Confusing Little Bull

When we spend time together, he is all nonchalant. Doing everything but doing the quality time thing, which is cool, i can dig it cause i like my space too. no prob. but then as soon as im ready to leave, he doesnt want me to go. im like why not? I can do alone stuff at home.

Then he is really blunt, which is cool, but im a pisces so im oversensitive. sometimes he says stuff that i dont suppose he knows hurts my feelings, but it does. and i always clam up and kinda go off to myself into my other world when people hurt my feelings. but when he knows he said something to me and then i do that, he's all like no, dont do that and scoops me up into this big bear hug and holds me like he's scared im going to run away or something.


Then he is always telling me that he cant get enough of me, but when i call to say hey, wanna hang out, he's like no i gotta do this and i gotta do that and blah blah blah. so i say okay never mind. but then when i dont come over for days because every day he tells me he's busy, he says to me well why havent you visited? how come you dont want to spend any time with me?

IS HE NUTS?

And i hate to impose on people so i just dont ask him about chillin anymore and he wonders why dont i ever come over. well how come it hasnt dawned on him that perhaps he should invite me over instead of expecting me to always invite myself? what is wrong with this damn bull?

and what pray tell might that be?

of course im not alright. im an overly analytical pisces with a bull for a boyfriend and im going to shoot him if he doesnt stop being confusing. lol its so weird. its like dating a turlte and im bouncy tigger from winnie the pooh.

gee whiz, not only am i tigger, but also one that needs to go back to spelling class. that should be *TURTLE* not whatever i wrote up there.

i dont know i noticed that too. what water signs did you date Merc?

well cancers suck. i cant get with them either. they are too... something. But us wonderful pisceans, we are great! lol. nah i know some pisces, myself included, when i lose interest and the person isnt interested in being just friends, i disappear because theres nothing left to say. Or I may pull away if something turned me off about them.

But im finding the key to me sticking around is making me laugh. i think water signs love and live to laugh. are you funny?

Have you ever thought of talking about this issue with your BULL?
Especially about how you feel.

If you are gentle and reasonable, he will listen.

something that would turn me off is a conversation about sex really early. or if you have bad breath constantly. i can understand if you just ate a hoagie but damn not all the time. or if you are too affectionate too early. or if im trying to get at you and you're trying to get at me but you're too shy to follow my advances up, i lose interest because you're taking too long.

as for my bull, i asked him about why does he expect me to always invite myself over and he said what does it matter as long as we're together. i told him that i feel like im the only one interested in us spending time together, he told me thats ridiculous. so i told him, the next time he sees me it will be because he invited me over. he was hurt. i dont get it

and yes, scorpios are honest about when they dont like something. the problem i have with them is that they will dislike something and genuinely expect you not to like it too just because they dont. on the surface they will pretend to appreciate and value you having your own opinion, but deep down thats as far away from the truth as ever.

woops, someone wriggled away. guess she didn't have what it takes for this bull🙂

oh yeah, thnx for fixing my ip problem, seems like i had a couple numbers loose or something

what the hell are those things called in computers? bites? mmm sounds good! i'm definitely gonna grab me some of those.

"thats one thing i like about scorpio too, love or hate, there's no confusion there.
they are difficult to read, like bulls, but even if they dislike something it's more of a justification with belief rather than just a disliking. i think most of the time they have good reasons, basically.
"
it's sad because there's this one that kept fence sitting with me, but we had our chance and it's gone now (not even since she's a scorp, but since i'm just a fucking bastard of a bull)

ironically, it was the fence sitting that did it in.

Sag... i think that maybe now would be a good time to sit down, put your feet up and breathe slowly. your mum didnt mean to forget you at school with your cello okay? it just slipped her mind. a little oopsie. just a little slip okay? come on... are you breathing?

And i love my bull damn it. he inspires me and im not bored with him at all. i love the little fart monster, he just needs to come out of that thick stubborn hide before i kick him! i cant do all the inviting, im the girl for goodness sake!

Sag are you still breathing? Now, you must learn to love the little fishies. we're your friend. We like little bulls. *Keep breathing* We want to wisk you away to fairy land with us, yeah we do!

Now Merc, dont be a confusing little bull just like mine. If she says, i wanna see you, then damn it you're supposed to say, come on over. not "I wanna see you too." Pisceans will hint at stuff and you're supposed to take the hint. Why is that such a hard concept for you bulls? ya stubborn things. Damn it, someone should make steak out of all of you so you'll stop confusing the rest of us.

awww Sag... dont shut up. we like to hear you talk. do you not like your mum? i bet she was a good mum.

lol dont feel bad. i mentioned this thread to my little bull and he had the same reaction you did. he's terrible at the hint game. but yes with the pisceans, if she says i wanna see you then say "alright lets go out or come on over" because we dont like to impose and we try to read you through your responses. of course if she isnt really interested, she wont follow you up.

but a shaolin monk might be a good look to you. here, lets see. say "hummmmmmmmmmmmm"

awww man, is that a hint that i should stop talking now?

well i would say:

Me as Merc: I need to go and wash my hair

Her: But you dont have any hair

Me as Merc: Exactly.

Her: so what are you saying

Me as Merc: That i'll be washing my hair for a long long time

lol awww man, you were telling me to hush up. Nuts!