i think that why he will not call and text my "Moods" or "Feelings" scare him, plus all his past relationships he was cheated on... I am hoping if i don't gain him as a Boy Friend i can at least learn to keep my emotions to myself i tell people too much a quality i have always wanted to change.

Thanks you are very help 🙂

There's nothing wrong with how you are sweetie.some people will appreciate it,and others not.
you just be you,it's all any of us can do. 😉

can you give an example of...

"I am so emotional truly eat, breath and sleep it! I think this scares my guy"


^what do you mean that you're "so emotional?" i don't know if you mean you're a crier or a yeller or if you threaten him with cutlery.

also his complete chart would be best...even if you don't have birth time.

I am not crazy i just talk about it alot. Ex: i will tell him how i feel in a text or email, will ask the same question different ways to see if i get a different answer. Let me pull our chats now

His Chart :

Sun Taurus 3.02
Moon Gemini 5.58
Mercury Aries 8.13
Venus Aries 6.04 R
Mars Taurus 27.50
Jupiter Aquarius 14.14
Saturn Scorpio 26.27 R
Uranus Sagittarius 17.35 R
Neptune Capricorn 3.32 R
Pluto Scorpio 3.22 R
Lilith Aries 25.32

Mine:

Sun Cancer 26.04
Moon Cancer 1.30
Mercury Cancer 18.43
Venus Gemini 28.03
Mars Libra 21.36
Jupiter Scorpio 1.06
Saturn Libra 16.16
Uranus Sagittarius 0.46 R
Neptune Sagittarius 24.52 R
Pluto Libra 24.11
Lilith Capricorn 3.06
Asc node Cancer 13.21

you need to give more detail chicky. it's really hard to come to a conclusion or suggestion without your giving a scenario or more background. if anyone where to say anything at this point, it'd be a shot in the dark.

when you are being annoying as hell and asking the same question in different ways, what is he doing? how is he reacting? he must be doing something that has you uneasy otherwise you wouldn't be here.

how long have you two been dating? not sure if you mentioned it and i have to roll out shortly.

venus in aries is a weird placement. it affects women moreso than men but google "venus in aries"...might provide some insight.

If you want the Book as i call it i will give it to ya! I am in need to some advise so i dont mind sharing


We met Three months ago on July 9 things went great we were both in agreement that we were dating he used the L word Fist being a Cancer i was already there. Then he wants space out of the blue, after three days he text me, after talking face to face he told me that more he said he Loved me the more it scared him. I understood he has had a bad past with women. Well things went good then a week later he quit texting and call me for like a week so i found out he still has feeling for a ex that he has a son with. I had a talk with him face to face where he told me he still had feelings for her between me and her there were three women which he seen but dident not really just past sex with them. I told him if he needs time i understand but i also dont want to see a guy that may end of chasing a ex down who wants that?@! he told me that he wanted to move on and did not want to grow old alone and really liked me. Things went ok then about two weeks later he texts me and says due to him leaving he wants to just break it off. I freak out cause i though things were all settled, i sujust we just have sex and see where things go. After once again seeing each other face to face he tells me that he dose want to date me and when he gets back if i am single he would like to try again.

This was about a month or so ago so here we are having casual sex but nether one of us are seeing anyone else. Its weird cause when we hang out he will talk about us after he gets back then he will not text or call me all week just a day or so before he wants to stop by. So thats the story.


I fear is that i wait this YR and get nothing when he gets back so i quess thats where i am i just dont know if hes scared or just using me

I think you should quit having sex with him and let him go.

how big is the age difference here ?...I'm to lazy to look it up.

lol hes 25 i am 28 the sex is good best i have ever had sadly

One thing about Cancers we hold on until we know for sure we have tried everything we could to make something work that we want!

Posted by CancerWomen
lol hes 25 i am 28 the sex is good best i have ever had sadly

oh ok,I some how jumbled it up and thought he was older,and possibly a lot older.
I still think you should stop the sex and let him go.
he can't seem to make up his mind,and you're not helping by giving him sex with no restrictions.so really,why should he worry about it?

and I understand it's hard to give up...we Taur's are like that. 😉
but sometimes....ya gotta. 😢

I freak out cause i though things were all settled, i sujust we just have sex and see where things go.



repeat that over and over until you hear a ringadinga

"Lets just say, by chance, I was slightly wrong in my analysis, and you still wanted to be with him. My advice to you, BE THAT BOLD BITCH! Thismeans you will have to move alot more bolder with him. Come out and ask him "Are we in a relationship...or we're not?" If he's long-winded with his answer, bring it up again. He will have no choice but to give you a direct answer. If he says "No," then dump his sorry ass!"

I realllllly like this. 🙂

Love the advise! I talk to his ex and she has Bern with a new guy for over a yr. She admists she cheated on him. We are good friends and she wants to see him find a new women to share his life with. They talked and by my request she asked him what his take was with me. For a coupe of weeks he would pass off her question. The about a month ago he told her he did want to date me when he returns from school. I have asked many times being a cancer what he is still out about. His responce was my body sadly I have two Kids one and two and have gotten back down to my pre baby weight but still have the mommie belly and horrid boobs. He said he loves who I sm as a person but my issues in thoses areas bother him. With him leaving for school in less than a month I don't expect much but I just wish I knew his true intesttions were. During this time I found out he still had feelings for her cause he asked her to go on a trip she forwarded me the texts. She is the same sign as him so I can't help but wonder if they are both still connected but lke u said trying to use someone else to move on.

Mmmm and one thing you must remember about the feminine form is that the mommy tummy and bit of boob sag is normal, and expected in bodies that have born little ones. It is fertility and a road map upon our skin that means we did a damned fine job. In short, it's SEXY. A point of pride with me actually. Look what I did. 1..2..and 3. I carried life within this body. And if he'd wanted anything differently he'd not BE there. So belay that thought process woman. This instant.
I think a natural female body is far more preferable than one with shiny, unnatural silo titties, butt implants and a spray tan. ( Day-Glo Orange to boot, blech! ) It makes you real. And oh Momma does a Bull like REAL in a lot of realms. The natural, the true.
I'd go straight to the horses mouth with this one. Or Bulls if you prefer. 🙂

wait...WUT!?

you're friends with the ex-gf? the same ex-gf he was trying to date again?

this is headache. i see why you were withholding initially.

*back to vikings*

Before I talked to the guy I wanted to see I had a ideal he still loved her but thought I coukd get more info from her. And boy did she clear up quite a bitt. I dident know how much I should tell sorry people always complin I give too many details sometimes. They have been not together for over a yr I am girl 6 two others were more than sex according to him. She told me about all the she seemed to think he was a player mabey he is but I just dident get that vibe. After talking to him I found out that he would see them and break it off cause he said he felt like he was cheating on his ex even though they were not together.

I dident have kids with a guy from my past but had been though something close to it I quess that's why I haven't just throwen in the towel.

He's a player.6 besides you in a year's time?
his ex thinks he's a player.
you think he may be a player.....and I'm pretty sure of it myself.
I'm confused though....he told you he doesn't like your body,or he doesn't like the fact you don't like your body?

Sorry i was using my Iphone to write lol. He said he love who i am as a person what ever that means, but that the only thing that was holding him back were those issues on my body. Some see that as i mean i guess i am weird i like the fact that he is honest about it. I wanted to change those things before he said anything. I agree with another poster as well though it is a badge of honor but a badge i can live without!

I mostly know hes not invested in me he is leaving for a yr to be in another state. At this point i am going to simply do my yr and just wait but keeps my eyes open. Being a cancer my heart is already there so i cant pretend it is not.

One other side note i am going though a divorce that not in the books yet so his ex things this might also be a issue for him which is kind of why i dont mind waiting the yr gives me a change to get things in order in my life. When we met i wasent looking for anything but to chat with someone and things just got out of hand so i have been just riding waves.

I was mostly wondering what Fellow Taurus though if this was normal or games. I found on a lot of different sites these same things he dose to me that other women of different signs have gone though with a Taurus. So i dident know if i had a change will him or if it is simply sex. But i guess time is the only thing that will tell...

I am open to any other outlooks though!! Thanks for everyone who has and will respond it really helps me!

your friend seems to be giving mixed messages.she thinks he's a player,thinks he's right for you,thinks he's worried about your not being divorced....and forwards you his texts asking her on a trip?
I think you're in a mess you would be better off without...but that's just me.

I think in a year's time you will feel much better. 😉

Guys you are telling me imagine being the one in it! The ex told me she dosent understand why he wont move on and find a new girl and why he kept leaving the ones before me. She had no ideal he still had feelings for her, I am the one who bought that to light he never told her anything. When i asked him about it he said he was trying to find a new girl and forget about her but everything things get involved he would feel like he was cheating on her and end things with the women. So i have been the longest since her, But i am sorry i dident mean to bring Jerry Springer to the Fourm i am just a nice sweet Cancer Women looking for Love and feeling so stressed by this. I am torn and just am going to wait it out for now. Even if i he wasent leaving i think its a good time to get me straight and my kids. I have been using all the stress to keep my mind off what i am going though with my divorce and using it to help get all my baby weight off. I am a weird women who handles my stress by putting myself with someone else to help them or joging so needless to say i have been doing alot of both.

Its so hard being 28 and so emotional... Thanks for to everyone again! any other feedback is still welcome

I agree i dident let it bother me for the fact that i already feel that are horrid but i agree it was horrid never had a guy tell me flat out anything like that. I am 6ft and jog all the time i am only 145 but the belly is bad i had a C-Section with both my kids so its a flap of skin and my boos are gone lol. But to me hes a 10 sadly. Hes got Blue eyes 6'4 very hansome. Great in the bedroom and just makes the wind blow my skirt right off to put it bluntly.

My sun and Moon are in cancer so i am too emotional and this guy has got a good hold on me sadly.

He tells me that he only has feeling for her due to them having a child but i am with you asking someone on a trip is more than that. It was really awesome of the ex cause he had no ideal i didneat confront him either i let it go then one day he said something about the trip and i told him i knew and when he played oh it was so my son could go i told him the excat way it was worded he was speechless.

The ex tells me its done with her too, but she will text him with problems with her current guy that i was always leary of that. Not sure why i told her it would send him a signal that he still has a change and if he dosent that she should keep the texts to only about the child but shes 24 she a yr younger so i am not sure if its them being young. The guy she is with now has lots of money and she is pretty attached to him mainly for that reason according to her.

You are a sweet girl,and yes...you need to focus on you and your kids.
you can get through this,all of it.but please don't attach yourself to the wrong people in the process.
look out for YOUR feelings and your kids.when you do that,you will attract people who will respect and love you.
don't settle for less than that.

these two people are not over each other and you are caught in the middle.you deserve much better than that.

Hmmm...ok. I'm going to give the "G-rated" version of what I think about this whole scenario. In reading what you've written about this man, I don't (personally) think that he is someone that you should be with. It may just be me reading too much into your words (and perhaps it's the emotional element that you've said you are, which I really am not), but some of your words seem like you are completely enamored with him; however, that is NOT being reciprocated on his end:

"But to me hes a 10 sadly. Hes got Blue eyes 6'4 very hansome. Great in the bedroom and just makes the wind blow my skirt right off to put it bluntly.

My sun and Moon are in cancer so i am too emotional and this guy has got a good hold on me sadly."

He probably knows this, and one thing I know very well about men is that they can smell desperation a mile a way, and unfortunately, some unscrupulous men play on that and exploit it. Obviously, we are random strangers on a site, but my advice to you would be to worry about YOU and do YOU and leave him the hell alone and get yourself in a strong emotional place. Hopefully the next man you are with will love you and appreciate you - stretch marks, c-section and "non" silicone boobs and all! (*disclaimer - not that there is anything wrong with breast implants, just not my cup o' tea)

Posted by BellatheBull
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these two people are not over each other and you are caught in the middle.you deserve much better than that.

Yeah, I didn't even want to touch on THAT clusterf@ck that appears to be going on!

Ahhhh I know your freaking pain! Same thing with me! We have known each other for about three years almost it was always a we would see each other but never talk but it was obviouse there was attraction from both sides he would constantly stare at me and I would always avoid him because I get so embarressed around him and I cant freaking speak! I ended up asking him on a date after knowing him for about a year but he never got back to me until 6 months later and he asked me out to ice cream I couldnt because i had plans of course a month later christmas is about a week away and he gave me his number again he was trying to get me to go on a date with him but I was so hurt about what happened before and I had my guard up so I ended up like an hour later giving in and ask him to go for a walk with me in the middle of the night to look at the christmas lights most romantic date ever! he even went home and told his family he was so happy to find someone he actually likes! ( I know because his sister told me)christmas comes around and he calls me in the middle of the night to have a movie night with him the stars were amazing that night and I said they were and he said "i will never forget this night" when we got back to his place we started watchin a walk to remember and then he kissed me and I melted! I told him I was not going to sleep with him and I could tell he was hurt by it as in insulted that I would think he was like that... he is waiting for marriage I found out from his friend on accident (long story) but he would always make a big deal when I would ask him how many girls.... anyways we fooled around on and off for the last ten months and I just cant help myself he has me under his thumb and he knows it I try to stay away from him as much as possible and try to move on my girlfriends always tell me that I have to be careful because I would cheat on any guy with him ugh which is so true 😢 I was seeing this guy and the night we broke up its like he had a knowing of it I was over seeing his sister who is younger than me but she actually is one of my best friends he still lives at home with his parents at 21 but still he had a lot go down and that is were he is comfortable I cant blame him but that night that tht me and the other guy broke up it was like intuition he knew and backed me up against a door and started smootching me I could not even help but to kiss him back ugh then I pulled away (the hardest thing) haha and asked him what he was doing an

d he said just being stupid I guess I almost rear ended him today on my lunch break (we live not even a block away from each other) he braked a stop sign started to go then breaked again for no reason and I thought he was going then I realised he was looking in the rear veiw mirror and I breaked then he drove off 😢 he is always on the back of my mind and I love him a lot but he says he does not want a relationship because of were he is at in his life 😢 it hurts a LOT! 😢

Hard to run it's not in my nature, but that's a cancer women for u always chasing the men with issues that we feel we can fix. At this point all I can say is if he does come back things will have to be way diffrent if I am single.

The main reason I ended my marrige was for some of the same things this guy is doing. Don't worry ladys I will pull though I may have a few scars but nothing I can blame on anyone but me for staying with something that wasent giving me what I really want.

lord and you're not divorced yet?

deep doo-doo. you have WAY too much on your plate and as far as relationships go, the only drama i want is that which i create for my own amusement. you do not offer any sense of stability and whether he's a player or not is moot. he would be foolish to pursue a serious relationship with you and he knows it.

sort out your issues first. take the next year to get used to being out of wedlock before hopping in to a serious union. you have two small babies and you're so quick to move on—

i don't get it.

but the vikings won so i'm in a good mood and don't have much to say beyond that 😛

Posted by caligula


but the vikings won so i'm in a good mood and don't have much to say beyond that 😛

LOL! Go Randy!

it's almost as if he wasn't there but i have faith.

and i just like yelling at the tv tbh 😄

WAIT! on a side note, are taurean men wreaking havoc lately or what!??!!?

lots of bulldick slingin goin on.

Posted by caligula
WAIT! on a side note, are taurean men wreaking havoc lately or what!??!!?

lots of bulldick slingin goin on.

Who knows— But I agree, there have been a LOT of inquiries into the "player" Taurus men! From where I've been sitting, astrology/signs don't have ish to do with whether a man is a player or not. But, whatevah.

Posted by cutiebullie
Hard to run it's not in my nature

............... alrighty then ........ do whatever you want........

Expression - "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink." There are some things that people (sadly) have to learn on their own. And that's ok, it's called life, but I don't want to hear any kvetching later when ish is f@cked up!

Posted by USCTaurusGal


Who knows— But I agree, there have been a LOT of inquiries into the "player" Taurus men! From where I've been sitting, astrology/signs don't have ish to do with whether a man is a player or not. But, whatevah.

tru but this is the most activity on this forum i've seen in...ever. it's as if all the bulls decided to go off the range and have been spreading their seeds damn near everywhere this summer.

i'm trying to see a pattern in these dude's behavior and seeing if i can relate it to myself. other than being confusing as hell, i'm not sure how much femtau is similar to maletau?

The male Tau's I've known have been pretty similar to me; however, I have a lot of male influence in general, so I relate to men more than I do with women on most things, so it could just be me, because another fem Tau I was close to for many years was nothing like me! Go figure!

well i can relate to his having dated quite a few women even though his heart remains with some chick from his past. it took me a while to get over the guys that i truly loved and in spite of that, i dated anyway so i suppose to the people i was dating i was a bit of enigma.

because i couldn't give my heart to these new guys, it made me really easy going and not pressed and i think that was refreshing for the rebound guys but at the same time when they started to get serious or want too much of my time and energy, yeah, i gotta be honest...i was more male than female in a lot of respects.

SHUT IT DOWN!

i would either start withdrawing, fall off the face of the earth, be indifferent to whether or not i wanted to see them or worse, tell them the many ways in which they don't deserve to date anyone...let alone me.

so to the OP, in retrospect i think it's just a matter of his not being free of his past love and where you may be a wonderful person, our "loyalty" is true with respect to the one we love. when it's "over," that doesn't mean we won't attempt to move on and date others but that venus in aries adds and odd little twist.

sure, he may be energetic and enthusiastic and all about you in the beginning but we can't fully invest ourselves if our heart still belongs to another...no matter how "OVER" the relationship is. i think that may be why it's a little easier for people with venus in aries to make departures from relationships (regardless of their sun sign) than other signs. after the newness wears off and the hard work begins...OUT!

Posted by caligula
WAIT! on a side note, are taurean men wreaking havoc lately or what!??!!?

lots of bulldick slingin goin on.

There's always castration...

LOL ^ There would be many depressed steers running around.